So, I came out this summer and I'm about to start exploring the gay scene (I'm a virgin). My main two questions are:
Is it super lame to go to a gay bar alone? I went once with a female friend but she's abroad right now...
AND my most important question: The first time I start doing stuff with a guy (and we won't do anal because I want one thing at a time) should I tell him that I have literally 0 experience in pretty much every single department? Or is that a big turn off? Obviously it depends on the guy but I don't want some guy thinking he's getting the usual from someone, even though that someone isn't quite sure yet about what "the usual" is.
PS. I live in London so if there's any difference between gay culture there compared to the US or another country then please tell me.
Help would be appreciated.