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    True to my INTJ personality, people think I am an asshole to them but they don't understand how I treat myself. I am 6'4" 182lbs, and I view myself as a fucking fat piece-of-crap that is unworthy of others due to the fat that constitutes my love handles despite having a 32" waist. My goal over this Spring is to lose 10lbs. No, I am not anorexic or bulimic but it is that constant drive for 'perfection' that leads to self-loathing.

    When you see me say: "no sympathies please", it means I am already well aware of "my condition" and I don't need to be reminded of it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by thatgirl View Post
    I watched The Invisible War on Netflix today. It's a documentary about the rape epidemic in the U.S. military. It made me so angry. The female and male soldiers basically have no one to turn to in the majority of these cases. The system basically oppresses/punishes them for speaking out or it ignores them altogether. And I was shocked when they said male victims outnumber the female ones (although a disproportionate amount of females are victimized so the focus tends to be on them, even the "prevention tips" are geared towards women). I never knew that. Totally cried in some parts, especially when the family members broke down during the interviews.

    Just horrifying. Humans make me so...depressed sometimes. SMH.
    Quote Originally Posted by MissAnne View Post
    My sister has been trying to get me to watch that for MONTHS. I just can't bring myself to watch it yet. I will, but I know that it gets incredibly hard to watch.

    I don't know if you watch WIGS, its a youtube channel/company ( I suppose) that does these amazing short female films. Im hooked and they are so well done. They are all different but women are all the main characters. This one was done and nominated for an award last year. Its about sexual violence in the military. Its short and I highly recommend it. They all arent this serious though.

    My BF and I are watching BLUE, from Wigs. Totally hooked!!!
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    Car Wash is so overrated, I've never got the appeal of that crappy song, tbaft.
    I think it was because of the movie...kind of a hit back then

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    Quote Originally Posted by Huntneo(PT) View Post
    I always feel such a deep sense of sadness on Sunday nights.
    why? work tomorrow?
    one thing about the closet/you don't have to hurry/it will be bad tomorrow/so brother, don't you worry

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    FUCK. damnit...

    WHY THE FUCK DOES JUB EDITS DELETE EVERYTHING THAT I FUCKING SAY.

    okay, i gotta play some music first since this song is in my head.


    i feel like this is deja vu all over again back where i'm back in september 2011 where i just could never longer take the feeling of being bothered by the internal conflict of my sexual orientation. i just had gotten tired of living a lie and being unsure of myself. i KNEW that i wasn't straight so i sought out the truth that i knew BUT didn't want to know or wasn't ready to hear. i asked the questions and people steered me on to the answers. it HURT having to be told something that i knew for the longest but couldn't accept, hint the words "i'm gay". i didn't want to be gay. i thought that i possibly could have been bisexual but i just couldn't be gay. skip forward, went from talking about it on the internet to face to face with someone to going to a lgbt center and basically getting used to this whole entire idea that i was one of the people that i didn't want to be because it just wasn't cool.

    now, i sit here having the same feelings come up. i know who i am and accept it. it's that i feel that it's time to take another step forward. i feel like it's nearing that time where i have to come out again but this time it's my homeboy that i hang out with all the time. i want to tell my secret to him but i am scared of how he's going to react. he says homophobic shit all the time and it's like "how do i come out to him without scaring him?" "what do i say to him?" "where should i say it to him?" we're going to the gym today since it's april first and i'm just figuring out what should i say to him IF i decide to do it today. i feel like i'm ready BUT i'm scared of his reaction though. advice?
    one thing about the closet/you don't have to hurry/it will be bad tomorrow/so brother, don't you worry

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    Quote Originally Posted by Huntneo(PT) View Post
    yeah...i have the regular Monday-friday type workweek, so my weekends are very precious to me.

    Only problem is that they FLY BY at rapid speed.
    workdays go by slow as hell. and the days off always end quickly. it's feels like you never left work and the days go by really slow waiting for the next day off. i feel your pain, man.
    one thing about the closet/you don't have to hurry/it will be bad tomorrow/so brother, don't you worry

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    Quote Originally Posted by Huntneo(PT) View Post
    I suck at giving advice sometimes--especially on such serious matters, but here are the points I want to throw your way:

    Let him know that's you're still the same person. I know it sounds dumb (and goes without saying), but sometimes people need to hear stuff like that.

