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    A gay mate who doesn't like giving/receiving head.

    Thought I'd post here and get some other peoples thought on this matter, I didn't think any gay guy existed who didn't like giving OR receiving head but a mate told me the other day he's not really a fan of either....

    Everyone I've ever been with LOVES head and so do I rofl.

    Thoughts?

    PS Sorry if this is the wrong section for this, the others didn't seem right though.
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    Re: A gay mate who doesn't like giving/receiving head.

    Is he a lesbian?

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    Re: A gay mate who doesn't like giving/receiving head.

    I like receiving more than giving.

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    Re: A gay mate who doesn't like giving/receiving head.

    Quote Originally Posted by Ram View Post
    Is he a lesbian?
    Haha I'm starting to think so...

    Quote Originally Posted by CupidBoy View Post
    I like receiving more than giving.
    Well it is pretty awesome to sit back and enjoy yourself.
    Last edited by I Love Cock; October 7th, 2012 at 10:09 AM.
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    Re: A gay mate who doesn't like giving/receiving head.

    Without head, what's the point of being gay???
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    Re: A gay mate who doesn't like giving/receiving head.

    Then again, different strokes for different folks.
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    Re: A gay mate who doesn't like giving/receiving head.

    What? How is this possible?

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    Re: A gay mate who doesn't like giving/receiving head.

    I see most of you agree it's really weird lol.
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    Re: A gay mate who doesn't like giving/receiving head.

    Of course it is not required for a gay man to do either. But I wonder what physical attraction, if any, that he has of other men. Is it all an emotional or personality attraction rather than any sexual attraction? Is he celibate? Anyway, it does seem to spell certain doom for a personal relationship with him, unless you are just like him.

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    Re: A gay mate who doesn't like giving/receiving head.

    Well he loves anal tho lol.
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    Re: A gay mate who doesn't like giving/receiving head.

    yes, a gay buddy of mine doesnt like giving head. he only likes receiving it.
    I would rather give head than get it.

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    Re: A gay mate who doesn't like giving/receiving head.

    Quote Originally Posted by I Love Cock View Post
    Well he loves anal tho lol.
    Liking anal, and just receiving head is not unheard of. But liking anal with absolutely no head receiving or giving is definitely unusual.

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    Re: A gay mate who doesn't like giving/receiving head.

    I like giving a lot more than receiving, but I'm not exactly turning any blowjobs down.

    Getting my dick sucked has never been the mind-shattering experience other men make it out to be, though.

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    Re: A gay mate who doesn't like giving/receiving head.

    maybe he just hasn't had a good blowjob? I love receiving, but one of my exes was terrible at it... in his case, I'd just as soon skip it and jerk off.

    I'm kinda indifferent to giving... I don't hate it (unless the guy is really big), but I only really do it to make my partner happy, not because I get anything out of it myself.

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    Re: A gay mate who doesn't like giving/receiving head.

    Quote Originally Posted by Spiff View Post
    Liking anal, and just receiving head is not unheard of. But liking anal with absolutely no head receiving or giving is definitely unusual.
    Yea, he's a weird one alright lol.
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    Re: A gay mate who doesn't like giving/receiving head.

    Your friend has his preferences like everyone else. Nothing terribly unusual about. Just what he likes.

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    Re: A gay mate who doesn't like giving/receiving head.

    I just had a hot session with a guy who loved getting his ass cheeks rubbed, kneaded, and spanked, and his hole licked and fingered (he also let me blow him to completion). But he didn't want to be fucked. I guess there are an infinte number of combinations and permutations and it's a case of "to each his own."

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    Re: A gay mate who doesn't like giving/receiving head.

    I know a guy who only gives head just to get head. And he's not into anal at all. No biggie. Different strokes.
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    Re: A gay mate who doesn't like giving/receiving head.

    ^ I love the previous three responses.

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    Re: A gay mate who doesn't like giving/receiving head.

    I am not good at receiving oral. I convinced myself Ill run into a crazy guy and he'll bite my cock off. But I have had a few good blowjobs.

    I only like to suck a cock that looks nice

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    Re: A gay mate who doesn't like giving/receiving head.

    People are different--even us gay guys.

