I am sick and tired of trying to lift up the spirits of members here who are just hell bent on being down on themselves regarding their looks,weight,dick size, etc. etc. etc. Granted, I (nor anyone else) am not obligated to do so...but it seriously just bothers me when I see Jubbers speak so badly about themselves--and even moreso seem OKAY with it. Really? Is there ANY confidence there?
It's as if an entire group of people can assure someone that they're not ugly,fat, or any other negative physical attribute one wants to throw out there...but it's like they believe we're talking out of our asses. It helps to step out of the subjective and try to listen to what other people are saying sometimes.
I have my days when I truly feel like someone beat me with an ugly stick--but I KNOW I am not objectively 'unattractive'. And I'm not an Adonis either. I'm fine with that.
I just don't get how someone can be so determined and satisfied in "accepting" that they have no great physical qualities.