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    Don't be sorry Miss Annie....

    Just because the company decided to wash their hands of his boss is not

    necessarily a bad thing. They they had to get rid of that guy so they could

    give Loki the promotion and the big bucks.

    I mean, they did't throw our baby out with the bath water now did they?

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    i swear when i do start having sex, i want to TOP! not bottom but fucking TOP. i'm going to be the one shoving it up the ass, not taking it. fucking tired of folks trying to make the short guy the fucking sex object. goddamn, just because i'm short doesn't make me less of a man or submissive. i'll take it afterwards BUT i want to fucking top first.
    one thing about the closet/you don't have to hurry/it will be bad tomorrow/so brother, don't you worry

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    Quote Originally Posted by Huntneo(PT) View Post
    Oh geez...I'm starting to feel so old.

    I just wrote '2003' in the year graduated from high school box on a job application.
    Old? I left high school in 2008, and I feel archaic.
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    Yes, while I do enjoy Cinnamon Toast Crunch, I much prefer French Toast Crunch.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Huntneo(PT) View Post
    hmmmm...sounds like some recent issues with guys you're getting to know online?
    naw, just a random rant that i said for no reason. feeling really good right now though.
    one thing about the closet/you don't have to hurry/it will be bad tomorrow/so brother, don't you worry

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    holy shit. i can't stop laughing. this record is so bad that i'm dying right now. dayum, busta rhymes best years are way behind him. the hook has my stomach hurting. he can't be serious dropping this type of shit. hang it up, bust, hang it up.

    the irony of this song is that he's talking about himself. it's just like how on his earlier albums he used to do those stupid intros and outros about "2 years left motherfuckers, 1 year left until 2000 then it all ends". the world didn't end but his run sure did. dude started to fall off to the point where he's making wack ass songs like the one at the start of the post.

    @ skylar grey's being on the track. she sounds like death with that horrendous voice of hers. who told her that she could sing outside of the shower?
    one thing about the closet/you don't have to hurry/it will be bad tomorrow/so brother, don't you worry

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    Quote Originally Posted by whitedavo View Post
    ...so you've never had sex?
    yep, never. not running to it either but if it happens, it happens. afraid to do it even though i would like to at some point.
    one thing about the closet/you don't have to hurry/it will be bad tomorrow/so brother, don't you worry

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    Quote Originally Posted by whitedavo View Post
    hold up though, I'm real curious. you remember Busta's old shit so how old are you?

    just saw your response looking up after the thing i posted. sorry for that.

    just noticed i quoted on your edit. so much is happening so fast.

    i'm 26 years old turning 27 in the early fall. still young even though i do have to admit that i feel a little weird being 26 with no form of dating, relationship, love or sex experience. don't think i'm quite ready for it though.

    that song is a bit old but not too old. that's way better than the bullshit he's putting out now. dude is looking more of a bigger joke than how he was when he first started out with "woo ha" and "dangerous". i guess this is karma for him staying refusing to give up who killed his bodyguard after his bodyguard jumped in front of a bullet. he thought that saying rest in peace to his bodyguard in one of his videos was going to make up for all that too. shameful.
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    ..If nothing else it was worth coming back to see the funny gifs. Fucking priceless and lets me know..this place will probably never change. It seems that a strange and calm night has brought me back once again. But like countless times before I'll drift away again.

    Like the idea of this thread..seriously wish I diddn't find it though.

    ...Where do I begin.

    Getting laid off from my job a month ago and dealing with bullshit unemployment, travelling to Ft. Lauderdale with a friend and making DAMN good friends, fun hook ups, meeting actual leathermen and then having that ripped away and at a loss once returning home. Getting cut back there by a bastard who did not trim his fingernails and it got infected and fought for 3 weeks trying to heal it without going to doctor. Seeing as how no medical insurance and whatnot. That is finally almost healed but also on my birthday week got sick about the same time the infection back there was going on. Got hit with a horrible flu and everything was enhanced because of the infection. Hired back to the job that laid me off and trying to decide if I should stay or go. Can't get back in that false sense of security.

