One would think at some point you'd get used to it, but it still hurts. Just fed up.
One would think at some point you'd get used to it, but it still hurts. Just fed up.
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Sorry to hear that ignorant people are in your life. Try not to let them get to you man. They are probably insecure in their lives and take it out on you.
keep your head up. don't let haters cloud your judgement.
one thing about the closet/you don't have to hurry/it will be bad tomorrow/so brother, don't you worry![]()
This is a friend, so I thought...so much for that. I just felt I could let my guard down and be myself. Not worry about every little thing I said or did being turned and twisted into something it's not.
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Aww.
I don't think there is anything to say, except that it sucks.
You're a great guy. Remember that.
A friend? Fuck that shit who needs friends like that? Ill answer for you: Nobody.
As cliched as it sounds...
...time to get better friends.
Lex
All of a sudden, out of the blue, he seems to be concerned with what others think. To the point where he's doing these things to overcompensate. I can't figure out where it came from.
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It's hard to listen to one side of story..
but yeah, they're suck big time.
Well, he is not a friend anymore. Send him an e-mail that you want to end the friendship with him, because you cannot be friends with homophobes / bigots, and tell him that you go on with your life without being friends with him.
No idea where his ideas came from, but also no need to bother about it. He is unable to accept you / cope with you, and that means he is not your friend anymore.
Take care.
I am Dutch, so please excuse me for my low level of English.
I don't think you have to send an email.
Just be unavailable.
When I was in University, I had this happen a few times where guys that I really liked just as guy friends must have started worrying about their own sexuality and got really weird, including overcompensating. I just stopped hanging with them by letting them know that I wasn't available because I had other things to do.
Friends love you for all that you are and not in spite of what you are.
Better get used to it because it's not going to change. It's their nature. In the meantime exorcise him from your life and don't look back.
Yep. It's sad, but being Gay (or DIFFERENT) shows you who your real friends are. The one's you loose were never real friends to begin with. The one's you keep are people worthy of knowing.