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    Quote Originally Posted by ChickenGuy View Post
    If someone has no respect for you and is going to treat you like a piece of meat
    For the record, I like being treated like a piece of meat. But apparently, the meat isn't good enough and I'm only worth being liked for my personality. Which is total bullshit.

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    Quote Originally Posted by FaceJism View Post
    The only realistic way to deal with this defect is to embrace it and its consequences. You don't just feel inferior to real men, you were born with a clearly inadequate sex organ that makes you obviously inferior. Your penis will always be a joke for others, regarded as cute by some, but mostly ignored. You claim you don't like to "bottom," but it's not for you to decide. Becoming a sexual female to authentic men is the destiny assigned to you by your sad excuse for genitalia.

    There is enormous pleasure and satisfaction in being owned and occupied by a true, phallic male. Learn to make his pleasure your reason for existence. If it hurts, endure quietly. Eventually, your inner female nature will be unleashed and your cunt will begin to respond to his overwhelming male power. You can rub your clitoris if he allows, but don't orgasm until after he finishes breeding and you have sucked him clean. Love your inferiority to him just as you love the power of his thick, long, amazing penis.
    LOL that is so not a hot fetish, and I'm so glad I can say that here because this isn't the fetish forum.
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    Quote Originally Posted by TheFallenAsexual View Post
    For the record, I like being treated like a piece of meat. But apparently, the meat isn't good enough and I'm only worth being liked for my personality. Which is total bullshit.
    It IS enjoyable being treated as a piece of meat from time to time. Although it's far more likely for someone to say "you're hot" than "I like your cock". I can't say as I've wanted more compliments on my cock, but yeah, it's nice to hear them.

    Quote Originally Posted by TheFallenAsexual View Post
    I'd spend more time disagreeing with your gay/straight theories, but I've yet to even understand the relevance.
    Agreed. Dropped.

    Most of what I'm saying here is me responding to folks trying convince me that there is no real issue.
    Should we tally up all the threads of yours that reached at least a second page, where people continually failed to "get" you? Where they continually applied their (uninformed) beliefs on "how things are" to you when they apparently didn't apply? Where you were basically reduced to finding different ways to phrase the same two sentence response to the same mind-bogglingly stupid suggestions?

    I don't share this issue with you, but there are certainly other places where my body, my responses, my issues, my thoughts deviate from the accepted norms. And I don't mind stating them when the situation arises. But neither do I ask JUB or the world at large what I should be doing about these things. Because I know their responses will almost certainly not be applicable to me. Or I would've dropped another fifty pounds, done some major manscaping, gotten rid of my grandpa underwear, and started mooning after Ryan Gossling by this point.

    Lex

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    Finally found a ruler. Just under 4.

    Quote Originally Posted by G-Lexington View Post
    Should we tally up all the threads of yours that reached at least a second page, where people continually failed to "get" you?
    I'm curious: what would such a tally prove?

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    Quote Originally Posted by TheFallenAsexual View Post
    Basically that it may not be worth the risk. But I also want to know the risks, because right now I have no chance of being happy with what I have, so I may not really have anything to lose anyway.

    The place I originally signed up for consultation with hasn't gotten back to me, so I just signed with another local clinic.
    Nothing any of us can say, it seems, is going to make you feel better about your penis. The problem, however, isn't your penis. The brain is the most important sex organ in the body. It is good that you have spoken to a therapist about this. However, any mental health professional who would urge you to get surgery is nuts and you should see a new one.

    Early in your thread you asked how guys cope with this. This is what you should focus on, not changing your penis surgically. People have to learn how to cope mentally with all types of physical short comings, real or perceived. Some people have very prominent birth marks on their face, or bad acne, or they are just, plain, butt ugly. They do learn to cope. Focus on yourself mentally. You might discover that you don't have much coping to do after all.

    If all else fails, I'm in New York. I would be more than happy to give you an objective and unbiased opinion about your penis.

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    I am butt ugly. I do have an obnoxious birthmark on my face. I've learned to cope.

    Right now, I'm not even asking for anything that grand. A penis that even approaches close to average isn't exactly asking for the moon and the stars.

    My therapist didn't "urge" me to see a surgeon, he simply said I should consider the options I have, after realizing that I wasn't some guy with a bodymorphic issue, but someone who is clearly far smaller than most and would feel a lot better about himself if that wasn't the case.

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    Quote Originally Posted by TheFallenAsexual View Post
    Finally found a ruler. Just under 4.
    You got an erection just for us? Sweeeet!
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    Re: Coping With A Small Penis...

    Quote Originally Posted by TheFallenAsexual View Post
    I am butt ugly.




