I don't know if there has been lots of threads about this topic, so I'm just going to go for it.
I am currently talking this guy that I meet on a gay dating app. And he is really nice. He is 32 and a teacher. I am 18 and I'm in college. So far, we are pretty compatible. We are meeting each other for the first time downtown at Chipotle this weekend.
So anyway, I have two problems or questions rather. Yesterday, I was viewing another forum about age differences. And one person said that two people with a huge age difference have almost nothing in common. He said that older men, who are interested in younger men, only want to have a boy-toy. So he could make him feel better about himself, and can make his sex life better. And younger guys, who are interested in older men, only want someone to take care of him.
Now, I am very attracted more to older men. Not because some of are established, they have money, and maybe they are willing to take care of me. I like older men, because most men who are older know what they want in a relationship (at least the ones that I've meet), they know where they are in life, and older men just really turn me on. It's just something about 'em. I really don't care about money, and I sure as hell don't want anyone taking care of me. I am very independent. I want to know, do you all think that there's a possibility that a 32 year old man and a 18 year old man can be in a successful relationship?
And another problem that I have is that I am very nervous about our date this weekend. I have this strange feeling that there will be something about him that I will not like. Or there will be something about me that he will not like. Almost every time I think about our date, I think that something bad is going to happen. I think it's because I haven't really been on a date before, and I am very anxious. Could you all give me some advise on first time dates or dating in general.
Thanks, I appreciate it.