I am near to bouncing off walls with panic. I thought I was doing the right thing and was protecting myslef. Myself and a guy met off the internet for mutual masturbation, kissing and oral sex (I only performed on him). For oral he put a condom and and the turned it around...so now I am concerned I could have been exposed to hiv or other stds through pre-cum. Then I read that syphilis is very common in the gay community and it can be passed on by kissing (I thought this was safe)!