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    Quote Originally Posted by TheFallenAsexual View Post
    So I need to toil every day in the gym while every lazy ass sitting around the couch was born with thicker equipment than I have? That hardly seems fair.
    Life isn't about penis size dude. Stop.

    Go get your surgery if it makes you happy then. I just think it's fucking ridiculous to risk your SEXUAL organ and pleasure by getting something unnecessary that you don't even know how will turn out. What if you end up with a botched penis? Then it'll be too late to realize that you had it all.

    But go ahead...good luck.

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    I amend my previous estimate to this is 90% on your end, FallenAsexual.

    The more I read the less I think what bothers you is some perceived social emphasis on huge penis size and rather... YOUR huge emphasis on penis size. Surgery or what other people say won't change that if the issue ultimately is that YOU feel this is super duper important. And there's alwasy going to be bigger people than you, even with surgery.

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    Well, a dick is a dick to me. I'm sure I've told you before, but I'm small, too. Guys have said they'd enjoyed because I wasn't huge. Of course you'll have the size queens that say size matters. I met a guy and we fooled around for quite a bit. The guy had a thick 8 incher. He couldn't make out, though. I feel like where you may be blessed in one area, you have faults somewhere else. Plus, I've topped a couple of guys who enjoyed it being their first time.

    Going through the consultation wouldn't be a terrible idea. I'm sometimes curious, too. If you want to go for it, and you thought about it, go for it.
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    Quote Originally Posted by xbuzzerx View Post
    I amend my previous estimate to this is 90% on your end, FallenAsexual.

    The more I read the less I think what bothers you is some perceived social emphasis on huge penis size and rather... YOUR huge emphasis on penis size. Surgery or what other people say won't change that if the issue ultimately is that YOU feel this is super duper important. And there's alwasy going to be bigger people than you, even with surgery.
    Simply put, I would feel more confident with a penis that wasn't skinnier than 97% of the guys around me and much smaller than average for what's expected of men of my race. It doesn't always have to be about someone else's pleasure. I lose pleasure as a result of being unhappy with my penis.

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    Quote Originally Posted by TheFallenAsexual View Post
    Simply put, I would feel more confident with a penis that wasn't skinnier than 97% of the guys around me and much smaller than average for what's expected of men of my race. It doesn't always have to be about someone else's pleasure. I lose pleasure as a result of being unhappy with my penis.
    Well if you want to seek surgical solutions you can, but I think that once people get into bodymodding for any sort of dysmorphic issue the problem is "it's never enough." Look at people with plastic surgery, look at people with tattoos or piercings, look at women chronically on diets.

    I don't think there's a permanent happy spot you can reach through surgery where you'll feel like okay now I fit within a perfect happy average of size/width/expectation of my race, but if you want to spend all the time and money, good luck.

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    ^^^

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    two words, "cock pump"

    a'ight then...thats all I got
    okay bye!

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    Quote Originally Posted by borg69unimatrix View Post
    ^^^

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    Quote Originally Posted by xbuzzerx View Post
    Well if you want to seek surgical solutions you can, but I think that once people get into bodymodding for any sort of dysmorphic issue the problem is "it's never enough." Look at people with plastic surgery, look at people with tattoos or piercings, look at women chronically on diets.

    I don't think there's a permanent happy spot you can reach through surgery where you'll feel like okay now I fit within a perfect happy average of size/width/expectation of my race, but if you want to spend all the time and money, good luck.
    I'm not a guy with a "dysmorphic issue." I am a man who knows that his penis is thinner than the vast majority of society and whose penis far underreaches what is expected of men of his race. Adding a decent amount to my girth would be enough.

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    Well if all else fails you could get something from the porn shop to attach to add length...low cost solution. Strap-ons also have the advantage of not going soft...

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    Quote Originally Posted by TheFallenAsexual View Post
    This was the single most positive post I've ever seen from you. And that means a lot, because I honestly feel you are one of the few who can relate to me on this.
    Oh, I can definitely relate. That's why I want to see you get over this while you're still young, before it's too late. I didn't get over it, I let it ruin my life, and I don't want you (or anyone else) to make that mistake.

    Do whatever it takes to get over it. I recommend some type of counseling. I strongly advise against having any surgery. However, consulting with a surgeon could be a good thing, as they'll probably tell you that you are more normal than you think.

    I feel your pain. believe me, I do. Sure hope you can get past this soon, and without major problems.

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    I just re-looked at your pictures, TFA, and I'm astounded. I'm just not seeing what your concern is. Your junk looks perfectly fine, and you appear to be better hung then the greater part of guys I see posting in JUB.

    Even flaccid, you're packin' more then most guys are erect.

    There's nothing wrong with your junk.

