Turned On by Gay Men Fucking Women

[jobman34]

Anyone else think that the idea of gay men fucking women for the first time in their lives to be extremely, cum-splatteringly HOT?

A few years ago, I was on a gay chatline in Dallas. I only liked talking to muscle bear-type men, men with facial hair. I had had sex with all kinds of men, and my partner of 15 years was no bear, but I had a special lust for older men with mustaches, beards, goatees... While talking to this one guy (44) he suddenly started telling me about how he had fucked a 20 year old girl for the first time the night before and it was the best sex he ever had! And now he thought he was straight! Immediately, cum started erupting from my cock~ I couldn't even breathe! I could hear the blood pounding in my ears as he talked about this girl seducing him and how much he really enjoyed- and preferred! - sex with a beautiful girl!!!

Suddenly, after that, I couldn't get the idea of an older gay man converting to heterosexuality just by letting himself accept it. That week, in horror, I realized I was checking out this girl's body at work. I had a micro-fantasy of walking up behind her, reaching around and grabbing her left tit in my left hand, while the middle two fingers of my right hand rubbed on her jeans where her pussy was, as I ground my rock hard cock against her ass. I seriously freaked out, as I was leaking so bad that it was showing through my jeans! (NO LIE!) I almost started crying, I was so upset at myself for actively having such 100% NON-GAY desires!

After that incident, I consciously never let myself think about girls sexually at all. Out and Proud!!! But...

I could not stop myself from being interested in gay men fucking pussy. I remember researching bisexual videos, and was shocked to see my favorite performer of the 1990s, Rob Cryston, had done two Bisexual videos. Well, it took me until that Summer to finally buy them from a cheap DVD online mart (on a secret credit card I had to take out so my partner would not find out), and the second I saw gay Rob tongue-kissing a woman, I shot my first load~ just from him kissing a girl like a real man kisses a woman! Many, many more loads would be shot off for the next 3 years. I did the same thing with the Blake Harper DVD where he is with two women at once - SO FUCKING HOT!!!

And this continued, my secretly renting/downloading bisexual videos to see GAY MEN fucking and eating pussy~ NOT straight men. I guess it was preparation, although I just told myself it was a kink, which everyone has. Online I created an identity as a gay man who was realizing his secret heterosexual lust, wanting to jack off on the phone with men who were in the same predicament. And there were hundreds over the last 3 years! SO MANY gay-identified men who were telling me that they truly wanted pussy secretly now instead of cock. And I was pretending to be like them because I wanted to shoot off listening to them described my favorite kink. I LOVED hearing them talk about how secretly they knew they were truly heterosexual inside, but were jacking off about pussy in secret so their gay lives wouldn't be destroyed.

And I wrote erotic stories about gay men realizing their true sexuality due to being awakened to what was truly inside them to their core. Just from my stories on Nifty.org , I've had hundreds of gay men writing me, telling me they also are turned on by the idea of gay men fucking hot girls, and that my stories had even put the idea in their own heads!

Anyone else find this taboo sex of gay men with decades of rigid homosexuality experiencing earth-shattering heterosexual orgasms when they start fucking women for the first time? Anyone else want to talk about it? Anyone else think such ideas spark a transition to heterosexuality?

[jobman34]

And here are some erotic stories I wrote on Nifty.org ~

Nifty Archive - Nifty - Bisexual - Encounters - Straight For Pay

Nifty Archive - Nifty - Bisexual - Encounters - Tony And Jeff

Nifty Archive - Nifty - Bisexual - Encounters - Bears Proposition

Nifty Archive - Nifty - Bisexual - Encounters - Blackmailing Peter

[Naughty_Monkey]

don't worry about it. you're free to do and think whatever you please as long as it doesn't hurt anyone else. coming out as gay isn't the end of the world, you haven't signed a contract to only look at guys the rest of your life. relax, breath and have fun!

[HorniLad89]

It's hot but older guys turn my dick limp. Moustaches, beards, hairy old bodies...yuck! Cute twinky guys and pretty much no older than 35 fucking girls for the first time is hot. But older, absolutely gross.

[jobman34]

Anyone else find it hot?

[Skills90]

don't worry about it. you're free to do and think whatever you please as long as it doesn't hurt anyone else. coming out as gay isn't the end of the world, you haven't signed a contract to only look at guys the rest of your life. relax, breath and have fun!

Wise man

[Peter3023]

There aren't a lot of stories about this so I'm glad you're writing some.

[jobman34]

Any bears here fuck their first piece of pussy later in life?

[sickofm23]

Told one of my straight friends. he is dragging me out prowling tonight.

