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    There once was an ice skater named Scealle...
    who got frost bite on the end of his peel...
    He put on some heat, and jumped to his feet,
    and his head started to reel.
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    Re: just venting, airing out, talking shit, personal beefs, problems, anger management, and etc thread

    I am really tempted to start my own thread on this but are gay men the most flakey men on the planet?

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    Nothing to vent about, for once i just had the perfect day.

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    Quote Originally Posted by BENDERBOY View Post
    …the perfect day.
    It's a glorious day here. Prince Harry is here but I am choosing to ignore his presence.

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    Forsooth, this day could not be more perfect.

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    Quote Originally Posted by pat grimshaw View Post
    It's a glorious day here. Prince Harry is here but I am choosing to ignore his presence.
    I'm indifferent to him, he looks like he'd be lazy in bed.

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    Quote Originally Posted by maxpowr9 View Post
    I am really tempted to start my own thread on this but are gay men the most flakey men on the planet?
    Oh my darling, oh my dear... the answer you seek is in the mirror.
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    Re: just venting, airing out, talking shit, personal beefs, problems, anger management, and etc thread

    Quote Originally Posted by borg69unimatrix View Post
    Oh my darling, oh my dear... the answer you seek is in the mirror.
    I'm an accountant and an auditor at that. I am in one of the most anti-flakey occupations ever. Fuck, I am stressed out that I found some $176k in unappropriated funds hidden in a contra-account and don't know WTF to do with them as there is no corresponding asset(s). There was no engineering team in today and making calls/emails/texts to the head was futile. Already reported him to HR for failure to respond. The fact that I can "tag" emails and he clearly read the one I sent and did not respond shows failure on his part. That's the downside to management: just because you are not at work, doesn't mean you are not "working". The downside to being salaried.

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    Re: just venting, airing out, talking shit, personal beefs, problems, anger management, and etc thread

    Just that I've been damn horny this weekend, and don't have anybody to horny with right now. First world problems, as usual.

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    Quote Originally Posted by G-Lexington View Post
    Just that I've been damn horny this weekend, and don't have anybody to horny with right now. First world problems, as usual.

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    Re: just venting, airing out, talking shit, personal beefs, problems, anger management, and etc thread

    Quote Originally Posted by G-Lexington View Post
    Just that I've been damn horny this weekend, and don't have anybody to horny with right now. First world problems, as usual.

    Lex
    Quote Originally Posted by borg69unimatrix View Post
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    Problem solved.


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    0 for 3, but the idea's still the same.

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    Re: just venting, airing out, talking shit, personal beefs, problems, anger management, and etc thread

    I can't even click on that "man cut his balls off" thread. The title alone gives me palpable pain.

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    Re: just venting, airing out, talking shit, personal beefs, problems, anger management, and etc thread

    At one point, these were the three most-recently-added-to threads in Hot Topics.

    I left my apartment door open last night
    Man cuts his own balls off!
    This seems a bit extreme

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    Quote Originally Posted by G-Lexington View Post
    At one point, these were the three most-recently-added-to threads in Hot Topics.

    I left my apartment door open last night
    Man cuts his own balls off!
    This seems a bit extreme

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    I actually toyed with the idea of making a thread titled "What threads currently up in Hot Topics could be a gay porn title?"

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    Quote Originally Posted by xbuzzerx View Post
    I actually toyed with the idea of making a thread titled "What threads currently up in Hot Topics could be a gay porn title?"
    I will now forever read the thread titles in Hot Topics with a pornographic connotation. Thanks, Shark-san.

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    Quote Originally Posted by G-Lexington View Post
    At one point, these were the three most-recently-added-to threads in Hot Topics.

    I left my apartment door open last night
    Man cuts his own balls off!
    This seems a bit extreme

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    99.7% of the time, I honestly don't give a good goddamn about professional sports of any kind. I've seen an endless number of examples of corruption and worse (Penn State, steroids in baseball, Lance Armstrong, etc.) that, it's just something I don't at all care for.

    But, I hope beyond hope that Dallas-Fort Worth DOES NOT get another super bowl.

    Major seating issues. Courtesy of Wikipedia...

