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    Quote Originally Posted by TheFallenAsexual View Post
    Ummmm...no. You guys have a propensity to give advice when it isn't asked for. In fact, the one time I've asked for advice (http://www.justusboys.com/forum/thre...This-Situation) is the time you guys were the most convinced that I should do what I feel is right.
    Why even make the thread then if you don't really want feedback. Go do a blog or get a livejournal.

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    if you ask me, you just sound depressed and this is a byproduct of it. if you weren't so down, you wouldn't be looking at yourself so negatively. you have a lot of positive and good things going for you BUT obviously, you're not going to think about that if you're depressed.

    have you sought help for this though? the last thing you need to do is get surgery for your dick. the only thing you'll be masking is your REAL problem.
    one thing about the closet/you don't have to hurry/it will be bad tomorrow/so brother, don't you worry

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    Quote Originally Posted by TheFallenAsexual View Post
    I definitely have struggled with depression, but the penis issue is real. I'd be a great deal happier and more confident with a penis that measured up to what other men are working with.
    it doesn't matter what size your dick is. it sounds like you're scapegoating your negative feelings about yourself in general or your sadness on your dick. if your dick was huge, you would look towards some other body part that you think is wrong with you and use that as a reason to explain why you're unhappy with yourself. you've been talking bad about yourself in general other than your dick.
    one thing about the closet/you don't have to hurry/it will be bad tomorrow/so brother, don't you worry

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    I don't have a large dick either and I'm not happy with the size.

    However, I have had pleasing results with the way I use it(With girls). But sometimes I just feel like that too, where I feel pretty small. I too have been looking for a way to improve girth, I just don't think there are any real ways out there...

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    Re: Coping With A Small Penis...

    Quote Originally Posted by M10000 View Post
    It wont. It never will. It is something you will have to learn to live with just as I try to learn to live with my insecurities

    Try be thankful that you dont have a micro penis. I dont know how guys would deal with that
    Just suck it up and accept it, some people are never thankful for the size of their dick. I've seen people who are 7 inches complain about their size and it amazes me how ungrateful some people are about their dick. It's depressing sometimes but one has to have other qualities than just the size of their dick.

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    They say that body modification is somewhat addictive. The reason being that if it doesn't make you feel better about your looks, you'll feel that it's because you didn't change enough (or in the right direction)...and if it does make you feel better, you'll rationalze that you'll feel even better after some more (especially once the buzz/euphoria of the first maneuver wears off).

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    Quote Originally Posted by TheFallenAsexual View Post
    Understand also that this is one area in which I am clearly lacking. Even though I don't particularly like other things about myself, I can't say that any other part of my body is as completely inadequate as my penis.
    How many nose jobs did Michael Jackson have?

    It's not necessarily about you getting a surgery for something else. Once you go under the knife to fix your penis you might want to do it again if you aren't happy with the results. And believe me it's very common for guys to be unhappy after a penis enlargement since it is a very complex and risky procedure.

    I know you are doing this for yourself but I still wanna point out that a lot of people are more turned off by a surgically altered penis than a small one. They often end up looking weird and functioning worse.

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    Congrats on your 8000th post!

    You still have a small penis though!

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    Since he's just slightly under the average it should be much thicker than a finger.

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    Re: Coping With A Small Penis...

    and isn't it really about how your able to work your dick NOT how huge it is? that's what i hear people saying though. they say that you could be whatever size BUT if you know how to move your dick up in and out, you should be able to satisfy whoever you're fucking. is it true?

    if you had no complaints about your performance, then does it really matter how big it is though?
    one thing about the closet/you don't have to hurry/it will be bad tomorrow/so brother, don't you worry

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    Re: Coping With A Small Penis...

    Quote Originally Posted by TheFallenAsexual View Post
    That sometimes when he flirts with a girl and the idea of hooking up comes into play, he'll sometimes just grab their hand and stick it down his pants and pretty much watch the amazement on their faces.


    The people you associate with...



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    Re: Coping With A Small Penis...

