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    Re: Stop wanking.

    ive gone like a week before... well every year my family and i go camping for about a week and i just dont feel right doing it there, so, i play the waiting game...

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    Never. Masturbation=my happiness

    I mean look at my sn haha

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    I tried it once when I was young. Church phase...... yeah, I was pretty dumb. Only lasted for a month or so... thankfully.

    The fact is that it's not really good for the plumbing to repress a natural function. A friend of mine DID do so for religious reasons, for YEARS, and when he finally married he had major problems having sex.

    I'm happy to say, MY prostate as well as my sex drive is quite healthy. I have yet to go blind.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Hard-up1 View Post
    Yes.

    Unfortunately, I was am young and was stupid and felt guilty about it.

    I never made it more than about a week.
    ^^^^^^^^

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    Never. Not once. Not ever. And I went to Catholic School for 8 years. I suppose when I was really young I felt guilty, but it didn't last long and I be at it again the next day.

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    It was like 8 or 9 years ago, I was like 16 or 17, and I was watching so much porn, beating off so much, and not having sex that I wasn't able to get hard anymore. I went two weeks without sou much as touching my dick, that solved my problem, and I was so terrified of having it happen again that I decided to "slow down," but yeah.. Two weeks is the longest I've made it, I'll get to about a week and a half every now and then though, because even when I'm having sex regularly, I still find the need to spend some "quality time" with myself.

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    Re: Stop wanking.

    I usually stop after I cum.

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    Not wanking or not cumming? Sometimes I edge for days then blow...

    But I guess when I was really sick like in hospital it was about a week.

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    I have, because I wanted to stop lusting and start focusing. Lasted, at the most, 6 months.
    "Thereís death on the horizon,

    and Iíll run to behold your sacrifice..."

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    I think the longest I went was two weeks, due to a family trip. I couldn't wait to get back home. I locked myself in my room when I got home and didn't come out for a while!
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    Well castration is out of the picture for me... so I guess I'll just have to live with it.
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    There were times in my teen life and later where I did not masturbate for as long as 3+ months I believe. This wasn't because of some religious guilt but changes in my personal environment where sexual habits like having access to my computer and privacy was gone. And in that environment I really was not getting habitually horny. I had friends who served several tours in combat and they would tell me how they managed not to masturbate for weeks and months on end because the changes in their environment. So I think it is very well possible to reduce frequency but can't be completely eliminated.

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    Re: Stop wanking.

    Plus there is the adage "if you don't use it you lose it"

    Loss of penis would mean I would have to top myself

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    Quote Originally Posted by bort138 View Post
    I usually stop after I cum.
    Roflmao!

    I did stop once, for about a week. The only reason I did, is because I've never experienced a wet dream and I read somewhere that abstaining from sex and masturbation will bring one on. I've always been curious about them, so I decided to give it a go.

    Well, after a lonnnng seven days, my pent-up horniness far outweighed any curiosity I had about wet dreams. lol

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    Perish the thought....... ....... .......

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    I think 12 days was my record. I typically go to fapping once every two days. I like to try and get goals accomplished before treating myself to an orgasm.

    "Its better to burn out than fade away"

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    Re: Stop wanking.

    Are you joking?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Hard-up1 View Post
    Yes.

    Unfortunately, I was young and stupid and felt guilty about it.


    I never made it more than about a week.

    I'm ashamed to say that I was that stupid when I was your age, but we all take time to mature and gain wisdom.

    Holding out would have been easier (I think) if I had ever had a partner to "wait for."

    As it is, I am glad I have a strong sex drive, even if unrequited.
    you pretty much said what i was going to say.

    when i was 12 years old, i went to a catholic school and had gotten brainwashed with the religion they were teaching. i started to realize that all the floor humping that i was doing was masturbation. i had started to feel weird about it for some reason because i didn't think anybody else was doing the same thing. then i read something in this encyclopedia that my brother got and i must have misread it or whatever but i think i remember it saying that it was wrong to masturbate or kids stopped masturbating at 13 or something like that. so with all that negativity going towards my favorite pasttime, i soon started to develop a hate and shame towards it. i started to blame masturbation for my problems from my anger to me feeling sleepy all the time, lacking energy to my declining school grades so i decided sometime in december of 2000 that i was no longer going to masturbate starting on january 1st 2001 and that's what i did. i thought that my life was going to get better and all my problems would be solved from my sexuality issues to depression and etc.