    The only good I've experienced recently is hanging out with friends more, going out drinking..alot, and ft. lauderdale. Damn I miss you ft. lauderdale. Why you so far away..

    Oh yeah and a typical american rant. Fucking rent is due soon and very tight and excessive drinking and bar helping was probably 99% the culprit. 1% blamed on government and taxes and rabble rabble...

    Oh and being so fucking tired from working now that I come home and pretty much pass out and then hype up on coffee to be cool at work the next day. I'm heading into a depressing and mundane cycle..need to find a way to break it.

    Also, so desperately wanting to get away from this job and find something better. Being able to do more and have more fun. Maybe I'll work on that more this weekend. Although more then likely I'll bullshit, jack off, work next week and be tired, and bitch and rant again. Must..break this cycle..

    Been postponing putting CM10 on my epic 4g touch too. So freaking easy..really been needing to blog alot lately too. I really should start doing that again. But the question is where and how. Currently helping a friend do gay erotic stories and helping him manage his blog. It's so damn frustrating some of the things he doesn't use and how he doesn't know how to really get traffic to his blog. Damn I could do it in a hearbeat if it was my own. But still. Meh.

    Mood of the week=meh

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lefty View Post
    Don't be sorry Miss Annie....

    Just because the company decided to wash their hands of his boss is not

    necessarily a bad thing.
    I see what you did there.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Huntneo(PT) View Post
    I'm addicted to Cinnamon Toast Crunch.
    I prefer Golden Grahams. Same great texture, without the cloying sugar and cinnamon. Not a fan of super sweet cereals (Corn Pops were created by Satan) and I really hate anything that goes overboard on the cinnamon.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kien View Post
    I came out to a couple of friends last night.

    And just a few minutes ago, I got a text from an unknown number saying, "We know you are gay."

    I guess I'm a little creeped out, but more curious.
    Yay! Congrats

    Well, you could try to creep them out in return, or just say you dropped your phone in water and lost your contacts a while ago.... lmao
    Author of Lost in a Dream. If you want to make me smile, read it and tell me what you think.

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    Quote Originally Posted by TheSpectatingLoner View Post
    You know, I will never not be amused by people who need to equate height with power or dominance and then equate dominance with being the "top."

    I can't. It's so elementary.

    I also feel the same when I constantly overhear women talk shit on short men. This is the kinda shit that makes me the most insistent on solitude. I simply can't deal with human beings and their way of thinking.
    there's a lot of guys that are like that outthere though that let's their height either stroke their ego or hurt their confidence. you have the tall dude that thinks he's special because he's 6 feet and you have the short guy that is all sad about how short he is because of other people talking shit about short people.

    never understood why so many people give a fuck about height though. *shrugs* i treat everybody the same, short, tall, medium sized or whatever. whenever someone tries to play that height game bullshit such as "you're short so you're going to be the bottom or my sex toy", i correct them right away because i don't let my height dictate shit. i will hurt a tall guy if i have to to show how much i really care about that shit. i can't fight so better believe i'm going to grab me a baseball bat and swing off. folks need to learn not to judge a book by its cover because they might be surprised what's in that shit.

    Quote Originally Posted by Kien View Post
    I came out to a couple of friends last night.

    And just a few minutes ago, I got a text from an unknown number saying, "We know you are gay."

    I guess I'm a little creeped out, but more curious.
    well, no offense but judging from your pic, even a blind man could see that shit. congrats btw.
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    Found this by accident, and laughed my ASS off !!!



    http://www.justusboys.com/forum/signaturepics/sigpic216959_1.gif

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    Quote Originally Posted by Huntneo(PT) View Post
    Hey guys...will you do me a favor for the next couple of days? or permanently...if you can manage it...

    When you're out and about and find yourself interacting with strangers (whether it be in passing, or whatever)...be sure to smile, or speak when you can. Even if they don't return it...smile and/or nod at them anyway.

    You never know what people are going through inside.

