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    Don't let MissAnne fool y'all. She probably does things that would make us all look like little angels.
    Uh huh... yup.
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    So, I've been dating this woman. We met in Toronto. She moved to San Diego. Long story short she told me she had cancer. So, being the good boyfriend, I called her hospital. And...well. No record of a patient with her name. Extraordinarily offended, as she knew I wanted a career in surgical oncology and cancer was a sensitive topic. And she deleted her Facebook/Twitter and won't answer texts now. Think I'm done with women. This is the third psycho, and I am only 22.
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    Quote Originally Posted by -Callum- View Post
    So, I've been dating this woman. We met in Toronto. She moved to San Diego. Long story short she told me she had cancer. So, being the good boyfriend, I called her hospital. And...well. No record of a patient with her name. Extraordinarily offended, as she knew I wanted a career in surgical oncology and cancer was a sensitive topic. And she deleted her Facebook/Twitter and won't answer texts now. Think I'm done with women. This is the third psycho, and I am only 22.
    Psycho? Maybe. But I think it's more likely that she didn't want a long distance relationship or found someone else, and was too chickenshit to tell you upfront.

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    I don't know. All of her friends are deactivating their accounts. Starting to think her entire life was an elaborate hoax. If I hadn't actually met her, I'd think she was some basement dweller playing me. By friends I mean other identities. Never met the friends.
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    Quote Originally Posted by -Callum- View Post
    I don't know. All of her friends are deactivating their accounts. Starting to think her entire life was an elaborate hoax. If I hadn't actually met her, I'd think she was some basement dweller playing me. By friends I mean other identities. Never met the friends.
    Sounds like she was "catfishing", where you make up fake online identities in order to bolster your lies ("I'm totally straight - just check out my girlfriends' Tumblr page!" or "Of course I'm a model. Here's the Facebook page of my agency!")

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    Quote Originally Posted by JohannBessler View Post
    RJ, you can write your morning pages any old time.

    It's true that it works best in the morning...but a lot of people can't manage it. I myself never write them in the morning; I usually do it at night.

    About the therapy..

    ...I agree with Frank. I think therapy works best for people who have gone through a great trauma, like a divorce, or a crime victim, etc.

    I don't think it works at all for people with a brain chemistry situation. I honestly don't think it will work at all for you.

    I do think individual therapy might help you relate to your family a little better, but it ain't gonna do squat for your OCD and depression. In my humble opinion.

    Group therapy is a waste of time, imho.

    I was reading your words, and actually it seems like that you know yourself pretty well. It sounds like you have very successfully analyzed your situation, and all of the dymamics leading to it.

    If while you do your morning pages, you get a flash of inspiration--any sudden urges--listen to them. For example, suddenly you might get an idea out of the blue to go apply for work at Acme Inc. If you do, I'd strongly urge you to follow through. Your subconscious mind is speaking to you, and if you'll listen to it, it can help you.

    Good luck to you man.
    that's the annoying thing about morning pages. always having to remember writing into it in the morning. there's been a few times where i almost got to write them for the day and i'm trying not to skip any days. so far 38 or 39 days straight and counting.

    as for therapy, reading what you and frankfrank said, i'm beginning to contemplate on whether i should go this week or not. the thing is i dunno what might happen if i decide to no longer show up because to be honest with you, i don't feel like being there anymore. at first, it was cool but now, it's feels like a chore. don't really walk away with anything except some fresh air in the morning. might just stop coming altogether without telling them and only showing up to the shrink appointments.

    well, i haven't really got a sudden urge to do something like that while doing the morning pages. if there was one, it was to do something like job hunting or to masturbate.

    some good news though. i just shedded my labcorp bill that i've been owning for some months now. it feels good to pay bills and having to tell these damn money hungry, greed ass corporations to fuck off. the next step is to pay back direct loans. whether it's a year or 20 years from now, if i live long enough to see that debt go down to nothing after paying them back, i will tell them to kiss my ass and to go fuck themselves off too because i will no longer owe them shit. there's nothing more satisifying than paying a bill and looking into somebody's face knowing that they can't tell you shit about oweing them anything. that's one thing that i hate. oweing people money. anything that makes me feel like i'm a slave or being controlled by somebody where i have to feel somebody breathing over my neck. fuck that shit. i am all for reality and dreaming as well.

