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    Penis size; How much does it actually matter?

    Well, I was always dissatisfied with my own size, even though I have nothing to complain about. MY penis is a pleasant sight and it has a respectable size, yet I would like it to be bigger.

    Not only me however. All my friends claim that they want a bigger one, even the ones who claim to be satisfied with their size. So why is that? Why do we want something better instead of the thing we already have and wirks for us wonderfully? Is that an effect of the porn industry (huge cocks everywhere in porn)?

    Also, what is you expectation towards your future partner in terms of penis size?
    I feel uncomfortable while I write this but I'd lke my boyfriend or husband to have a big one. I feel dirty after I wrote this down, but this is the truth. Opinions?

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    Re: Penis size; How much does it actually matter?

    doesn't really matter to me. i certainly wouldn't want to be sucking on a dick that's going to unhinge my jaws or have one up my ass that is going to rupture my insides.
    one thing about the closet/you don't have to hurry/it will be bad tomorrow/so brother, don't you worry

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    Re: Penis size; How much does it actually matter?

    I can respect that.

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    Re: Penis size; How much does it actually matter?

    If the guy has a beutiful face,proper facial features,hot or at least nice body...I wouldn't mind if his dick is small.

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    Re: Penis size; How much does it actually matter?

    Quote Originally Posted by Enchanted View Post
    If the guy has a beutiful face,proper facial features,hot or at least nice body...I wouldn't mind if his dick is small.
    How about a guy who's a professor with a great mind?

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    Re: Penis size; How much does it actually matter?

    it's certainly not a deal breaker for me, even as a bottom... the best top I've ever been with was actually only 4", and I've been with 7-8" guys who were terrible in bed.

    my longest relationship ever was actually with a guy who was only 3-4", but we didn't have anal sex.

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    Quote Originally Posted by unloadonme View Post
    How about a guy who's a professor with a great mind?
    Shut up.This is brining me painful memories...

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    Re: Penis size; How much does it actually matter?

    Big dicks are nice to look at, but that's about it for me. Yes, my ex was very large and it was uncomfrotable giving head and I would NOT take that monster up my butt, so I do prefer very average in size.
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    Re: Penis size; How much does it actually matter?

    Quote Originally Posted by loki81 View Post
    it's certainly not a deal breaker for me, even as a bottom... the best top I've ever been with was actually only 4", and I've been with 7-8" guys who were terrible in bed.

    my longest relationship ever was actually with a guy who was only 3-4", but we didn't have anal sex.
    3 to 4 inches??? can he even get it in there with that much to begin with?
    one thing about the closet/you don't have to hurry/it will be bad tomorrow/so brother, don't you worry

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    Re: Penis size; How much does it actually matter?

    Quote Originally Posted by Enchanted View Post
    If the guy has a beutiful face,proper facial features,hot or at least nice body...I wouldn't mind if his dick is small.
    I'd rather have a beautiful penis than a big ugly penis.
    Women want bigger breasts and men want bigger penises. That's how it will always be.

    I would rather have a average penis than a micro penis. It must be hard for a man with an almost not there penis thAt causes problems for him

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    I look at penis size like I look at his income: all things being equal, the bigger the better.

    People tend to read that wrong, though. They think that makes me a size queen, or a gold digger. Neither, actually. That "all things being equal" part is essential. I'm not going to ditch a great guy to get with some random guy with a larger dick or salary than his. Just that if I had power over time and space, and I could make his dick (or salary) larger without changing anything else, I would. But those are both low-priority things in the grand scheme. I'd rather have a small-dicked, low-salaried guy with a great sense of humor that I clicked with than a well-hung, independently wealthy dickweed.

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    Re: Penis size; How much does it actually matter?

    Quote Originally Posted by refujiunderground View Post
    3 to 4 inches??? can he even get it in there with that much to begin with?
    we probably could have figured something out, but that guy had almost no sex drive... wasn't interested in topping me, and wasn't even interested in me topping him (I'm 6" even)

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    Re: Penis size; How much does it actually matter?

    It's all internet/porn hype and in reality the average size dick you can hope for is 6 inches. PERIOD. Anyone who claims they have been with lot of guys over 8 inches is a LIAR. And at the end of the day the size is unimportant because there are so many other things needed for good sex let alone an ltr. Dick size just doesn't add up.
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    Re: Penis size; How much does it actually matter?

    I really like some of the answers here

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    Re: Penis size; How much does it actually matter?

    This may be a litle bit off subject but I remember reading in one of the Health threads that after an operation or major trauma, the size of your penis looks and feels smaller than it was before. Anyone remember anything like that? I have tried the search with negative results.

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    Re: Penis size; How much does it actually matter?

    Harke's not here, so I'll just speak for him. "There are two types of gay men - size queens and liars."

