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    Self conscious around teenagers... wut?

    This is going to sound really weird but anytime I encounter a teenager or a group of them, I suddenly feel very self conscious. I get nervous and flustered as if they are silently judging me. As a teen I was awkward and shy and felt this very same way when I was around other teens. I find this odd because I am 26 and haven't been a teenager for a while. Shouldn't I feel like, I don't know... the adult? Anyone ever feel like this?


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    Re: Self conscious around teenagers... wut?

    I used to feel the same around straight men of any age especially when they were talking about sports. I think it's a self-esteem issue related to early vulnerability. The antidote is self acceptance and perhaps a wider circle of friends. Getting to know some teens might also help as long as attraction isn't an issue.
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    Re: Self conscious around teenagers... wut?

    yep, being ridiculed in high school by groups of teens, always and still does make me feel uneasy. I try to get out their eye-shot ASAP. so youre not the only one.

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    Re: Self conscious around teenagers... wut?

    I kinda understand. Teens are usually loud, annoying and when they're together is even worse, they have no respect for anybody and would do anything just to be funny. So I understand how you could feel uncomfortable and afraid they might make fun of you.

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    Re: Self conscious around teenagers... wut?

    Well, I don't feel nervous around them unless they are hood-rats. (Some) Teenagers nowadays are so disgusting and disrespectful towards life that they are willing to hurt or even kill people!

    Also, if I come across any teenagers who feel superior and bully others, it's their luck coz I'm gonna fire at them and flay them alive verbally!
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    Re: Self conscious around teenagers... wut?

    I still have some of that problem, and I'm 27. What I do about it is, when my instinct is to take another route to avoid them, I just don't. In their eyes you're an adult, so you have nothing to really be nervous about.
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    Re: Self conscious around teenagers... wut?

    I have to admit I feel quite reassured after reading this. I get the same sort of uneasy, 'fight or flight' anxiety when passing or amongst a group of teenagers that I perceive could be potentially threatening. I have no doubt that a lot of 'adults' have felt the same way at one point or another, and in my case it's clearly a psychological relic from stressful school years as a teenager surrounded by aggression and prejudice.

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    Re: Self conscious around teenagers... wut?

    Right? I thought I was lone, awkward and weird. lol


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    Rule #1: Never let 'em see you sweat.

    Applies to dogs and teens.......

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    Re: Self conscious around teenagers... wut?

    mmmh, I'm 18, I don't really feel any ''strange'' feeling when I'm around people.
    But I've never had problems at school (bullying etc..).

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    Re: Self conscious around teenagers... wut?

    Quote Originally Posted by Raincoat Massacre View Post
    Right? I thought I was lone, awkward and weird. lol
    That's why is so important to be out and to have gay friends. We find out we have things in common!
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    Re: Self conscious around teenagers... wut?

    It still happens to me and I'm 27.

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    Re: Self conscious around teenagers... wut?

    I'm self conscious around teenagers and I'm a high school teacher.

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    I hear you. 28 y/o.

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    Re: Self conscious around teenagers... wut?

    I feel the same way & I just turned 19. I just act superior to any group of teens (especially straight guys), as if I'm too good for them. I'd rather be looked at as an asshole than a loser. I get along better with an older crowd.

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    Re: Self conscious around teenagers... wut?

    Quote Originally Posted by raskdog View Post
    I'm self conscious around teenagers and I'm a high school teacher.
    OMG! How do you live with that?? Ugh I could never.

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    Re: Self conscious around teenagers... wut?

    Quote Originally Posted by Raincoat Massacre View Post
    This is going to sound really weird but anytime I encounter a teenager or a group of them, I suddenly feel very self conscious. I get nervous and flustered as if they are silently judging me. As a teen I was awkward and shy and felt this very same way when I was around other teens. I find this odd because I am 26 and haven't been a teenager for a while. Shouldn't I feel like, I don't know... the adult? Anyone ever feel like this?
    That's probably why you feel that way. I feel a little self-conscious too and it's probably because I remember how hyper-judgmental and insecure almost every teenager was when I was in h.s.

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    Re: Self conscious around teenagers... wut?

    I just realized this too. I try to behave myself or act a certain way when I am around teenagers.

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    I know the feeling. Some of them are extremely loud, obnoxious and disrespectful and I hate to see some act that way in public. I just ignore them though and go on about my business.

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    Re: Self conscious around teenagers... wut?

    I feel like this all the time and I'm only 21. I had a problem with a group of guys in my last year in high school and after graduating never heard from them til roughly 8 months later when they showed up at the same place I was meeting up with someone and they were insulting me for the way I looked and whatnot. It went on for a full month then it was the odd time, in which case they started calling me a fag right to my face. All of that caused me to be scared about going out, finding a job, and dating guys. I even had to avoid walking past certain spots because I know some of their hangout spots. I feel they completely ruined my life, and now when I see a group of guys, I panic. They haven't bugged me in over a year now, but I can't help but think they'll be right there waiting to say something. I've been seeing a therapist for over a year now, and he totally understands what I'm going through. I'm now taking baby steps to try to get my life back to when I didn't have to worry about them.

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    Re: Self conscious around teenagers... wut?

    Quote Originally Posted by jeffhardylover8472 View Post
    I feel like this all the time and I'm only 21. I had a problem with a group of guys in my last year in high school and after graduating never heard from them til roughly 8 months later when they showed up at the same place I was meeting up with someone and they were insulting me for the way I looked and whatnot. It went on for a full month then it was the odd time, in which case they started calling me a fag right to my face. All of that caused me to be scared about going out, finding a job, and dating guys. I even had to avoid walking past certain spots because I know some of their hangout spots. I feel they completely ruined my life, and now when I see a group of guys, I panic. They haven't bugged me in over a year now, but I can't help but think they'll be right there waiting to say something. I've been seeing a therapist for over a year now, and he totally understands what I'm going through. I'm now taking baby steps to try to get my life back to when I didn't have to worry about them.
    Those motherfuckers. I hate bullies, I don't understand why they have to make such big efforts to make other people feel like shit. I hope they get gay children.

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    Re: Self conscious around teenagers... wut?

    ^Because their lives suck and they figure everyone's lives should be terrible. I was bullied all through my years in school. No one ever stood up for me, not even my own brother. I had almost no friends. School was just terrible for me. I was bullied every day. I've been punched in the face twice by the same guy, almost got in fights I never wanted to be in. The teachers always wanted to blame me for what was happening to me. I had to switch classes in the 7th grade because someone just wouldn't leave me alone, and that never helped. It's really sad they got nothing better to do.

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    Re: Self conscious around teenagers... wut?

    Quote Originally Posted by jeffhardylover8472 View Post
    ^Because their lives suck and they figure everyone's lives should be terrible. I was bullied all through my years in school. No one ever stood up for me, not even my own brother. I had almost no friends. School was just terrible for me. I was bullied every day. I've been punched in the face twice by the same guy, almost got in fights I never wanted to be in. The teachers always wanted to blame me for what was happening to me. I had to switch classes in the 7th grade because someone just wouldn't leave me alone, and that never helped. It's really sad they got nothing better to do.
    Not even your brother???

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    ^Not even my older brother. He never stood up for me. I hung around him a lot, but most times he would just join in the name calling. Every time he's around his friends, he turns into a show-off.

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    Re: Self conscious around teenagers... wut?

    Quote Originally Posted by jeffhardylover8472 View Post
    ^Not even my older brother. He never stood up for me. I hung around him a lot, but most times he would just join in the name calling. Every time he's around his friends, he turns into a show-off.
    WTF. What an asshole.

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