    one of the worst things is having to do something for money when you have no options. it fucking sucks. i hate having to be on my knees basically doing whatever to survive or to have some money to my name. it just feels shameful. as crazy and stupid as this sounds, i would rather sell drugs on the corner than to work at somewhere like taco hell again. working every two weeks and then making enough money where i have to manage it, then knowing that what i'm doing is not going to look good on my resume where employers won't take me seriously. then to top it off, these employers are acting like straight up bitches going like "we want people that have experience in the positions that we're offering" and the damn job isn't even fucking difficult. man, i was thinking about being a cop BUT fuck that. my heart isn't gear towards that line of work. i want to do something more than that so that's why i now want to go to law school. i feel that i would make more of an impact towards someone's life than telling people what to do and being a bully with a badge being told what to do, how i should dress, that i have to shave, that i have to shine my shoes or whatever the fuck. HELL NO. i would rather practice law than to enforce it.
    one thing about the closet/you don't have to hurry/it will be bad tomorrow/so brother, don't you worry

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    Quote Originally Posted by JohannBessler View Post
    ^I have a couple of ideas that might be worth mulling over, RJ.

    (First: have you written your morning pages tonight? BTW, I wonder where you stand on the 750words website? I bet you're way up there in the rankings.)

    Anyway...

    ...I take it that you have some kind of law degree, and eventually want to be a cop? Well, why not apply for a security guard situation at a mall, or at a bank? It'll at leat get your feet in the door. After you get X amount of experience, then you can go somewhere with it.

    ...the other thing I see is that obviously you like to type words. That might open up some kind of angle, too. I haven't been in the job market for a long time now, but do any of the jobs offered require typing abilities? I remember years and years ago applying for a job that required phone service and good typing skills. I think the job was for an insurance adjuster, or some such. I blew off the interview because it required a 9:00am interview (and I'm a major night person), otherwise I believe I'd certainly have gotten the job.

    The only reason I'm pushing this is that I think it would be good for your self-esteem, RJ. Unemployed people often feel useless--that's quite normal. Their self-esteem skyrockets when they get a job, and yours will, too.

    ...

    EDIT: Oh, I see. You said you DIDN'T want to be a cop. Sorry, I misread.
    i was actually in the process of trying to get a job in a law office that involved typing up documents but apparently, things didn't work out because they didn't call me back. still looking around though.
    one thing about the closet/you don't have to hurry/it will be bad tomorrow/so brother, don't you worry

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    ^ Keep trying, something will eventually work for you

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    Quote Originally Posted by Huntneo(PT) View Post
    Don't let MissAnne fool y'all. She probably does things that would make us all look like little angels.
    It seems that it's always the sweet, innocent sounding ones that are the freakiest of the pack.

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    Quote Originally Posted by JohannBessler View Post
    @RJ: is becoming a paralegal an option for you?

    In some places, they have a shortage of paralegals.
    i'd have to go back to school again to get certified. paralegal most definitely is an option though but my main goal is to be a lawyer. that's like the mountain top. honestly, i know i need a job asap but at the same time, i'm really beginning to look @ the long con instead of a temporary comfort. if i do decide to become a paralegal instead, it won't stop me from shooting for law school.
    one thing about the closet/you don't have to hurry/it will be bad tomorrow/so brother, don't you worry

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    Quote Originally Posted by MissAnne View Post
    Uh huh... yup.
    I still picture the feminist porn with two women dressed like Lillith from Frasier. And don't forget the sprig of mint in the ginger ale!

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    I don't know 'Phuugi',

    Lots more starving lawyers out there than starving para-legals. Para legals don't have to lie/cheat steal

    or get into Politics either. Fascinating work if you're the really curious type and OH MY GOSH, what better

    way to study the foibles of mankind without soiling your hands or reputation? JMHO!

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    And that my dear Johann is what I was actually alluding to. That and the fact our

    young ward is to proficient at building his own stumbling blocks at times...the Mountains

    where there are only mole hills syndrome.

    ~~~~"get him to light the candle rather than curse the dark"~~~~

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    Quote Originally Posted by JohannBessler View Post
    ^I see it as a viable option, Lefty.