    Lex

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    Re: Penis size; How much does it actually matter?

    Quote Originally Posted by Enchanted View Post
    Shut up.This is brining me painful memories...
    Sorry to rub salt in the wound.

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    Re: Penis size; How much does it actually matter?

    Quote Originally Posted by Enchanted View Post
    If the guy has a beutiful face,proper facial features,hot or at least nice body...I wouldn't mind if his dick is small.
    Disagree. Looks fade - you better have a decent cock (20cm + and thick) to keep my interest (as I expect you to return the favour - I offer the same). Nothing wrong in that...

    Some guys do not mind - I prefer them well bred.

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    I prefer guys to dicks

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    Re: Penis size; How much does it actually matter?

    The size matters zilch... Knowing how to you use it for pleasure matters the most.
    Cumming from someone that knows.

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    Re: Penis size; How much does it actually matter?

    It matters if it's too big to fit anywhere...

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    Re: Penis size; How much does it actually matter?

    Since Im a top so whoever inside me must around 6 / less inches! No exception
    and Im a terrible bottom too so..

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    Re: Penis size; How much does it actually matter?

    Quote Originally Posted by geloge View Post
    I prefer guys to dicks
    A lot of guys ARE dicks!
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    Re: Penis size; How much does it actually matter?

    Quote Originally Posted by Seghers View Post
    It matters if it's too big to fit anywhere...
    Maybe for you.

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    Re: Penis size; How much does it actually matter?

    Quote Originally Posted by G-Lexington View Post
    I look at penis size like I look at his income: all things being equal, the bigger the better.

    People tend to read that wrong, though. They think that makes me a size queen, or a gold digger. Neither, actually. That "all things being equal" part is essential. I'm not going to ditch a great guy to get with some random guy with a larger dick or salary than his. Just that if I had power over time and space, and I could make his dick (or salary) larger without changing anything else, I would. But those are both low-priority things in the grand scheme. I'd rather have a small-dicked, low-salaried guy with a great sense of humor that I clicked with than a well-hung, independently wealthy dickweed. Lex
    I don't care about size or money. As long as someone can support themselves, that's money enough. If I had enough money to support them too, I wouldn't even care about that. However, I don't, so I have to be concerned with that.

    Quote Originally Posted by cgymike View Post
    It's all internet/porn hype and in reality the average size dick you can hope for is 6 inches. PERIOD. Anyone who claims they have been with lot of guys over 8 inches is a LIAR. And at the end of the day the size is unimportant because there are so many other things needed for good sex let alone an ltr. Dick size just doesn't add up.
    Some doctors say 6" is average, some say more, some say less. I personally don't know. I do know that I wish I were 6"...

    Quote Originally Posted by Coward92 View Post
    Well, I was always dissatisfied with my own size, even though I have nothing to complain about. MY penis is a pleasant sight and it has a respectable size, yet I would like it to be bigger.

    Not only me however. All my friends claim that they want a bigger one, even the ones who claim to be satisfied with their size. So why is that? Why do we want something better instead of the thing we already have and wirks for us wonderfully? Is that an effect of the porn industry (huge cocks everywhere in porn)?

    Also, what is you expectation towards your future partner in terms of penis size?
    I feel uncomfortable while I write this but I'd lke my boyfriend or husband to have a big one. I feel dirty after I wrote this down, but this is the truth. Opinions?
    I've always been unhappy with my size as well. I do think my life would have been different were I bigger, and had I not endured all the ridicule I got over it in school. I never got over that, and I still feel inferior because of my size. I'd like any boyfriends to have one no bigger than mine. That way I wouldn't feel so down on myself about it. Five inches just isn't anything to feel good about, much less brag about...

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    Re: Penis size; How much does it actually matter?

    One friend on here once taught me that, "big dicks are for big assholes." I just got that.
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    Re: Penis size; How much does it actually matter?

    Quote Originally Posted by loki81 View Post
    we probably could have figured something out, but that guy had almost no sex drive... wasn't interested in topping me, and wasn't even interested in me topping him (I'm 6" even)
    well, judging from his equipment, he's a bottom by default.

    and he doesn't have the dick to have a sex drive with.
    one thing about the closet/you don't have to hurry/it will be bad tomorrow/so brother, don't you worry

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    I'd be lying if I said it didn't. I have no hardcore preference concerning length, but I prefer them to be thick. I love a dick with nice girth.


    Quote Originally Posted by loki81 View Post
    (I'm 6" even)

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    Quote Originally Posted by refujiunderground View Post
    well, judging from his equipment, he's a bottom by default.
    there are things you can do even without a big dick, though (fingering, toys, rimming, etc... anything ass-related was just off the table in that relationship. wasn't the end of the world -- though his lack of interest in anything sex/intimacy-related at all ended up being a deal breaker)

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    Re: Penis size; How much does it actually matter?

