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    My hormones are going crazy on me. Tomorrow is my semester submission and I am so on the horny side of the time now and I can't stop watching guys Wrong timing hormones wrong timing! Ergh

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    Speaking of winter, I was walking to the car with my 3 year old on Monday and it was spitting snow. I said (more to myself than to him) "I am so sick of winter". To which he said "I like winter. We can make 'snowmans' together". It reminded me to get a couple pictures framed of us with his snowmen for his room. It's all in the perspective, I guess.
    Everyone wants to be heard. No one wants to listen.

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    Quote Originally Posted by refujiunderground View Post
    thanks, bro. *sigh* i just wish that being gay wasn't hated so badly that way it wouldn't be so HARD to come out and reveal it so my nerves might get in the way. the anxiety levels are shooting up.
    Whoa dude, keep us posted on how this goes.

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    Quote Originally Posted by sixthson View Post
    Speaking of winter, I was walking to the car with my 3 year old on Monday and it was spitting snow. I said (more to myself than to him) "I am so sick of winter". To which he said "I like winter. We can make 'snowmans' together". It reminded me to get a couple pictures framed of us with his snowmen for his room. It's all in the perspective, I guess.
    awww...I always love hearing about your perfect little life.

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    Quote Originally Posted by sixthson View Post
    Speaking of winter, I was walking to the car with my 3 year old on Monday and it was spitting snow. I said (more to myself than to him) "I am so sick of winter". To which he said "I like winter. We can make 'snowmans' together". It reminded me to get a couple pictures framed of us with his snowmen for his room. It's all in the perspective, I guess.
    Oh good grief - thanks for reminding me why I'll never want a fucking kid.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Huntneo(PT) View Post
    awww...I always love hearing about your perfect little life.
    Oh, sixthson. I apologize for this nasty response.

    I haven't been in the best of moods lately, and hearing about your kid and his excitement for making 'snowmans' didn't help.

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    Some people really shouldn't play the victim. They're so bad at it.

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    ^ Quoted for absolute truth.

    I'm so tired of everyone crying before they even get hurt and climbing up on a cross to get a bitter view.

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    Who are you guys talking about?

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    Quote Originally Posted by GiancarloC View Post
    Fair well guys. I have submitted my profile for deletion. I have too many time constraints to argue with everyone.

    Take care
    Makes sense.

    Honestly, I think it's probably best to delete/take time off if arguing on the internet is cutting in to anyone's time for other things IRL. It shouldn't be that serious.

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    Quote Originally Posted by thatgirl View Post
    Makes sense.

    Honestly, I think it's probably best to delete/take time off if arguing on the internet is cutting in to anyone's time for other things IRL. It shouldn't be that serious.
    still hate that he's gone.

    I really liked him. Sad, but I always found him so hilarious when he'd start 'going off' on people.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Huntneo(PT) View Post
    still hate that he's gone.

    I really liked him. Sad, but I always found him so hilarious when he'd start 'going off' on people.
    Tbh, sometimes I never understood why he let people get under his skin so easily, he took things really personal at all times. It made me stressed out. Like, I just knew he would never let any disagreement pass him by, he had to go off on that person. It made me wonder how exhausting it must be.

    But I always enjoyed his posts on political issues/American politics. He seemed really well-informed and on top of current events.

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    Im 50:50 when Carlo gone..Im fine with his whereabouts on public thread, what I dont like that he often leave nasty comments in my page as passive-aggressive way to pressuring me which you guys know, Im too easy going to get pressed. ;-)

    And I dont understand why he must win/being superior in every debate- maybe he ought to participate in this thread: http://www.justusboys.com/forum/thre...es-or-problems because Im curious what kind of mental person is he?
    Sans the nasty comments, he's an ok person.

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    Quote Originally Posted by thatgirl View Post
    But I always enjoyed his posts on political issues/American politics. He seemed really well-informed and on top of current events.
    Yep. I love it when he referred to himself (in some thread) as a political heavyweight.

    His personality was too hot for tv.

    agreed with your first bit as well. That was the only flaw, imo.

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    The fact that you guys are that easily impressed scares me as to what some ill-intentioned politician could make you guys believe.

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    There seems to be a "thing" on JUB with people throwing a rock, then hiding their face. If you have enough balls to say something, go a little further and address the people you're *trying* to make a jab at.


    and moving along...

    Quote Originally Posted by RazorzEdge88 View Post
    The fact that you guys are that easily impressed scares me as to what some ill-intentioned politician could make you guys believe.
    LOL well, just saying. I don't pretend to be on point in that arena, but I always thought he knew his way around a political discussion.