    Cowboys Stadium installed 15,000 temporary seats and utilized its standing room to increase its capacity to over 105,000 fans. If the stadium had been filled to capacity (its record for an NFL game is 105,121 spectators), it would have set a record for Super Bowl attendance, breaking the previous record of 103,985 fans for Super Bowl XIV in the Rose Bowl; however the actual attendance of 103,219 fell 766 fans short. League officials had indicated that they would also count spectators watching the game on large television screens from outside the stadium in the tally, which generally is not allowed in official attendance counts.

    Due to numerous delays, 1,250 temporary seats weren't ready in time for the game. According to a police officer standing near the affected area, the seats hadn't been installed in time for the fire marshal to inspect them. The NFL scrambled almost until kickoff to find replacement seats. Eventually, 850 fans in four sections were relocated, while 400 fans in two sections were given a refund equivalent to three times the face value of their ticket. The latter set of fans were later offered the chance to watch the game on monitors in the North Field Club behind the Steelers bench, but would still get the triple refund. Some of these fans were still upset, since they had spent thousands on airfare and hotels. NFL spokesman Brian McCarthy said that when the league decided to relocate the 850 fans, it lost any shot of setting the attendance record.

    The NFL subsequently offered affected fans a ticket to the next Super Bowl in addition to the refund. It also offered fans the option of a ticket to any future Super Bowl, along with round-trip airfare and hotel accommodations. However, this wasn't enough to mollify several fans, who on February 9 filed a $5 million class-action lawsuit against the NFL, the (Dallas) Cowboys (whose stadium hosted) and (Cowboys team owner Jerry) Jones. In addition to Steelers and Packers fans left without seats, the suit includes Cowboys fans who paid $100,000 for personal seat licenses, only to have to watch the Super Bowl in metal folding chairs without a view of the stadium's giant video replay board. The NFL at first offered $2,400 to fans who did not receive a replacement seat, but later offered tickets to a future Super Bowl with airfare and hotels included.
    And, for those who aren't familiar - the seat licenses? Yes, you have to pay for the privilege of being able to buy a ticket.

    Plus, all those people who had to stand outside, had to stand outside in bad weather. That night, the North Texas region was dealing the leftovers and after effects of a major blizzard that hit the week that led up to that Sunday. That blizzard brought the entire region to its knees, and made travel on the major freeways and roads here beyond nightmarish, as we aren't used to cold, hella icy weather like folks are up north. So you'd expect to see sand trucks out on the roads, salting down the roads, so that people could get to and from school and work, right?

    Wrong. The sand trucks were mostly confined to between Dallas and Fort Worth, in the city's center - where DFW Airport and the Cowboys' stadium was, where the game was to be held. They made sure THOSE roads were salted down to ensure safe travel for Pittsburgh and Green Bay, and all their respective entourages.

    But salting down those roads left no other sand trucks to salt down the other major roads and freeways in Dallas and Tarrant Counties, so that common people could get to work and take their kids to and from school, etc.

    That super bowl was just a disaster, and I truly hope we don't have another one.


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    Words, words, words.

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    So a few days ago, I was at a supermarket, wandering around when I saw this hot and cute guy. He also seems awfully young...like 17 or 19 years old.


    I stare at him...while he was looking at grocery items from the shelf. Then he caught me staring at him. He stare back at me.


    Then he went back to checking items from the shelf. All this while, I was staring at him.


    I really want to get to know him.


    Then he walk away, before returing back to the same shelf...looking at the items on the shelf and giving me a quick glance....

    And he left.

    What was that supposed to mean? Does he want to get to know me too?


    I don't know and I will never know the answer....because I left the supermarket without even getting to know him.


    And now, I'm kicking myself all over.....why didn't I go and approach him? Why didn't I try to make the first move? I didn't seize the opportunity....

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    ^^^ If you creeper him out enough he might have a restraining order. Next time more talking and less stalking.
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    Quote Originally Posted by borg69unimatrix View Post
    ^^^ If you creeper him out enough he might have a restraining order. Next time more talking and less stalking.


    I don't think I will ever have a chance to see him again.


