Are You 100% Gay ?

[sixthson]

I may not be 100% gay, but I am all man.

[eastofeden]

I have always considered myself 100% gay but I have had sex with women...NOT to "prove" anything or try to be staraight or even bi as I like being gay...but because I was a slut when I was younger and sometimes that is just how it worked out.

I think some women are really sexy though....

Chaka Khan #1...but then there is Markiska Hargitay, Gina Gershon, Milla Jovovich....

[xbuzzerx]

I can look at it easily, but it's just like looking at their feet, it doesn't do anything for me on a sexual level.

*Looks down at youfiad's feet*

[MissAnne]

I think some women are really sexy though....

Chaka Khan #1...

Aw....Let me find out LOL....Nice. She's great.

[eastofeden]

Aw....Let me find out LOL....Nice. She's great.

LOL...yeah...I think Chaka is maybe the single sexiest woman I can think of.

[xbuzzerx]

Aw....Let me find out LOL....Nice. She's great.

I could get a crush on whoever was MissAnne's previous avatar. She was adorable.

[ixthrock]

So how long has it been since any of you put your penis into a vagina?

Lots of people like to talk about the future and lots are in Fantasyland.

I think that we should remember that appreciating the aesthetics of the opposite sex's form, doesn't imply any real sexual attraction. Whenever I see a beautiful or genuinely charismatic woman, I can appreciate her appeal and I am affected by it like every other human being would. That doesn't mean, however, that there is any desire or arousal. It's just that there are some people who are above average in some way, and we cannot help but to notice and react to them at some very primeval level.
...

Fucking a chick doesn't make you bi.

This thread has been a total surprise to me.

I like to believe our notions about sexuality are evolving, and I also believe Kinsey's synopsized viewpoint that the only true "100%s" are likely sociopaths.

I've had sex with a good half-dozen or so different women - one was a girlfriend I banged regularly enough to get a UTI and happily went down on, and one was an older woman who'd also done my dad at some point that I just couldn't get it up for. The last woman was aggressive and a little psycho and wanted to fuck me up the ass with a carrot (messy!) and that was probably a couple of decades ago, if it helps the sexual dictators to pick a nit.

I'm still in occasional contact with the ex-girlfriend; we're quite fond of one another still. Nevertheless, I don't call myself "Bisexual," only because it seems to be heuristically easier for people to call myself gay (I also like "faggot" but I'm really partial to "cocksucker." REAL label-of-choice for me is "queer.") It also simplifies going forward with discussions about "gay rights" which to me really are not so much about the rights of us gays but the rights of everyone to have a free and changeable expression of sexuality without the need to feel pigeonholed into some stereotype.

Yes, yes, I know there is a tendency for fledgling homos to consider themselves "bi" during a lengthy coming-out process, and, therefore a tendency for older, wiser, more mature gay people (who should absolutely know better) to consider anyone who calls themselves "bi" to be "going through a phase."

Still, I thought we had been evolving - still using our relatively new labels to map and define areas of sexual experience, yet with a growing awareness that we cannot confuse the map for the actual territory.

Sex to me is physically absurd, awkward, and funny - and best carried out with a close friend, with a distinct sense of play and a liberal sense of humour. Regardless of what label I apply to myself, and no matter what shape my bedpost notches over the last century are carved in, if a ladyfriend I find attractive wants to take a mutual enjoyment of each other's company and sense of play someplace sexual, I'd be a willing, if a bit awkward, participant.

I might not be 100% gay.
I may not even be all "man."
But I am definitely all human.

And, like, - totally queer.

[MissAnne]

I could get a crush on whoever was MissAnne's previous avatar. She was adorable.

Well, I do like my women adorable

And...she really is. English actress Antonia Thomas.





The one in my avatar now, looks hard in that picture, but she is pretty adorable too. Women like that make me want to say. "Who's bi? Not me!...all girls all the time"



^ These are supposed to move...oh well.

[Kyanimal]

This thread has been a total surprise to me.

I like to believe our notions about sexuality are evolving, and I also believe Kinsey's synopsized viewpoint that the only true "100%s" are likely sociopaths.

*******

Sex to me is physically absurd, awkward, and funny - and best carried out with a close friend, with a distinct sense of play and a liberal sense of humour. Regardless of what label I apply to myself, and no matter what shape my bedpost notches over the last century are carved in, if a ladyfriend I find attractive wants to take a mutual enjoyment of each other's company and sense of play someplace sexual, I'd be a willing, if a bit awkward, participant.

