Having Good Sex

[collegeboi594]

So, I had bottomed the other day and it was a great experience. It was probably my 3rd or 4th time doing it and the first couple of times were very painful because the guy was huge and did not provide any anal foreplay. This guy was different and a lot smaller. It felt great and I was actually able to cum afterwards, which normally doesn't happen for me.

But I have two questions that I need advice with.

1. When I was getting fucked, I felt like I was going to shit myself and I would make him stop because I didnt want to crap on his dick. Is that an odd sensation and was I wrong to stop him? Would I have cum if I would have let him keep going?
2. I also wondered if it was weird that I can't finger my own ass? No matter how hard I try, it never feels right if I do it myself.

[Rolyo85]

Not sure if this is the right section, but here's my 2 cents:

1. This feeling is normal for the first few times. When a dick is moving inside you, it does feel like you're shitting, but unless you have some stomach issues at the moment, it's an illusion. And you will quickly learn to feel the difference.
2. It's not weird. Keep trying. Everyone is different in what works on them. Some people can tickle themselves, others can't, even if they're ticklish. Maybe you'll learn to hit the right spots on your own, or maybe you won't. Either way there's nothing wrong with it. That's what dildos are for anyway

[Benjoe]

When i was 17 I had sex with a 38 year old woman from the gym I went to, she drove us out to a field (as she was married with kids and i lived with my parents we had nowhere else to go) and anyway we had anal... when I pulled out she sprayed shit all over me, was fucking horrific.

[Kien]

So, I had bottomed the other day and it was a great experience. It was probably my 3rd or 4th time doing it and the first couple of times were very painful because the guy was huge and did not provide any anal foreplay. This guy was different and a lot smaller. It felt great and I was actually able to cum afterwards, which normally doesn't happen for me.

But I have two questions that I need advice with.

1. When I was getting fucked, I felt like I was going to shit myself and I would make him stop because I didnt want to crap on his dick. Is that an odd sensation and was I wrong to stop him? Would I have cum if I would have let him keep going?
2. I also wondered if it was weird that I can't finger my own ass? No matter how hard I try, it never feels right if I do it myself.

I never ever finger my own ass. Never have. Just the thought of doing it makes me cringe. Don't know why though.

[glasvegas]

I never ever finger my own ass. Never have. Just the thought of doing it makes me cringe. Don't know why though.

Same here. Not my thing. And it's time consuming and messy.

[Just_Believe18]

When i was 17 I had sex with a 38 year old woman from the gym I went to, she drove us out to a field (as she was married with kids and i lived with my parents we had nowhere else to go) and anyway we had anal... when I pulled out she sprayed shit all over me, was fucking horrific.

lol! Wow!

[vacancy3]

I never ever finger my own ass. Never have. Just the thought of doing it makes me cringe. Don't know why though.

practice in the shower

[bi-4u2]

my boyfriend bought me a but plug to open my self up, the plug is nowhere near as big as my bf's dick but wile we wore in the shower he stuck it in me. Anal with my bf hasn't been all that enjoyable, i usually feel like i'm being torn apart. After a wile he was thrusting the plug in and out me like crazy, i started losing feeling in my legs and just begged for it, when i came it was one the best orgasms of my life.

I defiantly depends on the dick man although your top might not get it.

[collegeboi594]

Why the shower? Does that help relax me or is that just for the mess factor?

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practice in the shower

Does that help with mess or is it more relaxing?

[mbamike]

I always douch before hooking up with a guy. Some say this is not necessary. I apparently don't eat enough fiber to go without douching.

I wore a butt plug a little each day until I could wear it comfortably for about two hours. This trained my ass to accept a cock and diminished that need to shit feeling. I love being a bottom!!!

[Corny]

I have met quite some bottoms that do not like toys or fingers up their butt. Only cocks. I wasn't complaining