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    for some reason, i have the "it's raining men" song in my head except instead of "it's raining men", i hear "it's raining M's".
    one thing about the closet/you don't have to hurry/it will be bad tomorrow/so brother, don't you worry

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    The sound of dial-up brings back so many memories... AOL

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    Quote Originally Posted by Huntneo(PT) View Post
    ahhh...yeah. I remember the first time one of my friends showed me how to 'get online'. It was 1996.
    I remember back in grade school and high school when everyone was on AIM, almost a predecessor to "modern" social media. Now it's basically, skype or yahoo.

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    I took typing in high school, but didn't really get good/fast at it until AOL chat rooms/instant messaging and trying to hold 8 separate conversations at once.
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    Quote Originally Posted by RazorzEdge88 View Post
    Trademark that before the Seattle Mariners steal it.

    it's all good. the seattle still has a baseball team??
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    Quote Originally Posted by borg69unimatrix View Post
    I took typing in high school, but didn't really get good/fast at it until AOL chat rooms/instant messaging and trying to hold 8 separate conversations at once.
    I'm the same way. I didn't good at typing until I started to play MMOs online where you have to type a message fast while trying to "play the game" also. I still get a kick out of "peckers" who have to look down at the keyboard to figure out what letter to press next. It cracks me up.

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    Quote Originally Posted by RazorzEdge88 View Post
    They used to have Arod, Griffey, Buhner, Edgar Martinez, Randy Johnson, and Moyer. :'c(
    damn....... is the sports scene really that bad over there? damn, didn't they have a basketball team too? the seattle supersonics? what happened to them?
    Last edited by refujiunderground; March 24th, 2013 at 08:40 PM.
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    Quote Originally Posted by RazorzEdge88 View Post
    They moved to Okahoma City. :-x
    well, looks like it was for the best judging how okct is doing. for some reason, i had that ice cube lyric in my head on "it was a good day"-"the lakers beat the supersonics". guess the lakers weren't shit back in the early 90s.
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    Quote Originally Posted by justanothershyguy View Post


    The sound of dial-up brings back so many memories... AOL

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    Omg nostalgia totally! I also remember being one of the first few kids in school to have internet. People ask me to help them research about something all the time. (Mostly games lol)


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    Now with 1,689,242 hours free!



    I remember using Compuserve lol. Horrible service... and whenever anyone picked up the phone when I was 95% into a download... ugh.
    Haha yeah. Also downloading a file takes forever last time. It's like gold when you finally finished downloading a game or move haha
    Also my parents always calls back to check if we are using the internet too much. If around 4 her phone calls to the house are blocked, we are gonna get it

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    Quote Originally Posted by dereperez View Post
    I tried out two new food items because a friend said they were good.

    1) Tea eggs...not sure what to think about them. They're ok I guess.
    Is it herbal tea eggs where they put the eggs into herbal tea and cook it together? If that is, that is one of the awesome food in the world.

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    maybe i'm just being paranoid but why do i feel that a certain jub member might be following me around like they're a predator and i'm prey? i'm already a paranoid guy already but i get a bit more creeped out if i feel like there's a red dot on my head.
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    Quote Originally Posted by refujiunderground View Post
    maybe i'm just being paranoid but why do i feel that a certain jub member might be following me around like they're a predator and i'm prey?


    Refuji... you and JP are EVERYWHERE on JUB, 24/7. It's not hard to follow you... but it would be nearly impossible to post somewhere where you haven't.
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    This may sound trite and corny, but I like the old maxim.

    It's not how tall you stand..

    But Rather,

    It s how you stand tall.
    =======================
    As to 'fuji' and 'JR',
    I think they fused at the lip and have become as one...
    and it's probably good for the both of them too.