    I've been in some of the worst moods some days, but because I had a random person go out of their way to speak to me, or simply smile at me...it made me feel so much better.


    I actually do this all the time, just by habit, and it does make people smile. And their smile in turn will make you feel good. It's a simple gesture that can make a difference.

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    I need a boyfriend. Now.
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    Funny, I thought I'd feel more connected to the gay community by being on here, but it's had the opposite effect. I feel even more disconnected and detached. Maybe I'm just looking in the wrong place(s).

    It could just be all the crap I'm dealing with right now. Maybe I'll feel differently after a, much needed, week long break. Have an uncle coming to the US during spring break, so my family's going to show him around NY and other neighboring states. Gonna have a going away party for my grandma too, since she's going back with my uncle 'cause she might pass away soon and that's where she wants to be.
    "Don't hold strong opinions about things you don't understand."

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    Quote Originally Posted by Huntneo(PT) View Post
    Hey guys...will you do me a favor for the next couple of days? or permanently...if you can manage it...

    When you're out and about and find yourself interacting with strangers (whether it be in passing, or whatever)...be sure to smile, or speak when you can. Even if they don't return it...smile and/or nod at them anyway.

    You never know what people are going through inside.

    I've been in some of the worst moods some days, but because I had a random person go out of their way to speak to me, or simply smile at me...it made me feel so much better.
    Totally agree. When I see someone smiling - even a stranger - I feel so much better, no matter how bad my day was.

    I try to be courteous to every one, say "Please" and "Thank You", address others by "Sir" or "Miss", excuse myself if I'm in someone's way or bump into them, and hold the door open for ladies, the elderly and handicapped persons. I might sound like a goody-two shoes (Not quite), but it takes more effort to be an asshole than polite.

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    Quote Originally Posted by FuryOfFirestorm View Post
    Totally agree. When I see someone smiling - even a stranger - I feel so much better, no matter how bad my day was.

    I try to be courteous to every one, say "Please" and "Thank You", address others by "Sir" or "Miss", excuse myself if I'm in someone's way or bump into them, and hold the door open for ladies, the elderly and handicapped persons. I might sound like a goody-two shoes (Not quite), but it takes more effort to be an asshole than polite.
    In terms of customer service, I have an involuntary reaction to be nice to others. I hardly ever smile [I guess it's an Eastern European thing] but will still be courteous.

    Even when I was at the store today picking up ginger ale for my fernet, I said "have a nice day" without a second thought.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kiwils View Post
    Funny, I thought I'd feel more connected to the gay community by being on here, but it's had the opposite effect. I feel even more disconnected and detached. Maybe I'm just looking in the wrong place(s).

    It could just be all the crap I'm dealing with right now. Maybe I'll feel differently after a, much needed, week long break. Have an uncle coming to the US during spring break, so my family's going to show him around NY and other neighboring states. Gonna have a going away party for my grandma too, since she's going back with my uncle 'cause she might pass away soon and that's where she wants to be.
    I feel you. I recently had to take a break from Tumblr, because seeing everyone on there with their shit together made me feel like my life was a waste. I had to take a step back and realize that

    1) My life isn't perfect, but it's up to me to make it better.

    2) Stop comparing my self to other people.

    3) The grass is always greener on Tumblr. I'm only seeing the shiny paint job, not the rotting foundation underneath. Just because someone takes a lot of pretty pictures with their BF doesn't mean their life is peaches and cream.

    Take as much time off the internet that you need, handle the crap you've been dealt, use this time to connect with your family. Good luck!

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    WOW Kiwils, just WOW

    You win the AWARD for March.
    Hit every part of this threads title and
    hit short jabs but Hard as hell ones.



    Attempts at humour aside.

    Reach out here a bit man.

    Connection is a two way street and

    it's paved with communication.

    You need/want to talk

    people here will listen.

    Our highway has a place for your car.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Huntneo(PT) View Post
    Hey guys...will you do me a favor for the next couple of days? or permanently...if you can manage it...

