Like the topic says, I am a 21 year old virgin. I've never had a real bf/gf either. I've gone on a few dates, and at least one of them I know wanted to have sex. Though I was attracted to him, we only went out twice, and I wasn't ready. He was understanding and didn't push it, and if I had stayed in the city longer, we probably would be dating now.
Anyhow, everywhere I see makes it seem like I'm a loser for not having been in a significant relationship by now, much less for still being a virgin. Is this really how the world is? Is it really that big a deal that I haven't done anything? Don't get me wrong - I want to, but I want to wait for the right person, and I just haven't found him/her yet.