    Thanks, but I was thinking.....in future, if I ever go out, bring a small notebook and a pen.


    If I ever sees a hot guy, write down "Hi, I think you're hot...can I get to know you?? This is my number " on the paper and pass it to him.

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    ... OR you could just say it to him ???

    Passing a note is... cute... but maybe a little bit Jr. High?

    Who knows... he might be charmed by the gesture. I'm trying to think how I'd feel in his place...

    The only time I can think of where I was in a similar situation was in a gay bar. I was at the urinal taking a leak, and some guy who liked me followed me in there and started talking to me, and handed me his number in my mid-piss.

    ... needless to say I wasn't amused, and never called him.
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    There's this guy that I am supposed going on a date with on friday. He is a sweet guy and decent looking [already sucked him off] but his voice is just so grating [very thick Italian accent] that I just cannot get past that.

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    Re: just venting, airing out, talking shit, personal beefs, problems, anger management, and etc thread

    Well, I'm kinda not exactly thrilled with the guy who's doing construction work on my studio, but not for the reason you think.

    He's a friend of my boss who lives in my apartment complex. He's getting married on the 26th, and the bachelor and bachelorette parties were supposed to be on the 19th. In addition to being my boss's housekeeper, I'm also his and his girlfriend's personal assistant, and as such was actually going to required to go to one of the parties. And honestly, I was looking forward to them - living a little, getting out of my humdrum routine, and perhaps even getting into a little mischief.

    [ insert record scratch ]

    Unfortunately, there will be no mischief. Because there will be no parties. Turns out, the groom wrote a hot check, and after my boss did some investigating on his own, turns out the hot check in question also has a warrant attached to it. Since my boss is this guy's best man, he paid the groom's hot check and warrant - I think about $470-some-odd bucks all totaled.

    So that right there was the groom's bachelor party, the bride's bachelorette party, and their wedding present from my boss and his gf. You get to keep your ass out of jail, and get to go forward with the wedding.

    My boss likes it, because he actually came out about $150 cheaper by doing this, and I like it, because the guy gets to stay out of jail and build my damn studio. Although I would have like to have gone to the parties.


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    ^^^ You Texans and your shotgun weddings.
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    ^ We invented the shotgun wedding!


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    So yesterday, October 11th was my birthday. I came back home very late....and as usual, my mother was waiting for me.

    She gave me some money and bought a small cake for me.


    I was really hoping she will forget about my birthday. But she always remember every year without fail.


    I don't know ....I just feel so bad and guilty.


    I feel like telling her, "It's okay if you forget about my birthday. I won't blame you. I don't need you to give me money or buy a cake for me every year..."

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    Quote Originally Posted by travis82 View Post
    So yesterday, October 11th was my birthday. I came back home very late....and as usual, my mother was waiting for me.

    She gave me some money and bought a small cake for me.


    I was really hoping she will forget about my birthday. But she always remember every year without fail.


    I don't know ....I just feel so bad and guilty.


    I feel like telling her, "It's okay if you forget about my birthday. I won't blame you. I don't need you to give me money or buy a cake for me every year..."
    Thinking too much can be injurious to ones health.

    In your place I would have thanked your mother for her kindness.

    Be grateful for your mother's thoughtful act of love remembering your birthday.

    Your posts indicate a heightened level of negativity that might suggest you are severely depressed....perhaps talking over your issues with a mature, older friend, or acquaintance might assist you better cope with your life by assuming a much more optimistic approach to living your life.

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    Quote Originally Posted by borg69unimatrix View Post
    ... OR you could just say it to him ???

    Passing a note is... cute... but maybe a little bit Jr. High?

    Who knows... he might be charmed by the gesture. I'm trying to think how I'd feel in his place...

    The only time I can think of where I was in a similar situation was in a gay bar. I was at the urinal taking a leak, and some guy who liked me followed me in there and started talking to me, and handed me his number in my mid-piss.

    ... needless to say I wasn't amused, and never called him.


    Okay.....it's just that sometimes, I feel more better expressing myself through writing than talking.

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    Quote Originally Posted by kallipolis View Post
    Thinking too much can be injurious to ones health.

