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    Cannot get over it! Help!

    So the other day when I was just randomly thinking about stuff I remembered when I was about 11 or 12 I fooled around with my god brother who was about 17 and I feel extremely guilty about it. Like that somehow because of it all I am attracted to men no if, and's, or but's. However, ever since I can remember I knew there was something different about me and had several crushes on boys before all that. I am driving myself crazy because I can't stop obsessing over it. Agh! Help!
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    Re: Cannot get over it! Help!

    ******Forgot to add this*********
    Before all that me and a neighbor boy who was about a year or two older than me would hold hands, kiss, and play as if we were boyfriend and girlfriend(obviously not knowing that same sex couples are okay). I just refuse to believe that the dumb things I did as a child shaped who I am today. I am prone to over analyze and obsess and this is all driving me nuts. It feels good writing this all down... >.>

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    ******Forgot to add this*********
    Before all that me and a neighbor boy who was about a year or two older than me would hold hands, kiss, and play as if we were boyfriend and girlfriend(obviously not knowing that same sex couples are okay). I just refuse to believe that the dumb things I did as a child shaped who I am today. I am prone to over analyze and obsess and this is all driving me nuts. It feels good writing this all down... >.>

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    Re: Cannot get over it! Help!

    If all young boys who had crushes on other boys ended up gay or all young boys who experimented with other boys grew up to be gay, then straight men would be an endangered species.

    For the most part, these are phases that most young men- gay or straight- go through. The difference is that for gay men, it's not "just a phase".

    If you're really bothered by these memories and how you feel about them, seek out a therapist who works with gay men and lesbians to help you work through the issue.
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    Def see a therapist and not one that will try to convince you you can be straight. You are who you are. You can't change the fact your gay. You can change how you feel about yourself and be happy with who you are.

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    Re: Cannot get over it! Help!

    All of that is perfectly Natural! Most young guys 'experiment'/'play' with their brothers, cousins, friends, just trying to figure out what it means to be Male, and where they 'fit' into the world around them. It's nothing to be ashamed about. Guys will by Guys with other Guys. It's a matter of mutual 'discovery', and happens more often than most will admit.

    That said, our sexual orientation is not defined by our actions, whatever those might be, but rather by our innate desires and attractions. For instance, I've 'played' with both Guys and Girls, quite extensively, all the time knowing that I was more attracted to Guys. It only took me 30yr. to finally admit that, mainly to myself.

    You are not 'strange'. You are not 'weird'. You're simply who/what you are. And, I don't think any of us have a 'choice' in that matter.

    Relax! Be YOU! Let others be/become themselves. Listen to your HEART! It will seldom lead you wrong!

    And, in all cases ... no matter what ...

    Keep smilin'!!
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    Re: Cannot get over it! Help!

    theres nothing different about you. seems this is causing you a lot of grief that is imagined.
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