    I get absolutely nothing out of having my dick sucked--but giving head to another man is like a drug for me.

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    Re: A gay mate who doesn't like giving/receiving head.

    you are talking about my ex? he didnt like giving or recieving ,he was also top despite saying he is vers

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    Re: A gay mate who doesn't like giving/receiving head.

    Quote Originally Posted by I Love Cock View Post
    Thought I'd post here and get some other peoples thought on this matter, I didn't think any gay guy existed who didn't like giving OR receiving head but a mate told me the other day he's not really a fan of either....

    Everyone I've ever been with LOVES head and so do I rofl.

    Thoughts?


    PS Sorry if this is the wrong section for this, the others didn't seem right though.
    Do you know him well enough?
    Do you really know his private life and what he likes sexually ?


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    Re: A gay mate who doesn't like giving/receiving head.

    Quote Originally Posted by Telstra View Post
    Do you know him well enough?
    Do you really know his private life and what he likes sexually ?
    We're really good mates, he wouldn't just tell me something like that if it wasn't true.
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    Re: A gay mate who doesn't like giving/receiving head.

    Quote Originally Posted by borg69unimatrix View Post
    Without head, what's the point of being gay???
    Getting fucked?

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    Re: A gay mate who doesn't like giving/receiving head.

    Quote Originally Posted by floridaboy View Post
    Getting fucked?
    Pretty much.

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    Re: A gay mate who doesn't like giving/receiving head.

    Quote Originally Posted by floridaboy View Post
    Getting fucked?
    Quote Originally Posted by CupidBoy View Post
    Pretty much.
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    Re: A gay mate who doesn't like giving/receiving head.

    I like giving. But, receiving does nothing for me.

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    Re: A gay mate who doesn't like giving/receiving head.

    I'm pretty sure I've made it clear that I hate giving head. I spend more time licking and stroking than I do with it in my mouth. Not only is that a lot of work on my jaws, but I'm not trying to throw up. Unless I'm digesting a big meal.

    As far as receiving, I'd prefer a rim job, tbh.

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    Quote Originally Posted by BFizzle View Post
    As far as receiving, I'd prefer a rim job, tbh.
    Whelp.


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    Re: A gay mate who doesn't like giving/receiving head.

    Does he like that cock head up his butthole? If you tell me he doesn't like that or fucking a guy then he aint gay. It's as simple as that! But maybe he had a bad experience sucking cock though I can't imagine what it would be and that doesn't explain why he doesn't like getting sucked.

    Have him over and put some straight porn on and see if he gets a boner? If asked why you have the porn just say "I was curious what goes on"...after the hottest part (OK straight porn aint so hot) reach over and feel to see if he's hard. If so he's straight...JUST KIDDING!
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    Re: A gay mate who doesn't like giving/receiving head.

    I would be far more concerned if he didn't like anal sex than oral sex. I'm not a huge fan of receiving oral. I don't mind giving oral but I don't get excited over it. I'm just a lazy top that wants someone to sit and spin.

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    Re: A gay mate who doesn't like giving/receiving head.

    Yea he's a top only that doesn't like give/receiving oral so basically I told him I feel sorry for him lol.

    I guess there's no reason to feel sorry for him though since it's not something he's never tried and doesn't know how good it can be, it's something he can't get excited over. It is still really weird imo but each to his own I guess as everyone else is saying here.

    PS To the person who talked about checking if he was really gay by making him watch straight porn, I'd like to point out that I'm gay not bi but I still get hard from watching straight porn... it does have a guy in it lmao.
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    Re: A gay mate who doesn't like giving/receiving head.

    Quote Originally Posted by CupidBoy View Post
    I like receiving more than giving.
    How compatible we are.. It's crazy. I'm just saying..

    Quote Originally Posted by Huntneo(PT) View Post
    I get absolutely nothing out of having my dick sucked--but giving head to another man is like a drug for me.


    Quote Originally Posted by BFizzle View Post
    As far as receiving, I'd prefer a rim job, tbh.


    We're all different. There's guys who don't do anal so why should it be weird that some don't like blow jobs?

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    Re: A gay mate who doesn't like giving/receiving head.