I might not be 100% gay.
I may not even be all "man."
But I am definitely all human.

And, like, - totally queer.

DAMN! I LOVE the way You think!!

And, given my experiences, there don't seem to be many of "Us" that view Sex as "merely" SEX, a Loving/Considerate/Enjoyable physical activity!

During my late teens, and through my twenties, I had more than my Fair Share of FUN with "The Fairer Sex"! And, I did Love all of "My" girls! Nearly married 5, or 6, of them!

Although I KNEW I was "Gay", since I'd hit puberty, I was SO Horny that SEX became a main infatuation! And, the notion that "IT" was Naughty only increased my fascination! I read, and practiced, everything I could get on the subject! And, I must say, through increased experience, became quite Good at "IT", whether with Girls OR Guys!

I finally went "All GAY" when I hit 30. Nothing butt Guys since! However, I did, and still do, Cherish my Gals, and the fantastic times I had with them!

Keep smilin'!!
Chaz

[loosingyourmind]

no, I have a straight percentage. I'd bang Megan any day, haha, but sorry ladies, I'm not single

[-Callum-]

So how long has it been since any of you put your penis into a vagina?

Lots of people like to talk about the future and lots are in Fantasyland.

8 years was my last response, although we can change that to 8 days ago now.

[pat grimshaw]

…8 days ago now.

^ how was it, Callum? Was it slippery? Did you see any blood? Did you talk afterwards? Were you drunk?

[RonR18]

I'm a 6...

[Rolyo85]

I'm a 5.5 myself, so I'd say 100% gay without the repulsion from women. I don't mind them, they're fun to mess around with, as long as you're not expecting my middle management to cooperate. However, the 5 women I'd do my damn best to make it work for are (in no particular order)

Kaya Scodelario




Eva Green




Portia De Rosi (never mind that SHE wouldn't be interested )




Sofia Vergara




Emma Stone





However, for all of those a big part of the attraction comes from the personality and/or characters they've played.

[pat grimshaw]

I'm a 5.5 myself…

So how long has it been, Roly, since you last put your penis into one?

[Rolyo85]

Lol, never. Trying that was my kick into coming out. But since they don't repulse me and I WOULD if I physically COULD, I'm not sure I'm allowed to call myself a 6.

[ibill1]

I'm definetly 100% or a 6 if you will. I have been since I was 9 so it seems a sure thing. I like women and get along well with them but thats as far as it's going to go.

[xbuzzerx]

4.5 -- Just a guesstimate.

[pat grimshaw]

*waiting for LilBit to enter this thread*

[-Callum-]

^ how was it, Callum? Was it slippery? Did you see any blood? Did you talk afterwards? Were you drunk?

a) Great! Vaginas fit like fine satin gloves.
b) I've only ever experienced a 'slippery vagina' when I've cum inside her and go back in for round two or three. By then it's my own 'wetness' anyway.
c) No. I'm 7' big and haven't seen blood.
d) Yes.
e) Buzzed. I don't like sex while drunk.

[Red Storm]

100% gay for sure

[Kyanimal]

Looking all that way back, and seriously thinking about it, and doing what I did vs. doing what I TRULY Wanted to do, I'd have to say I've Evolved from a 1 to a 6! (Well ... maybe a 5.)

Hey! We're all here to LEARN, Right??

Keep smilin'!!
Chaz

[Scealle]

I am pretty sure I am 100% gay. I can appreciate the beauty of women but am not sexually attracted to them.

[thatgirl]

That chart...The less clothes a man is wearing, the more gay he is. Mkay.

[Rolyo85]

That chart...The less clothes a man is wearing, the more gay he is. Mkay.

Well duh.

[xbuzzerx]

*whistles innocently, keeps walking*

[Scealle]

That chart...The less clothes a man is wearing, the more gay he is. Mkay.

Everything is over sexualized in the gay community unfortunately. My friends have told me one way to identify who's gay see the ones with the most shirtless pics in thier avatar/ facebook or twitter. Lol

[PreTTy PeTe]

Sorry Benderboy for getting so far off topic. I really do love women but here is a picture of a man that could turn me completely straight.

Oh charlie he grew up so fine

if I could could choose any female it would be this girl but alas she loves girls.

[Rolyo85]

*whistles innocently, keeps walking*

Haha, I was thinking of putting her up on my list, but nah - she's adorable, and awesome, and I love her, but she is not sexy to me at all.