[bigwhiskers65]

I guess you wouldn't call them gay bears if they were fucking women.
Only time I ever fucked a woman was in the military and did it for reputations sake and hated it. I ended up
with the petty officer daddy who did a 3 way with me and we dumped the woman to get it on with each other heh

[miztab13]

Yeah, this type of stories definitely turn me on.

[jmadaf]

I always say men should try both men and women sex, I prefer man sex because I love cock, but there are women who have such a great ass, I want to ass fuck them but not the pussy, some women want to strap -on fuck me before they give me the ass.

[jobman34]

Part of this fascination has intensified because of the hundreds of emails I've gotten this last year from guys who've read my stories posted on Nifty. While being surprised how many other gay men found it extremely hot to read about gay men fucking women for the first time in their lives, I was equally stunned to read men telling me that my stories had actually put those heterosexual thoughts in their heads! And it "made" them suddenly hard for women! Now, I find that hard to believe, but many guys have described it as a seed being planted, and that it quickly grew inside them, unleashing previously unknown deep heterosexual desire. Also, while many of the men writing to me said that they had so far only been masturbating (with much more intensity, frequency, and extreme satisfaction!) about having sex with hot girls, several of them also said that they had begun fucking women, cheating on their clueless partners, and, in general, planning to transition to a heterosexual lifestyle! Pretty wild... but, who knows?

Of course, this is all completely unscientific and merely email reports from men, but so many of them said similar things, hit similar themes. Some of the most recurring statements included:

1. Men in their 40s, especially identifying as in the Bear community, being hit with sudden and previously nonexistent desire for women for the first time in their gay lives. And this desire, they say, overwhelms any they previously felt for men.

2. The heterosexual lust hit them very quickly, "Like a door being opened", "like a key being turned", "like a switch flipped", "like a secret room being opened" in their minds.

3. Many times there was a triggering event, like unexpectedly being hard for the women while watching straight porn or having a woman come on to them strongly, although neither occurrence ever affected them when they were younger.

4. Over and over, they stated their desire to "breed" women, "like real men".

5. The newly active heterosexual lust grows over time, not lessens, and is not a "phase". (They claim).

6. Many of those still in gay relationships related having to think about fucking or eating pussy in order to cum with their male partner.

I guess I was just struck at how far-reaching this was for some men. For me, it's a turn-on to read or think about (especially when the bear fucking a woman in mind is you, Ray, the sexiest damned man alive!). But (it seems that) many of the guys who are initially turned on by gay-turns-bisexual/heterosexual erotica then begin to have an "awakening" of their own heretofore unknown heterosexual lust. And a few, over the course of a year, are telling me that they consider themselves to be truly heterosexual now. Of course, I always wonder how stable they were to begin with, i.e., any damned religious pressure or guilt. But, from the feedback I've gotten, these are purely sudden sexual realizations later in life, not "choices" to "change". Still, it's totally unscientific and a lot of it could be bullshit.

I'm fascinated to learn how you gay bears realized you are sexually attracted to women later in life, though. How did it start? Does your partner know? Have you jacked off a lot about fucking women? Any difference in the intensity as opposed to jacking off about men recently?

[jobman34]

There are other threads on here about Bears fucking women, Bisexual Bears videos, etc. I can bump them.

[HappyMac]

This turns me on so much. Straight porn turns me on way more than gay porn these days.

As a gay guy, I'd love to try pussy, even with another gay guy, but I wouldn't even know where to start.

[Hikerguy]

Jobman34, I've got to say I'm rather intrigued by you, and the experiences you have posted. I'm confused though as to whether you are actually personally turned on by thinking about yourself having sex with a woman, or just by thoughts of other gay men doing so. Do you fantasize about your partner getting with a hot girl?

I've read several of the stories you have on Nifty, and enjoyed them all. I'm currently writing a story about a gay man of 50 who has sex with a woman for the first time.

I recently turned 57, and have always identified as gay, though know I'm not 100% so. I've never had sex with a female, and never thought of doing so until I was over 30, when I read a book (something by Gordon Merrick) that told about a gay guy that had taken up with a woman. For whatever reason, my reaction to reading that was similar to yours when the guy on the chat line told you about having sex with the girl. I got rock-hard and had pre-cum streaming out. My desire to get with a female sort of comes and goes, and I never have made much effort to get with one, as I'm still interested in men primarily.

I don't have a lot of gay friends, as I'm not active in the gay community. However, I've talked with several who admitted they also have occasional fantasies about fucking a woman. I have a bear type friend that I frequently fantasize about having sex with a woman, and fathering her baby. I'm going to bring this subject up with him when I see him again, to see if he ever thinks about doing so.

