Hi guys I'm 24 and have never tried alcohol before. In my experience with past relationships, I can tell my partners think I'm too boring for not partying/drinking (some have told me this). Well I'm single again and I want to meet "the one", but I really just want to fit in and be an enjoyable person to be around. I don't know why I struggle with this so much.
I don't drink because my parents are alcoholics (my dad died from cirrhosis), but I think the avoidance is actually causing me more frustration and stress.
If I go out this weekend what should I ask for and how do bar tabs work? Do you pay up front or after?