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    Quote Originally Posted by cgymike View Post
    Getting ready for New Year but nothing great to wear.

    Yawn...btw 2013 looks uneventful...

    Boring is good
    same shit, different day. the saga never ends.
    one thing about the closet/you don't have to hurry/it will be bad tomorrow/so brother, don't you worry

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    Quote Originally Posted by JohannBessler View Post
    Those are classic symptoms of sleep paralysis, RJ.

    During medieval times, people had a "first sleep" and a "second sleep". Because of this, they had a whole lot more of these sleep paralysis episodes than people do today. Since many sleep paralysis dreams become sexual, their experiences gave rise to the idea of a "succubis" or an "incubus"--demons that come to ravage you sexually during the night.

    There's nothing to worry about, RJ. It's all a production of our marvellous brains.
    that in itself sounds scary. so you're saying that it's basically a dream about sex that happened BUT there was technical difficulties because of sleep paralysis where it seemed real when it wasn't.

    that's another interesting thing that you brought up though. it would be interesting to read or see a research about how the brain and body reacts during a dream when someone has a dream where they're actual being touched by someone. does the skin and body react the same way to being touched in a dream like how it is when someone is really being touched by someone? that would be crazy because that would be like dreams being another dimension. who knows? maybe there's a world that people awake in when they go to sleep and that we're sleeping in that dreamworld where we're awake. it's just strange.
    one thing about the closet/you don't have to hurry/it will be bad tomorrow/so brother, don't you worry

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    Re: just venting, airing out, talking shit, personal beefs, problems, anger management, and etc thread

    Quote Originally Posted by cgymike View Post
    Getting ready for New Year but nothing great to wear.

    Yawn...btw 2013 looks uneventful...

    Boring is good
    I'm so confused, do guys have some kind of special dress code on new year's?

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    Re: just venting, airing out, talking shit, personal beefs, problems, anger management, and etc thread

    Quote Originally Posted by refujiunderground View Post
    that in itself sounds scary. so you're saying that it's basically a dream about sex that happened BUT there was technical difficulties because of sleep paralysis where it seemed real when it wasn't.

    that's another interesting thing that you brought up though. it would be interesting to read or see a research about how the brain and body reacts during a dream when someone has a dream where they're actual being touched by someone. does the skin and body react the same way to being touched in a dream like how it is when someone is really being touched by someone? that would be crazy because that would be like dreams being another dimension. who knows? maybe there's a world that people awake in when they go to sleep and that we're sleeping in that dreamworld where we're awake. it's just strange.
    No, RJ, you dreamt it all.

    What happens during an episode of sleep paralysis is that one part of the brain stays all the way awake (the limbic system), while the rest of the brain sleeps as it normally would. This makes the dreams seem absolutely real--as real as reading these words, and as real as it felt when I typed them.

    I believe (but can't prove yet) that most of those alien abduction tales, and most of those NDEs and OBEs, are produced by the same thing, but at the same time I admit I could be wrong. We must always keep an open mind.

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    Quote Originally Posted by refujiunderground View Post
    just hope that the trip to the psychiatrist actually helps me out. i won't give up on myself but at the same time, i think i'm reaching my breaking point.
    Yes, don't give up on yourself. You know something in you needs to be fixed. Get it fixed and see whether things don't get better for you. GET TO THAT PSYCHIATRIST! ASAP. When is it scheduled for?

    I hope that in your long-range plans there is a plan to get out of your parents' house, if it is as toxic a place as you describe. Maybe even out of the NYC arera entirely. Depending on your skills and education, a place like the Rochester area might be a good choice. But you have to be able to tolerate the cold and snow of our winters.
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    Quote Originally Posted by MrRochesterNY View Post
    Yes, don't give up on yourself. You know something in you needs to be fixed. Get it fixed and see whether things don't get better for you. GET TO THAT PSYCHIATRIST! ASAP. When is it scheduled for?