    I'm now beginning to wonder if you have the same condition as M10000, the body dysmorphia or whatever it's called, where NO AMOUNT of hundreds or thousands of people telling you that you're NOT UGLY will make the SLIGHTEST difference.

    I and many other JUBbers would say you're extremely attractive in looks. Do you think we're deceiving you, or patronising you, or pandering to you? Do you try to find an excuse in your head for why what we say isn't true?

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    Quote Originally Posted by TheFallenAsexual View Post
    I am butt ugly.
    You just lost all credibility babe ...

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    Quote Originally Posted by ChickenGuy View Post
    I and many other JUBbers would say you're extremely attractive in looks. Do you think we're deceiving you, or patronising you, or pandering to you? Do you try to find an excuse in your head for why what we say isn't true?
    Have you missed all of his posts? It doesn't matter what WE think of him. What matters is what HE thinks of him. HE thinks he's ugly, and HE thinks he has a small penis. He wants to be attractive - TO HIM - and he wants to have a desirable penis - TO HIM. And he currently is unattractive TO HIM, and has an undesirable penis TO HIM. And neither of those things will change because one, two, ten, ten thousand people tell him otherwise. It'll change when he changes himself into something that he DOES think is attractive, and when his penis is a size that is acceptable to him.

    Quote Originally Posted by TheFallenAsexual View Post
    I'm curious: what would such a tally prove?
    Just that you seem to have a propensity to start conversations/discussions/advice-seeking among the hoi polloi who are unable to give you what you're looking for. I think you've proved that the site is full of exceptionally slow people who don't get you, on many levels, but I'm guessing that wasn't really the point of all the threads.

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    If what you say is true Lex, then it does rather seem to render all our suggestions and opinions pointless.

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    Re: Coping With A Small Penis...

    Quote Originally Posted by Huntneo(PT) View Post
    wow...really?

    that was a bit...messed up. Not very considerate of your feelings...
    Like Jules said in Pulp Fiction. "If my answers frighten you then you should cease asking scary questions."

    I asked the BF the question and he told me the answer, it wasn't the one I wanted to hear but it made me realize that I have to accept it and be a forced bottom. That's what a lot of JUB members here always say about guys with small dicks. It's just the truth.

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    The way you have been talking I was expecting it to be deformed or something.

    Then it turns out you are just slightly under average.

    What I get from this thread is that you are just a extremely negative person. One thing wanting a bigger dick (most of us do)... but to let this "problem" prevent you from ever being happy is just all in your head. If you would have your penis surgically "fixed" then you would just find something else to obsess about.

    If my penis was the same size yours is... a birthmark on my face would bother me more.

    Your goal should be to get cured from the obsessive depressing mindset. Changing your body won't change your mind.

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    Quote Originally Posted by G-Lexington View Post
    Just that you seem to have a propensity to start conversations/discussions/advice-seeking
    Ummmm...no. You guys have a propensity to give advice when it isn't asked for. In fact, the one time I've asked for advice (http://www.justusboys.com/forum/thre...This-Situation) is the time you guys were the most convinced that I should do what I feel is right.

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    So what is this thread, then? An announcement? "I'm looking into getting my penis surgically enhanced, and don't fucking tell me that I should learn to love myself as I am, because I don't and I won't"?

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    Quote Originally Posted by TheFallenAsexual View Post
    Ummmm...no. You guys have a propensity to give advice when it isn't asked for. In fact, the one time I've asked for advice (http://www.justusboys.com/forum/thre...This-Situation) is the time you guys were the most convinced that I should do what I feel is right.
    Why even make the thread then if you don't really want feedback. Go do a blog or get a livejournal.

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    Feedback and needless lecturing are two completely different things.

    Quote Originally Posted by G-Lexington View Post
    So what is this thread, then? An announcement? "I'm looking into getting my penis surgically enhanced, and don't fucking tell me that I should learn to love myself as I am, because I don't and I won't"?

    Lex
    This thread was me asking people who can relate how they cope.

    Quote Originally Posted by GamerBear View Post
    Like Jules said in Pulp Fiction. "If my answers frighten you then you should cease asking scary questions."

    I asked the BF the question and he told me the answer, it wasn't the one I wanted to hear but it made me realize that I have to accept it and be a forced bottom. That's what a lot of JUB members here always say about guys with small dicks. It's just the truth.
    I'm sorry, but this is just not real life. My preference is a preference regardless of my body's dimension. If I ever bottom, it'll be because I want to, not because my penis is too small to top someone else.

