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    What to say to guys on Grindr?

    I just tried using Grindr for the first time about a month ago. Haven't spent much time there but I keep getting messages from guys, some of them I'm interested in. I haven't got anything besides "hey" or "hi". What am I supposed to reply back to that? "Hey...wanna fuck?" Seems a bit forward...but...it is Grindr...

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    Re: What to say to guys on Grindr?

    OMG! I now exactly what you mean, man! I hate those one word messages of "hey" or "hi". Be smarter than that. Reply back, "yo, s'up?" There are two words in that sentence!

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    Re: What to say to guys on Grindr?

    Just reply with Hey, how you going? That should be fine

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    Re: What to say to guys on Grindr?

    "hey, how's it going?" seems standard. Though loads of guys will go for "fuck?", "hung?" or just a picture of their gaping black hole. Those messages will NOT receive an answer.
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    Re: What to say to guys on Grindr?

    I usually stick with the Mark Twain quote "Hey yourself, and see how you like it. "

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    Re: What to say to guys on Grindr?

    you can respond by saying something like 'you looking?" they will either elaborate on what they want or not reply.

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    Re: What to say to guys on Grindr?

    Quote Originally Posted by secondmonkey View Post
    I haven't got anything besides "hey" or "hi".
    Quote Originally Posted by HunterM View Post
    I hate those one word messages of "hey" or "hi".
    Quote Originally Posted by treanir View Post
    Though loads of guys will go for "fuck?", "hung?"

    I'm not on Grindr but if anyone ever sent me a message like that, I'd SOOO be tempted to reply:

    "Thankyou for your fleeting and temporary interest in my sexual situation, you may be rest assured that I will inspect your profile with all due diligence and will offer you a reply within the next while, albeit with the caveat that suspicious or creepy activity will most likely garner no response. Have a pleasant day."

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    Re: What to say to guys on Grindr?

    Quote Originally Posted by ChickenGuy View Post
    "Thankyou for your fleeting and temporary interest in my sexual situation, you may be rest assured that I will inspect your profile with all due diligence and will offer you a reply within the next while, albeit with the caveat that suspicious or creepy activity will most likely garner no response. Have a pleasant day."
    Tl;dr. Dtf?

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    Re: What to say to guys on Grindr?

    Wow - is that the only social app for gays?????

    If you can call it social?

    The jerkoffs from gay.com gaydar etc went to grindr I guess!

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    Re: What to say to guys on Grindr?

    ^Wow.

    Life must be kicking some of you in the nuts repeatedly.
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    and Iíll run to behold your sacrifice..."

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    Re: What to say to guys on Grindr?

    I usually say "Hello" back and wait to see where the conversation goes from there.

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    Re: What to say to guys on Grindr?

    Go Wendy Williams on them. Always works!

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    Re: What to say to guys on Grindr?

    Just respond back with your address and a specific time when your bed wont be occupied.....


    OR

    Say hey whats up... then follow up with

    that sure is a huge grin you got going on....

    OR

    I see you like to hike... i did a great trip last weekend down to the ozarks... whats your favorite spot?

    or

    I am typically looking for sex... you down?




    the point is just talk......so many people dont know others or dont get laid for lack of just ebing themselves... people will like you and others will reject you... just go live....


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    Re: What to say to guys on Grindr?

    Wanna fuck?

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    Re: What to say to guys on Grindr?

    I don't quite understand why this such an issue with guys. I feel like greeting someone with "hi" is a fairly well-established social convention. They say "hi", I say "hello, how are you?"/"good morning, handsome, I liked your profile", conversation ensues.

    Having said that, I never start with just "hi". I'm more likely to comment on their pic or something they've written.

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    Re: What to say to guys on Grindr?

    Quote Originally Posted by M10000 View Post
    These are old photos.

    Now, I use Growlr, Grindr, Scruff, Mister, Recon, Jackd, GuySpy, plenty of fish










    Thanks - that's helpful and good to see some the apps are not simply mobile versions of the old web sites.



    Thanks - that's helpful and good to see some the apps are not simply mobile versions of the old web sites. But all those apps and you are still single?
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    Re: What to say to guys on Grindr?