    I hope that in your long-range plans there is a plan to get out of your parents' house, if it is as toxic a place as you describe. Maybe even out of the NYC arera entirely. Depending on your skills and education, a place like the Rochester area might be a good choice. But you have to be able to tolerate the cold and snow of our winters.
    january 17th. to tell you the truth, it's something that i'm NOT looking forward to. i have mixed feelings about them and from what i've heard from the people at this group therapy thing that i went to, they said that the psychiatrists at that spot do not care about the patients. they're only there to prescribe medication. the psychiatrists in the past that i've been either thought that i had nothing wrong with me, was basically having adjustment problems and had something that i could shake off or they thought that i had something wrong with me where i needed to be medicated. i need help but i don't trust them though.

    i'm just scared that they might make me worse off than i already am. then i realize that if i don't go and try to take care of it all by myself, i'm ONLY going to find myself back in the same situation, whining, crying, complaining, looking for a miracle or a saving grace and etc. the funny thing is that the whole "you can do it all by yourself" thing was the same advice my mother, my brother, and my homeboys been giving me for the longest since way back when and it didn't work.

    and getting out of here is one of the long range plans i have as well as going to law school. it's that i have to get my mind right first because i realize that one of the reasons why i am stuck in the boat that i am in right now is because of my own doing. i really don't care where i move to, it could be buffalo, rochester, england, florida or whereever. it really doesn't matter. it's what i make it. it could suck or be a wonderful experience. the way my mind is right now, i will be miserable whereever i go whether i'm in new york city or in some small town with nothing in west bubblefuck.
    one thing about the closet/you don't have to hurry/it will be bad tomorrow/so brother, don't you worry

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    I don't like the recent negative attention I've been getting.

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    Quote Originally Posted by CupidBoy View Post
    I don't like the recent negative attention I've been getting.
    All attention is good attention.

    I had my moments where I think people think I am not all that "good". I count on the next idiot to make a fool of myself to take the limelight away. It's works like a charm. And at JUB, there is no shortage of fools to go around.

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    Quote Originally Posted by CupidBoy View Post
    I don't like the recent negative attention I've been getting.
    Yeesh, unreal. At least when I'm rude and nasty I expect to get shit back from people.

    No introspection, no self-awareness.

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    Quote Originally Posted by RazorzEdge88 View Post
    Yeesh, unreal. At least when I'm rude and nasty I expect to get shit back from people.

    No introspection, no self-awareness.
    I thought you said you were going to delete your account. What day is it? I can't wait to celebrate.

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    Although out of my control, I'm a little disappointed with all of the animosity on the forum at the moment. It's carried over into several threads.


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    Quote Originally Posted by reone View Post
    Although out of my control, I'm a little disappointed with all of the animosity on the forum at the moment. It's carried over into several threads.
    Animosity over what/whom?

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    Quote Originally Posted by CupidBoy View Post
    I don't like the recent negative attention I've been getting.
    If it was about what Enchanted/Sex Kitten was ranting about before he self-deleted then I'd forget about him, he's a troll and he said worse to AshyPhoenix amongst others on previous occasions.

    To the greater point, however....

    (how do I phrase this)

    Let us say I had a crush or infatuation with someone on JUB. I'd mention it maybe once, maybe most about four or five times in a year. No more than that because I'd feel I'd make the target of my affections uncomfortable, and I'd also over time begin to test the patience of others on here.

    But now let us say I made it known forcefully every single day on JUB, on multiple threads. And not only that, that I agreed and backed up everything that person was saying, ALWAYS. And now let us say that person was sometimes deliberately antagonistic, petty, disrespectful, arrogant, and behaved like an arsehole. But I continued to blindly sing that person's praises every day on JUB, and DEFINED myself as being his counterpart.

    I would never be surprised in those circumstances if I received negative attention.

    That is NOT to say you're always like that, and I know full well you're kind-hearted and trustworthy and I read as much during those bad times about a year ago when you had such terribly unfair treatment from your partner. And you're STILL not like that because I've seen posts from you around here proving it. Those occasions are when you speak truly for yourself and are independent.

    Unfortunately the influence of Benderboy (since we all know full well at this stage that he's who I'm talking about) rather turns you SOMETIMES (not always) into a puppet of his and a rather blind and unthinking one at that.

    I don't expect you to agree with me - no more than I myself would agree with me, say at age 18-21 with my being besotted with best friend (same situation) - it was beyond my comprehension back then, despite my mother calling me a 'lapdog' to him. I'd never listen.

    Maybe in time you can find your own self-identity more on here once again.

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    Well damn. .

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    ^^ Worse ?
    Hardly.
    "You may only be one person to the world, but you may also be the world to one person"
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    Quote Originally Posted by reone View Post
    Although out of my control, I'm a little disappointed with all of the animosity on the forum at the moment. It's carried over into several threads.
    It is a bit more intense lately. I think the holidays are stressing some people out and they're just lashing out online to release some bottled up emotions. It is getting really hard to keep track of who dislikes whom and all the various grudges and bad-blood some posters have for each other. Or maybe I'm just really oblivious to a lot of the more subtle stuff until it just blows up but, yeah, I agree. A bit of drama can be fun but if it gets too vicious, or too much, it stops being amusing.