    Also...break it to him slow and easy, but don't make it a HUGE DEAL...and he most likely won't either.

    Also make sure he knows that his friendship is very important to you, but you no longer want "pretend" to be someone you're not. And you aren't going to.

    Be strong in your convictions, and don't question yourself or appear unsure or uneasy. When you can speak about your sexuality in such a way, that shows people that you mean business and won't take any bs. It saves a lot of time and mess.

    Sometimes people need to be told: here is the deal. You can take it or leave it. But i hope you understand, and we are able to keep it moving from here.

    ^ that last bit is just a summary. Don't say that to him.
    thanks, bro. *sigh* i just wish that being gay wasn't hated so badly that way it wouldn't be so HARD to come out and reveal it so my nerves might get in the way. the anxiety levels are shooting up.
    one thing about the closet/you don't have to hurry/it will be bad tomorrow/so brother, don't you worry

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    Fuji, get real on this one dude.

    You say he is your 'homeboy'.

    Well, my understanding of

    the term HOMEBOY

    is that he/she is closer than blood.

    {way it is Left Coast anyway}

    thought, is his homophobic posturing part of the game or real...

    fitting in with the expected group rhetoric and or ethos. JMHO and ?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lefty View Post
    Fuji, get real on this one dude.

    You say he is your 'homeboy'.

    Well, my understanding of

    the term HOMEBOY

    is that he/she is closer than blood.

    {way it is Left Coast anyway}

    thought, is his homophobic posturing part of the game or real...

    fitting in with the expected group rhetoric and or ethos. JMHO and ?
    well, it's not uncommon for folks to be homophobic. it's that when someone who they know is gay, then you really get to see if they really mean it or not. i have some hope though. i thought my parents were going to kick me out when i came out to them but they didn't. there's hope that my homeboy MIGHT take it well. he might not. just crossing my fingers that he does.

    Quote Originally Posted by JohannBessler View Post
    @Rj:

    I see two possible outcomese

    He might be angry with you for a while, feel disgusted, and give you some shit, before he realizes he's your friend, and begins to accept you.

    But there's one other possible outcome--he might drop you like a hot potato.

    Either way, you will find out whether or not he's a true friend. If he is, he'll eventually come around.
    i hope he is. it's that i've had so many people who have disappointed me and i thought they were true friends. just don't want to lose another friend that i care about only to find out that they don't care about me. it would devestate me.
    one thing about the closet/you don't have to hurry/it will be bad tomorrow/so brother, don't you worry

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    Suck it up Fuji, suck it up.

    better you lose them now

    than when the shit is hitting

    the fan. Trust me man.

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    Your friend knows her gays and straights Right?

    You did the good friend thing and she expressed a disinterest

    in your opinion. Let it be. Save your breath, you have done

    the 'friend' part.

    Anymore and you will be considered an interfering bitch. What

    is meant to be will be...you just have your first aid kit at the ready

    in case your 'suspicions' prove correct. JMPO based on experience.

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    I saw some small bugs on the beds and I am freaking out. I sure as hell hope they are not bed bugs. I just moved from a place with fleas Maybe sending the samples to be diagnosed tomorrow.

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    damn, had an intensive masturbation session. shit was serious, yo. it took me a hour and i got so sweaty, it was almost like i just hoped out the shower. DAMN, i've got the power.
    one thing about the closet/you don't have to hurry/it will be bad tomorrow/so brother, don't you worry

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    Quote Originally Posted by refujiunderground View Post
    … DAMN, i've got the power.
    You should do like Usain Bolt and put that power to something.
    .

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    Quote Originally Posted by pat grimshaw View Post
    You should do like Usain Bolt and put that power to something.
    the power into something like what exactly??? i don't think i could do much with that power which is basically lotion, semen, sweat and man juice.