    Quote Originally Posted by TheFallenAsexual View Post
    To me, it's not the issue as I don't see this related only to sexual performance. I also want the look and feel of a man with a girthy penis. I want to get turned on by what I see in the mirror.
    but wouldn't that not be the same as having a naturally girthed dick though. geez, the thought of having your dick altered surgerically, good luck if you ever decide to go on and do it. the thought of seeing a surgerical knife slicing a dick up and just imagining being the guy that's having that happened to.



    if you can go through all that to achieve what you want to achieve, then much power to you.
    one thing about the closet/you don't have to hurry/it will be bad tomorrow/so brother, don't you worry

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    Quote Originally Posted by TheFallenAsexual View Post
    To me, it's not the issue as I don't see this related only to sexual performance. I also want the look and feel of a man with a girthy penis. I want to get turned on by what I see in the mirror.
    It won't bother you to look at your penis in the mirror and know that it's not all real manhood?

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    Re: Coping With A Small Penis...

    The average is around 5... so you aren't THAT much below.

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    Re: Coping With A Small Penis...

    Sorry, I can't identify. My cock is great - longer than most white guys, and pleasingly plump, and a nice fat mushroom head.

    I don't usually tell people, though - I'm kind of self-conscious about it. I actually tell people it's not that impressive. And, despite being only 47, I'm having some erectile issues, so that's at least partly true. Nothing winds me up more than scoring with a hot butch beefy secretly bottom boy (ok, even this was like two decades ago) and not being able to get this fat dick up enough to give the guy what he's begging for.

    When I was younger and had all that pretty curly blonde hair and was disturbingly skinny, a lot of people found me hot. A lot of people wanted to use my body who didn't really care how I felt. I had lots of great sex with lots of hot guys, but... sometimes it just felt so empty.

    So, now, when people look right past me because I've got that slowed-metabolism potgut, I'm actually a little more comfortable.
    And if they don't look right past me, and eye me up in a way that flares my trust issues, I let them know I have dentures and no upper teeth. I pull out my lip to show them how few lowers I have left, and how rotten those few are. Or I tell them about the antipsychotic medication I take at night to level out my wild mood swings, or how I've been poor all my life and probably always will be.

    Somebody's got to try REAL hard to get to know the TRULY awesome bits of me, to get past all the disagreeable stuff I put out to keep me safe and alone.
    Despite all that, though - I wouldn't trade any of it. I love myself. And my Big Cock.

    So, sorry, if you're looking for coping strategies from people who can relate - I'm not one of them, and neither is my

    Awesome Big Cock.

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    Re: Coping With A Small Penis...

    lol is this guy for real?

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    Hmm.. You know what guy! I seriously read this status, and I could relate to you. You're very self conscious about not having a big dick? To be honest, I have a big dick.. It's not so great as you think, in fact it gets very distasteful when people constantly makes comments on your penis size, or are only interested into you for that. Having a big dick is just annoying, and eventually when you get older, a person's dick is going to shrivel up, and look disgusting afterwards. lol. OKAY ANYWAYS!! I take it that you're not really happy or pleasant with your penis. Hell, I too am unhappy with my body biologically. I'm black, dark skinned, and have nappy hair. I don't like it either too. IN FACT, I HATE IT! I prefer death than being black! At times, I feel suicidal like you. I feel unattractive, and rejected. I don't want to feel or look black. lol The point is, you have to work with ya got! I'm not saying you have to get over it, but you have to get use to it. The disliking of our own body, and looks is just plain evil and unhealthy for you. You can't let your possessions posse you. Hell, you just gotta work with your "flaws". Maybe me being black, or you having a small penis is not such of a big deal as we think. What you have others, others don't, and maybe they'd want it.
    Last edited by HolyEggRolly; December 21st, 2012 at 08:58 PM.

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    Re: Coping With A Small Penis...

    Quote Originally Posted by Geiri85 View Post
    lol is this guy for real?
    hey buddy - you talkin to me?
    That's pretty much all honesty, awkwardly expressed.
    ask the guys whose "join date" is near mine.
    they'll tell you...

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    Quote Originally Posted by HolyEggRolly View Post
    Hell, I too am unhappy with my body biologically. I'm black, dark skinned, and have nappy hair. I don't like it either too. IN FACT, I HATE IT! I prefer death than being black! At times, I feel suicidal like you. I feel unattractive, and rejected. I don't want to feel or look black. lol The point is, you have to work with ya got! I'm not saying you have to get over it, but you have to get use to it.
    this is probably the most offensive, distasteful and fucked up thing that i've ever seen on this site. you really disgust me. i thought about giving you a pass because of your age BUT then i realized that i at my age, i knew enough to NEVER, EVER say that about myself nor my peers. i don't even know what to say to you at this point. you sure as hell lost me.

    don't even worry about the problems in the gay community, worry about yourself, breh.
    one thing about the closet/you don't have to hurry/it will be bad tomorrow/so brother, don't you worry

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    ^OHhhhh....
    I thought he was full of hyperbole and sarcasm as a way of holding up a dark mirror for the OP...
    Yeh think he meant all that?
    I don't identify with that, either.
    cuz I love me. even the effedup bits rock.

