I'm a 23 year old bisexual male, in a committed relationship with a great guy. He's the first guy that I've been with. When we have sex, he typically asks me to douche at least two hours before we do. The reason behind this is every time we've tried having sex and fingering me, he claims to feel fecal matter even if I already went hours before. I've read through the 'All about ass' sticky, and can't seem to find a better solution to my problem. I eat Fiber One cereal for breakfast (the boring kind that looks like rabbit food) most days to try and avoid having to use an enema.
I guess what I'm trying to ask is how can I make sure I'm clean without having to use an enema every time I want to bottom?