    Quote Originally Posted by NaughtyArousal View Post
    The reason all these apps suck is because of the small talk. No one downloads an app, picks out a nice photo and sets up a profile to get stuck in a perpetual limbo of "Hey sup?"/"Hi there"/""How ya doin'?"/"How was your day?"

    Like get to the motherfucking point already! Jeez! If I wanted unnecessary small talk that goes nowhere, I'd move to a small town and strike conversation with mall employees.
    Yes and that sort of gets to the nub of the issue...if it's all small talk then how can you ever meet your next bf through these? You are better off with other meeting options????

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    Re: What to say to guys on Grindr?

    Quote Originally Posted by treanir View Post
    "hey, how's it going?" seems standard. Though loads of guys will go for "fuck?", "hung?" or just a picture of their gaping black hole. Those messages will NOT receive an answer.
    Quote Originally Posted by ChickenGuy View Post
    I'm not on Grindr but if anyone ever sent me a message like that, I'd SOOO be tempted to reply:

    "Thankyou for your fleeting and temporary interest in my sexual situation, you may be rest assured that I will inspect your profile with all due diligence and will offer you a reply within the next while, albeit with the caveat that suspicious or creepy activity will most likely garner no response. Have a pleasant day."
    I had this theory that it might have a social non-hook-up uses that would perhaps permit my guy and i to socialise overseas. Hah!

    It has been deleted for a while.

    If I got a picture of a giant gaping hole, I doubt I could stop myself from saying "I wonder if a duck's quack would echo in there…" Can't help myself.
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    Re: What to say to guys on Grindr?

    Quote Originally Posted by M10000 View Post
    I realized that I could go to Itunes to get all the apps.

    Here is my revised list of social apps;
    Grindr, Grindr Xtra, Growlr, Scruff, Jackd, Dlisted, POF, Gaydar, Boyahoy, Mister, Guy Spy, Recon (Leather), Gfindr, U4bear, Maleforce, FindFred, Bender
    - there are some that have paid version (like Grindr Xtra)

    I dont know much about these other social apps:

    Gayvox, gay men's social network, Idate, Planet Romeo, Flurv (?), Skout, Gay connections (?), Nearox, GR Mobile (?)


    Have I found a guy? The guy I like is on Facebook
    Facebook has a gay app? :O

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    Re: What to say to guys on Grindr?

    I'm from a small town so all the local gays/closets are on every gay app. I downloaded Growlr and all i get is messages from guys from foreign countries its so nice they are not picky about looks like American guys are. The guys on Growlr crack me up one guy had a list on how he wanted his "Dream Man" to look like "blue eyes, No bears, Blonde hair, Waist size etc.

    I wish i would get attention on Grindr i get no messages on there

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    Re: What to say to guys on Grindr?

    M10000 has been very helpful in this thread. He's pretty much given you all the info you need to know.
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    Re: What to say to guys on Grindr?

    Oh, yeah. For sure. I dated two guys exclusively from Facebook.
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    Re: What to say to guys on Grindr?

    you say
    hi, ehy, hello (dude)

    or

    how you're doing

    or

    what's up

    or



    or

    hi there

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    Re: What to say to guys on Grindr?

    Spam must be bad on these apps...

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    Re: What to say to guys on Grindr?

    No I mean fake people

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    Re: What to say to guys on Grindr?

    I reply with hi and wait for them to initate the convo. When I do message people I tailor it to their info and or pic. So like if the guy has very white teeth I will be like... "Hey. You have really nice teeth. What toothpaste do you use?"

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    Re: What to say to guys on Grindr?

    ^ Oh, same question goes to guys with missing teeth, "What toothpaste do you use?"

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    Re: What to say to guys on Grindr?

    What's wrong with the Graigslist? There is good app for iPad,by the way.. People in here,where I am,probably wouldn't even have ever heard about it,but I have looked much of it,just for fun,to see (supposedly) real pics from real persons,in "men seeking men" sector,with truckload of guys (supposedly) looking for hookups.
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    Re: What to say to guys on Grindr?

    What do you mean by realtime? There is ads,that has been added,like two minutes ago.

    http://vancouver.en.craigslist.ca/m4m/
    Last edited by Chrizze; November 18th, 2012 at 06:41 PM.
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