    He can get his foot in the door as a paralegal, and if and when he gets his law degree, he will then have his "billions of years of experience" that every employer seems to want you to have these days.
    that sounds like a plan. it's more so of getting the blueprint started behind it. you know? i'm going to google if becoming a paralegal would mean that i can be exempt for that stupid lsat bullshit. I HATE STANDARDIZE TESTING. it's a piece of absolute shit. they claim that it's supposed to show how good of a student you'll be in law school, college, high school or whatever else. straight up bullshit. whatever i took on the SAT 10 years ago was nowhere in any of the work that i did in college. only thing i had to do is read, study and write. that's it. my guess is law school is going to incorporate all of those things except with class participation being in the mix where they want you to speak in class. that's one problem that i have because i'm a shy dude which hates public speaking or being in a room full of people. also have a problem looking people in the eye. i think that i can overcome that though being my experience at fast food actually pushed me to the level where i was actually engaging in conversations with people that i wouldn't bother to talk to otherwise if i saw them on the street or in a supermarket.


    Quote Originally Posted by Lefty View Post
    And that my dear Johann is what I was actually alluding to. That and the fact our

    young ward is to proficient at building his own stumbling blocks at times
    ...the Mountains

    where there are only mole hills syndrome.

    ~~~~"get him to light the candle rather than curse the dark"~~~~
    yeah, that's one problem that i know how to do well. we'll see what happens. by the end of the year, everything will start to be clear, i hope.

    with that said, i have to vent about how i feel right now. i feel like shit. feel a bit depressed and upset to the point where my chest feels a little funny. possibly anxiety or whatever. i dunno but i want to cry right now. why? because i'm annoyed with myself. sometimes, i don't get why the fuck i am the way i am where i simply feel that something is wrong with me where i'm just not like other people. i simply can't enjoy a good moment or simply take it easy. always being worried and having something on my mind that is bothering me where i can't even keep a clear head. there's very few times where i can get a chance to relax and breath without any worries. i have like a million and one worries and the thing is i don't know how to get rid of that shit. i just want to be worry free and happy BUT i can't because my damn mind won't allow me to be. it seems like it's me that's fucking kicking my ass with everything. self confidence, self esteem, being paranoid, and etc. i hate my body too. i wish i fucking had regular adult bone mass like normal adults do. i have childlike bone mass that kids have. i also hate my dick size too. when i'm limp, my dick looks like a fucking fat finger. sometimes when it's really limp, it looks like a fucking baby pinkie. i don't fucking get it. why the fuck can't i have GIRTH? hell, i'm long with the erection BUT with no girth, my shit looks weird.

    the only thing that plays to my advantage is that being that i'm gay. i don't think most guys are size queens in terms of girth. the asshole is small enough where you have to loosen it so i guess i'm good, at least that's what i hope. you know, life isn't bad as i'm making it sound BUT i just wish that the little things that are making me feel like shit were fixed where i wasn't fucking haunted or bothered. i fucking hate myself. i used to smoke weed and think that going to the shrink to vent about shit that i'm saying now on here would actually help take all those feelings away BUT it's NOT. hell, even taking zoloft, the only thing that's going to come about after this is they'll increase the dosage and i'll be basically fucked over on a damn drug that i have to take for the next 9 months. damn, how the fuck did i end up this way where i'm basically my own worst enemy?
    one thing about the closet/you don't have to hurry/it will be bad tomorrow/so brother, don't you worry

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    Quote Originally Posted by xbuzzerx View Post
    I still picture the feminist porn with two women dressed like Lillith from Frasier. And don't forget the sprig of mint in the ginger ale!
    LOL, I forgot about our talk on feminist porn.
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    Had a 4th date which I was really looking forward to cancelled, and only after I texted him about asking what time are we meeting did he tell me he had forgotten he had something on. He said to take a rain check but didn't bother to specify a date.

    Really bummed, as the same thing happened last time.

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    My friends always make me feel like I'm the least important member of the group. It just seems like I've got to fight for some share of the conversation, and then I'm only the focus of I'm being teased. I realize it's in good fun, and even though I bring this up, I feel like no one really cares about me as much as anyone else that we're with.

    Not really looking for advice, but if anyone could relate, maybe we could find some solace in that.

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    One thing that irks me mostly happens on places like Bear 411. I'll check out a guy's profile, send him a short greeting and message, then get a response about a month later (or none at all). Even if I get messaged from a guy i'm not attracted to, i'll at least chat with him and thank him for signing my guestbook or sending me a compliment within a reasonable time frame.

    The other thing that bugs me is when random dudes send me "wanna cam?" messages out of the blue, even though I've put "Not into cam sex" on my profile.