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    Quote Originally Posted by borg69unimatrix View Post


    Refuji... you and JP are EVERYWHERE on JUB, 24/7. It's not hard to follow you... but it would be nearly impossible to post somewhere where you haven't.
    you're right. it's that when i post something, they'll follow right afterwards in the same thread. it's more so of the timing that kind of creeps me out. must be a coincidence.

    i'm not talking about jp though. it's somebody else. i dunno what to make of it but it's kind of weird really.
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    Quote Originally Posted by borg69unimatrix View Post


    Refuji... you and JP are EVERYWHERE on JUB, 24/7. It's not hard to follow you... but it would be nearly impossible to post somewhere where you haven't.
    CE&P says hi.

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    Quote Originally Posted by maxpowr9 View Post
    CE&P says hi.
    I poked my head in there once... all I could see what blood everywhere, and the flashes of white teeth from xBuzzerx, and Giancarlo.

    I crossed myself, and backed out slowly, and quietly.

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    Quote Originally Posted by maxpowr9 View Post
    CE&P says hi.
    i avoid that place like the plague. it's boring. that forum is overrated but then again, i'm ignorant on a lot of issues. i'm too dumb for that forum and that forum is way too smart for me.



    Quote Originally Posted by BENDERBOY View Post
    ^ It aint me.

    or is it
    yeah, i'm talking about you.
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    Lets see what kind of disaster I'm going to walk into at my store, tonight! /rubs hands together in excitement...

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    Quote Originally Posted by glasvegas View Post
    Is it herbal tea eggs where they put the eggs into herbal tea and cook it together? If that is, that is one of the awesome food in the world.
    Yes that's it. It tasted nice but it wasn't something special like I had expected. It literally tasted like tea + egg, which makes sense of course. Now come to think of it, I don't know why I was expecting something different.

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    Quote Originally Posted by reone View Post
    Our climate is broken. It is almost April and I feel like it's still November/December x_x...there was one beautiful 70F+ weekend here and then it all went downhill.

    *pushes Spring out of bed*
    I'm used to "harsh" Marches in MA but I am just ready for it to be over. I would be content with the temp in the 50s. This low 40s shit has to go.

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    Quote Originally Posted by BENDERBOY View Post
    It's only love refuji.
    dunno what that's supposed to mean

    one thing about the closet/you don't have to hurry/it will be bad tomorrow/so brother, don't you worry

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    Quote Originally Posted by loki81 View Post
    do you ever turn off the non-stop attack dog attitude? seems exhausting.
    Think of it as foreplay for angry make up sex.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Huntneo(PT) View Post
    LOL you just have to sweet talk him.
    I've got plenty of treats! Who's a good widdle doggie woggie?!
    Author of Lost in a Dream. If you want to make me smile, read it and tell me what you think.

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    I never understood the point of these endless debates and arguments. At some point people are just not adding anything new to the arguments. They just start repeating themselves. Ultimately, don't you have to agree that you are never going to agree? I've yet to see a lightbulb go on in one side's brain and they exclaim "OMG! You're right and I am wrong."
    Everyone wants to be heard. No one wants to listen.

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    Quote Originally Posted by RazorzEdge88 View Post
    Arguing for pages on end means nothing. It's all about substance. Giancarlo's a case of the emperor having no clothes. He's not ideologically consistent - you saw how he just defended genocidal statements and had to backpedal.

    Buzzer's wicked smart and could out-argue me most of the time, but I've had discussions with him where I feel like I could win a formal debate on the subject at hand. I mostly made that post to see if I could bait him into posting last night. XD
    He also keeps his cool, most of the time. He's able to hang in there and wait patiently for the other person to wear down and have a melt down - then he moves in for the kill !!!

    It's terrifying to watch, but also extremely erotic/hot.
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    The best part of any argument is when you just walk away and leave the other person frothing at the mouth waiting for a reply. My grandmother told me as a child "You should avoid arguing with idiots, you can't win, and people won't be able to tell who's who". Gram was a smart ole bird.

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    Guess I'm still old school.

    In my day, discussion and debate were a time for sharing...

    ideas, thoughts, concepts or even dreams and aspirations.

