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    HIV concerns

    Ok.. I had a long post but when I hit submit it didn't go through :-/... Here we go again.

    I've visited the site for some time now and you guys have really good discussions and feedback so here I ago with my situation.

    Two nights ago I had a 3way. I had been talking to the guys for awhile and learned they knew each other and had hooked up on a regular basis before, I invited them over since I wanted to get 3way off my bucketlist. We all stated that we've been tested and disease free. So when they arrive together, we start. After making out. One guy guys down on both (1st concern) gives us head. We then proceed with the foreplay and move on to penetration. I always wanted to watch two guys fuck so I tell the other guy to penetrate the guy who was sucking us. The bttm guy lubes up and all of a sudden they go at it bareback(second concern). After a while I was getting close since I was touching them and stroking myself and they say it's my turn to fuck the bttm. I'm a bit weary but agree. I put on a condom though a bit after I cum. Then te other guy goes back and fucks him and they cum right after.

    I kept the condom and made sure there was no leaks or breakage afterwards.

    So my concerns are if I put myself to much at risk? And if I could have contacted HIV from this?

    I later act more specific questions about their sexual practices... They both said the get tested On a regular basis and again are negative and only bb with each other or their bf's since they are both in open relationships.

    I'm still getting tested soon, I'm just feeling uneasy:-/.

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    Re: HIV concerns

    Ok. Let me understand this. You did not bottom, you only topped. You used a rubber when you did so. Neither one of them came in you or on you.

    The chances that you contracted HIV from this event as we both described it are Zero.

    HIV is transmitted via semen from one man to another through unprotected sexual activity. It requires that fluid entering the body either through unprotected anal sex, or through an open cut or sore.

    If you are having sex - particularly unprotected - with multiple partners it would be wise to get tested. As the saying goes, "When you have sex with someone, you are having sex with every person he (or she) has ever had sex with." Be safe - always use a rubber when you engage in penetrative sexual activity.

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    Yes I did use a condom and only topped... Sorry I couldn't edit the post after posting on my phone. The other thing was the other guy gave both of use oral one after another

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    In this day and age, anyone who is sexually active should get tested periodically as a matter of routine.

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    HIV is probably a low risk in this scenario.

    However, you slept with two guys who are having sex with multiple partners and are having unsafe sex with some of their partners. There's many other things besides HIV. You should plan on having STD testing done for the more common and conventional STDs.
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    Thanks for the replies.

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    Re: HIV concerns

    it sounds pretty safe but then again, i am far from being expert...

    i am like the most paranoid when it comes to STIs or any life threatening disease, really.

    the other night, this guy that ive been seeing and i made out and gave each other hand jobs (were going slow) and it concerned me that he touched his dick and then mine.

    ever since, its kinda been on my mind, sometimes more up front than others. i wrote a thread about this actually. i just need to get over my fears and educate myself better, I suppose... i cant go on living life, being paranoid of every little thing

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    Re: HIV concerns

    Quote Originally Posted by menRsexii View Post
    it sounds pretty safe but then again, i am far from being expert...

    i am like the most paranoid when it comes to STIs or any life threatening disease, really.

    the other night, this guy that ive been seeing and i made out and gave each other hand jobs (were going slow) and it concerned me that he touched his dick and then mine.

    ever since, its kinda been on my mind, sometimes more up front than others. i wrote a thread about this actually. i just need to get over my fears and educate myself better, I suppose... i cant go on living life, being paranoid of every little thing

    Get professional help.
    That is the only way out of this.
    I understand you completely. I have taken an HIV test just yesterday and I have terrible nightmares ever since.
    I am even afraid that the test will go wrong, and the doctor will just give a placebo test...
    But this is paranoia. It is not based on facts, it is based on irrational fears. Do not allow it to consume you.

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    i am seeing a therapist. i just havent really mentioned this to him. i guess im just embarrassed but i should really tell him everything thats on my mind.

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    We all have shortcomings. Admitting them just makes us realize the areas the require development.
    Don't be ashamed, just get it out and make it work

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