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    Quote Originally Posted by Kien View Post
    Omg you are soooooooo obsessed with Pho!
    Bring it bro.

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    Bring it bro.
    Ph--I mean bro. Don't make me take away your sriracha rights.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kien View Post
    Ph--I mean bro. Don't make me take away your sriracha rights.
    Low blow. Bro. With da pho.

    ^Which amuses me since it doesn't rhyme when read aloud but it does in text so there.

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    Is it cheating if I used a pho kit?
    To make my pho cup?

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    Quote Originally Posted by G-Lexington View Post
    Is it cheating if I used a pho kit?
    To make my pho cup?

    Lex
    What the pho.

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    Quote Originally Posted by xbuzzerx View Post
    Low blow. Bro. With da pho.

    ^Which amuses me since it doesn't rhyme when read aloud but it does in text so there.
    I've become accustomed pronouncing it as "fo" since I eat out a lot with my friends who say it like that.

    Phoking Americans, right?

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    Would that make you the pho king?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kien View Post
    I've become accustomed pronouncing it as "fo" since I eat out a lot with my friends who say it like that.

    Phoking Americans, right?
    I always kinda snicker whenever I hear FOOOOOH.

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    Quote Originally Posted by G-Lexington View Post
    Would that make you the pho king?

    Lex
    Yes.

    Quote Originally Posted by xbuzzerx View Post
    I always kinda snicker whenever I hear FOOOOOH.
    Ugh I know. Sometimes it gets sofa king annoying, but I just phoget about it.

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    ^How do Asians pronounce it?

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    ^How do Asians pronounce it?
    I was always told "fuck without the ck."

    Which is why they have fun with the name like this:

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    ^Location???

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    Quote Originally Posted by JohannBessler View Post
    ^How do AsiansVietnamese pronounce it?
    May be derived from pot-au-feu

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    Quote Originally Posted by cgymike View Post
    ^Location???
    That particular picture is one in Atlanta, Georgia.

    There was one near me in Huntington Beach, CA, but it closed.

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    How the hell do you get fuck from pho the pronounceation is very different.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Nishin View Post
    May be derived from pot-au-feu
    Ah, pot-au-feu. I've heard some interesting things about pot-au-feu.

    Some consider eating a good pot-au-feu almost a religious experience.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Bonerfied View Post
    How the hell do you get fuck from pho the pronounceation is very different.
    It's not really an o.

    http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/%C6%A0

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    LOL I know I'm half vietnamese.

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    Because Americans love to say it as "fu".

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    well, something tells me that i might not live to see the end of the year. i just can't see me being around january 2014. i feel my days alive are numbered. should i write a will just in case i'm right? might be apart of that 27 club.
    one thing about the closet/you don't have to hurry/it will be bad tomorrow/so brother, don't you worry

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    Quote Originally Posted by refujiunderground View Post
    well, something tells me that i might not live to see the end of the year. i just can't see me being around january 2014. i feel my days alive are numbered. should i write a will just in case i'm right? might be apart of that 27 club.
    Oh, stop trippin'.

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    Quote Originally Posted by CupidBoy View Post
    Oh, stop trippin'.
    naw, for real. been feeling like this since last week. i don't think i'll be alive this time next year.
    one thing about the closet/you don't have to hurry/it will be bad tomorrow/so brother, don't you worry

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    Yeah, I had to deal with a bunch of self-flagellating about-to-turn-twenty-eight-ers earlier this month. Jesus, they wouldn't stop. "I guess this is it." "My life is kinda over now." "Guys, I'm officially old." Oh, snap the fuck out of it. I'm 43 and more awesome than all of them (and you, ref) put together. Stop looking to the stars and tea leaves and "27 clubs" to tell you how your life is going. Stop existing. Start living.

    Lex

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    Just spent two hours cleaning my room today and now I am flooding my room with Diatomaceous Earth (food grade). Freaking Bed Bugs moved with me when I moved out of the previous apartment. God they are biting me everywhere ( even there!!! ) scarring me all over I have not had so many scars since I was a kid.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Scealle View Post
    Just spent two hours cleaning my room today and now I am flooding my room with Diatomaceous Earth (food grade). Freaking Bed Bugs moved with me when I moved out of the previous apartment. God they are biting me everywhere ( even there!!! ) scarring me all over I have not had so many scars since I was a kid.
    I heard somewhere about a new fungus that they're using to kill bedbugs.
    http://www.justusboys.com/forum/signaturepics/sigpic216959_1.gif

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    this isn't necessarily a venting post or whatever...but I just wanted to share this lovely remix of the God warrior:

    "sing" along with her and perhaps it'll relieve some stress.




    yes...yesssssss, she did!