I'm very interested in hearing more about your thoughts on this subject, and also from others.

[HorniLad89]

This turns me on so much. Straight porn turns me on way more than gay porn these days.

As a gay guy, I'd love to try pussy, even with another gay guy, but I wouldn't even know where to start.

Mmm that would be soooo hot.

[Peter3023]

What was the Gordon Merrick book? I think it might have been One For the Gods but I've never read it so wondered if it was worth reading.

[AlmondMilk]

I love porn where gay guys fuck girls. I'm actually gay myself. I'd love to fuck a girl if given the chance

[HappyMac]

jobman, you need to write some more of those stories of yours! Man, they're so hot!

[floridaboy]

i've had sex with a girl. It wasnt what it was hyped up to be(sorry to burst your bubble)

After i put it in, it was like when you squeeze your dick really hard and you de-sensitize it so it takes a long time to get off, only it felt like a really loose asshole, like when you fuck an ass for a long time and it gets nice and loose. This was the first time i've ever done anything with a girl since i was in highschool and i got a bj(i didnt even get off, i told her i jacked off an hour ago)

But nonetheless i tried it, didnt like it, and dont plan on doing it again. Also this was just my expirience, dont know how it would feel to anyone else

[HairyCub91]

I find this really hot. I'm relatively young (21) but a really toned and very hairy cub, and I've recently been feeling very similar to what jobman34 describes. I've always been openly gay since I was 16 and very proud and open about being gay; my family were very accepting and never wanted me any other way. I've always considered myself gay and was always put off by the idea of sex with women. I always much preferred the feeling of another guy pressed up against my hairy body, and as a versatile guy, enjoyed how "gay" I felt being fucked as well as how masculine I felt fucking another man.

Yet since I've been in a long-term gay relationship, I've started to really feel curious about sleeping with a woman. It started with my boyfriend describing what he used to do with his girlfriends before he came out as gay, and I found the idea of thinking of him with a woman really hot. I loved thinking about the mouth that he uses to suck my dick being used to lick a woman out, and it made me hard when he told me eating pussy used to turn him on and how he used to be dripping precum knowing he was making a woman cum. He now strictly identifies as gay, but I couldn't help but want to hear about all the things he'd tried with a woman. We had a long-distance relationship for a few months, so we'd regularly dirty text, and I used to find myself cumming hardest when I asked him about his sex life with his girlfriends. He'd tell me about how he used to get his girlfriend to sit on his dick, and how natural it felt and how masculine it made him feel, considering how faggy he feels now.

Now he finds it weird if I ask too many questions about his straight sex life, but I can't help but feel fascinated and so horny by the idea of gay men having mind-blowingly good sex with women, but can't seem to find it anywhere. I now find myself secretly jacking off over straight porn and getting dirty pictures from female friends behind his back. Part of me really wants to come home to find him fucking a woman so that I can join in and finally have a woman feel all over my hairy body and finally fuck a woman like I'm meant to. I'd even find it really hot if we gradually started to turn straight and were having straight sex behind each other's backs.

Does this turn anyone else on or is it just a really weird fetish? I also wish jobman34 would write some more stories, I've jacked off to the one about Tony and Jeff so much. I find the idea of loving gay couples gradually discovering their heterosexuality really hot.

[txbonhomme]

It's hot but older guys turn my dick limp. Moustaches, beards, hairy old bodies...yuck! Cute twinky guys and pretty much no older than 35 fucking girls for the first time is hot. But older, absolutely gross.

I find it strange that there're straight guys who're willing to do other guys and gay guys who're willing to do women, but there're twinks who won't do it with non-twinks. I guess twinks like that have very fragile egos and feel very weak and vulnerable. They were probably picked on a lot in school, and they might have self-hatred about who they are. It does take a degree of strength and confidence to do it with people different from you.

[HorniLad89]

Nope, just don't find the unattractive attractive. Did I hit a nerve?

[HairyCub91]

My boyfriend is a twink and he used to sleep with women and enjoy it. I'm a cub and I think I'd like to try it. I find it interesting how both twinks and bears can turned on by the idea of sleeping with women.

Anyone find the same a turn on?

[HappyMac]

It really turns me on too HairyCub!

I love reading stories and hearing about gay guys having sex with women for the first time, but they're really hard to come by.

Would love to try it myself one day!

[HairyCub91]

I just find myself secretly watching so much straight porn behind my boyfriend's back these days and thinking about women so much more. Wish there was porn of gay men trying it with women for the first time, both twinks and bears.

I dunno how to go about trying it with a woman...