    i managed to hold off from 1/01/01 to the mid of june of that year. sometime around tupac's birthday. one reason i started was because i had one of those wet dreams or something like that and i ended up busting a nut involuntarily. it didn't feel good at all. in fact, i felt like a huge pain in my lower bladder area, probably my prostate where all the blood vessels in my body was throbbing the daylights out of me. it HURT. don't even wish that pain on my worst enemy. but anyway, sometime after that, i went through periods of masturbating a whole lot to stopping for a period of time. in the 10th grade, i wouldn't jerk off for in the weekdays but jerk off during the weekends like once or twice depending on what i decided to do for myself. then in 2002, i managed to hold off from late august to feburary of 2003. went through the same bullshit then decided to jerk off for the rest of the time until the summer of 2004. went through a period of time not jerking off and then i lost my wits in like september of that year. then went through the same bs in 2005, then that's when i started to realize that i was wasting my time with not wanking. i heard about all the positive effects that it had plus i realized that i loved it too much and it was normal so i started jerking off regularly in like the last week of 2005 and since then i've been beating my meat.

    i've been a bit paranoid about whether i'll quit again next year BUT i've been telling myself that that's stupid.

    i wouldn't recommend anybody to stop masturbating unless the doctor tells them or it's cutting into their life or whatever. it's not worth it.
    one thing about the closet/you don't have to hurry/it will be bad tomorrow/so brother, don't you worry

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    .





    Absolutely....


    NOT

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    I can't no matter how hard I try, edging several times a day and finally letting it all go is way to exhilarating to pass up on.
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    Does it count if someone else does it for you?
    Everyone wants to be heard. No one wants to listen.

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    you're all going to go blind. don't say I didn't warn you when you can't see the computer screen anymore. you'll be sorry.....
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    At one point in my life I was sleeping in a group setting that was located in a workspace... so there was always someone awake in the room. To be fair I typically worked so hard and slept so little that i rarely had time to consider sex or wanking or register that I was missing it... that was three months. It was also while I was qualifying in submarines.... to intense for wanking.... I did blow a hole in my mattress once I returned....
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    Quote Originally Posted by AWP82 View Post
    Wait a minute...you OBEYED him?
    Whats wrong with that? Submissive behavior can be a huge turn on for some guys...
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    Quote Originally Posted by FPNY View Post
    you're all going to go blind. don't say I didn't warn you when you can't see the computer screen anymore. you'll be sorry.....
    Can you please repost this in a larger font? I can barely read it.....

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    A few times in the past I've held off for relatively long periods of time. I did so in the hopes of experiencing a sexy dream or explosive pleasure upon caving in, but never once did I manage to provoke a dream, and with high expectations the eventual climax was always disappointing.

    There were many other times I went quite a while without, but they were involuntary and a result of my mood.

    I'm currently in a routine of once upon waking and once at night, and there's no way I'm giving that up unless I absolutely have to. It's just not worth it.

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    Actually, I think the next time somebody asks me what my hobbies are I'm going to include wanking.
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    I have sex at least four times a week with my partner and I still jerk off at least five days a week. Sometimes multiple times a day. I almost always masturbate after I work out, pumped and T-flushed. I really enjoy sex with myself. When I was escorting I might hold off for a day or so in preparation for an important "date" because I wanted to impress my client with an exceptionally large load, but it was always a struggle to refrain. When I would model for art classes I'd generally jerk off before the class believing that doing so would lessen the chance of a full-mast erection. Half mast (which occasionally happened) was fine, full-mast would have been a real embarrassment.

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    I think I tried to stop for about a day when I was about 13.

    I was not able to be Master of my own Domain for long though.

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    Generally I go mad after 3 days of abstinence. My record may be 1 week, but in special situation and because of meds.
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    I can't remember. 2 weeks I guess? I was in the army and after training, you just want to zzz the night away.