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    Quote Originally Posted by FuryOfFirestorm View Post
    One thing that irks me mostly happens on places like Bear 411. I'll check out a guy's profile, send him a short greeting and message, then get a response about a month later (or none at all). Even if I get messaged from a guy i'm not attracted to, i'll at least chat with him and thank him for signing my guestbook or sending me a compliment within a reasonable time frame.

    The other thing that bugs me is when random dudes send me "wanna cam?" messages out of the blue, even though I've put "Not into cam sex" on my profile.
    I never get that either. I mean, not excluded or restricted to personals sites, which I haven't ever really used, but anywhere. When people blow off messages or polite hello's online or in PM's or comments or questions on something they've put online, and they're clearly checking and reading, but never bother to respond, I don't really get why they bothered putting themselves out on the internet at all.

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    Quote Originally Posted by xbuzzerx View Post
    When people blow off messages or polite hello's online or in PM's or comments or questions on something they've put online, and they're clearly checking and reading, but never bother to respond, I don't really get why they bothered putting themselves out on the internet at all.
    I've always been a little confused about what is the proper way to respond to a forum comment. Do most people expect a comment in return? At least with a PM, you get the sense they are looking for dialogue, but with a comment, unless they ask a question, is it rude to not respond to it?
    Everyone wants to be heard. No one wants to listen.

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    Quote Originally Posted by sixthson View Post
    I've always been a little confused about what is the proper way to respond to a forum comment. Do most people expect a comment in return? At least with a PM, you get the sense they are looking for dialogue, but with a comment, unless they ask a question, is it rude to not respond to it?
    Sometimes I try to respond with a PM, but then their inbox is full and I can't even respond.

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    A comment is just that: a quick remark or observation that needs no reply.

    For conversation, or to invite response, use PMs, because comments don't work that way.
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    The internet has turned many people into "libertarians" but it is the extroverts who pain the most because they need to fuel off others which leads to excessive trolling while the introverts can step away from it and bury their noses in something else.

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    Sometimes life gives the harshest reality checks. Especially when it comes to a close family member passing away.

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    Quote Originally Posted by dereperez View Post
    Sometimes life gives the harshest reality checks. Especially when it comes to a close family member passing away.
    So sorry to hear this May his soul rest in peace

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    Quote Originally Posted by JohannBessler View Post
    Do you think your friends are really friends?

    It doesn't sound like you're getting much back from them.
    I've been starting to question that more and more. I'm starting to notice that our social activities are almost exclusively alcohol-infused and I'm not sure if that's what I would want from real friends.

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    I've come to the conclusion that libertarians--despite the fact that they're often intelligent individuals--lack the most basic knowledge of history. Ignorance is not necessarily bliss.

    Interesting Johann. you all seem to be hitting 'around the bullseye'.

    It has been my experience that the libertarians have vast sums of data and empirical
    stacks of 'facts' based on biased reports of experience through time immemorial. Their
    mirrored counterparts are similarly endowed.

    Incontrovertible evidence from mans earliest attempts at civilisations. Alack and alas,
    like all data it has been corrupted by the various interpreters throughout history. Is
    it not amazing that often 3 eye witnesses to an incident tell the story differently.

    Bottom line, I agree with 90% of what you have said. My major and final caveats
    would include telling all sides...experience for yourself before you attempt to judge,
    instruct. demand or dictate.

    Reality is

    or maybe just...

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    Quote Originally Posted by dereperez View Post
    Sometimes life gives the harshest reality checks. Especially when it comes to a close family member passing away.
    Big hug from me bro

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    Now I know why I am self-deprecating. The moment I mention I have "nerdy" tendencies, people flutter away from me.

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    Quote Originally Posted by maxpowr9 View Post
    Now I know why I am self-deprecating. The moment I mention I have "nerdy" tendencies, people flutter away from me.
    Then those people are assholes. I love nerdy guys.

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    I love writing biology report. I really do. But, this physiology report is 15% of my grade and I find the planning of the experiment is stupid. Due date is on Thursday and I started to panic because I always finish my report 3 days prior the deadline and I have another exam on next week, and 2 more upcoming reports that is due next week as well. FML.

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    ^I am a procrastinator too.

    I remember sitting in my professor's office for Intermediate Macroeconomics on a Thursday [he always broke for tea time and I liked to join him] and I was just chatting away and then he asked: "are you ready for the exam?" I responded: "what exam?" He was appalled by my reaction but I still got a 92 on the exam.