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    Quote Originally Posted by thatgirl View Post
    It is a bit more intense lately. I think the holidays are stressing some people out and they're just lashing out online to release some bottled up emotions. It is getting really hard to keep track of who dislikes whom and all the various grudges and bad-blood some posters have for each other. Or maybe I'm just really oblivious to a lot of the more subtle stuff until it just blows up but, yeah, I agree. A bit of drama can be fun but if it gets too vicious, or too much, it stops being amusing.
    I'm at that point right now.

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    Quote Originally Posted by CupidBoy View Post
    I thought you said you were going to delete your account. What day is it? I can't wait to celebrate.
    Point proven. Thank you. :c)

    If you were as peaceful as you claim, you wouldn't have these snide, passive-aggressive little outbursts every time people criticize you.

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    The only reason why Cupidboy stands out is because Elvin is not here for the rest of you to go gaga over.

    I like Elvin and some of his admirers but some of the other cult members were nuts. Like seriously psycho. In this case, Benderboy is the new Elvin and Cupidboy is just an admirer. Give it a few more months and we can find a new cult at JUB . I don't think there is anything wrong with their interactions. It's what friends do, friends support each other. Though I agree it is painfully obvious that both of them are into each other, it is quite harmless. And most of time, the posts are funny thanks to the gifs.

    The same can be said about Lilbit and me. Although there is no love between me and that skank, I am sure at one point our antagonism got old.

    I don't see CB's bitchness as rude bitchness. I think I have shown I can be worse than that. So why the fuck is no one talking about me? Argh, I just want some goddamn attention!!!!!!!S@!!!!!!!

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    All these negative waves are seriously depressing in all these threads. Have we nothing else to chat about?

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    Quote Originally Posted by CupidBoy View Post
    I'm at that point right now.
    It will get better, CB. Hang in there.


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    People, meh........
    "You may only be one person to the world, but you may also be the world to one person"
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    Quote Originally Posted by thatgirl View Post
    It is a bit more intense lately. I think the holidays are stressing some people out and they're just lashing out online to release some bottled up emotions. It is getting really hard to keep track of who dislikes whom and all the various grudges and bad-blood some posters have for each other. Or maybe I'm just really oblivious to a lot of the more subtle stuff until it just blows up but, yeah, I agree. A bit of drama can be fun but if it gets too vicious, or too much, it stops being amusing.
    The animosity other than that which comes in the form of so ridiculous I doubt anyone's taking it seriously (i.e. Waffles Kitten) is SO muted around here that I don't even know WHAT people are referring to when they talk about all the "huge drama on this forum." I swear I wonder how many JUBBers have been to other forum communities to think what goes on here is intense, mean or anything more than a burp in the usual flow of things. Go to other forums and you will see people viciously at each other's throats, responding to EVERY post the other person makes on ANY topic and ripping into them, for dozens of pages, until whatever moderation is around reluctantly steps in-- usually after this has dominated a given forum for weeks or months.

    By comparison around here I literally need to ask people "wait, what? What drama with who?" It's not even big enough to notice.
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    I'm not speaking about other forums, or comparing JUB to them. But on here, lately, yes it has been pretty intense. I'm not even talking about trolls, just regular members at each others throats (more so than usual). People have simply noticed this slight change and some have commented on it. I don't think any of us are crying or losing sleep over it, but it does change the overall atmosphere. I'm sure it will pass though.

    As for the Enchanted thing, I think that's just whatever, no1curr type stuff. JUB always gets really obvious, attention-seeking members who are only here to troll. It's not a big deal.

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    Quote Originally Posted by thatgirl View Post
    I'm not speaking about other forums, or comparing JUB to them. But on here, lately, yes it has been pretty intense. I'm not even talking about trolls, just regular members at each others throats.
    Like who? Seriously. I don't even know what you're talking about.

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    Quote Originally Posted by xbuzzerx View Post
    Like who? Seriously. I don't even know what you're talking about.
    Last week, it was me.

    But I was going through something. So there.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Ram View Post
    Last week, it was me.

    But I was going through something. So there.
    It was you being hostile or you having people attack you? :O

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    Quote Originally Posted by xbuzzerx View Post
    It was you being hostile or you having people attack you? :O
    Usually, I am a nice cunt who mildly pisses people off but for some weeks, I was a little more cunty. I wasn't hostile... more emotional.

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    Like who? Seriously. I don't even know what you're talking about.
    I mean, why do you need people to pull up a bunch of specifics, xbuzzerx? If you don't feel that there hasn't been an uptick in negatively recently on JUB, then you are free to feel that way.

