any advice on meeting married guys to suck off?

[devlon]

does anyone have advice where to meet married guys that wil let a gay guy suck them off and rim them? i've tried craiglist before but always get flagged and no responses - there are some fuckin hot married guys out there and i have no clue how to meet them -- any advice? i've been wanting to service a married for a few months now --

[sixthson]

What's the matter with you? I realize this is probably some kind of fetish, but remember these are guys with wives and probably children. Do you really need to go there? It's bad enough when married guys are out looking for gay sex behind their wives back, but do you really need to help them be scum?

We get all kinds of requests for advice, but do we really need to sink to advice on how to commit adultery?

[Lefty]

Dan,
Sometimes it isn't adultery in more than the strictest of senses.
Sex is only one part of that intricate relationship everyone seems
to be lusting after.

Not all married men are 'whoring' just because they seek some
gratification or relief outside of their primary relationship.

That said, I agree that the O/P needs to realign his hormones.
His posting sounds like 1/2 his gratification comes from getting
married men into his clutches....

[sixthson]

Lefty, my friend, unless you redefine adultery, it is about sex. Men who want non-sexual intimacy from other men are not committing adultery.

[jensu846]

What's the matter with you? I realize this is probably some kind of fetish, but remember these are guys with wives and probably children. Do you really need to go there? It's bad enough when married guys are out looking for gay sex behind their wives back, but do you really need to help them be scum?

We get all kinds of requests for advice, but do we really need to sink to advice on how to commit adultery?

all high n' mighty one, absolutley nothing is "the matter" with the OP.

[Lefty]

Yes Dan,

I don't want to agree with you but classic adultery is in that framework.
What about the couple that are hitting 90%, it is just sex that one of
them is totally disinterested in...period.

The partner has a cxhoice of taking the sex to a level like going to the gym
with a bud. having sex with a disinterested body that just lays there or
celibacy/masturbation.

Some otherwise perfect relationships experience this. Tough call, is it
really adultery if BOTH partners are okay with it. Say Tomas came home
tonight and told you he loved you butt, sex was not on his todo list unless
it was an absolute have to. That he would try to fake interest and enthusiasm
even though he doesn't want sex with anyone he just doesn't like sex.

Yes my friend it does happen among XX and/or XY couples as well.This is not
arguing, I respect you and your points of view. Thus, I ask you as a genuine
question for a valued opinion.

BTW, hi to the troops, hope all is well.

[Str8Top14701]

I find married guys are much safer. They're not going to blab. They don't show up on your doorstep, or call at all hours 100 times a day, like a stalker. They're usually not out hooking up with umpteen people. They're not looking for a relationship, usually just looking for something they can't get at home - like a blowjob or having their load swallowed, or more frequent sex. Many figure that since you're a guy that's not the same as if they were hooking up with a woman.

CL's ok, and if you keep getting flagged I'd think about rewording or what section you're posting in. The only time I had a problem was when one idiot got bent because I rejected him. I just changed my writing style and fudged about 5# heavier than I am and blocked his addy in my mail program.

[Bancodenubs]

Married guy here and having another guy help you get off is not about establishing a relationship or looking to replace a spouse. Sometimes it really is about enjoying the moment with another guy. If you really want to meet one I would suggest looking for a video store around 5pm when people are getting out of work. You can spot them there.

[lambdaboy]

I have sucked and rimmed quite a few and many if not completely str8 were horny and just needed release. One place near my house was a large state park. There was parking lot where construction worker types would park there pick up for lunch a mens room was nearby. No lie in nice weather I sucked str8 and married cock every day. Usually by the urinal or in a stall. If they had the time they would follow me back into the woods where there were even small cave like entrances. Thats where I would get to eat ass. Always amazed me the straighter they are the better chance that no one ever had a tongue up there hot ass.

[lambdaboy]

By the way unless something like this leads to a relationship that could ruin a guys marriage I have no problem with it and find it no different to a married str8 guy jackin himself off in the shower

[MissAnne]

What's the matter with you? I realize this is probably some kind of fetish, but remember these are guys with wives and probably children. Do you really need to go there? It's bad enough when married guys are out looking for gay sex behind their wives back, but do you really need to help them be scum?

We get all kinds of requests for advice, but do we really need to sink to advice on how to commit adultery?

I agree, it is adultery. I really dont get what makes a married closeted man any hotter than an out gay guy. Truthfully, someone that prowls the internet and leaves posts like "my wife will be away for about four hours, someone come and suck my dick" can be laughable but NEVER sexy. I would never want to be cheated on.

[Darted]

Homewrecking at it's finest. Bravo

[ALBiMale1975]

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My advice would be: Do not mess with anyone who will cheat on a spouse.