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    Seth Bert...you just said...

    Jason is always there in your darkest hour

    YES?

    Can we thus deduce that perhaps JASON

    is your darkest hour?

    The Devil made me ask that



    Actually, it was more of a dare

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    Jesus. Why don't you two just get a fucking room already.

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    HEY!!!!!

    Who said a Jinx had to be bad?

    Mine is a lot of things...




    But Bad ain't one of them

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    Quote Originally Posted by JohannBessler View Post
    It just sounds like your needs aren't getting met, Thrice.

    Friendships are supposed to be a two-way street. It sounds as if your "friends" don't fully realize that.
    I think you're right but it's kind of taken an interesting turn. My roommate and one of closer friends (who really pissed me off this weekend being a drunken asshole) just broke up with his fiancee. I think now's a better time to just be there as supportively as possible, and address problems if they come up later.

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    Quote Originally Posted by BENDERBOY View Post
    "You unlock thos door with the key of imagination. Beyond it is another dimension. A dimension of sound...



    A dimension of sight...



    A dimension of mind...



    You're moving into a land of both shadow, and substance, of things and ideas. You've just crossed over into...



    (This post in honorable memory of the late, great master, Rod Serling.)

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    I like that my bosses at my store appreciate me, but please quit looking at me as if I single-handedly stopped the whole ship from sinking. Last night, it was Sunday night - the busiest, most crowded, most slammed night of the week for my supermarket - and all 3 evening cashiers and the evening front-end supervisor were scheduled to go home at 10pm, when there should be at least two cashiers scheduled until Midnight. So guess who ran this puppy flying solo until my help showed up late?



    I radioed my overnight assistant manager for help - I had a line clean to frozen foods and growing all the way back to the pharmacy - clear across the damn building. He calls back, "But we don't have anybody." I look around, see people walking out the front door, and get an idea involving a semi-little white lie. "I'm seeing people walk out the store with merchandise and I'm tied down to a cash register with no way to stop them. We're losing money as we speak! DO SOMETHING!!!"

    I saw folks go out the door, but who knows if they were actually stealing. But my tricking the manager to get him up there worked. The day assistant over the front-end is going to have to do something about Sunday nights. Don't ask me how, but I held it together. But last night can NEVER happen again! /tired as hell...

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    Quote Originally Posted by loki81 View Post
    and on an unrelated note... I can't decide if I'm being a dick to my roommate or just having an appropriate reaction. he recently confessed to me that he's been in an exclusive relationship for the past 3 months. I'm feeling a mix of disappointment (that he felt like he couldn't talk about this with me) and annoyance (that he let me throw myself at him for 3 months, making me feel like a total chump).

    I'm getting the feeling like he wants me to give my permission for the boyfriend to sleep over, but I'm not biting. mostly because I don't want a total stranger in my house (and it's bad enough having one freeloading roommate much less 2), but there's definitely an undercurrent of me just passive aggressively wanting to express my annoyance by not helping him.

    on the better side, during honesty-palooza '13 (when he confessed to having a boyfriend and proceeded to unload 6 months worth of relationship drama on me, with the current guy and other guys he'd been dating and hiding from me) I told him how much it fucking annoyed me that he didn't pick up after himself. it's gotten me at least 3 days of him doing his dishes and taking out the trash


    Couldn't you suggest that your room-mate move in with the guy he's in a relationship with?

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    I sliced my finger open on...a strawberry. And I think it's infected now. Dang.

    Also, I finally watched the show mentioned in this thread, the Catfish one. Ugh. It's mostly the story of my relationship, with one crucial exception: I've actually met her. No more online dating, at least for a while.

    Quote Originally Posted by loki81 View Post
    it bothers the hell out of me when people don't take conversations to PM's instead of cluttering a thread.
    Total truth. I don't mind their posts, so it's sad really, but I have ignored them.
    blacksyringe

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    Quote Originally Posted by -Callum- View Post
    I sliced my finger open on...a strawberry. And I think it's infected now. Dang.

    Also, I finally watched the show mentioned in this thread, the Catfish one. Ugh. It's mostly the story of my relationship, with one crucial exception: I've actually met her. No more online dating, at least for a while.

    Ouch! I always try to be really careful when I handle anything sharp. Put some anti-septic on and then bandage them and it will help heal up faster I have watch a few of the episodes as well and it's pretty depressing when people get cheated so deeply I have always been an honest person in real life and even online I don't see any reason to lie. There are always risks in online relationships.