    Find something else to obsess about! -if it ain't broke, don't fix it!
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    I think black dudes with average to small dicks are hot as I like anything that plays against stereotype---besides just from reading your posts, it's your personality that is going to attract dudes not what your packing---there is nothing worse than a size queen, it's worse than a str guy who can only fucked woman with big tits---what I like about guys is their whole essence and vibe as guys---dudes are the best

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    Re: Coping With A Small Penis...

    Where are the photos?

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    I have a tiny dick and I guess what annoys me is my two best mates have big dicks that i look at enviously (and lustfully lol). Also I dont have a good body and am not out of the closet so my chance of a one night stand is pretty much non-exist and my chance of sex is pretty much non-existant.

    I do have another mate whos dick is the same size as mine when its flaccid but gets huge when its erect compared to mine (much better girth and more length) but he has a good body as well so girls are attracted to him.

    What I am saying is how do I get a quick shag with a bad body and small dick, lol

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    Re: Coping With A Small Penis...

    What annoys me the most is hearing someone saying their 7 inch cock is tiny. I haven't seen the pictures of you that Borg is posting about, but if he says your dick isn't small then I can only assume it's not as bad as you make it out to be.

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    Quote Originally Posted by TheFallenAsexual View Post
    Optimism doesn't make life fair.
    Yes but to whine about things you can't change is immature.

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    To be upset about things you can't change that still effect your day to day life is human. Do not talk down to me.

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    I'm sorry if your penis size is effecting your day to day life that's not normal. It might effect your sex life to an extent but that shouldn't really be an issue if you're bottom, and some guys who bottom prefer small to mid sized dicks over massive ones. How is it effecting your day to day life? Can't get to work because of a small penis? I'm confused

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    Quote Originally Posted by GamerBear View Post
    What annoys me the most is hearing someone saying their 7 inch cock is tiny. I haven't seen the pictures of you that Borg is posting about, but if he says your dick isn't small then I can only assume it's not as bad as you make it out to be.
    What annoys me the most is hearing from posters who exist in a delusional land of one-dimensional dicks. 5, 6, 7 says nothing at all. Most five-inch guys are actually bigger than me on the strength of their GIRTH. Borg has seen a flattering flaccid shot. But you don't fuck with a flaccid penis, so the subject is moot. I don't like being thinner than nearly every guy I've ever hooked up with. It's not flattering at all.

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    Quote Originally Posted by dilemma View Post
    What I am saying is how do I get a quick shag with a bad body and small dick, lol
    How's your ass?

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    Quote Originally Posted by TheFallenAsexual View Post
    What annoys me the most is hearing from posters who exist in a delusional land of one-dimensional dicks. 5, 6, 7 says nothing at all. Most five-inch guys are actually bigger than me on the strength of their GIRTH. Borg has seen a flattering flaccid shot. But you don't fuck with a flaccid penis, so the subject is moot. I don't like being thinner than nearly every guy I've ever hooked up with. It's not flattering at all.
    How big is it again, I can't remember if you mention it at all.

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    Quote Originally Posted by borg69unimatrix View Post
    ^^^

    OM-F-G !!! TFA's dick is going to look like Joan Rivers !!!
    It will probably look something like this.



    Every time he fucks someone, his dick gives fashion advice first.

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    Quote Originally Posted by BreakTheIce View Post
    I'm sorry if your penis size is effecting your day to day life that's not normal. It might effect your sex life to an extent but that shouldn't really be an issue if you're bottom, and some guys who bottom prefer small to mid sized dicks over massive ones. How is it effecting your day to day life? Can't get to work because of a small penis? I'm confused
    First of all, my sex life is my day to day life.

    It effects me in any situation in which I meet men or women because I know it'll be a disappointment in the event that sex happens. It effects me when a female friend opens up to me about how much she loves her boyfriend's penis, because I know that's something I'd never be able to give to someone else. It effects me when I'm at work overhearing conversations about how these girls can judge a guys' penis size by the amount of confidence he has ("Coincidence": my penis size has effected my confidence even in situations completely non-sexual). It creates awkwardness in general when the topic of sex comes up, when I hook up with someone new. It also makes masturbation difficult when the constant reminder of how small I am is right there in my hands. There isn't a day I don't think about this.

    For the record, I don't like bottoming. But even if I did, my opinion of myself matters. More than others. Even if I weren't having sex, this would still be something that I'd be concerned with. And I've tried not to be, but in the back of my mind, it's always there. And it's there for a pretty damn good reason. My penis is awful and I'm stuck with it for the rest of my life.

    Quote Originally Posted by birddog7 View Post
    However, consulting with a surgeon could be a good thing, as they'll probably tell you that you are more normal than you think.
    No surgeon would tell me that my girth is normal. They'd be a liar.

    And I've been counseled over so much in life, but none of it ever made my dick bigger. My shrink actually encouraged me to look into surgery.