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    Quote Originally Posted by borg69unimatrix View Post
    I heard somewhere about a new fungus that they're using to kill bedbugs.
    I have heard about this. I wonder how effective they are. Fingers crossed the DE can murder them all.

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    mini-venting... I wish I knew what the hell this guy's deal was.

    I'm like 75% sure he's gay and I thought he had a crush on me in high school. recently, I've felt like he's trying to rekindle our friendship (this is like +10 years after graduation)... we've hung out a couple times, but I can't get a read on how he actually feels about me (eg: friends or more than friends).

    I should say, I keep getting a more than friends vibe, but then every time we hang out, he's always encouraging me to invite mutual friends along so it's not just us two.

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    Quote Originally Posted by loki81 View Post
    mini-venting... I wish I knew what the hell this guy's deal was.

    I'm like 75% sure he's gay and I thought he had a crush on me in high school. recently, I've felt like he's trying to rekindle our friendship (this is like +10 years after graduation)... we've hung out a couple times, but I can't get a read on how he actually feels about me (eg: friends or more than friends).

    I should say, I keep getting a more than friends vibe, but then every time we hang out, he's always encouraging me to invite mutual friends along so it's not just us two.
    Maybe he's just using you for your connections to other gay guys. "Networking".
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    Quote Originally Posted by G-Lexington View Post
    Yeah, I had to deal with a bunch of self-flagellating about-to-turn-twenty-eight-ers earlier this month. Jesus, they wouldn't stop. "I guess this is it." "My life is kinda over now." "Guys, I'm officially old." Oh, snap the fuck out of it. I'm 43 and more awesome than all of them (and you, ref) put together. Stop looking to the stars and tea leaves and "27 clubs" to tell you how your life is going. Stop existing. Start living.

    Lex
    *Makes angry v-shaped eyebrows*

    Kids.

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    There's a thread in the entertainment section about Life of Pi. I want to go in saying it was kind of boring and anticlimactic because it was kind of boring and anticlimactic. But I'm ascared they'll bash me for it.

    How dare them.

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    Quote Originally Posted by loki81 View Post
    mini-venting... I wish I knew what the hell this guy's deal was.

    I'm like 75% sure he's gay and I thought he had a crush on me in high school. recently, I've felt like he's trying to rekindle our friendship (this is like +10 years after graduation)... we've hung out a couple times, but I can't get a read on how he actually feels about me (eg: friends or more than friends).

    I should say, I keep getting a more than friends vibe, but then every time we hang out, he's always encouraging me to invite mutual friends along so it's not just us two.
    Maybe you intimidate him? Maybe he doesn't like the responsibility of carry a one-on-one conversation?
    Everyone wants to be heard. No one wants to listen.

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    Quote Originally Posted by borg69unimatrix View Post
    Maybe he's just using you for your connections to other gay guys. "Networking".
    idk, the mutual friends I was referring to are all straight (and also buddies from high school)... he's SOL if he's trying to use me for gay networking, the closest thing I have to a gay friend is my roommate who's like a ghost lately.

    he's flirty with me, but at the same time, why simultaneously be flirty but try to avoid hanging out 1-on-1?

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    IS he gay? Maybe he's trying to be social with you on what he THINKS is on your level ?

    "Gotta act a certain way around the gay guy I'm trying to be friends with, even though it makes me uncomfortable."
    http://www.justusboys.com/forum/signaturepics/sigpic216959_1.gif

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    Quote Originally Posted by borg69unimatrix View Post
    IS he gay? Maybe he's trying to be social with you on what he THINKS is on your level ?

    "Gotta act a certain way around the gay guy I'm trying to be friends with, even though it makes me uncomfortable."
    could be! but he identifies as bi on his FB page and acts fairly effeminate (and did in hs too), so I'm at least reasonably sure that he's not straight.

    edit: I think he and I need to just go out some night and get hammered to lower anxiety on both sides. lol

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kien View Post
    There's a thread in the entertainment section about Life of Pi. I want to go in saying it was kind of boring and anticlimactic because it was kind of boring and anticlimactic. But I'm ascared they'll bash me for it.

    How dare them.
    I disagree but who cares? It's an opinion, people suck at understanding that.

    Also if you think that is opening a can of worms, I think Quentin Tarantino hasn't wrote a good movie in years. They feel inconsistent and disjointed a bit. I haven't seen his new movie, so we'll see if I feel the same still.