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    I had no use for him since his early days in 2011 when he announced being white and gay made someone inherently untrustworthy. He has put us all on "ignore." Oh well.
    Americans need to keep their guns so they can protect themselves from gun violence just like Nancy Lanza did. And like Chris Kyle did. And like Gabby Giffords did. And like Tom Clements did. And like Michael Piemonte. And Joseph Wilcox.

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    http://www.kvue.com/news/201427871.html

    in 2013.

    reminds me of how that one spot in texas back when james byrd was murdered back in 98 when he was getting buried. they still had a segregated cemeteries for blacks and whites. it was only when bill clinton came to town for the funeral that they stopped that shit.
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    one thing about the closet/you don't have to hurry/it will be bad tomorrow/so brother, don't you worry

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    Personally ..tumblr gets a hold on me in such a surprising way. How come a mere internet media could affect me psychologically? My biggest challenge is whether I post my original stuff vs. multiple postings from other users..I gotta stop maintain my tumblr because there's too much stuff in my collection and I preoccupied how to maintain them?

    I have one big folder for things I'll polish/tweak in photoshops and another folder for ready-made stuff I found in internet and and..I DONT HAVE TIME to manage both!! It's just too much..

    too much..


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    and I made promise I'll colaborate with one of jubber in drawing and doodling but still haven't got time to finish!!

    it's just too much

    Sorry dear, ♩♪ I'll make it up to you, I promise u ♪♫

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    Sometimes, discretion is the better part of valor, but omfg, I kinda wish I'd have made a move on this one co-worker, last night.

    So it's right at Midnight, and I was assigned to the paper towel/TP aisle. I saw my assistant manager up at Customer Service, changing out money. I walk up, and intend to give her an update on how much freight I have left to stock out, when one of my male co-workers starts heckling me, as if he'd been waiting for me. And I knew he was just goofing off, and being silly. But he was almost up in my face, trying to talk noise and stuff.

    So, the thought did cross my mind to just give him a little peck , just to scare him enough to freak him out. But our manager was standing right there, so I thought against it.

    On technicality, even though I'm not even paid for it, but I'm also a supervisor, so it's probably for the best that I didn't, though.

    But part of me does wish that I'd have went for it.


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    Quote Originally Posted by Huntneo(PT) View Post
    Who are you guys talking about?
    Well, honestly...I was talking in totally general terms....over the years, I've seen a lot of people try to play the perfect victims.

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    Quote Originally Posted by jdcnow View Post
    Sometimes, discretion is the better part of valor, but omfg, I kinda wish I'd have made a move on this one co-worker, last night.

    So it's right at Midnight, and I was assigned to the paper towel/TP aisle. I saw my assistant manager up at Customer Service, changing out money. I walk up, and intend to give her an update on how much freight I have left to stock out, when one of my male co-workers starts heckling me, as if he'd been waiting for me. And I knew he was just goofing off, and being silly. But he was almost up in my face, trying to talk noise and stuff.

    So, the thought did cross my mind to just give him a little peck , just to scare him enough to freak him out. But our manager was standing right there, so I thought against it.

    On technicality, even though I'm not even paid for it, but I'm also a supervisor, so it's probably for the best that I didn't, though.

    But part of me does wish that I'd have went for it.
    Even if you weren't his supervisor, he could still file sexual harassment charges on you for kissing him.
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    Re: just venting, airing out, talking shit, personal beefs, problems, anger management, and etc thread

    Quote Originally Posted by Huntneo(PT) View Post
    There seems to be a "thing" on JUB with people throwing a rock, then hiding their face. If you have enough balls to say something, go a little further and address the people you're *trying* to make a jab at.
    Ugh, so true.

    I've said it before and I'll say it again here: JUB's establishment of these really strict no-flame boundaries has the unintentional consequence of fostering heightened consternation that only manifests with ceaseless passive-aggressive comments and attacks. Those attacks can be very explosive, and yet, they usually aren't enough to let someone "get things out of their system," so the cycle continues and more contempt is bred.

    It's stupid. This is the internet; stop trying so hard to police people.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Huntneo(PT) View Post
    There seems to be a "thing" on JUB with people throwing a rock, then hiding their face. If you have enough balls to say something, go a little further and address the people you're *trying* to make a jab at.
    Couldn't agree more. If you're going to bitch about someone specific in public then man up and name them. Otherwise don't say anything at all. This "SOMEONE-- THEY KNOW WHO THEY ARE--" thing is so catty and passive.

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    ^I don't think I can agree with you all.

    Perhaps the gentleman in question simply doesn't want to embarrass his target in public. Nobless oblige, and all that.