    Now it seems more like

    grind down, browbeat, belittle and/or defame...


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    I'm hugely irritated that the new I-9 form is now (technically) 9... yes... NINE Pages (5 if printed front and back).

    6 pages of instructions, and 3 pages of the actual I-9 Form.
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    Quote Originally Posted by GiancarloC View Post
    I'm more keen on posting Teddy Roosevelt speeches (there are only a few out there...
    I'm assuming you're talking about Teddy Roosevelt speeches on Youtube.

    It's as though something doesn't exist in history unless it was filmed and uploaded to Youtube. I was trying to have a sensible conversation about an important playwright* with JUB's pugnacious Bulgarian but his view had been irretrievably skewed/prejudiced by a chance atypical recording on Youtube.

    * http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/George_Bernard_Shaw
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    Was supposed to do some video shooting today but wasted half of the day waiting due to my friend dealing with his sibling rivalry. Apparently his supposed closeted gay brother hate his elder brother so much so that he cause a huge scene in front of his parents (for years now). Kinda feel bad for him. Thank god my siblings don't hate me so much to make my every day a living hell. Just kinda sucks that since we are always helping each other and shooting videos together, he has to be dragged down or badly affected by this kinds of things

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    ^
    If it's not on youtube it doesn't exist



    .

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    well, it looks like sooner or later, i'm going to have to get my own spot to crash in. had a talk with my mom about being gay and i asked her when i get a boyfriend, if i could bring him instead my house. she said that she wouldn't mind if i brought him in here but she wouldn't be able to tolerate me kissing him or anything else. she also said that she doesn't agree with gay people and gay rights, basically had a homophobic approach and etc.

    you know, i think the thing that upsets me is basically being alone when everything is said and done in terms of coming out. you know, basically having to worry about straight people that are homophobic that don't want to have shit to do with you for being gay. then not being accepted by other gay people. you know, i feel that it's harder to make gay friends and basically being able to lean onto other gay people than it is towards straight people. as much as gay people say that we're a community, i feel that gay people in general are a bit selfish in terms of bonding with other gays friendwise and etc. folks are like "if we can't date you, then we're not messing with you if you're a guy". i don't want to be alone just for being who i am because people are worrying over things that don't matter. having straight people refuse to associate with me because i'm gay and then having gay people refusing to associate with me because i'm not attractive or dateable in their eyes. i understand people are people BUT it sucks when people basically demean and devalue you as a human being or person over the little fucking things that aren't even affecting them or are hurting them.
    Last edited by refujiunderground; March 26th, 2013 at 02:02 PM.
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    ^^^^

    Refuji... FYI - the reason people get jobs and move out IS so they can have a place to make out/have sex that isn't under their mother's house/rule, and get on with their life.

    ...Unless you're this guy...
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    ^^^
    I ♥♥♥ Matt Smith.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Huntneo(PT) View Post
    I'm so fucking done with the level of unfairness that comes with life.

    If I didn't have two people that I love more than life itself I would be done.
    *AHEM*

    Don't you mean THREE PEOPLE?

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    Quote Originally Posted by borg69unimatrix View Post
    ^^^^

    Refuji... FYI - the reason people get jobs and move out IS so they can have a place to make out/have sex that isn't under their mother's house/rule, and get on with their life.

    ...Unless you're this guy...
    don't get me wrong. moving out and having my own spot is what i want and need, not only that it gives me my indepedence where i can do whatever i want, helps my confidence and gets me away from this sea of negativity that i'm surrounded by. i most definitely don't want to be living in this place forever and as soon as i'm able to find a spot, i'm on out of here. it sucks that my mother just doesn't understand where she thinks that gay people shouldn't have their rights or all this homophobia propaganda outthere where we should be discriminated against. i know that she loves me because i'm her son and all but i just wish she accepted me for who i am and showed me support knowing that the world out here is not on gay people's side.