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    if you ask me, you just sound depressed and this is a byproduct of it. if you weren't so down, you wouldn't be looking at yourself so negatively. you have a lot of positive and good things going for you BUT obviously, you're not going to think about that if you're depressed.

    have you sought help for this though? the last thing you need to do is get surgery for your dick. the only thing you'll be masking is your REAL problem.
    one thing about the closet/you don't have to hurry/it will be bad tomorrow/so brother, don't you worry

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    I definitely have struggled with depression, but the penis issue is real. I'd be a great deal happier and more confident with a penis that measured up to what other men are working with.

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    Quote Originally Posted by TheFallenAsexual View Post
    I definitely have struggled with depression, but the penis issue is real. I'd be a great deal happier and more confident with a penis that measured up to what other men are working with.
    it doesn't matter what size your dick is. it sounds like you're scapegoating your negative feelings about yourself in general or your sadness on your dick. if your dick was huge, you would look towards some other body part that you think is wrong with you and use that as a reason to explain why you're unhappy with yourself. you've been talking bad about yourself in general other than your dick.
    one thing about the closet/you don't have to hurry/it will be bad tomorrow/so brother, don't you worry

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    I don't have a large dick either and I'm not happy with the size.

    However, I have had pleasing results with the way I use it(With girls). But sometimes I just feel like that too, where I feel pretty small. I too have been looking for a way to improve girth, I just don't think there are any real ways out there...

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    Quote Originally Posted by TheFallenAsexual View Post
    I definitely have struggled with depression, but the penis issue is real. I'd be a great deal happier and more confident with a penis that measured up to what other men are working with.
    It wont. It never will. It is something you will have to learn to live with just as I try to learn to live with my insecurities

    Try be thankful that you dont have a micro penis. I dont know how guys would deal with that

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    Quote Originally Posted by M10000 View Post
    It wont. It never will. It is something you will have to learn to live with just as I try to learn to live with my insecurities

    Try be thankful that you dont have a micro penis. I dont know how guys would deal with that
    Just suck it up and accept it, some people are never thankful for the size of their dick. I've seen people who are 7 inches complain about their size and it amazes me how ungrateful some people are about their dick. It's depressing sometimes but one has to have other qualities than just the size of their dick.

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    I dated a guy for a while in college who was about 6 to 7 inches and quite thick in the girth department (one of the fattest cocks I've seen actually), and dude still complained that his dick was too small.

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    They say that body modification is somewhat addictive. The reason being that if it doesn't make you feel better about your looks, you'll feel that it's because you didn't change enough (or in the right direction)...and if it does make you feel better, you'll rationalze that you'll feel even better after some more (especially once the buzz/euphoria of the first maneuver wears off).

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    Quote Originally Posted by Libidowasneato View Post
    I don't have a large dick either and I'm not happy with the size.

    However, I have had pleasing results with the way I use it(With girls). But sometimes I just feel like that too, where I feel pretty small. I too have been looking for a way to improve girth, I just don't think there are any real ways out there...
    I'm certain I'd be more confident in having sex with women if I had girth. A vagina and an anus work so differently. Sometimes I wonder if the women I've had sex with actually got anything from our experience.

    Quote Originally Posted by refujiunderground View Post
    it doesn't matter what size your dick is. it sounds like you're scapegoating your negative feelings about yourself in general or your sadness on your dick. if your dick was huge, you would look towards some other body part that you think is wrong with you and use that as a reason to explain why you're unhappy with yourself. you've been talking bad about yourself in general other than your dick.
    I disagree. There's a shit ton I've been working with (in my life) to make things better. This is a separate issue.

    Quote Originally Posted by G-Lexington View Post
    They say that body modification is somewhat addictive. The reason being that if it doesn't make you feel better about your looks, you'll feel that it's because you didn't change enough (or in the right direction)...and if it does make you feel better, you'll rationalze that you'll feel even better after some more (especially once the buzz/euphoria of the first maneuver wears off).

    Lex
    Believe me when I say that I hate the idea of surgery. I'd never get more than one, if anything.

    Understand also that this is one area in which I am clearly lacking. Even though I don't particularly like other things about myself, I can't say that any other part of my body is as completely inadequate as my penis.

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    Quote Originally Posted by TheFallenAsexual View Post
    Understand also that this is one area in which I am clearly lacking. Even though I don't particularly like other things about myself, I can't say that any other part of my body is as completely inadequate as my penis.
    How many nose jobs did Michael Jackson have?

    It's not necessarily about you getting a surgery for something else. Once you go under the knife to fix your penis you might want to do it again if you aren't happy with the results. And believe me it's very common for guys to be unhappy after a penis enlargement since it is a very complex and risky procedure.