[xbuzzerx]

Haha, I was thinking of putting her up on my list, but nah - she's adorable, and awesome, and I love her, but she is not sexy to me at all.

You almost made it to good taste, Rolyo! Don't worry, I'll keep a seat warm for you here.

[MrRochesterNY]

Years ago I was only into females sexually; so I would have rated myself 100% straight. In high school a bunch of guys cornered me and tried to get me to suck one of them off. I absolutely wouldn't, and wouldn't have, even if they used violence. In my later life, I must have changed somehow, because I woke up to the realization that I enjoyed sex with males really more than sex with females. Now I would rate myself as 90% gay. But if the right females appeared on the scene I probably would get horny for her.

I don't dislike vaginas. They look OK, feel OK, smell OK (except during that time of the month), and taste great. But in the look, feel, smell, and taste department, males have the edge. And the taste of cum can't be beat.

I don't know what factors account for this change in me, but I don't let any of this bother me. I am what I am, just as everybody is what he is. As long as no harm is done, let life go on.

[G-Lexington]

I'm 7' big and haven't seen blood.

At seven feet, you'd think there'd be a hell of a lot blood...and a hell of a lot of screaming.

Lex

[xbuzzerx]

At seven feet, you'd think there'd be a hell of a lot blood...and a hell of a lot of screaming.

Lex

Ogre smash!

[hermanding]

I wonder if any of us are really 100 per cent anything? That would be like black or white, with absolutely no trace of gray.

[Nishin]

No need to wonder... I'm 100% gay and I'm sure many other are

[Rolyo85]

^^^ Raises hand proudly.

[refujiunderground]

well, to add on. i've been to several strip clubs (with female dancers of course) some years back like 2006ish, 2007ish, 2008ish, and 2009ish. some of them went completely naked while others were bikini clubs. still think it's hilarious that they have bikini clubs where they have the women only dancing in bikinis and thongs. anyways, i can honestly say that i was turned off for the most part. as someone who was in denial that was trying to beat it in his head that i was straight, liked women and wanted to have sex with them, this was a crushing blow to me. first off, i wasn't feeling the women at all. the lap dances, FORGET IT. not turned on once even with ass, titties and vagina in my face. i would also say that i was also turned off by the smell of those women. they didn't stink or anything like that. i guess it was the pheromones coming from them. it turned me the fuck off. i didn't like the smell. it smelled nasty to me. that's when i remember thinking to myself, what the hell am i doing here? you're just gay. just get it over with already BUT i brushed it off and wrote it off as something else. even going to the straight clubs where my brother, my friends and me would go to, i would find myself paying more attention to the guys than the women that i was supposed to be checking out.

i can get off to masturbating to some pics of women. i would say that i sort of looked for a bit of male features on them to get off to like say their arms, their backs, sometimes their asses and etc. wasn't into breasts or whatever. fake ones, yeah but natural titties, naw. sometimes videos of women dancing around, doing whatever BUT very rarely could i get off to straight porn. it's interesting to look @ but it's not my thing. not really a fan of vagina.

i guess in my case, i've tried to build up the idea that i was straight and looked for every reason to validate it in hopes of basically getting acceptance from my peers around me so that's what happened. however, my mind and my heart would be the one to straight up own my ass by telling me that i was gay. i used to and still at times get scared and uncomfortable as fuck around other gay people, i guess because i'm not comfortable with that part of myself. i remember being deeply closeted where there were some other gay guys that somehow, someway picked up on it and would fucking start acting weird around me. still scary thinking about it. i would rather hang around my straight counterparts because that's what i'm used to even though the topic of sexuality comes up a whole lot. almost 2 years later, it still is painful looking back at it. sometimes, i WISH i was straight where this whole entire process wouldn't be so hard hitting or that i just came out to myself and others a long time ago when i was a teenager.

[SLOPPYSECONDS]

well UN can alway get world panel * select a taday version straight males *
ans all males ans females get checked
inta
Ya gay
yanot
yamaybe
make da coffee
etc so on

save 1st world strain their noggys

& you alien &
thankyou

haaaaaaaaaaaa

[EuroSoccer]

well UN can alway get world panel * select a taday version straight males *
ans all males ans females get checked
inta
Ya gay
yanot
yamaybe
make da coffee
etc so on

save 1st world strain their noggys

& you alien &
thankyou

haaaaaaaaaaaa

What's your percentage of gayness mate?

