uhh...is he coming on? what should i do?

[evanrick]

so this guy likes touching me, today he touched my butt. the other day he put his hand on my head and shook a chair i was sitting in then stared at me like he wanted me to follow him outside. just not sure what to do now - cuz i am really awkward around cute guys.

[FMLtroJanMAn92]

Damn girl, go get your man.

[Seasoned]

That awkwardness is part of your charm and he seems to be attracted to it.

[sixthson]

I thought you were already dating someone??

[evanrick]

no im not dating anyone. i attract men who already have girlfriends more than anything.

[sixthson]

My bad. I thought you were dating a friend that another friend asked you not to.

Are you out?

[Ganoderma]

so this guy likes touching me, today he touched my butt. the other day he put his hand on my head and shook a chair i was sitting in then stared at me like he wanted me to follow him outside. just not sure what to do now - cuz i am really awkward around cute guys.

no im not dating anyone. i attract men who already have girlfriends more than anything.

(1): 'Excuse me very much, [its cool you are touching me], but please be aware that I am gay '.

(2): so does he has a girlfriend?

(3): be friendly and kind to him, talk with him, try to find out what kind of things he likes / dislikes, and maybe suggest to drink some coffee together with him?

(4): it seems to me that he is one of your co-workers?

Good luck and please keep us informed.

[maxpowr9]

As long as said guy isn't mentally deranged, he is just bad at flirting. I would say go for it if it is your fancy.

[evanrick]

(1): 'Excuse me very much, [its cool you are touching me], but please be aware that I am gay '.

(2): so does he has a girlfriend?

(3): be friendly and kind to him, talk with him, try to find out what kind of things he likes / dislikes, and maybe suggest to drink some coffee together with him?

(4): it seems to me that he is one of your co-workers?

Good luck and please keep us informed.

um not sure if he knows that im gay and i think telling him may make him uncomfortable. im pretty much out but i dont go around talking about it etc.
i think he just broke up with his girlfriend and we work together but not for much longer.

[evanrick]

small update ive found that yeah he has been wanting to be closer. i just dont know how to approach this. i havent dated in years. the other day he came in to see me and told me that he was moving, but luckily not too far away.

[umjreon88]

Sweet! Good luck!

[TX-Beau]

If you don't know what to do with a guy who likes you - even if he seems to be 5 - we can't help you.

[rareboy]

Carpe Diem

[Rolyo85]

Shyness is only cute until it becomes dumb. At some point nobody can "tell" you what stuff means, you have to trust your instincts and shoot. Some times you will miss, and you'll learn for next time. That's how life works.

[Coward92]

Shyness is only cute until it becomes dumb. At some point nobody can "tell" you what stuff means, you have to trust your instincts and shoot. Some times you will miss, and you'll learn for next time. That's how life works.

You've heard the man.