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    Quote Originally Posted by loki81 View Post
    the boyfriend lives with his parents, and my roommate is crashing in my spare room, so the roomie's been complaining to me about how they can't find anywhere private (which I read as a hint to me to suggest that they come here, but I didn't take the bait... and passive aggressive Loki has been a little cagey about telling my roommate in advance when I'm not going to be there, because I'm not sure how comfortable I am with the idea of him inviting his boyfriend (who I've never met) over to the house while I'm staying over somewhere else)

    they're both pretty much dirt broke and neither has a car, even god bless them both, but I don't know how either one is putting up with the situation.
    I'm the same way... if anyone is going to have sex in my house/apt./bed... it's going to be ME, dammit !
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    well, loki, if him and his man wants to have sex, there's always the park bench. *shrugs* jersey city has many of them. if they really want to do it badly, they'll figure something out. that's not your problem. you already gave him some place to crash his head.

    anyways, haven't gone over to that group therapy spot in three weeks and i dunno if i'll be going back. i just think it's a waste of time. it's like i'm spending more time, getting up and getting ready to go there then being in the group. it's stupid, really. depending on the amount of people that show up, we have to share all our problems that happened to us within the past week in one hour. on top of that, it also depends on how someone's problem is where they need feedback and etc. you know, i'm a shy guy as it is and there's some things that i'm scared to say in a room full of people such as being gay and coming out. i wanted to reveal that i was gay but after hearing some of the group getting all religious, talking about "god's going to work it out". i was like "okay, i don't want to reveal that." there's just some things that i would rather share with someone where only that person knows and not 5 other people.
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    one thing about the closet/you don't have to hurry/it will be bad tomorrow/so brother, don't you worry

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    Quote Originally Posted by loki81 View Post
    having to track down the ignore list to add someone(s) on JUB seems convoluted.

    /rant
    Just click their user name, view their profile, and there's an ignore button on that screen you can click on under their avatar.
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    fucking hate how my armpits and how they stink even when i give myself a good rubdown in the shower. yesterday and earlier, i was smelling like fucking onions. now i smell like raisin bran. WHAT THE FUCK!!! and i'm running out of deodorant. i hope walmart has some on sale picking up my prescription.

    after reading over that "how do you sleep thread" where some people said about sleeping naked, sleeping shirtless, or dressing up to bed, i've decided that i'd try to sleeping naked again nd have done so for three nights. it's actually better than the last time i did it some years ago where it felt all as hell uncomfortable and i was paranoid that someone would walk in on me naked. at least i don't wake up all sweaty compared to how i am sleeping with clothes. it's cool except waking up in the morning where it's cold as shit. with that said, I FUCKING HATE SWEATING IN MY SLEEP. there's nothing worse waking up all sweaty in clothes waking up, feeling like you just jumped out the shower. easiest way to catch a cold. dunno if whether i should continue sleeping naked, sleeping without a shirt since the most annoying part about sleeping with clothes on is waking up with a wet shirt or giong back to sleeping with my thermal pajama top/bottom or regular shirt/bottom.

    all right done with rant.
    Last edited by refujiunderground; March 18th, 2013 at 02:59 PM.
    one thing about the closet/you don't have to hurry/it will be bad tomorrow/so brother, don't you worry

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    I either like people enough not to ignore them, or dislike them enough not to ignore them. The bland middle ground is small, and I prefer to use the "ignore" function built into my brain.
    Americans need to keep their guns so they can protect themselves from gun violence just like Nancy Lanza did. And like Chris Kyle did. And like Gabby Giffords did. And like Tom Clements did. And like Michael Piemonte. And Joseph Wilcox.

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    I've never been tempted to use the ignore button, Some people are funny, some are obnoxious, others just bland, but you never know when someone will add something useful.

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    I give people the benefit of the doubt for six months or so before I put them on ignore.
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    Wow page 59 got wasted.

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    Quote Originally Posted by pat grimshaw View Post
    I give people the benefit of the doubt for six months or so before I put them on ignore.
    I really don't see the point of the ignore thingy.
    If I don't like someone I still want to read what they say and see how low they can go on my popularity list.
    Plus I do change my mind quite often on people.
    In the last few weeks I started to like 2 Jubbers I thought were complete twats.

    Generally though I like people, I appreciate everyone is different and has something to offer, so if I had an ignore list it would not be very long.

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