    Quote Originally Posted by loki81 View Post
    I miss jerking off.

    3 days and counting... trying to go a week (Thursday, when I'm supposed to be taking an overnight trip with the guy I've been dating)
    why???????? don't do yourself injustice.
    one thing about the closet/you don't have to hurry/it will be bad tomorrow/so brother, don't you worry

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    Quote Originally Posted by borg69unimatrix View Post
    My BF and I are watching BLUE, from Wigs. Totally hooked!!!
    I know! Its so good. Have you watched season 2 yet ?
    " For all there is to feel, let it be felt"
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    Quote Originally Posted by Huntneo(PT) View Post
    I said something to someone that I probably shouldn't have.
    I hate opening myself up and becoming so vulnerable to people.


    On another note: Have any of you ever made a huge mistake in your life...and think to yourself... if I just correct this fuckup one time...I WILL NEVER do this again?
    i'm sorry, man. i'm kind of having a hard time understanding what you're asking. are you saying that if you could go back in time to fix what you've done wrong in your past that you're troubled by?
    one thing about the closet/you don't have to hurry/it will be bad tomorrow/so brother, don't you worry

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    Quote Originally Posted by Huntneo(PT) View Post


    On another note: Have any of you ever made a huge mistake in your life...and think to yourself... if I just correct this fuckup one time...I WILL NEVER do this again?
    Yes, yes, yes.

    I can drive you crazy though.
    " For all there is to feel, let it be felt"
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    Quote Originally Posted by Huntneo(PT) View Post
    Not necessarily, but I guess that could apply as well.

    What I'm saying in this instance is you do something idiotic that throws you off the tracks, and you kinda make a mental note/promise yourself that if you make it back on the tracks...you won't make such a mistake again. Basically learning from a hard lesson that you indirectly taught yourself.

    I know it's confusing...sorry.
    if that's the case then yeah, plenty of times. don't believe in luck but when you look at the possible outcomes of a situation where the reprecussions were bad but could have been much worse where you basically do the same shit again, it makes you realize how good you have it. some people don't get the chance to make the same mistake twice because the first time was their last. shoot, reminds me of this guy that i went to school with that was a few grades below me in high school that died last year over some bs involving a police chase. i've known people that did the same thing even witnessed one of my homeboy's brother and one of his friends doing it and ended up getting away from the cops. he tried to do the same thing. he almost got away but just ewhen he lost them, they found him and chased him until he lost control of the bike he was on and that's that. he was only in his early 20s too.
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    JB, not so sure about the actual learning...

    but surely have been exposed to some new

    and different ideas/concepts that warrant

    some serious consideration.

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    upon watching this video, i gotta say barney was and still is one ugly looking dinosaur. i thought dinosaurs were green. why is he purple? no blood circulation or something?
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    Quote Originally Posted by MissAnne View Post
    I know! Its so good. Have you watched season 2 yet ?
    Not yet... haven't found mutual time enough yet. I kinda hate how they're so short too... we like to watch a ton of them at once, and *I* am the one that has to keep getting up and advancing to the next one.

    We've been using my Kindle hooked to the TV to watch them on the "big screen".
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    Quote Originally Posted by borg69unimatrix View Post
    Not yet... haven't found mutual time enough yet. I kinda hate how they're so short too... we like to watch a ton of them at once, and *I* am the one that has to keep getting up and advancing to the next one.
    You guys can watch them on the playlist. Just click on one of the seasons and then click play all (they should play back to back). That should make it easier. I hardly ever do that though. I usually just click to the next one, like you.
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    Quote Originally Posted by loki81 View Post
    delayed gratification forces me to spend all week horny as fuck and thinking about him.
    well, hope you're able to get some of that sex that you've been waiting long for. don't get too horny though where you bust early.