[Telstra]

I'm a 6...

about the scale, anyone know how many % of people are in:
0/
1/
2/
3/
4/
5/
or 6/ ...?

[SLOPPYSECONDS]

What's your percentage of gayness mate?

like lonnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnng assanur ?
or a percentage da assanur ?

hhaaaaaaaaa

is not dead
not a 1st world many way make dead woteva labal folk get or think or buy or swalla or sold or born inta or etc so on

so think about ya Q ans try again

planet not goin anywhere fast <haaaaaaaaaaa

thankyou

[Rolyo85]

No. And there would be no way to say with all the rampant homophobia in society, and the self-hatred and closetness in the gay community.

[thatgirl]

Years ago I was only into females sexually; so I would have rated myself 100% straight. In high school a bunch of guys cornered me and tried to get me to suck one of them off. I absolutely wouldn't, and wouldn't have, even if they used violence. In my later life, I must have changed somehow, because I woke up to the realization that I enjoyed sex with males really more than sex with females. Now I would rate myself as 90% gay. But if the right females appeared on the scene I probably would get horny for her.

I just don't even know what to think of this story. I'm having a hard time believing that someone can be 100% gay or straight and then just morph into being almost the exact opposite. That's not even closeted, that's like...on an entirely different level.

And those guys basically tried to rape you. That is scary and even if you had been coerced into performing sexual acts for them, it wouldn't say anything about your sexual orientation as a former 100% straight guy.

Everything is over sexualized in the gay community unfortunately. My friends have told me one way to identify who's gay see the ones with the most shirtless pics in thier avatar/ facebook or twitter. Lol

lol, Well, when I think about it some more, as much as many women appreciate shirtless guys...showing a lot of skin or doing sexyface isn't really something straight guys do to attract women. So, I guess, if I came across a scantily clad man doing sexy poses in his personal photos, it would make me wonder. It's more common for straight women and gay men to behave like this to attract men.

[Nishin]

^ not saying it is the case here but I have actually heard of people apparently shifting sexuality because of some trauma caused by a rape situation ... not to say it is proven in all of these specific cases that a link of causality can be made... but I can see how a very traumatic experience can "fuck" with one's psychological integrity

[xbuzzerx]

No. And there would be no way to say with all the rampant homophobia in society, and the self-hatred and closetness in the gay community.

I'm confused Rolyo, what was this in response to? I just want to understand your answer.

^ not saying it is the case here but I have actually heard of people apparently shifting sexuality because of some trauma caused by a rape situation ... not to say it is proven in all of these specific cases that a link of causality can be made... but I can see how a very traumatic experience can "fuck" with one's psychological integrity

I have heard/seen some of exactly the same thing. It seems particularly, though not exclusively, strong as a phenomenon with women who suffered sexual assault.

[SLOPPYSECONDS]

^ not saying it is the case here but I have actually heard of people apparently shifting sexuality because of some trauma caused by a rape situation ... not to say it is proven in all of these specific cases that a link of causality can be made... but I can see how a very traumatic experience can "fuck" with one's psychological integrity

all 1st world cultures in trauma of eons

any world leadurs read da handbook 250000 yr ago?
how tie shoe laces

it free

-

cheer up

bits a world awsum folk sanction new word GAY no go fuck it up wit lot a FIRST WORLD - no idea words it is

so anyone nose dicktionary by memory feel free fins sents

thanyou

[Sparky-Sparky-Boom-Boom]

I'm 199% gay love my dick to much to trade for a virgina lol.

[Rolyo85]

I'm confused Rolyo, what was this in response to? I just want to understand your answer.

It was a response to the non-nonsensical post above the nonsensical one above mine. Shoulda quoted it. The thing about how people distribute among the 7 levels of the Kinsey scale. My experience however is that most are 1s and 5s. Something like:

0 - 5%
1 - 30%
2 - 12.5%
3 - 5%
4 - 12.5%
5 - 30%
6 - 5%

[Huntneo(PT)]

I'm 199% gay love my dick to much to trade for a virgina lol.

ha...a virgina, huh?

...oh, and happy one year anniversary on JUB!

[xbuzzerx]

It was a response to the non-nonsensical post above the nonsensical one above mine. Shoulda quoted it. The thing about how people distribute among the 7 levels of the Kinsey scale. My experience however is that most are 1s and 5s. Something like:

0 - 5%
1 - 30%
2 - 12.5%
3 - 5%
4 - 12.5%
5 - 30%
6 - 5%

Looks about right from what I seem to see/run into.