[HappyMac]

Do you think you'd ever get with a woman? Maybe even get your boyfriend to join in? Now that'd be hot!

[HairyCub91]

Yeah I'd love to try it with my boyfriend as then I'd get to see this hetero side of him that I've never seen before, really tenderly fucking a woman. I'd find it really hot. We've talked about maybe trying it, but I'm definitely more keen. I'd just love to watch him tonguing a woman while I fucked him, or him doing the same to me.

Man, it's a hot idea!

[HappyMac]

If you don't mind me asking (sorry for all the questions! ), what is it that turns you on the most? Is it the whole feeling of being 'converted' or is it more about feeling like a real man and feeling masculine?

[HairyCub91]

Keep asking questions! It's hot :P

Erm, I think it's both. It turns me on to think about having grown up 100% gay and to have slept with all these hot guys and had my ass filled with cock, to now be craving pussy and gradually turning straight. It makes me feel really masculine and like a real man to think of my hairy toned body on top of a woman really pounding her like I pound my boyfriend. Would just love to be able to explore our straight side together.

[jobman34]

A gay man realizing his true heterosexuality after a completely gay life is the HOTTEST THING IN THE WORLD to me!

[cardinal2007]

I'm definitely gay, and I didn't use to think abount this, and used to think of pussy as grosses, but reading this thread alone made me hard, I read other threads related to this one and was leaking pre-cum, so I guess I am finding the idea of gay guys turning straight a turn on, hey dont just have to have sex but really turned on too.

[HairyCub91]

jobman34 I think you need to write more stories about people in gay relationships gradually realising their true heterosexuality and transitioning to a straight life while a couple!

[umjreon88]

I just find myself secretly watching so much straight porn behind my boyfriend's back these days and thinking about women so much more. Wish there was porn of gay men trying it with women for the first time, both twinks and bears.

I dunno how to go about trying it with a woman...

Steven Daigle had his "first time" with two women on SG4GE, you should check it out.

Check out swingers websites... Just make sure you tell your boyfriend though...

[jobman34]

jobman34 I think you need to write more stories about people in gay relationships gradually realising their true heterosexuality and transitioning to a straight life while a couple!

I am right now, exactly THAT subject!

[HairyCub91]

Hurry up with the story Jobmam34

[JackinSea]

I find it difficult to believe those guys are actually "heterosexual" though they may now (strongly) identify as such; they're bisexuals. It makes sense for guys to be closeted in denial for years and then identify as gay, but why would a guy lead a gay life if he weren't at all gay? As a therapist told me, you can't consciously get turned off or on by stuff, you just are!

[Hot4Latinos]

just a suggestion: One of the moderators needs to merge the 5 or 6 threads on this subject.

[Hot4Latinos]

BTW: After months of reading countless threads on gay men seducing str8 men, I started (what I think is) one of the first of these threads. I thought (at the time) I was the only gay man who felt this way. I'm glad to see there are so many more of us!

[yaoiman1]

Jobman!! U need more stories!!
Maybe make some of younger twink, like 18-24 turning straight

[JackinSea]

I had one recently published online, although the guys are all older: http://www.gaydemon.com/stories/Help...rted_7855.html.

[HairyCub91]

I agree, wish he'd post some more!!!

[Hot4Latinos]

SG4GE cracks me up.....most of their roster is gay guys...lol same for Nextdoorbuddies & Nextdoorhookups

[JackinSea]

Anthony Rosano, Scott Styles, and Dave Vargas (Seth Dickens) are genuine pussyhounds.

[HairyCub91]

nobody posted anything in a while. Anyone got any fantasies they want to share?

[cocksucker4use]

No fuckin way around it, pussy is good for bangin. And i am a gqy queer cocksuckin faggot bottom dickpig. However, I fucked gurls in HS and college....especially as I got older (18?) it seemed like a lot of effort to deal with them outta the sack. Started gettin fucked by guys and gave in to my gayness and really really preferred dealing with MEN...but I still realize how good pussy was to fuck. Dick in the hole. The tits, softness, and the OMFG endless chatter I could do without. The jealously, need for constant validation and reinforcement. Fuck me. Please. If I had a female fuck bud, that would work, but I have never pursued it. Many women have been interested in me...some have gotten way off track in some obsession thing...I was their boss, clean, fit, weld groomed and well dressed, loved shopping, etc. Go figger. Can't deny I like pussy, but think I am gonna stick with the dickl

[Jakarta]

I only find Gay pussy eating hot.

[clicker]

Ridiculous and offensive. You're an anti-gay troll from Outstraight, are you not? Give it up, it's pure BS.

[clicker]

Why? You don't like homosexuality? Your comments are very anti-gay.