    ================================================== ==================================

    but speaking of which, my mind is in goth mood right now, was going to put the but there's nothing that i'm laughing about right now.

    i seen this one video that is going viral about this guy who proposed to his boyfriend at the garbage concert in michigan some days ago. at first, i was really happy for them and smiling like "that's so cute" and you know how it is when you see something that makes you get happy. then i thought about myself for a second and then i just thought to myself "will that ever be me one day? will i ever get the chance to experience something like that someday?" you know, a lot of doubt came into my head where i just felt to myself that i'm never going to experience that because that's NOT in my future for some reason. i just don't think that it'll ever happen to me so although i'm happy for them, it's like why should i give a fuck and remain hopeful for something that'll never come. i think there's many aspects in life that make people happy or promote their well being and after awhile, if you lack those things, they have a negative effect on you especially if you're surrounded by people and told it's the norm. you begin to feel like you're different, abnormal or that something is wrong with you where you can't achieve or experience the same things that other people take for granted. hint, then the same people that are experiencing it don't understand why you feel a certain way about yourself or try to cheer you up not understanding or knowing how down you feel about shit. nobody knows.

    i feel that the whole entire reason for me even accepting that i was gay, to even come out to my family, to get a college degree, to even get out of bed, and even something like type my feelings out was to one day achieve a better day for myself where i'm no longer depressed, feel like an outcast in society since i've always felt like one and to basically live a normal and productive life like every other human being outthere. i would basically have a job, have a car, have money, be able to go on dates, have an apartment of my own, friends that i can hang out with and etc but it seems like that type of lifestyle isn't destined for me and i guess i knew that since i was a teenager in high school because whenever i would try to get something as simple as a fucking part time job, i got denied. fuckers weren't giving me a chance period. it just made me give up and then having people are getting it then talking about "you're not trying hard enough, this, that and whatever". i just get mad where i feel like telling them to shut the fuck up. i just get frustrated to the point where i feel like completely not caring and simply living like i have nothing to live for tomorrow because it's not like there's anything to look forward to anyway. why even try when people aren't going to even give you a chance and treat you like a bum or a pushover where they can't even fucking respect you even when you're busting your ass? i just feel like saying fuck it and doing whatever.

    i'm NOT looking for shit to fucking walk to me and etc. i don't want to get a fucking hand out. i want to be normal and be a regular member of society BUT somehow, i get told that i'm different directly and indirectly by other people and you know, i'm really getting tired of that shit. like if i can't get into the party, i might as well disrupt the fun so people know that i'm just like them, a fucking human being. okay, i'm done with the rant.
    Last edited by refujiunderground; April 2nd, 2013 at 12:13 PM.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Huntneo(PT) View Post
    my partner's accent becomes much more...overwhelming when he's had a drink.

    four years in, and I still can't decide if I'm annoyed by it or not.
    Now I'm intrigued... You may have said before, but where's he from (or to which region do you attribute his accent?)
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    ^ So sorry to hear that. I like the gif lol. I almost wanted to do that with a bi guy friend during hang out today. As if putting words into my mouth wasn't enough (I have never said such nasty things) assuming he knows me or my behavior even though we had never talked for more than 10 minutes during class or forever throughout knowing him. Thanks for destroying my only social time with my friends you troll. I swear if he's not bi (as I considered it part of the GLBT family)......I'd do the things in the gif

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    Quote Originally Posted by loki81 View Post
    I wish I could cum from oral

    it creates this annoying situation where I'm loving the blowjob, but I can't cum because the saliva removes any friction that would help me jerk off.

    but waking up to a morning blowjob was otherwise pretty awesome <3
    It takes me forever too. They have to really maintain the same pace long enough, and I have to flex my legs like crazy.
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    My hormones are going crazy on me. Tomorrow is my semester submission and I am so on the horny side of the time now and I can't stop watching guys Wrong timing hormones wrong timing! Ergh

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    Speaking of winter, I was walking to the car with my 3 year old on Monday and it was spitting snow. I said (more to myself than to him) "I am so sick of winter". To which he said "I like winter. We can make 'snowmans' together". It reminded me to get a couple pictures framed of us with his snowmen for his room. It's all in the perspective, I guess.
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    Some people really shouldn't play the victim. They're so bad at it.

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    ^ Quoted for absolute truth.

    I'm so tired of everyone crying before they even get hurt and climbing up on a cross to get a bitter view.