    When you're out and about and find yourself interacting with strangers (whether it be in passing, or whatever)...be sure to smile, or speak when you can. Even if they don't return it...smile and/or nod at them anyway.

    You never know what people are going through inside.

    I've been in some of the worst moods some days, but because I had a random person go out of their way to speak to me, or simply smile at me...it made me feel so much better.
    I actually do this all the time, though not necessarily always consciously. There are so many things one can be negative about in this world (even the news seem to focus on these events) so why not do the simple little things that can make people feel better. I notice that a genuine smile is almost always reciprocated.

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    It's time to get my butt out of the Midwest.... It's March 22 and 30 degrees. We're expecting snow tomorrow. Had my heart set on setting up some veggie gardens this weekend. wtf.

    But yeah Kiwis takes it by far.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Huntneo(PT) View Post
    reality is...there's no timetable. People reach different 'heights' in their life at different times.
    .

    Yes, yes. I run into people from high school and Ill ask "So what are you up to ?" and some of them reply. "Oh, I just went to Community". I think: What do you mean you just went to Community. They have an associates that they should be proud of.

    I do it too, I compare myself with people that are already in Master or Phd programs. I try to be most grateful for the things that Ive accomplished. It can be difficult though, so I get it.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Huntneo(PT) View Post
    reality is...there's no timetable. People reach different 'heights' in their life at different times.
    Truth. Sexuality crisis, religious crisis, wicked mental health issues, attempted suicide, still trooping along. Haven't peaked yet. Best friend peaked at 21...house, car, 47$/h contractor. He's 28 now and a total fucking emotional mess.

    Can't deal with the "what-ifs", and as much as I sometimes do, the "what can be" is more powerful.
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    man, my stomach is bothering me right now. feel like i want to throw up.
    one thing about the closet/you don't have to hurry/it will be bad tomorrow/so brother, don't you worry

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    Just so there's no misunderstanding, I wasn't coming from a place of anger. I also wasn't trying to imply anything negative concerning this site or the people on it. If anything, knowing how great some people are on here only exacerbates my disappointment in feeling the way I do. Certain people here, especially on this specific thread, have been quite nice to me. I guess I just thought I'd feel some sense of belonging, instead of feeling further out of place.

    @Lefty I'm sure it's very much my own fault. I'm very closed off, even with family. Outside of casual conversation and activities, I feel no need to interact with them. As much as friends and family vent to me and ask me for advice, you'd think I'd be comfortable enough to reciprocate.
    "Don't hold strong opinions about things you don't understand."

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kiwils View Post
    Just so there's no misunderstanding, I wasn't coming from a place of anger. I also wasn't trying to imply anything negative concerning this site or the people on it. If anything, knowing how great some people are on here only exacerbates my disappointment in feeling the way I do. Certain people here, especially on this specific thread, have been quite nice to me. I guess I just thought I'd feel some sense of belonging, instead of feeling further out of place.
    I didn't take anything negative from it. JUB is a very interesting place. I've met some really cool people, and some not-so-cool people. But you know what? That's how life is. Some people say hi, some people don't. Some people stop and talk, some people walk on by like it's none of their business. What I've learned about JUB is that it's really no different than what's out there in real life. You only get to see some sides of people. It's not always the best and it's not always the worst.

    So you know what I say? Smile and take JUB for what it is: a place where bigots are in the vast minority. A place where you could be a prancing pony and nobody would give a shit.

    Author of Lost in a Dream. If you want to make me smile, read it and tell me what you think.

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    JUB...A place where you could be a prancing pony and nobody would give a shit.
    Awesome quote!


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    Kiki

    This is going to be difficult for me seeing as how you are a New Yorker and all, but we of the Left Coast
    have learned that a few (RonBoy and 'DQ' for example) of you are worth saving. You personally can't be
    all bad since our little Shy-Ster admits you are a friend.
    -------------------------------------------------------
    Now, humour moment is over my serious opinion begins...