    In your place I would have thanked your mother for her kindness.

    Be grateful for your mother's thoughtful act of love remembering your birthday.

    Your posts indicate a heightened level of negativity that might suggest you are severely depressed....perhaps talking over your issues with a mature, older friend, or acquaintance might assist you better cope with your life by assuming a much more optimistic approach to living your life.



    Thank you for your advices.....

    I do feel depressed and sad most of the times.....


    I find it quite hard for me to be overly excited, extremely happy, laughing and joking around every day.


    Maybe it's my personality. A lot of people say that I'm shy and quiet. I get that a lot.

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    Confidence is HOT... even if you have to fake it sometimes.

    Believe me, by being meek about it could really be a turn off to him. It just comes across as wishy washy, and like you're only half interested. Someday you're going to ask a boss for a raise... are you going to walk in his office with your head held high with determination, or are you going to slip a note under his door and hope he takes you seriously???
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    Quote Originally Posted by travis82 View Post
    Thank you for your advices.....

    I do feel depressed and sad most of the times.....


    I find it quite hard for me to be overly excited, extremely happy, laughing and joking around every day.


    Maybe it's my personality. A lot of people say that I'm shy and quiet. I get that a lot.
    I'm also shy, and reserved but manage to avoid being depressed....by adopting a much more positive response to my daily challenges.

    How we respond to those issues that trouble us determines our ability to achieve results that raise our self esteem, and create a much more fulfilling life....

    Take another look at your diet, ensure that you are eating a variety of vegetables daily, also consume seasonal fruits daily....avoid convenience foods....for a poor diet often contributes to a feeling of worthlessness for lack of good nutrition.

    Remain positive, and patient...

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    If you guys ever go on a date with someone, don't tell your date that you can't make it because you're spending the night at your sisters 40 minutes before the date....
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    I wish I worked with more responsible people. People need to realize that you're going to miss out of things because of work and people can't keep changing their schedule on the spot for you.

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    i hate when people try to push their stresses, struggles and miseries on to you when they're down BUT yet when they see you struggling, stressed out, and miserable for years on end, they don't even give a fuck. they're like "as long as you're able to do whatever we want you to do. fuck your pain or whatever you're going through". some nerve. i'm trying to deal with my own issues and you know this. the fuck are you tossing your shit to me for? and it's not like you weren't dealing with that shit before i was born too. that's not fair to me. i'm supposed to save myself and you @ the same time. yeah, we family BUT @ the same time, how much of an effort have you made to get yourself out this situation instead of prolonging it for whatever reason. you keep saying that you're afraid and you don't know what to do BUT you had like what 30 years to figure it out by now.
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    ^That was me in my early 20s. People would come to me all the time when they were stressed out and abuse me as therapy but would never return the favor when I had issued needing discussion. I was seen as a refuge for them because on the surface, it seemed like I had my shit together. The petty bullshit I just let it go but on the more "serious" stuff, I can't deal with that anymore from others. I tell them to go take a prozac or xanex now.

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    Quote Originally Posted by maxpowr9 View Post
    ^That was me in my early 20s. People would come to me all the time when they were stressed out and abuse me as therapy but would never return the favor when I had issued needing discussion. I was seen as a refuge for them because on the surface, it seemed like I had my shit together. The petty bullshit I just let it go but on the more "serious" stuff, I can't deal with that anymore from others. I tell them to go take a prozac or xanex now.
    they don't realize how draining that shit is for real. don't know what they're expecting to happen. talking about it is one thing. actually making a change is another.
    one thing about the closet/you don't have to hurry/it will be bad tomorrow/so brother, don't you worry

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    One thing I've learned is that these avenues tend to be one-way. If you've been somebody's sounding board and agony aunt and shoulder-to-cry-on for years, when you suddenly need one, do NOT go to them. The few times I've tried, I've gotten responses that mainly boil down to "No, YOU're the strong one in this relationship - YOU're supposed to help ME."

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    ^I used to do that too. Learned that pretty quickly. I have two people I go to now for when I need that "chat". It's not often but they are there for me when I need to. Reckon one of them does "bitch" to me too and it works out perfectly.