    I know you are doing this for yourself but I still wanna point out that a lot of people are more turned off by a surgically altered penis than a small one. They often end up looking weird and functioning worse.

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    Congrats on your 8000th post!

    You still have a small penis though!

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    give us an idea

    How about you draw an outline of your finger as an example of your cock. Take a photo

    a finger must match your cock's girth based on what youve said

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    at Ram!

    M10000, I gave you a measurement. More than a finger but not by much. It's whatever, I'll go for a consultation. If I like what I hear, I'll go through with it. If not, I won't.

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    Since he's just slightly under the average it should be much thicker than a finger.

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    and isn't it really about how your able to work your dick NOT how huge it is? that's what i hear people saying though. they say that you could be whatever size BUT if you know how to move your dick up in and out, you should be able to satisfy whoever you're fucking. is it true?

    if you had no complaints about your performance, then does it really matter how big it is though?
    one thing about the closet/you don't have to hurry/it will be bad tomorrow/so brother, don't you worry

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    Quote Originally Posted by TheFallenAsexual View Post
    That sometimes when he flirts with a girl and the idea of hooking up comes into play, he'll sometimes just grab their hand and stick it down his pants and pretty much watch the amazement on their faces.


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    Quote Originally Posted by refujiunderground View Post
    and isn't it really about how your able to work your dick NOT how huge it is? that's what i hear people saying though. they say that you could be whatever size BUT if you know how to move your dick up in and out, you should be able to satisfy whoever you're fucking. is it true?

    if you had no complaints about your performance, then does it really matter how big it is though?
    To me, it's not the issue as I don't see this related only to sexual performance. I also want the look and feel of a man with a girthy penis. I want to get turned on by what I see in the mirror.

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    Quote Originally Posted by TheFallenAsexual View Post
    To me, it's not the issue as I don't see this related only to sexual performance. I also want the look and feel of a man with a girthy penis. I want to get turned on by what I see in the mirror.
    but wouldn't that not be the same as having a naturally girthed dick though. geez, the thought of having your dick altered surgerically, good luck if you ever decide to go on and do it. the thought of seeing a surgerical knife slicing a dick up and just imagining being the guy that's having that happened to.



    if you can go through all that to achieve what you want to achieve, then much power to you.
    one thing about the closet/you don't have to hurry/it will be bad tomorrow/so brother, don't you worry

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    Quote Originally Posted by TheFallenAsexual View Post
    To me, it's not the issue as I don't see this related only to sexual performance. I also want the look and feel of a man with a girthy penis. I want to get turned on by what I see in the mirror.
    It won't bother you to look at your penis in the mirror and know that it's not all real manhood?

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    Quote Originally Posted by TheFallenAsexual View Post
    at Ram!

    M10000, I gave you a measurement. More than a finger but not by much. It's whatever, I'll go for a consultation. If I like what I hear, I'll go through with it. If not, I won't.
    you gave a measurement that doesnt seem possible unless you have a micro penis. Borg says its not as bad as you say

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    "Under 4" in curcumference doesn't seem reasonable? Lmao. OUCH!

    Borg has seen a limp shot in which my width isn't even displayed. Have no idea what he's talking about. With the men I have encountered in my lifetime, I am well below average.

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    The average is around 5... so you aren't THAT much below.

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    I have always sung the praises

    of google and it was time to google you because this is getting no where.

    https://www.google.ca/search?hl=en&n...j1.9Wrw1hoqEY4

    - what is this thread about? why do guys think you were naughtyarousal?

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    Sorry, I can't identify. My cock is great - longer than most white guys, and pleasingly plump, and a nice fat mushroom head.

    I don't usually tell people, though - I'm kind of self-conscious about it. I actually tell people it's not that impressive. And, despite being only 47, I'm having some erectile issues, so that's at least partly true. Nothing winds me up more than scoring with a hot butch beefy secretly bottom boy (ok, even this was like two decades ago) and not being able to get this fat dick up enough to give the guy what he's begging for.

    When I was younger and had all that pretty curly blonde hair and was disturbingly skinny, a lot of people found me hot. A lot of people wanted to use my body who didn't really care how I felt. I had lots of great sex with lots of hot guys, but... sometimes it just felt so empty.

    So, now, when people look right past me because I've got that slowed-metabolism potgut, I'm actually a little more comfortable.
    And if they don't look right past me, and eye me up in a way that flares my trust issues, I let them know I have dentures and no upper teeth. I pull out my lip to show them how few lowers I have left, and how rotten those few are. Or I tell them about the antipsychotic medication I take at night to level out my wild mood swings, or how I've been poor all my life and probably always will be.

