I've been single for about 7 months, have went on lots of dates (mostly coffee or lunch) but no one has really caught my interest. However there's this guy I was talking to on POF for a couple days last week, great conversation. We met yesterday at a coffee shop and it was amazing! He's exactly what I'm looking for, he makes me laugh, he's gorgeous and I'm beyond attracted to him, we had so much in common and enjoyed doing a lot of the same things. We were at the coffee shop for probably 2 hours, then we went for a walk around the city and a park for another 2 hours. It was such a long date but I was really enjoying his company. I want to get to know him more, and I know it's early but I really see it going somewhere.
I haven't had a relationship for awhile and I don't remember what it's like really being into someone and developing it. I don't want to do anything wrong. We were texting last night and this morning. He asked if we could hang out again this week, I said yes, so he said he'll plan something fun for Tuesday night! So I think that means he's interested too if he wants to see me again also.
I feel so excited! After Tuesday night, I assume the ball is in "my court" to make the next date? Assuming it goes well which I'm sure it will, how soon is too soon to do a third date? A couple days? What about hand holding/kissing, if it feels right and I wanted to kiss him in the next couple dates would that be okay? I really don't want to rush things/scare him away, he's such a catch and I feel like he could have any guy he wants. I want to take it slow but I want him to know I'm interested, and I'm worried someone else is going to scoop him up haha. Any suggestions for dating progression? Date frequency? General do's and don'ts? I'm just so nervous about not doing it right. I could see him every day, haha, but I know that's a bad idea so just not sure how much I should be spacing it out.