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    Look sweetheart, if there were actual surgical procedures that REALLY DID WORK 100%, I'd run myself and spend $30,000 to have it stretched to 8 inches, but NO such procedure exists yet. You have a better chance of having your small dick turned into a nice looking pussy. But stretching penises surgically is not viable option. At best you will get a funky looking pencil that you will have to constantly stretch for life and it still won't look as big to your liking. There are Hundreds of million of men on the planet who have an average to below average penis and they continue to function in society, have love life and even reproduce like everyone else. Get your mind fixed and you will be fine.

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    Quote Originally Posted by ixthrock View Post
    ^OHhhhh....
    I thought he was full of hyperbole and sarcasm as a way of holding up a dark mirror for the OP...
    Yeh think he meant all that?
    I don't identify with that, either.
    cuz I love me. even the effedup bits rock.
    naw, i think he was dead serious about that especially looking at his first thread where he basically said indirectly that he didn't think he was dateable because he was black.
    one thing about the closet/you don't have to hurry/it will be bad tomorrow/so brother, don't you worry

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    Is that the best he's got....

    Okay, a real man is not determined by his genitals but his geniality..

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    Fuck Midgets......

    Your Todger will look gi-normous in their child sized hands.
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    Why ?
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    Re: Coping With A Small Penis...

    Yeah, I was laying it on about the

    Awesome Big Cock

    A bit (no pun intended) thick, and, yeah, it does seem a bit mean-spirited.

    I know at times my posting style might seem enigmatic and (as if there were such a word) obfuscatory. But like I said above, it IS all true. Okay, I'm exaggerating a little (pun intended) about the dick part for the sake of emphasis.

    I had hoped that you would be able to parse through to the intent of my post, which wasn't really mean-spirited at all. It's only that I'd read through four pages of posts that attempted to address your issue directly and were met with what we called in crisis-intervention parlance "yes, but"s. Not very helpful, those four pages, and neither was my indirect approach. Let me try for a little more clarity.

    When I was younger, and people saw my cock, they might imagine all sorts of scenarios by which I pleased them. Often, due to the fact I didn't find them appealing, I was - despite my handy-dandy tool - ill-equipped to so please. Translation: I got a lot of unwanted attention because of my dick; people would overlook deeper aspects of me that I was proud of, because they were actually things I worked on and could affect, and instead focused on and admired arbitrary and superficial bits of me, such as my youth, my cock size or shape, my curly blonde hair, my etiolated physique.

    I stepped away from our local "gay scene" for quite a few years, and am only recently rejoining it. One refreshing change that I've noticed is that guys that used to paw at me and make me uncomfortable are still focused on young skinny pretty boys with big dicks, and just look at me and talk to me as if I were an old friend - which I am. We have actual conversations now that aren't centered around them trying to sleep with me. And if they are, I'm more mature and equipped to deal with it, more equipped to recognize and respect flattery, and in some cases maybe even rethink my position.

    This is my way of trying to show you the true color of the grass on the other side.

    Also, my post was a little contrarian because I said I couldn't relate - obviously an untruth, because while I might be comfortable with my dick, I DO know what it is like to harbor insecurities about superficial things (my false teeth and hair loss) I cannot change. ALSO, I DO know what it feels like when people say "you shouldn't worry about X" and all I can think in response is, "well, I DO worry about X; it's part of who I am. It doesn't matter if nobody else cares about X - I care about X."

    So how do I cope with that? Loving my insecurities as being a necessary part of the diversity of all human beings by virtue of being aspects of My Unique Self allows me to also love the things I'm insecure about - which allows me to joke with my barber and do fun and creepy things with my dentures on Halloween. I might worry that I freak out my date when I take my teeth out to suck his dick, but it doesn't stop me from poking fun at myself, if only to bring a goofy smile to someone else.

