awkward silences

[floridaboy]

Ever been with someone(friend of bf) and you guys eventually just run out of things to talk about?

I've been kinda see this one guy who i've been fucking, but nothing is official. We have already ran out of things to talk to. I already know all about his past and he knows mine

What do my fellow jubbers do in situations like this?

[loki81]

if the silence is awkward, the problem may not be having enough things to talk about.

[Hard-up1]

What are your interests?

What are his interests?

How can two people have nothing to talk about?

Hobbies, sports, dreams, ambitions, fashion, music, food, entertainment, new restaurants, scientific curiosities, current events, career plans and problems, interesting questions you never got answered in school, gardening or horticulture, art, history, technology, philosophy, religion, economics, traffic issues in local areas, weather, office gossip, collectibles, antiques, international culture, fad diets, life on other planets, and so on.

How can you have nothing to say? Why are you not interested in the world?

[jaysizzles]

Pretty much every guy I've been friends with....but I don't think the silence is usually awkward. I think it is in a lot of guys nature to just not talk about everything and anything, to fill up the silence, like many women I know do. I think that's why a lot of guys get together and do stuff...play games, watch tv, sports/activities, etc...comment on what you are doing at the moment. You don't need to talk to enjoy being with someone.

[BillyT]

About 10 years ago, I went on a first date with guy and ran out things to talk about. We just did not have the same interest. Things I wanted to talk about he could not contribute and vise versa. It was also our last date.

[swerve]

I have NEVER run out of things to talk about...

[jmadaf]

Maybe your both not conversashionalst so nobody starts the talking. I am in these situations when I first meet a potential lover, I am careful what to say so I don't offend the friend until I get to know him. Usally I just go with body language getting close hugging hand-holding, maybe kissing, and even sex, here the talking I want to fuck you. My opinion, Good Luck!!!

[mikey3000]

LOL! Are you serious? You're worried about awkward silence? Just fuck and leave. That's the basis of your acquaintenship, no? Don't sweat it.

[cgymike]

Well maybe think of some of the thread topics in here and discuss them.

Discuss!

[loveguys72]

if the silence is awkward, the problem may not be having enough things to talk about.

This. It just goes back to my philosophy: when the lights come on and your feet hit the floor, you better have something more in common than sweating up the sheets. Otherwise, it's just playtime.