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    I had no use for him since his early days in 2011 when he announced being white and gay made someone inherently untrustworthy. He has put us all on "ignore." Oh well.

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    http://www.kvue.com/news/201427871.html

    in 2013.

    reminds me of how that one spot in texas back when james byrd was murdered back in 98 when he was getting buried. they still had a segregated cemeteries for blacks and whites. it was only when bill clinton came to town for the funeral that they stopped that shit.
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    Sometimes, discretion is the better part of valor, but omfg, I kinda wish I'd have made a move on this one co-worker, last night.

    So it's right at Midnight, and I was assigned to the paper towel/TP aisle. I saw my assistant manager up at Customer Service, changing out money. I walk up, and intend to give her an update on how much freight I have left to stock out, when one of my male co-workers starts heckling me, as if he'd been waiting for me. And I knew he was just goofing off, and being silly. But he was almost up in my face, trying to talk noise and stuff.

    So, the thought did cross my mind to just give him a little peck , just to scare him enough to freak him out. But our manager was standing right there, so I thought against it.

    On technicality, even though I'm not even paid for it, but I'm also a supervisor, so it's probably for the best that I didn't, though.

    But part of me does wish that I'd have went for it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Huntneo(PT) View Post
    Who are you guys talking about?
    Well, honestly...I was talking in totally general terms....over the years, I've seen a lot of people try to play the perfect victims.

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    Quote Originally Posted by jdcnow View Post
    Sometimes, discretion is the better part of valor, but omfg, I kinda wish I'd have made a move on this one co-worker, last night.

    So it's right at Midnight, and I was assigned to the paper towel/TP aisle. I saw my assistant manager up at Customer Service, changing out money. I walk up, and intend to give her an update on how much freight I have left to stock out, when one of my male co-workers starts heckling me, as if he'd been waiting for me. And I knew he was just goofing off, and being silly. But he was almost up in my face, trying to talk noise and stuff.

    So, the thought did cross my mind to just give him a little peck , just to scare him enough to freak him out. But our manager was standing right there, so I thought against it.

    On technicality, even though I'm not even paid for it, but I'm also a supervisor, so it's probably for the best that I didn't, though.

    But part of me does wish that I'd have went for it.
    Even if you weren't his supervisor, he could still file sexual harassment charges on you for kissing him.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Huntneo(PT) View Post
    There seems to be a "thing" on JUB with people throwing a rock, then hiding their face. If you have enough balls to say something, go a little further and address the people you're *trying* to make a jab at.
    Couldn't agree more. If you're going to bitch about someone specific in public then man up and name them. Otherwise don't say anything at all. This "SOMEONE-- THEY KNOW WHO THEY ARE--" thing is so catty and passive.

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    Quote Originally Posted by JohannBessler View Post
    ^I don't think I can agree with you all.

    Perhaps the gentleman in question simply doesn't want to embarrass his target in public. Nobless oblige, and all that.
    Then he wouldn't have said anything at all.

    There's nothing honorable about shredding someone out in public and just dropping strong hints as to who they are without naming them. Especially if you throw in at the end "I have this person on ignore", talk about cowardly.

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    Quote Originally Posted by JP. View Post
    Personally ..tumblr gets a hold on me in such a surprising way. How come a mere internet media could affect me psychologically? My biggest challenge is whether I post my original stuff vs. multiple postings from other users..I gotta stop maintain my tumblr because there's too much stuff in my collection and I preoccupied how to maintain them?

    I have one big folder for things I'll polish/tweak in photoshops and another folder for ready-made stuff I found in internet and and..I DONT HAVE TIME to manage both!! It's just too much..

    too much..


    Haha well social media can be addictive and very time consuming if you don't handle it properly. I admit I wanted to do that in the past then I remembered how bad my time management is then I changed my mind lol. Maybe someday when I can draw something fast enough or interesting enough I might consider. For now it's just some place I like to go on to see my favorite stuffs like Pokemon or final fantasy or some funny or interesting gay guys haha. For most artists Tumblr is kinda like their possible career advertisement or portfolio so it depends on the people too.