    Thanks for hanging with me; I'm nearly done. I wish I could share with you an essay my friend showed me, once, that she wrote on the eve of her surgery to remove her breast implants. I never knew she had them; they weren't that big -apparently she was quite flat-chested. When she was younger, she had this dream of what her life might be like if only she had a little more boob. Well, life happens, as I'm sure you know. Don't get me wrong - she never regretted her augmentation surgery. She just aged, and the things that concerned her when she was younger became less of an issue as she got older, and she had an opportunity to have the implants removed before their age could give rise to complications. She wasn't able to decide, at the end of it all, if her implants bestowed any more confidence, though, than maturation and experience did - but she was careful to harbor no regrets. I hope you'll do the same.

    Finally, one of my insecurities is that I don't want people to think I'm an asshole. I admire people who never apologize, who say what they want without caring what other people think. People tell me not to worry what anyone else thinks, to just be myself.

    My Self has insecurities.

    Can you relate?

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    ^ tl;dr?

    "I have a large cock."

    Lec

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    ^*shrugs*
    asshole it is then.
    *points and laughs*

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    Exactly. I'm well-aware that well-hung people, rich people, and attractive people have their own set of problems. But that doesn't mean that small-dicked people, poor people, and ugly people wouldn't absolutely love the chance to experience those problems.

    Lex

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    But who really wants the problem of weak teeth, to the point they rot out at a young age despite meticulous care, forcing one to a set of dentures? The difference is that while the OP may have augmentation surgery, I'll never have my original teeth back and there's nothing left on which to graft implants, even if I could afford it. That's one coping strategy lost to me.

    It's hysterical how readily that my bragging about my "big dick" is so readily believed and accepted at face value - because of both the content (everyone lies about their dick) and context (everyone lies on the internet). My exaggerated "bragging" was certainly insensitive.

    I suspect, TheFallenAsexual, you will discover that you will feel that pain until you do something about it (surgery) or until you decide you are tired of feeling that particular pain and thereby experience some sort of internal growth that allows you to move beyond it. Part of my intent was to add a little pain, I admit - but for a good cause.

    Honestly, it breaks my heart that you would allow surgeons to slice open your otherwise perfectly healthy dick just because you are in a state of mind that may be more transitory than the effects of the surgery, for better or worse.

    I'm sorry I couldn't bring you any more peace and that it appears I've done more damage than good here.

    Best of luck with whatever you decide.

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    Quote Originally Posted by ixthrock View Post
    But who really wants the problem of weak teeth, to the point they rot out at a young age despite meticulous care, forcing one to a set of dentures? The difference is that while the OP may have augmentation surgery, I'll never have my original teeth back and there's nothing left on which to graft implants, even if I could afford it. That's one coping strategy lost to me.

    It's hysterical how readily that my bragging about my "big dick" is so readily believed and accepted at face value - because of both the content (everyone lies about their dick) and context (everyone lies on the internet). My exaggerated "bragging" was certainly insensitive.

    I suspect, TheFallenAsexual, you will discover that you will feel that pain until you do something about it (surgery) or until you decide you are tired of feeling that particular pain and thereby experience some sort of internal growth that allows you to move beyond it. Part of my intent was to add a little pain, I admit - but for a good cause.

    Honestly, it breaks my heart that you would allow surgeons to slice open your otherwise perfectly healthy dick just because you are in a state of mind that may be more transitory than the effects of the surgery, for better or worse.

    I'm sorry I couldn't bring you any more peace and that it appears I've done more damage than good here.

    Best of luck with whatever you decide.
    I knew you wern't an asshole

    PS: Irony is totally lost on a lot of people. Your initial post made a lot of sense (No irony here)

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    Quote Originally Posted by M10000 View Post
    Because you dont use the word midgets. .....)
    The PC Brigade has put it on the List of Censored Words. They say it's a sin to speak it; it's a thought-crime to think it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by TheFallenAsexual View Post
    No amount of "internal growth" will make me more comfortable ...
    Oh. Ok then. Cassandra.

    "this is hell, nor am i out of it."

    sux2bu

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    Quote Originally Posted by TheFallenAsexual View Post
    Man, you block Grimshaw and the stupidity inevitably finds its way through anyway.
    You can block yourself and the stubborn, self-obsessed perversity resolutely finds its way through.

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    You are stuck with the penis you have.

    The added size from surgery won't be real penis... it's fake.

    Many guys will be turned off by it... and you might end up making it function worse or even not at all.

    Surgery is simply not a good option.

    You have DECIDED this is something you will never get over... which is the main problem.

    Again... your negative mindset is your biggest problem. That you have managed to deal with some other issues does not change this.

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    And given the fact that he's made the decision that this is the problem, what is his next move forward? I can say with much certainty it isn't "unmaking the decision".