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    Quote Originally Posted by TheFallenAsexual View Post
    First of all, my sex life is my day to day life.
    Can't help you then.

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    You were never trying to help; you were trying to scold.

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    Don't see what you're complaining about, you're one of the biggest pricks here.

    Just kidding, no but seriously don't see the point of this thread, you've got your mind made up obviously, best of luck with the procedure.

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    The point was asking other folks who can relate how they cope. I've gotten awesome input from those guys both here and in PM.

    As usual with my threads, it became a sort of stomping ground for people who have no ability to relate to me to berate my feelings and call them worthless. *yawn* Nothing new.

    As far as surgery goes, my mind is only made up to have a consultation and learn more about the risks and costs. But there's a chance I won't go through with that if the costs and risks aren't worth it. I'd have to learn more first.

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    After reading all the posts it seems to me like you are very stubborn and that no matter what anyone says you will stick with the same attitude about this.

    So there are probably just two options which MIGHT work for you. Having the surgery or trying OCD medication.

    Btw can you please share with us the numbers you used to calculate that you are thinner than 97% of men?
    Last edited by Laufey; December 14th, 2012 at 07:27 AM.

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    I've had the same attitude forever despite trying to think "positively." But positive simply doesn't change fact. Nor can one switch their views on will like a light switch. If it did, I wouldn't be upset about this at the moment. But even on a subconcious level, sex (and even masturbation) is becoming difficult.

    OCD medication would ruin me. If anything, I need to be more OCD in life, but that's word for another thread.

    As for the numbers... basically, I've seen hundreds of penises (do not challenge me on this. Trust.) Out of at least 400+, I remember about a handful being as thin as mine. Not one (out of 400+) thinner.

    Ha! For once I'm not in the 99%. #occupysmallpenis

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    So you pretty much base it on a feeling rather than scientific data?

    I think it's time to look into some research and then compare it to your own. It might not be as bad as you think it is.

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    A feeling? What are you talking about, I gave you my evidence right there. Unless I have some bizarre sample, I've yet to see a penis thinner than mine out of the 400+ I've seen in person. And only about a handful just as thin as I am. Those are your numbers right there.

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    Wear this around town, and see what happens.

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    Hmmmmm......

    If 97% of the cocks you've seen are wider than yours how did you expect to find people to relate to you in this thread?

    Oop.

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    Honestly, if surgery was cheap, success guaranteed and risk-free I'm pretty sure 90% of all posters in this thread would do it, myself included ...
    But it's not, my only concern for you Naughty is that I think this type of surgery has a higher fail rate then others... you may end up with lumps of grease not uniformly spread enough to look natural, or a traumatized dick that will not get hard anymore etc etc so do make sure to get documented the most you can (and more) before taking a decision

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    I have a friend who bought a device that you can wear under your clothes that slowly pulls at your member. He swears by it and claims to have grown by at least half an inch with it. I can't attest to that but I believe him. I could find out what it was and let you know if you are that interested.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Nishin View Post
    ... you may end up with lumps of grease not uniformly spread enough to look natural, or a traumatized dick that will not get hard anymore etc etc so do make sure to get documented the most you can (and more) before taking a decision
    that's hilarious and scary at the same time. The surgical thing is permanent, like plastic surgery. I think plastic surgery is awful and it's obvious. ....so my opinion think A LOT before deciding on permanent surgical solution.

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    Quote Originally Posted by jktoooo View Post
    I have a friend who bought a device that you can wear under your clothes that slowly pulls at your member. He swears by it and claims to have grown by at least half an inch with it. I can't attest to that but I believe him. I could find out what it was and let you know if you are that interested.
    It would not make him thicker though. If anything it could make it thinner since it stretches it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by CupidBoy View Post
    Hmmmmm......

    If 97% of the cocks you've seen are wider than yours how did you expect to find people to relate to you in this thread?

    Oop.
    I would expect 3% of our thousands of members to speak up. Simple math.

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    Quote Originally Posted by borg69unimatrix View Post
    Wear this around town, and see what happens.

    People would assume I am proud of my penis, which would imply that I have a penis worth being proud of. Both of those statements are lies.

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    Do you have photos posted?

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    I would never play myself like that. If I had a dick to be proud of, you'd have pictures. That's all that needs to be said.

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    I'm not proud of my penis either... I just love it.

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    Don't see how that's relevant, but good for you.

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    The T-shirt was about loving your cock, not being proud of it.

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    Well then fine. I amend my comments to this:

    "People would assume I love my penis, which would imply that I have a penis worth loving. Both of those statements are lies."

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    Can you give me your girth number?

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    Vids or it didn't happen. What the OP needs to do is to POST progress proving his dick is getting bigger. Meanwhile the only thing getting bigger here is the number of posts in this ridiculous thread.

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