Attracted to your first time's "type"

[yourson]

My first (and only) time with a guy was about 6 months ago. I've never considered myself into chubs. Bears yes, but chubs no.

Well, the first guy I was with (only kiss and oral) was a chub and very much on the heavy side. I haven't seen him since and have spoken to him very little (a few issues came up).

Anyways, I've noticed that now I have become more attracted to chubs and much bigger guys. I'll get turned on seeing a bigger guy walk by.

Which leads me to think it's because my first and only experience with another guy was the similar type.

Could there be truth to this theory, that we become attracted to the "type" our first (or one of our first) is even though there wasn't much attraction to that type before?

Any thoughts?

[Seasoned]

I think you'll get more response in the Hot Topics Forum. And, I do think you're on to something at least until you have additional experiences.

[Nishin]

I don't believe your theory is fully valid...
I was attracted to certain types before having sex, and I am still attracted to these types
On the other hand I agree that exposure/experience with other types that were not primarily my "preferences" had me introducing said types in my range of potential partners.

[maxpowr9]

My first time was with an emo kid. I now find them repulsive.

[HoodedRat]

My first time was 12 years old (as was I back then) ... 40 years later I am not attracted to 12 year-olds.

[MoufOfKhaos]

First time was with a Sicilian guy who liked punk music.

So, yes, attracted to Italian men and alternative styled guys - except for new age emos and hipsters. Find those scenes equally annoying.

[mikey3000]

I do think there is something to your theory, at least till you have more experiences.

[JP.]

I agree with you..
we become more open to other types as well whenever our first initiation just right ^^

your perception of could be the other way around
if your first initial cub experience was unpleasant.

[EagerBtm]

My first time was a guy I thought was hot and was gay. He was blonde and had a lean body with some muscle. I still like that now. He had a big cock, which I didn't find out until later. I have no preference for big cocks.

I think my preference in men in life and in my head are quite different. A man's prescence is individual, but my mind seems to scan for guys who are well dressed, good body, something of a 'rough' nature, like they haven't shaved or are wearing sports clothes / business wear.