    I don't want to get into a bunch of issues because that will only lead to more issues.

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    Cable tv has become so awful. Everything's about Alaska or food or oversized families or conspiracy theories.

    I know that's been going on a while, but it's gotten so bad that new channels that have cropped up recently already conformed to this bs.

    What's the point of having a "Destination Channel" with the same food shows as the Travel Channel? Redundant much?

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    Quote Originally Posted by refujiunderground View Post
    january 17th. to tell you the truth, it's something that i'm NOT looking forward to.

    Do stick to it, though, r. - I'll be with you in spirit, at least. I think that JB and others will be as well.

    the psychiatrists in the past that i've been either thought that i had nothing wrong with me, was basically having adjustment problems and had something that i could shake off

    As I've mentioned before, perhaps it could help if you printed out some of the posts you've made here on JUB, especially the ones that came from your venting (when done in flow-of-consciousness style), because those will much more effectively describe your feelings than trying to answer a few questions he/she asks you without even having relevant prior historty about you. Of course, answering those questions is also helpful, and it adds to the tools which may be formed to be helpful to you.

    then i realize that if i don't go and try to take care of it all by myself, i'm ONLY going to find myself back in the same situation, whining, crying, complaining, looking for a miracle or a saving grace and etc. the funny thing is that the whole "you can do it all by yourself" thing was the same advice my mother, my brother, and my homeboys been giving me for the longest since way back when and it didn't work.

    Very true, left "untreated" it is NOT going to cure itself. As I told you privately, if I lived in the neighborhood, I'd seriously consider going with you, so that you could be assured that somebody, who actually wishes well for your success in these efforts, would be in the lobby all the while, and to see you after your appointment.

    and getting out of here is one of the long range plans i have as well as going to law school.
    You're correct, at least to some degree - as toxic as your living situation IS, you may have a tough "go" of trying to make do on your own and without a job, etc. Only you can know if you're ready for any roommates, but my guess is that you would say that you aren't.
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    Re: just venting, airing out, talking shit, personal beefs, problems, anger management, and etc thread

    There is a big difference between this thread and the "Confessions" thread but I am not seeing it.

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    Re: just venting, airing out, talking shit, personal beefs, problems, anger management, and etc thread

    Confess is spelled differently than venting.

    Only difference

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    Quote Originally Posted by Ram View Post
    Usually, I am a nice cunt who mildly pisses people off but for some weeks, I was a little more cunty. I wasn't hostile... more emotional.
    I think you're a nice cunt? Plus I have lost mouthfuls of coffee when you and LilBit exchange words.

    Quote Originally Posted by thatgirl View Post
    I mean, why do you need people to pull up a bunch of specifics, xbuzzerx? If you don't feel that there hasn't been an uptick in negatively recently on JUB, then you are free to feel that way.

    I don't want to get into a bunch of issues because that will only lead to more issues.
    That's fine if you don't want to stir the pot but I still honestly don't understand the :'-( drama here is so bad thing. I seriously think this place is milder than a Jack in the box spicy chicken sandwich compared to 90% of the net where it's like I said.. if someone doesn't like you look forward to them trolling you and following you to every post you make, responding to it and dragging you into off topic vicious flamewars. With mods doing nothing. That's the more typical forum.

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    Re: just venting, airing out, talking shit, personal beefs, problems, anger management, and etc thread

    Stop it. Seriously. All ya'll comparing this forum to all the other forums online and saying "JUB isn't as bad." That is not helpful.

    It is the online equivalent of parents telling their kids there are starving people in Africa.

    While starvation is a tragedy the fact that Africa is in peril is not going to make me like brussel sprouts any more than I did before.

    Just like saying other forums are worse is not going to make those of us who frequent THIS SITE like the drama any better.

    This isn't other forums. It's JUB.

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    Quote Originally Posted by stacy View Post
    Stop it. Seriously. All ya'll comparing this forum to all the other forums online and saying "JUB isn't as bad." That is not helpful.

    It is the online equivalent of parents telling their kids there are starving people in Africa.

    While starvation is a tragedy the fact that Africa is in peril is not going to make me like brussel sprouts any more than I did before.

    Just like saying other forums are worse is not going to make those of us who frequent THIS SITE like the drama any better.

    This isn't other forums. It's JUB.
    What I'm saying is that what constitutes drama here is almost nothing. And it is. If someone wants to get bent out of shape and say they can barely get up in the morning because of how mean JUB is I can't possibly take that seriously as a reflection of how bad JUB actually is as much as someone is way oversensitive.