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    Quote Originally Posted by JohannBessler View Post
    ^I don't think I can agree with you all.

    Perhaps the gentleman in question simply doesn't want to embarrass his target in public. Nobless oblige, and all that.
    Hah. Oh man. Sorry Johann, but this is the height of naivete. The reason they're saying it the way they do isn't to spare anyone's feelings; it's to get away with saying it and have an out if they're confronted.

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    Quote Originally Posted by JohannBessler View Post
    ^I don't think I can agree with you all.

    Perhaps the gentleman in question simply doesn't want to embarrass his target in public. Nobless oblige, and all that.
    Then he wouldn't have said anything at all.

    There's nothing honorable about shredding someone out in public and just dropping strong hints as to who they are without naming them. Especially if you throw in at the end "I have this person on ignore", talk about cowardly.

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    It's 12 pm. Close your tumblr- get yer sunshine, go to the park Now ^^

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    Quote Originally Posted by RazorzEdge88 View Post
    Hah. Oh man. Sorry Johann, but this is the height of naivete. The reason they're saying it the way they do isn't to spare anyone's feelings; it's to get away with saying it and have an out if they're confronted.
    haha INFJs get called "naive" all the time.

    Having said that, though, if a detractor dropped names in public, he'd get into trouble with the Moderators.

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    Quote Originally Posted by JP. View Post
    Personally ..tumblr gets a hold on me in such a surprising way. How come a mere internet media could affect me psychologically? My biggest challenge is whether I post my original stuff vs. multiple postings from other users..I gotta stop maintain my tumblr because there's too much stuff in my collection and I preoccupied how to maintain them?

    I have one big folder for things I'll polish/tweak in photoshops and another folder for ready-made stuff I found in internet and and..I DONT HAVE TIME to manage both!! It's just too much..

    too much..


    Haha well social media can be addictive and very time consuming if you don't handle it properly. I admit I wanted to do that in the past then I remembered how bad my time management is then I changed my mind lol. Maybe someday when I can draw something fast enough or interesting enough I might consider. For now it's just some place I like to go on to see my favorite stuffs like Pokemon or final fantasy or some funny or interesting gay guys haha. For most artists Tumblr is kinda like their possible career advertisement or portfolio so it depends on the people too.

    Aww haha It's ok take your time Don't need to feel pressured. I don't want to make it a I push you thing. I know that sometimes we all need a push in a while as we can get lazy but during stressful times, we already feel like crashing or exploding any second and with the added push....it's like you won't be enjoying what you are doing. Even though the video shooting I am doing now has been slow (a few months delay) I gotta say it's something that I really look forward to and enjoy in the week (outside of JUB) and I haven't felt happy like this in a while (other than JUB)

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    Borg, I want you to be caught up with Blue. I just finished season two's finale and I want to talk about it .
    " For all there is to feel, let it be felt"
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    It is snowing yet again!!!!!!!! Uff da!
    Everyone wants to be heard. No one wants to listen.

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    Quote Originally Posted by MissAnne View Post
    Borg, I want you to be caught up with Blue. I just finished season two's finale and I want to talk about it .
    Hopefully this weekend we'll have a BLUE marathon!!!

    ... I'm hoping she gets together with that guy from the first season. The one that helps her kid with homework.
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    I wish there were psychics on JUB.

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    Quote Originally Posted by MissAnne View Post
    Hey fellow Whovians, are you guys watching Orphan Black as well ? Im very excited about that too.
    Just watched the pilot and I loved it! Has a lot going on, but it seems to have a really interesting storyline.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Huntneo(PT) View Post
    I wish there were psychics on JUB.
    I just Knew you were going to wish that.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kien View Post
    Just watched the pilot and I loved it! Has a lot going on, but it seems to have a really interesting storyline.

    I know! Im really interested in it. I love a good mystery. I can't wait to see what happens tonight.
    " For all there is to feel, let it be felt"
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    Quote Originally Posted by JP. View Post
    Im 50:50 when Carlo gone..Im fine with his whereabouts on public thread, what I dont like that he often leave nasty comments in my page as passive-aggressive way to pressuring me which you guys know, Im too easy going to get pressed. ;-)

    And I dont understand why he must win/being superior in every debate- maybe he ought to participate in this thread: http://www.justusboys.com/forum/thre...es-or-problems because Im curious what kind of mental person is he?
    Sans the nasty comments, he's an ok person.
    I'd never say he's a bad person... but an exceptionally annoying internet personality.

    knowing when to pick your battles and cut your losses when you're arguing against someone in a circle who's never going to agree with you is a sign of maturity, not weakness.

