So I've hooked up with like 4 guys (not slutting around, I'm just exploring right now) in the past week and a half, none of the guys have gotten me to cum, but they've all been able to themselves/with my help. I have no problem getting and maintaining an erection, it's just cumming I can't do. The head of my dick also seems prone to sensory overload (which sucks), where the pleasure feels really good but at the same time it's something I'm enduring more so than enjoying.
Normally if I'm jerking off by myself I can cum in 10-15 minutes. One of the guys I've been with twice now; we've been in bed for a good three or four hours each time (by choice, we also enjoy each others company). He takes a break every now and then to stop himself from cumming, while I probably can't even get half way. He's completely fine with it though.
On a side note, I had trouble maintaining an erection when I tried to penetrate him, as soon as I started, my dick went limp-ish within a few seconds. That probably has something to do with me not too keen on losing my virginity to someone I'm not dating, but whatever.
So yeah, we've tried a lot of things to get me to cum, but it just isn't happening. None of the guys have gotten me close to cumming, at first I thought it was just nervousness but I'm doubtful of that.