    I love giving and receiving head equally as much but really not interested in anal at all, just does nothing for me. Different folks different strokes etc.

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    Re: A gay mate who doesn't like giving/receiving head.

    Revoke his gay card NOW! He does not deserve to be gay. He makes the rest of us look like sluts.

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    Re: A gay mate who doesn't like giving/receiving head.

    ^The Mafia says that he gets to live, and here's why.

    I don't get off most of the time by receiving because - and this is going to hurt some feelings - a lot of guys just don't understand HOW to give head... ESPECIALLY the guys that learned about giving head by watching porn - mostly STRAIGHT porn.

    Most of the guys i've encountered don't understand that Rome wasn't built in a fucking day - it took time. So does good head.

    So unless you're a bottom(and most guys around my neck of the woods now usually are), I'd rather give or i'd rather fuck.
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    Quote Originally Posted by MoufOfKhaos View Post
    I don't get off most of the time by receiving because - and this is going to hurt some feelings - a lot of guys just don't understand HOW to give head... ESPECIALLY the guys that learned about giving head by watching porn - mostly STRAIGHT porn.

    Most of the guys i've encountered don't understand that Rome wasn't built in a fucking day - it took time. So does good head.


    look up 'Hoovermouth' on xtube.

    I wonder how you'd rate his blowjob skills.

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    Re: A gay mate who doesn't like giving/receiving head.

    Quote Originally Posted by Huntneo(PT) View Post


    look up 'Hoovermouth' on xtube.

    I wonder how you'd rate his blowjob skills.
    First, I shouldn't be watching that before work.

    Second, i'ma start making his videos mandatory for some of these so-called "lovers of oral" around here!
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    Re: A gay mate who doesn't like giving/receiving head.

    Ok I've got to watch these Hoovermouth videos brb!

    Edit: WOW that guy has some skills, I was hard like 4 seconds into the vid.
    Last edited by I Love Cock; October 8th, 2012 at 06:46 AM.
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    ^ Glad you guys like!

    Yeah...he does NOT kid around when it comes to downing some cock.

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    Re: A gay mate who doesn't like giving/receiving head.

    I think i'd seen one of his vids on xtube before but needless to say....

    bookmarked.
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    Lmbo! I hate giving head! XP love getting it though
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    Quote Originally Posted by I Love Cock View Post
    Ok I've got to watch these Hoovermouth videos brb!

    Edit: WOW that guy has some skills, I was hard like 4 seconds into the vid.

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    Re: A gay mate who doesn't like giving/receiving head.

    I've never been wild about oral sex, either. Giving gets boring after a while, and receiving tickles... like, I'd just as soon have my feet tickled, it's that bad. And I've had enough different skill levels going down on me to know that it's not lack of skill on my partners' part... it just doesn't feel very nice to me. Mouths are just not very nice places, the teeth and hard palate being too much of what's in there.

    Fucking, on the other hand, was always fun, giving and receiving. And kissing. Frottage is nice, too. All that.

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    Re: A gay mate who doesn't like giving/receiving head.

    You're not talking this extreme are you?


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    Re: A gay mate who doesn't like giving/receiving head.

    I wish the OP would tell us more about his friend. Is the friend in a relationship? Has his attitude about oral sex effected his sex life?
    Is he willing to do it even though he is not crazy about it? What is attitude in general toward his sexuality? Does he think sex is dirty in general?
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    Re: A gay mate who doesn't like giving/receiving head.

    I've been with three men in the past week, and giving head was probably the most dull thing I did with them. Receiving it was OK, but a lot of them weren't getting me in the right places so it just felt like I was in the shower or something, my dick was wet but not much was happening.

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    Re: A gay mate who doesn't like giving/receiving head.

    Quote Originally Posted by I Love Cock View Post
    Yea he's a top only that doesn't like give/receiving oral so basically I told him I feel sorry for him lol.
    Is he from the Middle East by any chance? This "top only, no oral sex" is very common among arabs and muslims. Being a bottom and a cocksucker is just too gay, while being the top-only threatens them less.
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    Re: A gay mate who doesn't like giving/receiving head.

    How about this - my straight friend likes it up the butt! (from a girl)

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