    It doesn't matter to me as long as it doesn't matter to him. The moment it becomes an issue (he's embarrassed, he's fixated on it, or unable to perform, etc) is when we'll have to address it.

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    Re: Penis size; How much does it actually matter?

    I don't think dick sizes actually matter to me. The personality and face matters to me more than his body parts.

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    Re: Penis size; How much does it actually matter?

    I see.
    So 6.5" inches is satisfactory, too small or too big?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Coward92 View Post
    I see.
    So 6.5" inches is satisfactory, too small or too big?
    Using the term "satisfactory" buys into an entire mindset of sex a performance.

    Rethink your assumptions.

    Don't be dragged through the folly of reducing a man to his physicality. That's just setting yourself up to not be satisfied.

    By debating it here, you just stand to reinforce a form of objectifying in the gay population that is a detriment to gay men as a group.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Hard-up1 View Post
    Using the term "satisfactory" buys into an entire mindset of sex a performance.

    Rethink your assumptions.

    Don't be dragged through the folly of reducing a man to his physicality. That's just setting yourself up to not be satisfied.

    By debating it here, you just stand to reinforce a form of objectifying in the gay population that is a detriment to gay men as a group.
    Right. So I should be fine with myself and just don't care about those who don't like me... It is obvious but hard to accomplish.

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    Self-esteem can be a lifelong pursuit to achieve.

    Don't start off young and thinking you are inadequate because of your penis size.

    MOST men will not care, and a hard one is what is important to most, and if you are excited to be with him, that will take care of itself, barring illness.

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    It really doesn't bother me at all. In fact, the only bad sex I've ever had is with guys who were too hung up on their size insecurities to enjoy themselves.

    I don't know about other guys, but to me a smaller dick can feel just as good as a big one.

    I guess unless you're so loose it's like throwing a sausage down a hallway...

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    Re: Penis size; How much does it actually matter?

    Quote Originally Posted by Dylannz View Post
    I guess unless you're so loose it's like throwing a sausage down a hallway...

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    Re: Penis size; How much does it actually matter?

    i'm a top , and i like guys with smaller dicks.

    hot, cute jock with a small cock is a turn on for me.

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    As long as the dick is not a person - and the person has a dick, I'm happy with whatever size, though I'd be lying if I said bigger is not better

    Quote Originally Posted by Anders123 View Post
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    Quote Originally Posted by freefall View Post
    This is a creepily quirky analogy *shudders*
    Ah, but it is no analogy; it's genuine footage of Ram and LilBit's sextape.

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    ^ no centipedes, no yeasts proof rejected.
    come now, my child. if we were planning to harm you, do you think
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    Re: Penis size; How much does it actually matter?

    I've beat myself up plenty of times over my penis (or lack of). Balls, too. Very lacking in that area, and I'm certain guys think twice before having sex with me a second time because of it.

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    If I were with someone who cared about the size of his dick, he'd better be mighty impressed with himself.
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    Quote Originally Posted by NaughtyArousal View Post
    I've beat myself up plenty of times over my penis (or lack of). Balls, too. Very lacking in that area, and I'm certain guys think twice before having sex with me a second time because of it.
    The real question is, do they go for round two?

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    ^Usually not.

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    Re: Penis size; How much does it actually matter?

    I want it to be average or slightly over.

    Really small or really big ruins it for me. Sorry but that's just the way it is. Grid is more important than length.

    Nothing wrong with having a preference.

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    Quote Originally Posted by NaughtyArousal View Post
    ^Usually not.
    Oh, damn...well if you beat it up the right way--they'll be back.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Coward92 View Post
    Well, I was always dissatisfied with my own size, even though I have nothing to complain about. MY penis is a pleasant sight and it has a respectable size, yet I would like it to be bigger.

    Not only me however. All my friends claim that they want a bigger one, even the ones who claim to be satisfied with their size. So why is that? Why do we want something better instead of the thing we already have and wirks for us wonderfully? Is that an effect of the porn industry (huge cocks everywhere in porn)?

    Also, what is you expectation towards your future partner in terms of penis size?
    I feel uncomfortable while I write this but I'd lke my boyfriend or husband to have a big one. I feel dirty after I wrote this down, but this is the truth. Opinions?
    Yes, porn industry's fault.
    Fitness and health is very important. Penis size not important.


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    Quote Originally Posted by unloadonme View Post
    How about a guy who's a professor with a great mind?
    Do you want to live with Stephan Hawkins?


    NEVER LISTEN TO A ONE SIDED STORY AND JUDGE.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Telstra View Post
    Do you want to live with Stephan Hawkins?
    Let's not go there...
    Hawking is married and has 3 children...

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