    This thread started out as therapy for RJ/fuji. He created it to confront the items in its' title. Amazing,
    it has helped him but even more amazing the other people it has helped do the same things. The size of
    the issue has no weight here. The person does. It is not a judgemental place, it is a place where you
    shake out anxieties, share them or air them or both. Kind of a pressure valve and a damn useful one at
    that.

    Stick dude, there's lots of places to go, learn grow and even have a bit of fun. BTW, I think its' fantastic
    that you grandmother ...a. knows she wants to finish on this plane near where she started. b. it is a wish
    or desire she can still attend to and c. a family member will be there for support. We should all be so very
    fortunate.

    End of lecture, welcome to the Chiaroscuro that is JUB.

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    Good Jason.

    Very good.

    Now, lets channel that negativism. Lose the scatological and sexually violent overtones.

    Breathe soft and gentle as on a new born soul. Let your breast swell with tenderness

    and your heart overflow with the sweet concoctions from your soul.

    If that doesn't make you feel better.

    Kill his Ass.

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    @Huntneo
    Me too. I always try to smile and say thank you + bow especially going to the groceries. I like to strike up small convos with the workers if I go there often. I always says hi to my classmates even though they didn't say/wave hi back. It bugs me sometimes but I guess some people just don't like the custom.

    @Kiwils
    I feel you. TBH I started all the social media stuff like Tumblr and Twitter as I want to know gay guys more since I have no gay friends in real life. I have to admit sometimes I don't get what they are thinking at all. But then I am following all the college boys so it's probably that. Hope you have a great time with your family

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    it annoys me how my mom runs to me to give her advice on something she already knows or shouldn't be any surprise to her. what was she expecting? she thinks that trying to be superwoman trying to help a fucking sociopath who doesn't give a fuck about even his own damn self and is also a narcissist is going to turn out well. i feel that i'm being burdened with someone elses problem and they expect me to do something for them that they should have been done for themselves.

    she dealt with my father's bullshit before i was born, tolerated it, brought her seeds into a shitty situation and then wants us to save her out of something that she basically helped create. she should have been left him and took us with her way BEFORE this shit. she should have just moved back to england and dealt with shit instead of being all scared and going like "i don't want to do that and this". well, you would have been in a better position than where you're at now having to worry about going back to school, paying the mortgage because my father/your husband doesn't give a fuck and expects you to do his responsibility for him. then he turns around talks shit about you behind your back to me about how he's a hard worker, how he pays the mortgage, is broke every month lying out his ass as always.

    it's crazy how i have a mother who seems to have very low self esteem/confidence and severe anxiety issues and is VERY stubborn when it comes to understanding that she needs help. i also have a father who is sociopathic and narcissistic who seems to care about controlling others and thinks he's better than everybody else despite being a bum that leeches off of people. then to look @ myself and see that i'm not doing any better than them where i'm still living with my parents @ 26. horrible.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Huntneo(PT) View Post
    ^ I didn't know your mom was from England? Was she born and raised there? That's interesting to me, as my partner is English.

    Also: it really does make me feel bad that you're in such a crazy situation with your parents, 'fuji. Have you ever considered taking your mother along with you to therapy sessions or anything? It sounds as if she's so "used to" and comfortable with the hell she has gotten herself into that she doesn't go all the way with seeking a way out of it.

    One can sit around all day and complain/talk about making changes...but until you actually get up and start doing something about making those changes happen...well...you know.

    somehow, i ended up being sent to one of the backpages while responding to this. why the fuck does this keep happening to me?

    your partner's english? cool. the english really don't give a fuck.

    my mom's from jamaica. she was raised by her grandmother from the time she was a baby because her mom moved over to england after her father went up there to set up a home base for the rest of the family. she moved to england when she was 13 to live with her parents who sent for her to live with them along with her other sisters. i don't know exactly everything that happened but my mom and her mother didn't get along where her mom would belittle her, basically putting her down, saying she wasn't going to be shit and she had some issues with her sisters since they didn't grow up together. she had anxiety and depression issues. she basically went off to the army so she could get away from her issues at home and be out on her own. whatever issues she had, she pretty much tried to ignore them and move on with her life but it turns out that her issues that she's been avoiding, trying to handle on her on apparently led to the choices that she's been making all her life which have been some decisions that are kicking her in the ass today. unfortunately, she passed some of that shit down to me.

