I'm planning to get a massage from a local therapist that advertises massage for men. He is openly gay in his advertisements and lists erotic massage under his options. I've only had one massage before, so I'm not really sure what to expect. If I ask for an erotic massage is that expected to include a HJ, BJ, or other sexual contact. (That would be great, as I don't really have a regular sexual outlet).
Also what is tipping protol? (I'm in the USA) Are you expected to tip above his posted rates? If there is sexual activity do you add a tip, or is that an expected part of the package?
Thanks for your advice.