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    Quote Originally Posted by loki81 View Post
    knowing when to pick your battles and cut your losses when you're arguing against someone in a circle who's never going to agree with you is a sign of maturity, not weakness.
    true.

    I've mastered that art. It's not always easy letting someone have the 'last word', but you have to know when to say when.

    - - - Updated - - -

    Oh, and I just LOVE how my truck had other plans for my income tax refund this year.

    I really envy you guys who live in cities with fabulous public transportation.

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    Quote Originally Posted by thatgirl View Post
    Tbh, sometimes I never understood why he let people get under his skin so easily, he took things really personal at all times. It made me stressed out. Like, I just knew he would never let any disagreement pass him by, he had to go off on that person. It made me wonder how exhausting it must be.

    But I always enjoyed his posts on political issues/American politics. He seemed really well-informed and on top of current events.
    I hope GC comes back too. I like his posts a lot, especially since he's not afraid to call people out on their bullshit. Dude needs to grow a thicker skin though - he'd take offense at the smallest thing and go off on a huge rant. On the plus side, he didn't resort to personal attacks or childish name calling. Hopefully he'll spend his sabbatical learning to relax and not let every little thing get to him.

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    Quote Originally Posted by loki81 View Post
    I'd never say he's a bad person... but an exceptionally annoying internet personality.

    knowing when to pick your battles and cut your losses when you're arguing against someone in a circle who's never going to agree with you is a sign of maturity, not weakness.
    To be fair, I had to slog though lots of trolls and assholes on the internet over the years to learn the fine art of quitting while I'm ahead, as well as the wisdom to know that I shouldn't feed the trolls.

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    Quote Originally Posted by FuryOfFirestorm View Post
    I hope GC comes back too. I like his posts a lot, especially since he's not afraid to call people out on their bullshit. Dude needs to grow a thicker skin though - he'd take offense at the smallest thing and go off on a huge rant. On the plus side, he didn't resort to personal attacks or childish name calling. Hopefully he'll spend his sabbatical learning to relax and not let every little thing get to him.
    that is NOT true. dude used to send me pm's and post comments doing that shit. that dude needs to take a long break and learn how to work with others instead of trying to go toe to toe to them over every little thing. there were some good aspects to him but he used to let his negative side outshine those aspects of him. it was sad.
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    Rant time.

    Back in January, I met this guy online (I'll call him Wilson.). He had a hot body, but said in his profile that he only dates blondes with blue eyes, and that green eyes were interesting to him. Those of you who've seen me know that I'm brown/brown. But he approached me, so I figured, why not. Exchanged phone numbers and went from there.

    Anyway, I told him that I wouldn't mind meeting him, but that it would have to be in public since we don't have mutual friends. After that, he invited me over to his place and I said no. End of story for a couple weeks.

    Valentines day rolls around, and I get a text from him asking if I wanted to hang out that night. I don't know why I did, but I said fuck it and agreed. I felt like shit the whole day (v-day, single, can't imagine why ), so I told him I was feeling like shit about the whole thing and he said that if I didn't want to hang out, he'd understand. I told him I'd sit on it a little bit more and let him know. Couple hours passed and I told him I couldn't and apologized.

    Didn't hear anything from him until last night. I was drinking at a friend's celebrating my birthday with two straight couples I hadn't hung out with in forever. So when Wilson texted and wanted to fuck, I said no and told him I was with friends.

    That's when it takes a turn for the "what the fuck!". Wilson proceeds to tell me in a series of texts that this was bullshit and that I didn't have any friends. Fuck you #1. I told him I didn't have any gay friends. He said that I can't be friends with straight people because they are just using me. Okay? Fuck you #2. I can pick my own friends. He was still adamant that I can only be friends with gays, so I told him to not act like he knows me. This is what he said "I don't know u man because u never want to hang out or do anything. what a shitty life u must have." Fuck you #3. I told him to just stop while he still had a chance at being friends and I told him that mine were in town because of my birthday. Yes I was trying to guilt him but I stopped giving a fuck when he started putting me down.

    Anyway, he has texted me today but he's still being a total doucherocket about the whole thing and trying to say that I was the asshole for not ditching my friends to be with him or invite him to their place.

    I tried guilting the shit out of him for the way he was acting, but his floppy asshole got in the way and dug himself a bigger hole. Pun intended? Yup.
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    Re: just venting, airing out, talking shit, personal beefs, problems, anger management, and etc thread

    Yeah Fury, you're way off on that.

    From one bear to another, he made an unprompted (in the sense that I didn't go there) attack on my weight/appearance once, which is about as personal/petty as you can get.