    i've tried to encourage her to go to counseling with me but she isn't interested. she was one of the people around me that had discouraged me the longest from even getting involved with that telling me that i was better off ignoring it or dealing with it myself. she has gone to therapy on her own to see somebody and she stopped going because she didn't get anything that she wanted from it. she doesn't get it. like you said, she is too comfortable with her situation but i think that she refuses to accept that she needs help. she thinks that accept that she may have a problem on her hands where she needs to get serious help will take away her independence when it's the other way around. like she is literally hurting herself to keep a marriage alive that isn't working and trying to help someone who has no interest in helping himself. if my mother didn't come into my father's life, he would probably still be homeless or living in some apartment shack in brooklyn basically fucking up his money.

    it makes me cringe thinking about my father, man. he REALLY irks me and he doesn't think he's fucked up. the man literally doesn't care about himself and basically uses other people for what he can get out of them. as long as i've known him, dude doesn't buy any clothes of his own. my mom has brought him damn near everything. even his underwear. he'll wear my clothes too and not give a fuck. he'll even wear my fucking draws, man that can't even fucking fit him. i had some boxer briefs that were 32-34 that i've been wearing for years and recently, dude decides to fucking stuffed his overweight ass into them. i tried to wear them and that shit has stretched to the point where it fucking falls off of me. 2 weeks ago, dude stole some pants my mom brought for my brother and claiming that it was his. he literally argued with my mom saying that those pants that couldn't fit him was his because he wanted them. i really can't stand his ass. dude will be the first person to tell someone what to do, what to eat, how to dress, try to make someone feel stupid while making himself out to be some genius or something BUT yet he'll turn around and use that person for money to for whatever he wants talking about "he doesn't have money for work". the motherfucker has a job, spends his money foolishly on lottery tickets, scratch offs, liquor and who knows what else then turn around saying "can i please borrow your money?"

    just dealing with my father, i want to move the fuck out BUT damn, it ain't as easy as one, two, three like i wish it would be.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Huntneo(PT) View Post
    Good grief. Yeah, your dad is a HOT. MESS.

    I'm sorry your mother seems to be so comfortable in such a bad spot though. It's good she has you there watching over her in a way. Give yourself a pat on the back. I admire the "patience" you seem to have with your family members. I think if they were a bit more "together"...it would have a positive effect on you. Honestly...it seems like you're the "most together" person in the house, and I have to give you props for that. It must be a lot trying to tackle your own issues and handle the stress of your family members as well. In the meantime...keep doing what you're doing to release some of those emotions you have brewing up. Let it all out...here and wherever else you can. Just take care of yourself and do something fun and positive each day to keep a little bit of sunshine in your day.

    OKay...I'm done talking out of my ass.






    sorry...but that bit KILLED me.

    I can actually HEAR you saying that.
    thanks, man.

    calling him a hot mess is a compliment because he's far from hot. most definitely don't want to stroke that man's ego up more than it already is. it's bad enough remembering all the times he talks about himself being some king or whatever fantasy lie he came up with. dude is a total mess, he doesn't think he is where he needs to correct it and he thinks everybody around him is.

    i wouldn't say i'm the most together person in the house. that would be giving way too much credit because i have my head up my ass and trying to pull it out.

