I was married for five years. My wife had an affair with a woman a few years before we were married, something I never did with a guy. After being married a few years I told her I had been looking at gay porn. Then I told her I thought I was bi. I had shared with her many years before the fact that I slept with a man one night, though no intercourse occurred, nor did I perform oral on him. I told her I didn't have any desire to be with anyone besides her. We watched some gay porn one night, my request, and it was extremely hot...the fact that I was able to share that part of myself with her. Then she went and divorced me, no warning, no--can we talk. Way back when, she even was wanting to go back with that woman after they stopped seeing each other but the woman didn't have any interest. My ex insists she is not bi and she has no desire to be with a woman. Isn't this total b.s.?
How hard is it to find women that are into bi guys? Are they typically bi too? Is it common to find a woman that is o.k. with an open relationship, maybe goes both ways? What say you??