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    Re: just venting, airing out, talking shit, personal beefs, problems, anger management, and etc thread

    My thoughts on GC:

    He was kind to me, as in, he didn't start arguments with me. Everytime I saw him post he seemed to be arguing. Maybe he just didn't want to argue anymore. Maybe JUB was bad for him, so he had to leave. If he had to leave to be happier in his personal life then I'm happy he's gone. No one should be in a situation that's unhappy. Sometimes it's hard to leave though. He did what he thought was best for him.

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    Quote Originally Posted by FuryOfFirestorm View Post
    I hope GC comes back too. I like his posts a lot, especially since he's not afraid to call people out on their bullshit. Dude needs to grow a thicker skin though - he'd take offense at the smallest thing and go off on a huge rant. On the plus side, he didn't resort to personal attacks or childish name calling. Hopefully he'll spend his sabbatical learning to relax and not let every little thing get to him.
    That guy utilizes his freedom of speech to the fullest, that's for sure. He'd be stepping over the line if he were slinging insults or personal attacks through post comments/personal messages...but what he mostly posted in the forums were fair game (from what I've read). One caveat: I hate people who have to "win" every single argument.

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    Quote Originally Posted by justanothershyguy View Post
    Rant time.

    Back in January, I met this guy online (I'll call him Wilson.). He had a hot body, but said in his profile that he only dates blondes with blue eyes, and that green eyes were interesting to him. Those of you who've seen me know that I'm brown/brown. But he approached me, so I figured, why not. Exchanged phone numbers and went from there.

    Anyway, I told him that I wouldn't mind meeting him, but that it would have to be in public since we don't have mutual friends. After that, he invited me over to his place and I said no. End of story for a couple weeks.

    Valentines day rolls around, and I get a text from him asking if I wanted to hang out that night. I don't know why I did, but I said fuck it and agreed. I felt like shit the whole day (v-day, single, can't imagine why ), so I told him I was feeling like shit about the whole thing and he said that if I didn't want to hang out, he'd understand. I told him I'd sit on it a little bit more and let him know. Couple hours passed and I told him I couldn't and apologized.

    Didn't hear anything from him until last night. I was drinking at a friend's celebrating my birthday with two straight couples I hadn't hung out with in forever. So when Wilson texted and wanted to fuck, I said no and told him I was with friends.

    That's when it takes a turn for the "what the fuck!". Wilson proceeds to tell me in a series of texts that this was bullshit and that I didn't have any friends. Fuck you #1. I told him I didn't have any gay friends. He said that I can't be friends with straight people because they are just using me. Okay? Fuck you #2. I can pick my own friends. He was still adamant that I can only be friends with gays, so I told him to not act like he knows me. This is what he said "I don't know u man because u never want to hang out or do anything. what a shitty life u must have." Fuck you #3. I told him to just stop while he still had a chance at being friends and I told him that mine were in town because of my birthday. Yes I was trying to guilt him but I stopped giving a fuck when he started putting me down.

    Anyway, he has texted me today but he's still being a total doucherocket about the whole thing and trying to say that I was the asshole for not ditching my friends to be with him or invite him to their place.

    I tried guilting the shit out of him for the way he was acting, but his floppy asshole got in the way and dug himself a bigger hole. Pun intended? Yup.
    Good thing you never met up with him. Sounds like he's not worth your time. If he thinks he can guilt you into meeting up with him or that insulting you gets you closer to him, he's about as clueless as one can get. I say drop him.

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    Re: just venting, airing out, talking shit, personal beefs, problems, anger management, and etc thread

    Quote Originally Posted by RazorzEdge88 View Post
    Yeah Fury, you're way off on that.

    From one bear to another, he made an unprompted (in the sense that I didn't go there) attack on my weight/appearance once, which is about as personal/petty as you can get.
    exactly, dude was a REAL asshole which is why i'm surprised there's people actually having sympathy for him. it's hard to believe that he was that he actually friendly to others on here. he wasn't the innocent guy that certain folks were making him out to be at least to some of us that had to deal with his bullshit. he even did a good job of admitting it himself. he sure as hell could take shots and dish insults at someone over the smallest things through the private message and post comment options but he would play that victim card when someone would throw his own medicine back at him.
    Last edited by refujiunderground; April 6th, 2013 at 11:53 AM.
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  50. #3500
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    Re: just venting, airing out, talking shit, personal beefs, problems, anger management, and etc thread

    ^Apropos all of this, I think that communicating successfully over the Internet is a skill that takes everybody time to master.

    (Even for you Millennials, who grew up with the computer.)

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