    you know, the whole situation thinking about it really gets me angry because i feel that i'm basically paying for something that i have nothing to do with. i feel as if this whole entire mess is basically because of someone elses selfishness where they just listened to themselves and didn't think about the other people around them. both my parents. my father is simply in it for his own damn self. my mother is basically living a fucking fantasy and a whole lot of it was fucking denial too. i'm just angry because i feel that i am now and have been for a long time has to do with that. it's like you know, my parents couldn't be bothered with trying to help me out with my issues when i was a kid and a teenager so i had to basically figure out my own way in which i shot myself in the foot. it's that i feel neglected although my parents were around. i feel that my mom wasn't able to help me with the problems that were really fucking me up where she could have helped by putting me on to them because she was already bothered that i had a developmental delay problem as a kid. i feel that my father wasn't a father to me. he wasn't an active participant of my life even though he lived in the same household as me. he did things with me sometimes such as teach me how to ride a bike, take me to some places sometimes but other than that, dude was up and out the house most of the time. he would just go to work and not come home until the next day in the wee hours of the morning either drunk or whatever. my mom was always there for me where she would show up at the school talent shows, minor league baseball practice, take us out to the mall and basically be a damn parent. she was basically being a mother 24/7 and a father could have cared less about being there. so it pisses me off whenever i hear my father talk about "remember this guy that i used to bring you to when you were a baby" and try to talk about all the times him and me shared together as if that's supposed to change the fact that his ass wasn't there 95% of the time. then when his ass decides to be there, he's basically making it all about him as if i'm supposed to give him all the attention in the world. it's as if i become the father and he becomes the son. yet his ass wants to tell me what the fuck to do and make me feel like a kid so he can feel like the father. i feel that dude owes me a whole fucking lot. the first being an apology for not being the father he should have been and the second for not being a father figure. i really think i would have been better off without him in my life.

    and the last part, yeah, believe me, it's that bad. one time, he tried to wear my mother's purple shirt because there were no other shirts to wear. he doesn't give a fuck.
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    Quote Originally Posted by RazorzEdge88 View Post
    refuji, you need to do like I've done and move out and just give up on your mess of a family.
    i know but i need to be able to find a roof over my head first. thought about applying to section 8 while getting shit straight.
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    Quote Originally Posted by refujiunderground View Post
    i know but i need to be able to find a roof over my head first. thought about applying to section 8 while getting shit straight.
    have you ever thought about enlisting in the military?

    ... It could open up other doors for you

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    Quote Originally Posted by johaninsc View Post
    have you ever thought about enlisting in the military?

    ... It could open up other doors for you
    yeah, but i dunno if i could handle that though.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Huntneo(PT) View Post
    You know...nostalgia is one bittersweet bitch.

    I just watched a few episodes of Are you Afraid of the Dark? (a tv show I used to watch as a kid) with my better half, and I was almost in tears when it was over. I know...it sounds so stupid, but memories of things you really enjoyed as a child can be really overwhelming. It just reminded me of a time in my life when things were so simple and "innocent". Before I became a jaded adult with adult problems and adult concerns.

    I guess I just become a child again for a short time while revisiting such things, and I kinda miss it. I wish I could really express what I mean in words...but it's tough. I hope some of you know what I mean.
    which episodes you of ayaod did you see?

    the funny thing about that is it's saturday night too. 20 year ago, it would be SNICK!!!! well the time right now it would be nick at nite but the best part about saturdays was SNICK.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Huntneo(PT) View Post
    You know...nostalgia is one bittersweet bitch.

    I just watched a few episodes of Are you Afraid of the Dark? (a tv show I used to watch as a kid) with my better half, and I was almost in tears when it was over. I know...it sounds so stupid, but memories of things you really enjoyed as a child can be really overwhelming. It just reminded me of a time in my life when things were so simple and "innocent". Before I became a jaded adult with adult problems and adult concerns.

    I guess I just become a child again for a short time while revisiting such things, and I kinda miss it. I wish I could really express what I mean in words...but it's tough. I hope some of you know what I mean.
    I think the Halloween episode of Boys Meets World where it's a murder mystery is one of the best episodes ever.

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    haha yeah. I was just telling my partner that. It really put me back in that *place*, you know? Saturday night...watching AYAOTD, etc...good times.

    We watched The tale of the Midnight Ride, Locker 22, and the Unexpected Visitor
    I feel the same way watching Bewitched, I Dream of Jeannie, Bionic Woman, Wonder Woman, Star Trek...
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    oh goodness...don't get me started.
    Razorz should revoke his 90s card for not mentioning Legends of the Hidden Temple.