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    Quote Originally Posted by loki81 View Post
    could be! but he identifies as bi on his FB page and acts fairly effeminate (and did in hs too), so I'm at least reasonably sure that he's not straight.
    I'm pretty dense when it comes to subtle flirting. If it's not EXTREMELY obvious, I pretty much have to have a house fall on me to realize it's going on.
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    Quote Originally Posted by G-Lexington View Post
    Yeah, I had to deal with a bunch of self-flagellating about-to-turn-twenty-eight-ers earlier this month. Jesus, they wouldn't stop. "I guess this is it." "My life is kinda over now." "Guys, I'm officially old." Oh, snap the fuck out of it. I'm 43 and more awesome than all of them (and you, ref) put together. Stop looking to the stars and tea leaves and "27 clubs" to tell you how your life is going. Stop existing. Start living.

    Lex
    naw, man. this is kind of different or at least this morning it was. it has nothing to do with getting old or whatever. that doesn't bother me at all. it's one of those six sense kind of moments.
    one thing about the closet/you don't have to hurry/it will be bad tomorrow/so brother, don't you worry

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    Quote Originally Posted by loki81 View Post
    mini-venting... I wish I knew what the hell this guy's deal was.

    I'm like 75% sure he's gay and I thought he had a crush on me in high school. recently, I've felt like he's trying to rekindle our friendship (this is like +10 years after graduation)... we've hung out a couple times, but I can't get a read on how he actually feels about me (eg: friends or more than friends).

    I should say, I keep getting a more than friends vibe, but then every time we hang out, he's always encouraging me to invite mutual friends along so it's not just us two.
    Flirt back. Be a bit more obvious than he's being. You'll find out soon enough.

    Lex

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    Quote Originally Posted by refujiunderground View Post
    naw, man. this is kind of different or at least this morning it was. it has nothing to do with getting old or whatever. that doesn't bother me at all. it's one of those six sense kind of moments.
    Refuji - in the kindest way possible, I"m going to remind you that you're OCD, Depressed, and borderline bipolar (by your admittance). Therefore, you cannot always believe EVERYTHING your mind tells you. Sometimes, no matter how real it FEELS, your own brain is lying to you. Please keep this in mind and do not dwell on those kind of thoughts.
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    Quote Originally Posted by xbuzzerx View Post
    I was always told "fuck without the ck."

    Which is why they have fun with the name like this:

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    This is better:


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    Quote Originally Posted by G-Lexington View Post
    Flirt back. Be a bit more obvious than he's being. You'll find out soon enough.

    Lex
    we had a group dinner this weekend and on hugging goodbye, my hand kinda grazed his ass. I might need to get us both drunk and step it up a little more, though.

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    Quote Originally Posted by borg69unimatrix View Post
    Refuji - in the kindest way possible, I"m going to remind you that you're OCD, Depressed, and borderline bipolar (by your admittance). Therefore, you cannot always believe EVERYTHING your mind tells you. Sometimes, no matter how real it FEELS, your own brain is lying to you. Please keep this in mind and do not dwell on those kind of thoughts.
    last night that's exactly what happened. you know, now that you mentioned it, i think the most hardest part and painful is that my own family, my mother, my brother and my father do NOT know what i'm going through and when i try to explain it to them, they don't get it.

    in fact, telling my mom about having ocd yesterday and even telling her way back that i think i have a problem at 14 in high school felt like coming out except i felt like everytime i try to explain myself to her, she just is like . it's like "you can't say that you have a problem. you don't have ocd. ocd is when you wash your hands 50 times a day and you don't do that." it was the same thing when i told her that i was depressed when i started out college, "you're not depressed. you just need a girlfriend or you need to go out and do something." so i still have this thing in my head where i can't admit that i have a problem.

    you know, i know that i still have to do what i have to do BUT it's hard when i'm under pressure dealing with myself, i know i have to get a job and etc BUT then i also have the people around me putting pressure on me as well. it's like damn... i want to just explode.
    one thing about the closet/you don't have to hurry/it will be bad tomorrow/so brother, don't you worry

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    Quote Originally Posted by G-Lexington View Post
    Yeah, I had to deal with a bunch of self-flagellating about-to-turn-twenty-eight-ers earlier this month. Jesus, they wouldn't stop. "I guess this is it." "My life is kinda over now." "Guys, I'm officially old." Oh, snap the fuck out of it. I'm 43 and more awesome than all of them (and you, ref) put together. Stop looking to the stars and tea leaves and "27 clubs" to tell you how your life is going. Stop existing. Start living.