    i feel that she's holding back how she really feels and that shes just waiting for me to go full blown gay on here where i'm going to gay bars and all for her to basically disown me. you know, almost like in order for her to still love me as a mother and for me to still view her as her son, i have to do and be what she wants or sees fit. if i decide to go off, get a boyfriend, go to gay bars and be openly gay to everybody, i wouldn't be her son anymore where i could talk to her like how i am now. that would hurt but at the same time, i'm tired of having to cater to other people to make them happy and etc. it's time that i do what makes me happy and not what makes other people happy.

    i guess it comes back to my fear of being alone and having to deal with shit all by myself because i don't think i can make it.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Cupid View Post
    I have a major headache, and I don't like my name change. Going back to CupidBoy.
    'Sapp dude?

    BTW I like Cupidboy better............... I also missed Liam cute face.

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    Quote Originally Posted by refujiunderground View Post
    don't get me wrong. moving out and having my own spot is what i want to do. i most definitely don't want to be living in this place forever and as soon as i'm able to find a spot, i'm on out of here so i can have a life of my own. it sucks that my mother just doesn't understand where she thinks that gay people shouldn't have their rights or all this homophobia propaganda outthere where we should be discriminated against. i know that she loves me because i'm her son and all but i just wish she accepted me for who i am and showed me support knowing that the world out here is out on gay people's side.
    Not that I'm siding with your mom... or maybe I am ???

    When I was 18, I had a GF (didn't figure out I was gay yet). I brought her to the house, and attempted to get my mom to allow her to spend nights there. My mother refused, and told me that if I wanted to do that, get a job, my own apartment, and then I can do anything I want to... which I did.

    Sure... I had some resentment at the time, but she was right. At that age (and yours), there's NO (!!!) reason why she should still be supporting me (AND her). It's her house. If you want to live there, you have to abide by HER rules. If you want freedom to do whatever you want (or with whomever) you're going to have to leave the nest and do it.

    IMO making out with someone in your mother's house is disrespectful to your mother, and to whomever you're making out with. You think you got it all worked out on how it's going to be on the outside, but honestly, you don't have a clue. Granted, SOME of the stuff you worry about is possible, but it's tip of the ice burg stuff you're stressing over.

    You WILL make other friends, gay or otherwise, and you WILL (eventually) find someone... unless you're hell bent on sabotaging yourself for the rest of your life - and even then, there's still going to be people who like and care about you, in spite of yourself.
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    Quote Originally Posted by borg69unimatrix View Post
    Not that I'm siding with your mom... or maybe I am ???

    When I was 18, I had a GF (didn't figure out I was gay yet). I brought her to the house, and attempted to get my mom to allow her to spend nights there. My mother refused, and told me that if I wanted to do that, get a job, my own apartment, and then I can do anything I want to... which I did.

    Sure... I had some resentment at the time, but she was right. At that age (and yours), there's NO (!!!) reason why she should still be supporting me (AND her). It's her house. If you want to live there, you have to abide by HER rules. If you want freedom to do whatever you want (or with whomever) you're going to have to leave the nest and do it.

    IMO making out with someone in your mother's house is disrespectful to your mother, and to whomever you're making out with. You think you got it all worked out on how it's going to be on the outside, but honestly, you don't have a clue. Granted, SOME of the stuff you worry about is possible, but it's tip of the ice burg stuff you're stressing over.

    You WILL make other friends, gay or otherwise, and you WILL (eventually) find someone... unless you're hell bent on sabotaging yourself for the rest of your life - and even then, there's still going to be people who like and care about you, in spite of yourself.
    you're most definitely right. being that it's my parent's house, i have to abide by their rules even if i hate them. i don't have much of a choice.

