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    Ever Give Your Number To Someone And Realize...

    ...that you totally shouldn't have?

    In my case, I was asked for one (which is odd in itself, because it's the second time this year which has to be a record for me). But after quickly giving it up, I realized I wouldn't be interested in dating this guy. I think he's cute, but way too young for me, and I don't see anything possible outside of a casual hookup.

    Meanwhile, he has my number, I told him I would hang out with him. He's also a regular at my job. He was shocked to find out I was gay, but I'm thinking maybe I could've let him think I was straight or just tell him I have a boyfriend. Instead (welp), here goes...

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    Re: Ever Give Your Number To Someone And Realize...

    Don't get ahead of yourself. You'll be able to deal with this if he makes contact. Trying to be street smart but unafraid has been one of my goals. In any case it will be a learning experience.
    "Be who you are and say what you feel because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind."--Dr. Seuss

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    Re: Ever Give Your Number To Someone And Realize...

    yes... he ended up being totally crazy.

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    Re: Ever Give Your Number To Someone And Realize...

    My phone number is sacred. Hardly anyone has it. My email address I'll give out to nearly anyone, though.

    Lex

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    Re: Ever Give Your Number To Someone And Realize...

    Only once and yes, HUGE mistake.

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    Re: Ever Give Your Number To Someone And Realize...

    well, i've been very lucky. nobody calls my number and even if they did, all they're going to get is my voicemail. my phone spends more time off than on. text is cool. phone calls on the other hand, not a fan of phone conversations.
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    Re: Ever Give Your Number To Someone And Realize...

    I have an occasional psycho stalker (calling every now and then), but he always calls with hidden number, and I never answer these calls...
    I have sooo many numbers in my contacts list ...
    I'm a bit surprised most of the answers here indicate it's not a habit for US gays to share phone numbers... ? How do you communicate/fix rendez-vous ?
    I don't trust a guy who won't share his number and goes let's meet at [such] place @9 ... yeah right

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    Re: Ever Give Your Number To Someone And Realize...

    No.I don't give my number that easly.

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    Re: Ever Give Your Number To Someone And Realize...

    Let me set this straight: the guy is a sweet guy who I've talked to numerous times and has a pretty strong head on his shoulders.

    The way people keep hinting at not giving their number out, you'd think I confessed to writing it on a bathroom stall. I'm not worried he's going to be some psycho stalker, I just realized that even though I think he''s adorable and would love to hang out with him (hence me giving him my number when he asked), there really is no chance for anything serious.

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    Re: Ever Give Your Number To Someone And Realize...

    I can't get you.You both want to date each other,but you won't do it only because he's too young for you?Seriously?

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    Re: Ever Give Your Number To Someone And Realize...

    I don't want to date the guy. Yes, mainly because he's way too young for me (23). And when you're 31, you get to look back on how differently you are then and understand why I feel the way I do.

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    Re: Ever Give Your Number To Someone And Realize...

    Quote Originally Posted by NaughtyArousal View Post
    I don't want to date the guy. Yes, mainly because he's way too young for me (23). And when you're 31, you get to look back on how differently you are then and understand why I feel the way I do.
    You are only 8 year difference.As for me +10 is totally ok,in some situation If the guy is oh so hot,I'll go even with +15.
    But well,you have your own limits,so you should know best what are you doing.

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    Re: Ever Give Your Number To Someone And Realize...

    You know what?

    He may never call. and if he does, would it really cost you that much to just meet up one time for a bite to eat, or movie or something. At that time you could tell him that you're not looking to 'date' right now or that you have met someone recently and you thought you should tell him in person

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    Re: Ever Give Your Number To Someone And Realize...

    Do you have any evidence he wants to date? Or does he want to hang out? Because you CAN have a gay friend you don't fuck. (Although there was a thread here awhile back that had several people who didn't befriend any [gay] guy they didn't want to fuck - don't think you were in that group, though.) If he calls to hang out, go hang out. If he seems to be pushing things in a romantic or sexual direction, tell him you're not interested in either one.

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    You worry too much.

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    Re: Ever Give Your Number To Someone And Realize...

    Quote Originally Posted by G-Lexington View Post
    Do you have any evidence he wants to date? Or does he want to hang out? Because you CAN have a gay friend you don't fuck. (Although there was a thread here awhile back that had several people who didn't befriend any [gay] guy they didn't want to fuck - don't think you were in that group, though.) If he calls to hang out, go hang out. If he seems to be pushing things in a romantic or sexual direction, tell him you're not interested in either one.

    Lex
    There was a heavy deal of flirtation leading to him asking for the number. This wasn't just a "let's be friends" type deal.

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    Re: Ever Give Your Number To Someone And Realize...

    Quote Originally Posted by NaughtyArousal View Post
    ...that you totally shouldn't have?

    In my case, I was asked for one (which is odd in itself, because it's the second time this year which has to be a record for me). But after quickly giving it up, I realized I wouldn't be interested in dating this guy. I think he's cute, but way too young for me, and I don't see anything possible outside of a casual hookup.

    Meanwhile, he has my number, I told him I would hang out with him. He's also a regular at my job. He was shocked to find out I was gay, but I'm thinking maybe I could've let him think I was straight or just tell him I have a boyfriend. Instead (welp), here goes...
    You can always tell him you reconciled with a boyfriend.
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    Re: Ever Give Your Number To Someone And Realize...

    A few times. But I didn't realize it until we started texting. I've been texting a few guys that seemed nice, but if I didn't text back immediately, they'd freak out!

    Some other guy was texting me and he wanted to talk on the phone and I hate doing it so I told him no and he said I'd die alone so many crazies
    I make my bed with the stars above my head and dream of a place called home.

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    Re: Ever Give Your Number To Someone And Realize...



    Completely unrelated but I was looking for a place to stick this thing......

    You give your numbers out to strangers and "things might start fallin offf....."
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    Re: Ever Give Your Number To Someone And Realize...

    I guess I've been lucky not to give it out to people who might end up abusing it though long ago I think I slipped up once and had to tell that person to stop calling or I would notify the police. It worked. But nowadays people are maybe more crazy so that may not stop the real loonies. But usually you can screen those out before giving out your number. Usually! For me, it;s been mnore that people DON'T call and I have to make the move to call them. Voice is guess is less important than texting to some.

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    Re: Ever Give Your Number To Someone And Realize...

    Quote Originally Posted by NaughtyArousal View Post
    There was a heavy deal of flirtation leading to him asking for the number. This wasn't just a "let's be friends" type deal.
    Ah. Then if/when he calls, just tell him "I've mulled it over, and I've decided I'm not really feeling any sparks from you. If you want to hang out as friends or something, maybe we could do that, but I'm not interested in anything else."

    Lex

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    Re: Ever Give Your Number To Someone And Realize...

    I don't give out my number. Period. I don't care if you're the fucking pope. I did recently sign up for a new number through google voice to sell some stuff on craigslist...voicemail and text that I never really have to check.

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    Re: Ever Give Your Number To Someone And Realize...

    Yes. Mainly because people don't know how to hold a conversation these days... never more evident than last night when I gave my number to a guy I thought was very interesting... only for him to tell me he called me when he was about to go to bed... and so the only answer he could muster was "that's wassup". To. Everything. I. Said.

    I hope he doesn't call back like he suggested he would - i'm letting it go to voicemail. He lets me know that teenage girls texting a mile a minute may not be as bad as an alternative as believed.
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