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    Quote Originally Posted by RazorzEdge88 View Post
    I always thought Are You Afraid was overrated (never really scared me). :-x

    Now shows like Salute Your Shorts, Double Dare, Guts, and the various Nicktoons are right up my alley.
    Don't forget Hey Dude!, Figure It Out, The Secret World of Alex Mack, My Brother and Me, All That, and Kenan and Kel.

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    Quote Originally Posted by dereperez View Post
    Don't forget Hey Dude!, Figure It Out, The Secret World of Alex Mack, My Brother and Me, All That, and Kenan and Kel.
    You forgot Rugrats, Rocko's Modern Life, The Adventures of Pete & Pete, Space Cases, and Clarissa Explains It All.

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    Quote Originally Posted by FuryOfFirestorm View Post
    You forgot Rugrats, Rocko's Modern Life, The Adventures of Pete & Pete, Space Cases, and Clarissa Explains It All.
    Touche on the last 3 but the first two would fall under Nicktoons that Razor mentioned.

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    Quote Originally Posted by JohannBessler View Post
    Bionic Woman? I loved her!

    That Fembots series gave me nightmares for years.
    Fembots were definitely one of the highlights of the series. They scared me too!
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    Quote Originally Posted by loki81 View Post
    I like this guy a lot, but god damn... do you really need me to kiss you every 5 minutes when we're out for dinner/drinks with your friends?

    spent the entire night riding the edge of my PDA comfort level. there's a great picture where you can obviously see him practically attacking me, with me just looking stiff and awkward and uncomfortable.
    You're like me... bitch when you're single, and bitch when you're not.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Huntneo(PT) View Post
    You know...something that really grates my nerves...

    Guys who sit around and complain about not being able to "find anyone" to date, but they have the idea of this perfect guy in their head while focusing on the most superficial shit when determining who is 'worth their time'.

    Preferences are fine, but I just find it a little funny how it's usually the ones that complain the most about being alone are also the ones who are very narrow minded when it comes to dating.

    I have no sympathy for them.

    I won't date x,y,z...but omgwahwahwah I'm alone on Saturday night.

    You sit and wait on your perfect prince charming. Meanwhile, everyone else is out doing their thing, having fun, and having great sex, and in relationships because we realized there is no Mr. Perfect.

    okay...spill over.
    EXACTLY!!!! the over picky guy that shoots every guy down even if they're close enough to what they want in a guy BUT then bitches about why they can't find that one person that is exactly what they want to a tee. they want him to look like this, act like that and like everything that they want them to like as if he's a robot or something. there's too many guys outthere that think like that.

    some of these dudes have like a bunch of guys to chose from BUT they're extra picky with it. "he's not tall enough", "he does know how to dress", "he's just not my type. he doesn't like to go out to the club when i want to". wtf? they think they're better than every man outthere when it's them that's fucked up.
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    Quote Originally Posted by dereperez View Post
    Don't forget Hey Dude!, Figure It Out, The Secret World of Alex Mack, My Brother and Me, All That, and Kenan and Kel.
    Quote Originally Posted by FuryOfFirestorm View Post
    You forgot Rugrats, Rocko's Modern Life, The Adventures of Pete & Pete, Space Cases, and Clarissa Explains It All.
    I love the 90's Nick produce some of the best stuff during these times. Disney and CN too. I know CN use to air the black and white movies at midnight during cable channel and sometimes I stay up late to watch them

    Quote Originally Posted by loki81 View Post
    I like this guy a lot, but god damn... do you really need me to kiss you every 5 minutes when we're out for dinner/drinks with your friends?
    I think that's pretty cute. My str8 friends (coupled ones) pda all the time. I feel like rolling my eyes but I am mostly happy for them.

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    I tried out two new food items because a friend said they were good.

    1) Tea eggs...not sure what to think about them. They're ok I guess.

    2) Stinky tofu are vile. ABSOLUTELY VILE.

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