    Lex

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    The small penis question was referred to the Cosmos



    The response identified no one inquirer

    but the advisement was clear





    Less Attention to that Small Penis of Yours.

    Redirect to your Small Mind and exercise both more.



    Last edited by Lefty; December 26th, 2012 at 04:16 PM.

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    TFA,my post was not directed at you. Use your 'many things' mind and READ the post.

    At risk of being censured from the tower , my response to your rude remark to me (#231) and
    the final part of that post directed to M10000, it is strictly and only my considered opinion that

    being far thinner than a vast majority of men I encounter is not "perfectly fine." It fucking sucks.
    .

    Could not possibly suck as much as being you does...
    Last edited by Lefty; December 26th, 2012 at 08:12 PM.

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    Quote Originally Posted by TheFallenAsexual View Post
    My mind is many things, it's not small. And just because I dare be upset over not measuring up to other guys doesn't give you a basis to say something so ridiculous.

    And M1000, being far thinner than a vast majority of men I encounter is not "perfectly fine." It fucking sucks.
    It's definitely a minus.

    But if you let it matter so much that it is preventing you from being happy in life... then obviously your penis is not the main problem.

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    Hasn't this thread shriveled up yet?
    Everyone wants to be heard. No one wants to listen.

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    Who's worried?
    Everyone wants to be heard. No one wants to listen.

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    A penis is just a receptacle.

    Do you meet gay men going around boasting about the size of their mighty bladder or the huge capacity of their appendix?

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    Fallen have you put me on ignore or are you just unhappy with my comments?

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    Lasties.

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    Penis size is important, but if it keeps you from being happy in life then the main problem is in your head not your body.

    I'd understand it if you had a dysfunctional micro-penis. But being somewhat under average would not keep someone who is mentally healthy from having a happy life.

    Admitting this to yourself is the first step to recovery.

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    Give it time, you'll start to worry less about it. I have dealt with having one and it only bothers me when others start complaining about their 8 inch cocks being microscopic.

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    It's funny Brandon,

    When I was still 'growing' I had that young guy angst about size.

    My friend 'instructor' (a bit older) back then said something like

    baby, as long as that cock is as big as your tongue and half as agile...

    nobody is ever gonna complain.


    Sure I had that space in my speedo paranoia and them big swinging dicks

    in the shower...but I got as much or more than they did.

    moral...

    A good mechanic can use a good tool...

    A great mechanic can use any tool.
    Last edited by Lefty; December 28th, 2012 at 01:44 AM.

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    Quote Originally Posted by TheFallenAsexual View Post
    LMAO.

    And are you speaking as a guy with a small dick who understands?

    Or as a guy with an average dick who watches enough Dr. Phil to know what my life is like?
    Think of it this way: Do you honestly think that all men with a penis the same size as yours don't have a chance of having a happy life without making it bigger?

    I'm pretty sure it's not the case. Which is why your problem is in your head and should be fixed there.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lefty View Post
    It's funny Brandon,

    When I was still 'growing' I had that young guy angst about size.

    My friend 'instructor' (a bit older) back then said something like

    baby, as long as that cock is as big as your tongue and half as agile...

    nobody is ever gonna complain.


    Sure I had that space in my speedo paranoia and them big swinging dicks

    in the shower...but I got as much or more than they did.

    moral...

    A good mechanic can use a good tool...

    A great mechanic can use any tool.
    A lot of people are gifted with big cocks, not I. I got gifted with the bed room eyes and that usually never gets me ANYWHERE. But again I am happy in my life, it just annoys me when people complain that their big dicks are small and nobody will like them.

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    Come on Brandon...

    The only reason they are complaining is so people will know they have larger than average cocks.

    Talk about insecurity...to have to be known for the size of your cock. Not for your good deeds or

    your artistry or your wit or anything you actually have done. The person with the big cock didn't

    accomplish that, they were GIVEN that. BFD. WOW, I like to look at the big ones, and I would love

    to have the country club committee tell me my speedo is inadequate for wearing in public.

    Lets get real, in a 24/7 world how much of that time is tid up with cocks once you get your ashes

    hauled.

    Just a note, lots of those 8-14 inch cocks are all talk no proof, EH?Some of them

    clubs swung big but who's dick is harder?


    I much prefer a small hot strong cup of coffee over a large diluted and luke-warm one. And I remember

    eyes above a lot longer than the cock below. /sorry I rambled a bit.

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