    Yes, if someone really thinks it's that bad.. they should never go anywhere else. This is a really really really nice place on the net by comparison. Yes, comparisons are valid.

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    Quote Originally Posted by xbuzzerx View Post
    That's fine if you don't want to stir the pot but I still honestly don't understand the :'-( drama here is so bad thing. I seriously think this place is milder than a Jack in the box spicy chicken sandwich compared to 90% of the net where it's like I said..
    lol, Thanks for understanding.

    It is very mild, I think that's why we're maybe a bit sensitive to things like slight increases in negativity. Mainly, we just get obvious trolls that blow things up and then it all settles down quickly after people have had their fill of clowning them.

    Quote Originally Posted by stacy View Post
    This isn't other forums. It's JUB.
    This sounds like some kind of slogan.

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    Quote Originally Posted by xbuzzerx View Post
    What I'm saying is that what constitutes drama here is almost nothing. And it is. If someone wants to get bent out of shape and say they can barely get up in the morning because of how mean JUB is I can't possibly take that seriously as a reflection of how bad JUB actually is as much as someone is way oversensitive.

    Yes, if someone really thinks it's that bad.. they should never go anywhere else. This is a really really really nice place on the net by comparison. Yes, comparisons are valid.
    Judgmental people are so unattractive.

    Quote Originally Posted by thatgirl View Post
    lol, Thanks for understanding.

    It is very mild, I think that's why we're maybe a bit sensitive to things like slight increases in negativity. Mainly, we just get obvious trolls that blow things up and then it all settles down quickly after people have had their fill of clowning them.

    This sounds like some kind of slogan.
    It should be, and I won't charge my usual fee for services should the powers that be decide to adopt it as one

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    Quote Originally Posted by stacy View Post
    Judgmental people are so unattractive.
    Frankly, so are people who enter discussions and tell people what not to discuss.

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    Re: just venting, airing out, talking shit, personal beefs, problems, anger management, and etc thread

    can anyone spot what's wrong with post #476 in this thread...?

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    Ooh ooh! Me me me! Pick me!
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    Not surprised really.

    "You may only be one person to the world, but you may also be the world to one person"
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    ^^^

    Pix of kids not allowed in JUB.
    http://www.justusboys.com/forum/signaturepics/sigpic216959_1.gif

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    Quote Originally Posted by borg69unimatrix View Post
    ^^^

    Pix of kids not allowed in JUB.
    Oops! My bad. I'll fix it. Oops. Can't fix it. What do I do, ask a mod to?

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    Re: just venting, airing out, talking shit, personal beefs, problems, anger management, and etc thread

    No sweat buzzer, I sent a note for you.

    btw, that lower left corner..the first icon lets you leave a personal comment to the poster.

    the triangle one lets you report a post...simple, clean. Don't sweat it, The ivory tower won't

    bust your balls over honest mistakes and those oopsie moments. (believe me, I have had

    a lot of experience) Just give them a heads up and if you aren't a flagrant violater they will

    wipe up behind you. Sometimes they even say thanks (well, that part is hearsay) lol


    rammers, you could have just told the poor boy in a comment or omg a p/m.

    You are now sentenced to 72 hours under lilbit (that is 1,440 minutes each day)

    wearing only stale olive oil and nipple rings as your penance. damn bully...the island

    must be getting to you...lol
    Last edited by Lefty; December 31st, 2012 at 12:28 AM.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lefty View Post
    No sweat buzzer, I sent a note for you.

    btw, that lower left corner..the first icon lets you leave a personal comment to the poster.

    the triangle one lets you report a post...simple, clean. Don't sweat it, The ivory tower won't

    bust your balls over honest mistakes and those oopsie moments. (believe me, I have had

    a lot of experience) Just give them a heads up and if you aren't a flagrant violater they will

    wipe up behind you. Sometimes they even say thanks (well, that part is hearsay) lol
    Good to know. I have a pretty good speculation as to why there is a no kids pics rule here but hopefully it's pretty clear my intent wasn't pornographic lol.

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    Re: just venting, airing out, talking shit, personal beefs, problems, anger management, and etc thread

    Yeah being a Gay semi porno and international site the main office gets a bit paranoid. But.

    its' corporate safe sex. Lots of stupids out there just looking for the least provocation.

    ok, this started out 10 pages ago as therapy for my NJ bud Fuji...so he could blow off shit

    before entering the front lines...amazing how many jumped on the train...

    thats good, shows Fuji and us we are not alone and then some....

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