    Somebody's got to try REAL hard to get to know the TRULY awesome bits of me, to get past all the disagreeable stuff I put out to keep me safe and alone.
    Despite all that, though - I wouldn't trade any of it. I love myself. And my Big Cock.

    So, sorry, if you're looking for coping strategies from people who can relate - I'm not one of them, and neither is my

    Awesome Big Cock.

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    Re: Coping With A Small Penis...

    lol is this guy for real?

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    Re: Coping With A Small Penis...

    Hmm.. You know what guy! I seriously read this status, and I could relate to you. You're very self conscious about not having a big dick? To be honest, I have a big dick.. It's not so great as you think, in fact it gets very distasteful when people constantly makes comments on your penis size, or are only interested into you for that. Having a big dick is just annoying, and eventually when you get older, a person's dick is going to shrivel up, and look disgusting afterwards. lol. OKAY ANYWAYS!! I take it that you're not really happy or pleasant with your penis. Hell, I too am unhappy with my body biologically. I'm black, dark skinned, and have nappy hair. I don't like it either too. IN FACT, I HATE IT! I prefer death than being black! At times, I feel suicidal like you. I feel unattractive, and rejected. I don't want to feel or look black. lol The point is, you have to work with ya got! I'm not saying you have to get over it, but you have to get use to it. The disliking of our own body, and looks is just plain evil and unhealthy for you. You can't let your possessions posse you. Hell, you just gotta work with your "flaws". Maybe me being black, or you having a small penis is not such of a big deal as we think. What you have others, others don't, and maybe they'd want it.
    Last edited by HolyEggRolly; December 21st, 2012 at 08:58 PM.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Geiri85 View Post
    lol is this guy for real?
    hey buddy - you talkin to me?
    That's pretty much all honesty, awkwardly expressed.
    ask the guys whose "join date" is near mine.
    they'll tell you...

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    Re: Coping With A Small Penis...

    Quote Originally Posted by HolyEggRolly View Post
    Hell, I too am unhappy with my body biologically. I'm black, dark skinned, and have nappy hair. I don't like it either too. IN FACT, I HATE IT! I prefer death than being black! At times, I feel suicidal like you. I feel unattractive, and rejected. I don't want to feel or look black. lol The point is, you have to work with ya got! I'm not saying you have to get over it, but you have to get use to it.
    this is probably the most offensive, distasteful and fucked up thing that i've ever seen on this site. you really disgust me. i thought about giving you a pass because of your age BUT then i realized that i at my age, i knew enough to NEVER, EVER say that about myself nor my peers. i don't even know what to say to you at this point. you sure as hell lost me.

    don't even worry about the problems in the gay community, worry about yourself, breh.
    one thing about the closet/you don't have to hurry/it will be bad tomorrow/so brother, don't you worry

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    Re: Coping With A Small Penis...

    Quote Originally Posted by HolyEggRolly View Post
    I'm black, dark skinned, and have nappy hair. I don't like it either too. IN FACT, I HATE IT! I prefer death than being black! At times, I feel suicidal like you. I feel unattractive, and rejected. I don't want to feel or look black. lol


    Ummm...are you serious?

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    ^OHhhhh....
    I thought he was full of hyperbole and sarcasm as a way of holding up a dark mirror for the OP...
    Yeh think he meant all that?
    I don't identify with that, either.
    cuz I love me. even the effedup bits rock.

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    Re: Coping With A Small Penis...

    Look sweetheart, if there were actual surgical procedures that REALLY DID WORK 100%, I'd run myself and spend $30,000 to have it stretched to 8 inches, but NO such procedure exists yet. You have a better chance of having your small dick turned into a nice looking pussy. But stretching penises surgically is not viable option. At best you will get a funky looking pencil that you will have to constantly stretch for life and it still won't look as big to your liking. There are Hundreds of million of men on the planet who have an average to below average penis and they continue to function in society, have love life and even reproduce like everyone else. Get your mind fixed and you will be fine.

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    Re: Coping With A Small Penis...

    Quote Originally Posted by ixthrock View Post
    ^OHhhhh....
    I thought he was full of hyperbole and sarcasm as a way of holding up a dark mirror for the OP...
    Yeh think he meant all that?
    I don't identify with that, either.
    cuz I love me. even the effedup bits rock.
    naw, i think he was dead serious about that especially looking at his first thread where he basically said indirectly that he didn't think he was dateable because he was black.
    one thing about the closet/you don't have to hurry/it will be bad tomorrow/so brother, don't you worry

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