A gay mate who doesn't like giving/receiving head.

[I Love Cock]

Is he from the Middle East by any chance? This "top only, no oral sex" is very common among arabs and muslims. Being a bottom and a cocksucker is just too gay, while being the top-only threatens them less.

Sorry for late reply but no he's not, he's an Aussie like me from Melbourne.

[twinkerbell]

It's taken me a long time for my boyfriend to get me used to him going down on me. I'm krazy oral and got mad skilz, so he loves it when I do him, but he usually only likes it as extended foreplay and likes coming in my ass better. I'm incredibly uncomfortable awkward when he's going down on me still. Not that it doesn't feel good. It's just like... what am I supposed to be doing while he's doing it? It's also probably a lot to do with most of the guys I've been with were either total tops or hung up on being gay. Before him I'd maybe only gotten blown a handful of times and had never fucked anyone, he was the 1st one I ever did that to.