The guy who I've been dating this year is hosting his ex this holiday weekend. Apparently, on the first day after we met, he told my bf that he is uncomfortable that I am around in his condo. So, my bf said to me that I needed to go home after helping him cook on wednesday. I sincerely felt that my bf's ex was pretentiously nice to me, and dinner was so awkward on Thursday. Again, my bf asked me to leave after dinner and stay away while his ex is town. My bf didn't kiss me good night as he always does on my way out, and all he said to me was "See you later."
Well, my bf has not returned my call or my text since then. I don't know what he's up to and where he is. I know for the fact that his ex is spending the night with my bf together in his bedroom because my bf lives in a one-bedroom condo. I wondered if they had sex. I went to my bf's room to put away his laundry before dinner on Thursday, and I saw condoms and a bottle of lube in his ex's open luggage.
Look, his ex is a very good looking man, and I am definitely not in his league. He is clearly still in love with my bf, because he kept referring himself and my bf as "WE" and my bf clearly returned his affection by touching, hugging, kissing him on the cheek, etc. When my bf told me several weeks ago that his ex is visiting, and I agreed to it. However, I never thought that things would turn out like this, and that I ended up being alone this holiday.
Maybe this is a good time for me to reevaluate what heck is happening with my relationship and make the appropriate move ...