What kind of lube is best for barebacking, silicone or water-based?
What kind of lube is best for barebacking, silicone or water-based?
Silicone or oil based last a long time. Or do what I do...
Jack off in a condom and freeze it til you need it. Best natural lube there is for barebacking.
Thanks, guys. We usually use Wet water-based, but have tried some of the silicone ones too. Silicone seems to be less 'slick' after a just a few minutes, so I usually go back to Wet.
i'll second gunoil silicone. it creates a sensation like no other lube! and you can get it in very small sizes to try it out.
Ive always found my own cum does the trick
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No flaming, guys. My bf and I have been together nearly 10 years. I think after that amount of time, we can make the decision to bareback.
i usually just take it dry--bend me over, pull down my pants, and shove it in
I love Wet!
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We are huge fans of System JO Anal Premium Silocone Lube. Have used it for several years now - feels so damn good.
I use BoyButter with my partner
How about Wet oil based body glide?
I love Corn Huskers Lotion
Silicone lubes are wonderful...BUTT...they stain. Avoid getting on your sheet, furniture or clothes...Also, piss is a natural lubricant. Woof.
Wet for sure. Don't ever get gel based and especially KY, they suck and if exposed too long without touching, it will get sticky and dry up.
silicone is great! however, it fucks up certain toys like plugs and cockrings...
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Jo Silicone Lubricant. Less to none glycerin - so its even less sticky and more silky than your other brands, doesn't gum up over time, and lasts forever! Totally condom safe unlike oil (massage oils, baby oil, food oil, etc).
I prefer water based and usually use the Astroglide gel (not the liquid) with my boyfriend. Easy to find, cheap and works just fine for us.
I used a water-based lube called Liquid Silk. Swear by the stuff.
Sometimes we use Wet, Astroglide, KY--just whatever we happen to have on hand, but mostly we just use saliva from when my bud rims my ass and cum.
im using wet stuff gold but i find it burns after the first time and gets worse with each time my partner fucks me in the same night. im after something that does not give a burning sensation are their any oil based lubes or does silicon do the job ? im in Australia so i dont think they have alot of the brands mentioned
I just have to mention a discovery I made long ago. They make a "Super 8 Oil" which is designed as a "hot oil treatment for hair" I think, but it is just incredible!! I couldn't believe the incredible, super intense orgasms I had every time I used it. It stinks, so you have to wash it out. I think I found it at cheap stores where they sell hair dressings & stuff. It's probably a good lube, too.
He says that "it's slick of enough to drive a Cadillac through the head of a needle," and if anyone would know he would.
It's on my list of lubes to try.
Right now I'm using Spunk.
It's a "hybrid" between water based and silicone, and it really does feel like cum. The best part? A little goes a long way, and can be quickly re-hydrated with water while using it, and it's never sticky.
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Another vote for Elbow Grease.
Elbow Grease is really good.
Nowadays, I don't use anything other than spit. And I got some pretty impressive dildos. I haven't had a real cock in me since early 20s though.. (almost 20 years ago to boot!) However, even back then when we did bareback, didn't use anything other than spit then either. When my wife and tried anal we would use waterbased lubes from this company called Jo. But now most "water" based lubes actually dry up so fast that they're not worth using. Silicone lubes can be okay. They definately feel slick to the fingers, but I've never liked the way they feel on my ass when using toys. When I first started buying fake pussy/ass toys I used a lot of different lubes and now I find they actually have a negative reaction when contacting my scrotum or anus. Good ole KY jelly from the drug store is the only thing that doesn't burn my sensitive skin now. So, I'll just stick with the lubes the body provides on its own.
Cumlube is rumored to just be a mixture of J-Lube (used for veterinary procedures and widely popular with people into "extreme" toys) mixed with titanium dioxide (stuff they put in sunscreen) as a colorant. J-Lube is a powder you mix with water and one container apparently makes several GALLONS.
The Bad Dragon lube looks a lot like cum, which I think is kind of gross, and it's extremely slippery and sticky. Seriously, that stuff is hard to wash off even though it's supposed to be water based. It does work well as lube, but they don't sell it at sex shops, they don't go to as many furry conventions as they used to, and I don't really want to order it off their website.
Pissfucking dilutes water based lube. Gotta re-apply or use silicone based.... but blecch silicone tastes bad. Played with an italian guy who used olive oil. Healthy and all But that wasn't anal. Anyone tried cooking oil of any kind?
I prefer natural fluids and nothing beats precum and spit. I rarely used anything else, my man scoops up any pre from both our cocks (he produces loads, me not so much) as he rims me, rubs it on my hole and combines it with spit so I am nice and wet and ready for dick xxx
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If your top is a big precumer, a bit of saliva is all you need. Gun Oil is the best, with very little reapplicating needed. I find Platinum to be TOO slick, and it seems to take longer to wash out that Gun Oil. And it does seems to break down silicone based toys too, so proceed with caution.
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I vote for cum, spit, or dry !
My bf and i don't use condom for more than ten years, monogamouse for sure. Since no condom is used, we love oil-based lubes. We have been using elbow grease for many years. It is our favorite brand. It reduces friction a lot for him being bottom, and increases pleasure a lot for me as top. We like to use baby oil first to massage each other and make our sex parts oily and ready for penetration, and then we use elbow grease for insertion. Blending massage oil and elbow grease is always highly sexual arousing. We can fuck all day long, since oils don't dry. If in time, i can even use my cum in his hole as cum for the next round.
Recently, i read a research article that discussed the potential risks of those commercial artificial personal lubes on the penis receiver's recum cells. I think the oil-based commercial lubes are mostly derived from petrolium, and water-based from chemicals. Thus maybe both kinds are not optimal for intimate use. Althought the evidence was not conclusive, i was thinking it's no harm for us to change to use edible oils, since we don't use condom after all.
Yes we love it too.