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    How do you feel about random Hook ups?

    I lost my virginity earlier this year to my ex-boyfriend and now I'm kinda craving some sex again, but I'm not sure about these random hook ups. I was going to join Grindr and meet some cute guys but my biggest fear is catching a disease or meeting someone dangerous....

    Am I overreacting? What are your experiences with random hook ups?

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    Re: How do you feel about random Hook ups?

    I'm having one right now.

    It feels...alright so far. Nothing to write home about.
    Last edited by illgetbi; November 20th, 2012 at 10:32 PM.

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    Re: How do you feel about random Hook ups?

    Let's see how I feel. You busy right now?

    Lex

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    Re: How do you feel about random Hook ups?

    Not for me, but I don't judge others who do them. Go for it.

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    Re: How do you feel about random Hook ups?

    Safety first. Meet at a public place first (bar, coffee shop, etc...) and chat. That way there's no pressure and you can see each other face to face. NEVER blindly invite someone to your home, sight unseen or give out your address or where you work...to a total stranger. No matter how it goes on line, you really don't know who you're taking with until you actually meet. Sadly, hookup sites are filled with liars and people with phony pictures...and people who have no intention of meeting. You have to weed them out. That includes hustlers and "gay for pay" types. When you do meet someone you like, just play safe.

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    Re: How do you feel about random Hook ups?

    Good for people that want them, and are at least thinking play-safe.

    it works for some and not for others.

    they are not for me/us..
    You cant change the way the wind blow's, but you can change the angle of your sail to take you somewhere else!!

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    Nothing wrong with them. Just play safe and play nice.
    Last edited by Huntneo(PT); November 20th, 2012 at 11:01 PM.

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    Re: How do you feel about random Hook ups?

    I've had several random hookups. I use Adam4Adam and Manhunt mostly. I am on Grindr too.

    Most of the guys have been great! I always use condoms. The sex is great! Some guys have more skills than others.

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    Re: How do you feel about random Hook ups?

    And now I feel tired. Goodnight.

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    If you don't feel comfortable about it and you have inner fears about getting infected with a disease, sort those out first.
    Just a friendly advice.

    P.S.: ALWAYS USE A CONDOM

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    Re: How do you feel about random Hook ups?

    Quote Originally Posted by Appleman34 View Post
    I lost my virginity earlier this year to my ex-boyfriend and now I'm kinda craving some sex again, but I'm not sure about these random hook ups. I was going to join Grindr and meet some cute guys but my biggest fear is catching a disease or meeting someone dangerous....

    Am I overreacting? What are your experiences with random hook ups?
    You may catch a disease or meet someone dangerous elsewhere, they do not reside specifically on grindr and alike... inversely you may meet very nice people there.
    My experience has been mostly positive, of course there has been some guys I have regretted meeting, but much less than the opposite.

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    Re: How do you feel about random Hook ups?

    I like them when the mood is right.

    Quote Originally Posted by Coward92 View Post
    P.S.: ALWAYS USE A CONDOM
    ^ Great advice!

    Oh...and always spray each other thoroughly with this before and after sex.

    The lemon fresh scent works really well

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    Re: How do you feel about random Hook ups?

    if it werent for hookups I wouldnt be having sex at all. thats how I like to do it. Meet guys online, have sex, and thats it. some of them I have as regulars now. just be safe and have fun.

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    Re: How do you feel about random Hook ups?

    I'm quite fond of them.

    Most of my experiences have been good and some excellent, no diseases or physical danger to speak of.

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    There's nothing wrong with them. They're not for everybody though. I've never done the mediated hook-up (using online resources).

    Always use protection. Never let them pressure you into anything you don't feel comfortable doing. If you're feeling unsure about the situation, never feel obligated to stick around. If you're not feeling it, leave and don't look back. Good luck and be safe.

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    Re: How do you feel about random Hook ups?

    I used to hate it, but I am a sexual person, so I get used to it eventually.

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    Re: How do you feel about random Hook ups?

    It's fine as long as there are no expectations on either side about anything further than a shag. Just be safe because the assumption should always be that he's hiv positive.
    Your post comments are forwarded to the CIA.

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    Re: How do you feel about random Hook ups?

    We are sexual beings and we need sex also when we aren't in a relationship.

    Not to be a negative bitch but it could be years until you go steady with someone long term. You really want to have no sex at all until you find someone?

    Plus what starts as a one night stand might turn into something more. Maybe not romantic but you could find a fuck buddy so you don't have to do it with a new guy every time you want sex.

    If you always use protection then there is no reason to be paranoid about getting a STD. Of course it's possible, but not likely.

    Most people don't use protection in oral sex but it's very very difficult to get HIV from it. Oral sex without a condom is actually safer than anal sex with a condom when it comes to HIV. A lot of people get chlamydia though but that can usually be solved with a trip to the pharmacy. The "minor" STD's usually just do long-term damage if people have them for a long time without being treated so the key is to get checked on a regular basis when you are sexually active.