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    Quote Originally Posted by joswanprince View Post
    The only way to fight your desire is to "ignore"

    Distract your mind with anything other than hot guys and avoid precursor like justusboys , make yourselves forget about it.
    Being horny is a physical thing not just mental.

    Even if you never think about sex and never see someone attractive... you will get horny after a certain time since your last ejaculation. It's something you can not avoid.

    Quote Originally Posted by menRsexii View Post
    ive gone like a week before... well every year my family and i go camping for about a week and i just dont feel right doing it there, so, i play the waiting game...
    I would never ever change my jerkoff routine for anyone.

    When you are used to doing it daily... you get really pissed off when it has been like two days. I can't imagine spending a week with my family and not jerking off without snapping at everyone.

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    60 days, once, to see if I could. I'd tried previously and managed about 13 days and I wanted to see if I could get to 30 days.

    When I got to 30 days, I thought I'd see how long I could hold out. Once I hit 50 days, I thought 60 and out. So I got to 60 and then it got very, very messy indeed.

    -d-

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    I did for Lent when I was religious. That was...40-something days?
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    I was at the gym once, and this woman was on the elliptical next to me, making motorcycle noises.

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    About 2 weeks. This year I went on a fieldtrip and had to share a dorm with 8 other people.
    I don't think I've ever cum so much when i got home!

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    Pfft.. I can't even go 10 hours without doing it.

    Why would anyone NOT want to ??? It feels too damn good!
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    Quote Originally Posted by alphaxxx View Post
    About 2 weeks. This year I went on a fieldtrip and had to share a dorm with 8 other people.
    I don't think I've ever cum so much when i got home!
    It wasn't all male dorm?

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    I wuld lov to answer this but I Can't sem to sde the keys wery well....oh my.....why so dkr in here...

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    A dormitory has never stopped me from wanking I must confess There are ways to be discreet
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    These few weeks. Been a bit stressed with the finals and editing video takes up most of my time. Or I just have a really really low sex drive.

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    Quote Originally Posted by oakpope View Post
    A dormitory has never stopped me from wanking I must confess There are ways to be discreet
    Yeah when you have multiple people I have a hard time believing nobody ever masturbated.

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    Quote Originally Posted by BENDERBOY View Post
    I can't see ever giving it up myself, even if i was in a relationship.
    Oh my, NEVER!! Some of my best wanks were when I blew just inches from my partners' faces.
    Inspired - but too tired.

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    Regular orgasms are good for prostate health, so I do it strictly for medicinal reasons.

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    Quote Originally Posted by oakpope View Post
    A dormitory has never stopped me from wanking I must confess There are ways to be discreet
    How can you be discreet in dormitory? In the bathroom? Silent under blankets?

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    Wanking is daily routine for me.

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    Quote Originally Posted by cgymike View Post
    Plus there is the adage "if you don't use it you lose it"...
    And I'm sure that everyone will be pleased to hear that there's an element of truth to that. Men who ejaculate at least 20 times a month can reduce the risk of prostate cancer. As AudioTech hinted, it's not good for the plumbing to suppress a natural action, and as nocturnal emissions wouldn't happen 20 times in a month, the only way to ensure the pump is kept in working order is to use it!!! http://www.newscientist.com/article/dn4861

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    Quote Originally Posted by pat grimshaw View Post
    How can you be discreet in dormitory? In the bathroom? Silent under blankets?
    I never found any problem with doing it....

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    Gotta workout those wrists.

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    There have been some changes during getting as OLD as I'm (suddenly) currently am! Those "Young" URGES aren't quite what they used to be!

    SO ... maybe the longest I've gone, without jerking off (Petting "Animal") has been (maybe) 3 weeks! Butt, that's only been recently!

    From doing "It" multiple times a day, even while also having sex with others, through my teens and twenties, even into my 40s and 50s, "Animal" seems to FINALLY be "winding down" as I've gotten Older!

    However, there are still times that daily wanking seems like a good idea, even if it's only to find out that THAT gun still Shoots!

    As a few have said, "Use it or Loose it!"

    All the more reasons to ... no matter what ...

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    Re: Stop wanking.

    I quit for a little while when I was younger because I realized I was doing it merely out of habit instead of desire or an actual need to. But after about a week I got horny and started up again.

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