    Aww haha It's ok take your time Don't need to feel pressured. I don't want to make it a I push you thing. I know that sometimes we all need a push in a while as we can get lazy but during stressful times, we already feel like crashing or exploding any second and with the added push....it's like you won't be enjoying what you are doing. Even though the video shooting I am doing now has been slow (a few months delay) I gotta say it's something that I really look forward to and enjoy in the week (outside of JUB) and I haven't felt happy like this in a while (other than JUB)

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    Borg, I want you to be caught up with Blue. I just finished season two's finale and I want to talk about it .
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    It is snowing yet again!!!!!!!! Uff da!
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    Quote Originally Posted by MissAnne View Post
    Borg, I want you to be caught up with Blue. I just finished season two's finale and I want to talk about it .
    Hopefully this weekend we'll have a BLUE marathon!!!

    ... I'm hoping she gets together with that guy from the first season. The one that helps her kid with homework.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Huntneo(PT) View Post
    I wish there were psychics on JUB.
    I just Knew you were going to wish that.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kien View Post
    Just watched the pilot and I loved it! Has a lot going on, but it seems to have a really interesting storyline.

    I know! Im really interested in it. I love a good mystery. I can't wait to see what happens tonight.
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    Quote Originally Posted by thatgirl View Post
    Tbh, sometimes I never understood why he let people get under his skin so easily, he took things really personal at all times. It made me stressed out. Like, I just knew he would never let any disagreement pass him by, he had to go off on that person. It made me wonder how exhausting it must be.

    But I always enjoyed his posts on political issues/American politics. He seemed really well-informed and on top of current events.
    I hope GC comes back too. I like his posts a lot, especially since he's not afraid to call people out on their bullshit. Dude needs to grow a thicker skin though - he'd take offense at the smallest thing and go off on a huge rant. On the plus side, he didn't resort to personal attacks or childish name calling. Hopefully he'll spend his sabbatical learning to relax and not let every little thing get to him.

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    Quote Originally Posted by loki81 View Post
    I'd never say he's a bad person... but an exceptionally annoying internet personality.

    knowing when to pick your battles and cut your losses when you're arguing against someone in a circle who's never going to agree with you is a sign of maturity, not weakness.
    To be fair, I had to slog though lots of trolls and assholes on the internet over the years to learn the fine art of quitting while I'm ahead, as well as the wisdom to know that I shouldn't feed the trolls.

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    Quote Originally Posted by FuryOfFirestorm View Post
    I hope GC comes back too. I like his posts a lot, especially since he's not afraid to call people out on their bullshit. Dude needs to grow a thicker skin though - he'd take offense at the smallest thing and go off on a huge rant. On the plus side, he didn't resort to personal attacks or childish name calling. Hopefully he'll spend his sabbatical learning to relax and not let every little thing get to him.
    that is NOT true. dude used to send me pm's and post comments doing that shit. that dude needs to take a long break and learn how to work with others instead of trying to go toe to toe to them over every little thing. there were some good aspects to him but he used to let his negative side outshine those aspects of him. it was sad.
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    Rant time.

    Back in January, I met this guy online (I'll call him Wilson.). He had a hot body, but said in his profile that he only dates blondes with blue eyes, and that green eyes were interesting to him. Those of you who've seen me know that I'm brown/brown. But he approached me, so I figured, why not. Exchanged phone numbers and went from there.

    Anyway, I told him that I wouldn't mind meeting him, but that it would have to be in public since we don't have mutual friends. After that, he invited me over to his place and I said no. End of story for a couple weeks.

    Valentines day rolls around, and I get a text from him asking if I wanted to hang out that night. I don't know why I did, but I said fuck it and agreed. I felt like shit the whole day (v-day, single, can't imagine why ), so I told him I was feeling like shit about the whole thing and he said that if I didn't want to hang out, he'd understand. I told him I'd sit on it a little bit more and let him know. Couple hours passed and I told him I couldn't and apologized.