    It's good to meet someone at a public place first and follow your instincts. If you feel like something isn't right then just excuse yourself and leave.

    I've had like a hundred one night stands and I've never gotten an STD or felt like I was in any danger with that person. Sure we have all heard stories about it going bad (I just watched a movie about the Craiglist Killer lol) but fortunately they are rare.

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    Re: How do you feel about random Hook ups?

    Quote Originally Posted by Geiri85 View Post
    I've had like a hundred one night stands and I've never gotten an STD or felt like I was in any danger with that person.
    Safety first. That's just awesome! Where you live is so fucking freezing cold that kills off most of the germs and viruses anyway.

    I'm coming to Iceland. Then you'll have one hundred-and-one one night stands.

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    Re: How do you feel about random Hook ups?

    Did you just hit on me?

    And it's not that cold here

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    It's not something I really want, but every relationship starts somewhere...

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    I dont like the "got an app then decided to fuck" sites as much... tried them and dont like it... I do like running into someone, striking up a conversation and ending up in bed.... that is awesome. My theme song

    I need a lover that won't drive me crazy
    Some girl boy that knows the meaning of a
    Hey hit the highway
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    Have one scheduled in about 2 hours.

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    Until Mr Right comes along, Mr Right Now fills a need.

    Just remember to always play safe.

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    This is where there is some fundamental disconnect between my brain and my penis. No matter if want to randomly hook up with someone, it seems like my body will just shut itself down. I have discussed this sort of thing with my roomie before and she concluded that I simply cannot separate "sex" from "love making". To me, the two are one in the same.

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    Re: How do you feel about random Hook ups?

    If I do, I usually meet up for a drink beforehand to feel him out before I feel him in me.

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    Re: How do you feel about random Hook ups?

    contemplating about doing it. tired of beating my dick.
    one thing about the closet/you don't have to hurry/it will be bad tomorrow/so brother, don't you worry

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    Re: How do you feel about random Hook ups?

    Quote Originally Posted by refujiunderground View Post
    contemplating about doing it. tired of beating my dick.
    My self esteem has not taken a blow like it has on social apps / hook ups.
    It was a lousy experience.
    (Keep in mind I dont travel so I probably got turned down more because of that fact)

    Im going back to my dildo.

    I wish I was on the anti depressants that took away my sex drive so I didnt have to deal with a sex drive. Celibacy was nice and my cock did not rule me as it has been.

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    Re: How do you feel about random Hook ups?

    Quote Originally Posted by refujiunderground View Post
    contemplating about doing it. tired of beating my dick.




    I'm not really a random hookup guy... I've found that I walk away from them feeling lonelier than before. most of my one night stands were unintentional (eg: great first date, in the heat of the moment I accepted an invitation back to their place, we hooked up, and they stopped returning my texts the next day), but I've had a couple of intentional no-strings hookups. not my thing, but more power to anyone who enjoys them.

    just stay safe.

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    Re: How do you feel about random Hook ups?

    safety is everything, make sure to use protection, make sure someone knows where you are at all times and dont go anywhere secluded or unsafe. Hey you could have public sex, sex in a restroom. Fun

    make sure you dont gamble with your health you could loose.

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    Re: How do you feel about random Hook ups?

    I don't see it as "wrong" vs. "there's nothing wrong with it," I see it as pros and cons.

    Pros:
    Spontaneity, sense of adventure, grab the bull by the dick.
    Sex without the need to make emotional attachments.

    Cons:
    Too easy to get a disease.
    Too easy to give someone a disease unless you wait 8 weeks and get tested between hook-ups.
    Why have good sex only once?
    Why have bad sex at all?
    Sex with someone too fucked up or too selfish to make emotional attachments.

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    I don't see it as "wrong" vs. "there's nothing wrong with it," I see it as pros and cons.

    Pros:
    Spontaneity, sense of adventure, grab the bull by the dick.
    Sex without the need to make emotional attachments.

    Cons:
    Too easy to get a disease.
    Too easy to give someone a disease unless you wait 8 weeks and get tested between hook-ups.
    Why have good sex only once?
    Why have bad sex at all?
    Sex with someone too fucked up or too selfish to make emotional attachments.
    Americans need to keep their guns so they can protect themselves from gun violence just like Nancy Lanza did. And like Chris Kyle did. And like Gabby Giffords did. And like Tom Clements did. And like Michael Piemonte. And Joseph Wilcox.

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    Re: How do you feel about random Hook ups?

    Casual sex is pretty common nowadays. I don't even think the stigma is as strong now as it was when I was just a bit younger growing up. I stay away from it, though. I'd rather wait until I'm very comfortable with the person.


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