I am needing some advice. I am 22 years old, and currently undecided on what exactly my sexuality is. I have known for the longest time that I am attracted to men (and women sometimes), but I've never been able to accept that I'm gay. I have been thinking of coming out to my family and friends (who think I am straight), but I don't know how to go about it exactly. This is just one thing that has been causing me tons of stress and guilt. I have this one male friend, he is 19 years old and straight, and I think he could potentially be one of the first people I want to tell. We are really good friends and we talk about a lot of things all the time (sex-related and personal). He has been one of my best friends for the last year, and I just think starting with him or one of my other friends would be the best decision. What do you guys think?
And yes, I sort of do have a crush on him, but I would never try to do anything with him because his friendship means a lot to me.