    Didn't hear anything from him until last night. I was drinking at a friend's celebrating my birthday with two straight couples I hadn't hung out with in forever. So when Wilson texted and wanted to fuck, I said no and told him I was with friends.

    That's when it takes a turn for the "what the fuck!". Wilson proceeds to tell me in a series of texts that this was bullshit and that I didn't have any friends. Fuck you #1. I told him I didn't have any gay friends. He said that I can't be friends with straight people because they are just using me. Okay? Fuck you #2. I can pick my own friends. He was still adamant that I can only be friends with gays, so I told him to not act like he knows me. This is what he said "I don't know u man because u never want to hang out or do anything. what a shitty life u must have." Fuck you #3. I told him to just stop while he still had a chance at being friends and I told him that mine were in town because of my birthday. Yes I was trying to guilt him but I stopped giving a fuck when he started putting me down.

    Anyway, he has texted me today but he's still being a total doucherocket about the whole thing and trying to say that I was the asshole for not ditching my friends to be with him or invite him to their place.

    I tried guilting the shit out of him for the way he was acting, but his floppy asshole got in the way and dug himself a bigger hole. Pun intended? Yup.
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    Quote Originally Posted by FuryOfFirestorm View Post
    I hope GC comes back too. I like his posts a lot, especially since he's not afraid to call people out on their bullshit. Dude needs to grow a thicker skin though - he'd take offense at the smallest thing and go off on a huge rant. On the plus side, he didn't resort to personal attacks or childish name calling. Hopefully he'll spend his sabbatical learning to relax and not let every little thing get to him.
    That guy utilizes his freedom of speech to the fullest, that's for sure. He'd be stepping over the line if he were slinging insults or personal attacks through post comments/personal messages...but what he mostly posted in the forums were fair game (from what I've read). One caveat: I hate people who have to "win" every single argument.

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    Quote Originally Posted by justanothershyguy View Post
    Rant time.

    Back in January, I met this guy online (I'll call him Wilson.). He had a hot body, but said in his profile that he only dates blondes with blue eyes, and that green eyes were interesting to him. Those of you who've seen me know that I'm brown/brown. But he approached me, so I figured, why not. Exchanged phone numbers and went from there.

    Anyway, I told him that I wouldn't mind meeting him, but that it would have to be in public since we don't have mutual friends. After that, he invited me over to his place and I said no. End of story for a couple weeks.

    Valentines day rolls around, and I get a text from him asking if I wanted to hang out that night. I don't know why I did, but I said fuck it and agreed. I felt like shit the whole day (v-day, single, can't imagine why ), so I told him I was feeling like shit about the whole thing and he said that if I didn't want to hang out, he'd understand. I told him I'd sit on it a little bit more and let him know. Couple hours passed and I told him I couldn't and apologized.

    Didn't hear anything from him until last night. I was drinking at a friend's celebrating my birthday with two straight couples I hadn't hung out with in forever. So when Wilson texted and wanted to fuck, I said no and told him I was with friends.

    That's when it takes a turn for the "what the fuck!". Wilson proceeds to tell me in a series of texts that this was bullshit and that I didn't have any friends. Fuck you #1. I told him I didn't have any gay friends. He said that I can't be friends with straight people because they are just using me. Okay? Fuck you #2. I can pick my own friends. He was still adamant that I can only be friends with gays, so I told him to not act like he knows me. This is what he said "I don't know u man because u never want to hang out or do anything. what a shitty life u must have." Fuck you #3. I told him to just stop while he still had a chance at being friends and I told him that mine were in town because of my birthday. Yes I was trying to guilt him but I stopped giving a fuck when he started putting me down.

    Anyway, he has texted me today but he's still being a total doucherocket about the whole thing and trying to say that I was the asshole for not ditching my friends to be with him or invite him to their place.

    I tried guilting the shit out of him for the way he was acting, but his floppy asshole got in the way and dug himself a bigger hole. Pun intended? Yup.
    Good thing you never met up with him. Sounds like he's not worth your time. If he thinks he can guilt you into meeting up with him or that insulting you gets you closer to him, he's about as clueless as one can get. I say drop him.

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