    the only thing that irks me is that i don't know how or if i can make it on my own especially money wise out here in new jersey out of all places. i don't want to live in an area where i'm going to be dodging rats, worry about having my place broken into and running from bullets daily like the projects or a really bad neighborhood and i don't know if i'll be able to find a job where i can pay for my daily expenses such as a car or transportation fees, rent, gas, water, utility, food, and etc. with the way rent is, i don't even know if i could even afford a place of my own in the hood since you have places charging out the ass like 600 dollars a month. it irks me how bad the job market is where places are on some bullshit in terms of hiring and they're not even paying enough. like wtf? i guess what i'm saying is i don't want end up in a situation where i'm basically sacrificing myself just to be independent where i'm working 24/7, 2 jobs and saving every penny i get to simply get to survive on my own. it wouldn't be worth it to me. i don't want to rely on anybody anymore such as my parents and i don't want to find myself in a situation where i'm basically killing myself to manage and still falling short.

    in term of having gay friends and a boyfriend. you're right about that. everything will work itself in time.
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    Quote Originally Posted by GiancarloC View Post
    Refuj... take action and do something. I live on my own. Sure there are some bills, but I did get a good deal on an apartment. I'm sure there is something you can afford in a good place. And i'm sure with a college degree, you could get a better job than making minimum wage. Maybe put the idea of a relationship on hold until you get settled in a job.

    And $600/month is expensive? I must have been in LA too long. I'm paying $695/month for a 600 square foot studio... it's nice, and that's considered a bargain here.
    i have a bachelors degree in criminal justice with no experience in my field in an area which has a high unemployment rate and everybody is basically competing over any job opening because there is little to none in my field. i fucked up some job opportunities that i had such as us customs, my township's police exam and the nj state troopers application. i pretty much am fucked for the most part with the law enforcement thing which is why i'm planning on going to law school. my degree isn't going to cut it if i'm looking for a serious job. either that or i join the military. i actually tried to get a job in the department of corrections, did the test and everything but being that there's a waiting list that stretches for some years in order to get to the academy if i make it that far. same thing with all the nj police exam where there's a waiting list, it's NOT going to work. i can't wait another year to get things going or rely on things in this state to pick up. i need to make something happen now.

    i pretty much have to get cracking now with it. finding any job wouldn't be a headache but finding a career job with the degree i have isn't something that i can rely on at all at this point.
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    Hey fellow Whovians, are you guys watching Orphan Black as well ? Im very excited about that too.
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    Hey fellow Whovians, are you guys watching Orphan Black as well ? Im very excited about that too.
    I had to Google it- never heard of it:

    http://www.bbcamerica.com/orphan-black/about-the-show/

    Sounds promising!!! I set the DVD to record it.
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    Quote Originally Posted by MissAnne View Post
    Hey fellow Whovians, are you guys watching Orphan Black as well ? Im very excited about that too.
    Sounds like a good show I am adding it to my now following list

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    today in stupid fags: a guy wrote me on a dating site and attached a picture - supposedly of him. a very handsome ginger dude... with a big fat "deposit photos" watermark on it. i guess this is more funny than infuriating.

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    Quote Originally Posted by BENDERBOY View Post
    I will be now. plus the new show In The Flesh.

    http://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/p00szzcm

    In The Flesh
    looks good, but we dont get that here
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    Quote Originally Posted by hylas View Post
    today in stupid fags: a guy wrote me on a dating site and attached a picture - supposedly of him. a very handsome ginger dude... with a big fat "deposit photos" watermark on it. i guess this is more funny than infuriating.
    Oh yes. The people that plagiarize by claiming other's images as their own are the ones that get immediately sent to recycle bin. I get a chuckle out of it now it but on the inside, I just have to think how shallow they have to be to pretend to be something they are not when especially, if we plan on meeting up, I will find you that pic is clearly not you.

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    ^ its a source for stock photos.

    ^^ yeah, fakers are stupid... but faking it with a picture that basically has "this is fake!" literally written all over it is a whole new level.

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    If I ever need validation again that paparazzi are literal vultures, there is this video...


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    Quote Originally Posted by maxpowr9 View Post
    ... especially, if we plan on meeting up, I will find you that pic is clearly not you.
    This whole thing reminds me of this State Farm ad:


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