    As refuji pointed out, it's when you get into the "cycle rants" that you need to just back away. The...

    "I'm depressed because I'm fat. I'm fat because I eat too much. I eat too much because I'm depressed..." ad nauseam.

    Unless they themselves are willing to break the cycle, it's a complete waste of time listening to what they have to say.

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    I'm just glad somebody took the time to finally say "LEX, I don't want my problems SOLVED! I want my problems LISTENED TO!"

    Lex

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    ^

    "Alcohol: the cause and solution to most of life's problems"

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    Quote Originally Posted by borg69unimatrix View Post
    Confidence is HOT... even if you have to fake it sometimes.

    Believe me, by being meek about it could really be a turn off to him. It just comes across as wishy washy, and like you're only half interested. Someday you're going to ask a boss for a raise... are you going to walk in his office with your head held high with determination, or are you going to slip a note under his door and hope he takes you seriously???
    Do you mean the regular confidence or JohnJay's confidence in steroid?

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    Re: just venting, airing out, talking shit, personal beefs, problems, anger management, and etc thread

    I was just done talking with Paypal customer service because there was mishap in my ebay transaction and WOW..I was so impressed. I can say..almost all of those guys are combative, stingy, sarcastic and rude.
    Once I explained my problem for quite some amount of time, she just..silenced
    .....
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    maybe for half a minute.
    WHen I asked "Do you get that?"
    She said numbingly: " No, I dont get that."

    WOW..
    she didn't prompt right away when she didn't understand some parts- she kept continued her silence, Im not gonna go the other way around for her sarcasm so I made really long- PURPOSEDLY back and forth stupid questions (the most stupid question she ever think of) I made her grow tired with me..
    Im sorry mam, I wasn't there to make your job difficult but please lay off attitude..I wasn't there to attack you
    but speaking of attack: maybe these people grow defensive because they must dealing "mentally" with alot of angry calls, that makes me understand them a lil bit.
    A second person I called- she was exactly replied me like a robot- her voice exactly mimics answering machine (shown extreme detachment of human contact)
    A third person is a guy and he was friendly

    Maybe guys are less bitchy than girls in teller/customer service job? Who knows ^^

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    "You can't complain about the cold and snow - that's why we all live in Colorado!" Fuck you. I bravely try to put up with the cold and snow because of all the OTHER kick-ass stuff about Colorado.

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    I don't know why they bother calling it "bisexual" porn when all it is are 2 guys fucking while a naked girl sits awkwardly a few feet away.

    I'd kill for some good bi porn (hell, I'd even settle for straight porn if the male actors were good looking and equal attention was paid to both the male and female in the scene -- in all the straight porn I've seen, the man seems to just be an accessory/after-thought and all the focus is on the woman)

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    Darden, straight porn is made for straight guys, hence the focus on the woman.

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    Quote Originally Posted by redfox70 View Post
    Darden, straight porn is made for straight guys, hence the focus on the woman.
    I'm aware... but the end result is that there's no real avenue for people who want to watch truly bisexual porn or straight women who don't want to watch gay porn.

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    I actually saw some decent-to-good straight porn years ago. It was done by a company run by women, making straight porn for women. It was mor..atmospheric, and less mechanical. More erotic, less hardcore, really. Somewhat more attention paid to the men than the women. I could try to figure out the company if you want, but you presumably would be looking at stuff from twenty years ago - it might be online, though.

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    Re: just venting, airing out, talking shit, personal beefs, problems, anger management, and etc thread

    One of the effects of my travel has been to reinforce my disappointment with the people of my own country.

    For the main reason that so many of them are racist and unfriendly.

    20 odd years ago, and for a while when I was growing up, one of the main things you could have said for Australian culture was we had a sense of mate ship, and that means being friendly and lending a hand to anyone who needed it, anyone. However these days I think most people come away with the image that we are a bunch of drunk racist arrogant idiots. If you asked the average Australian what it meant to be Australian they will tell you meat pies and beer.

    It sucks and I wish we could turn it around, but I don't think people give a shit.

    On my part at least I always go out of my way to be friendly to strangers regardless of their origin, Something I practiced a lot as a lifeguard.
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