    Lex
    Lex, we all go through a phase in our late 20s, and especially when we turn 30, that we feel old. Most people find turning 30, in particular, quite traumatic; everybody I know has fallen into a depression at that point. I see it as quite normal. We do move through it, the vast majority of times.

    But I see RJ's case as different. He has suffered from bouts of depression for years. The situation could turn dire. I don't want to see a tragedy transpire.

    RJ, I know that you've taken the first step by seeing a doctor. You seem to exhibit the classic signs of clinical depression, especially seeing that you've dropped hints to us about wanting to end your life.

    You have to understand that your illness has caused those thoughts to surface. After you treat the illness, you will still feel down about turning 30, but you won't be thinking self-destructive thoughts.

    I just want to say that I empathize with your situation, and want to urge you to give the medication time to work. You have your whole life ahead of you. A lot of fun, a lot of exploring, a lot of people to see, places to go, things to do. You have a genius deep inside of you to find. I would like to see yourself find it.

    I beg you to give yourself a chance. 27 is nowhere near as old as you think. Why, heck! I just turned 50. You classify as a puppy compared to that.

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    Quote Originally Posted by JohannBessler View Post
    Lex, we all go through a phase in our late 20s, and especially when we turn 30, that we feel old. [...]
    Nop

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    That was me all over, Johann. And my coworkers knew it, so they all wore black on my 30th birthday and gifted me old people paraphenelia.

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    Re: just venting, airing out, talking shit, personal beefs, problems, anger management, and etc thread

    @ Fuji.....
    If you persist in this silliness, at least name me as principal benefactor in the will.

    @ Loki....
    The boy may be trying to do it as a group with straight acquaintances because he
    is afraid the animal magnetism and 10 years of burning desire that would fuliminate
    in ferociously savage sexual activities might be quelled within a group to just the
    hyper subtle groping. That or he is not sure how 'far' you are into gay and does
    not want to embarrass either of you at first.

    @ Borgie...
    I thought my answer was more positive than yours to horned up Loki. As to you
    being dense, everyone in the unimatrix knows you consider a lump in the front
    of a suit as obvious and outrageous flirting..

    .

    damn, pic won't show...(half the attempt at a funny here)

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    Quote Originally Posted by refujiunderground View Post
    last night that's exactly what happened. you know, now that you mentioned it, i think the most hardest part and painful is that my own family, my mother, my brother and my father do NOT know what i'm going through and when i try to explain it to them, they don't get it.

    in fact, telling my mom about having ocd yesterday and even telling her way back that i think i have a problem at 14 in high school felt like coming out except i felt like everytime i try to explain myself to her, she just is like . it's like "you can't say that you have a problem. you don't have ocd. ocd is when you wash your hands 50 times a day and you don't do that." it was the same thing when i told her that i was depressed when i started out college, "you're not depressed. you just need a girlfriend or you need to go out and do something." so i still have this thing in my head where i can't admit that i have a problem.

    you know, i know that i still have to do what i have to do BUT it's hard when i'm under pressure dealing with myself, i know i have to get a job and etc BUT then i also have the people around me putting pressure on me as well. it's like damn... i want to just explode.
    Unfortunately, they have NO frame of reference to what you're going through. There is no way for them to put on the same "glasses" and see the world the way you were wired to see it. And, unfortunately, they're right in the sense that you cannot let it rule your life. You have to get up, go to work, and face the day like everyone else... even if it is more challenging for you then it seems like it is for everyone else.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Nishin View Post
    Nop
    That didn't happen with you, Nishin?

    Most people do. 30, in fact, can seem particularly crushing to gay men.

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    Re: just venting, airing out, talking shit, personal beefs, problems, anger management, and etc thread

    Seriously Fuji,

    My old bud from the Borg is right on.

    Since you don't like (hate actually) when 'they' tell you what you have/don't have.
    Maybe its' time for Fuji to tell HIMSELF and fuck what those others think he has.

    Like most people they have tons of their own core rats to kill and when they can't
    will retaliate by verbal, physical abuse or demanding you conform to their issues.

    Confide in your counselor (3rd party) who may SUGGEST alternative view points
    for you to consider. Or bring a pinch of salt and tell all here.

    Friend, I've learned one thing...you can't cure the haters (any kind or type) but
    you don't have to go into their playground either. Remember fences are not the
    only buffers, look at ducks backs and water.

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