It is a fact there are few good lookers, most of us are just average. In gay world, attraction is what most people want.
To be able to attract and get some love may be.
Funny, many men/boys make themselves ugly by having crazy pierced jewellery, smoking and gross tattoo. They really repel other people, it is the opposite of what they want. They have large tattoos, ear rings, nipple rings on top of their skinny bodies or fat bodies. How are they going to have a love life in a rewarding partnership?