While it may be hard to find a Bi married guy near by who is open to their wife.... got to figure a relationship is better and safer then dealing with a scorned spouse one day.

If it is just about sex, then look for a local swing club or adult theater.

[AlmondMilk]

There are also plenty of hot men who aren't married.

[hjsimp_992]

i have met a few, they never host, and always wait till night time it seems. They come in, get sucked and leave, never touch me or usually look at me in the face. I ask guys on craigslist that are looking for women if they would let a gay guy suck them off, thats suaully the way to do it.

[justAboy]

im a man who wants to be sexual with another man. my girlfriend knows and is ok. i also would like to find another man that is spoken for, but with his significant other knowing also. it seems alot of these type of guys are just lying to their wife/girlfriend. i dont want any part of that. i feel sorry for these ladies. i know there's plenty out there unfortunatly.

[justme1952]

I agree with you I have been sucking off married men for 8 years i love it , and so do they. Im good at it and they know im going to swallow all of thier jizz. some married men tell me i have made thier marriges stronger. some of these men have wifes that will not suck cock and have PERMISSION to come to me for a blow job. most of my guys i found on craigs list. as rule married men are very discreet an so am i, and they are clean ddf guys.

[MattClaimer]

First off, to all the "designated in-house JUB passers of judgment" - DON'T JUDGE SOMEONE JUST BECAUSE THEY SIN DIFFERENTLY THAN YOU.

That said - Dude, you just have to go about it the way you'd go about finding anybody else to hook up with. It's all a matter of luck and timing, being in the right place at the right time.

If you find your CL ads are getting flagged then let them cool off for a while and just check the ads that others post. There's tons of married guys advertising for gay-sex hookups while they're on the road, etc. After a little time, as has already been suggested, try re-wording your ads and going for round two.

Just be persistent and you'll find the right guy eventually.

Best I can suggest for ya. Good luck!

[Durango95]

Married guys or just str8 guys with a pregnant wife/girlfriend or with a new baby are really easy marks. I'm just saying.

I don't think I'd go out of my way to intentionally "get" one of them....well now anyway. I did a lot of crazy self-denigrating humiliating socially aberrant behavior when I was younger.

[Medusa]

Oh wow. I did not know there were so many gay men that are bamboozling women into marrying them, then have the gall to cheat on them with another man. OH my God reading this thread makes me want to cry, at how men have little to no respect for women, how less they value women, and how much they get a kick out of fooling around behind a woman's back.And the sad part about it is, I actually think some of these men actually enjoying cheating on their wives with another man. Apparently cheating on their wife,with some gay dude is a real dick boner, and the thought of their wife in pain emotional pain is real turn on. This is a sick sad world we live in, and it's even sadder that women get to be the but of jokes because some man thinks it's funny, or arousing to lead women on, when they know deep down inside they do not like women. That's it. Whoever I date from now on,I am getting my pitch forks, and my torches, and I am doing some damn gay man witch hunting. Reading the responses here is baffling, and it makes me wonder if, how would some of the married men here would feel, if their wife was cheating on them?

[tomhrdhat]

married guys let themselves get out of shape fairly early in life. Better catch them under the age of 30

[Blcktop]

U just cant meet a woman and that loves suckin dick on the spot like a gay guy.. I got to thank all u hot lil cock suckers out there!! Happily doin the chore my wife wont.

[Telstra]

I agree, it is adultery. I really dont get what makes a married closeted man any hotter than an out gay guy. Truthfully, someone that prowls the internet and leaves posts like "my wife will be away for about four hours, someone come and suck my dick" can be laughable but NEVER sexy. I would never want to be cheated on.

This word is out of date and meaningless.
If you want to say cheating, just call it cheating.
Don't use fancy meaningless words from the bible.

[MissAnne]

This word is out of date and meaningless.
If you want to say cheating, just call it cheating.
Don't use fancy meaningless words from the bible.

Oh, but I like being "fancy".

[ruivinho]

why would you be interested in married man a priori?
would you be ok if you were cheated on?
why would you be so cruel as to, a priori, decide to potentially damage a marriage and hurts the wife's feelings?

i can only advise you to look for single man, and have them pretend they're "str8&married" if that's a fantasy of yours
but somethings are better off as fantasy, especially when they involve messing with other people's feelings.

[Telstra]

Oh, but I like being "fancy".

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[Durango95]

I agree, it is adultery. I really dont get what makes a married closeted man any hotter than an out gay guy. Truthfully, someone that prowls the internet and leaves posts like "my wife will be away for about four hours, someone come and suck my dick" can be laughable but NEVER sexy. I would never want to be cheated on.

I honestly think it is the generated by the gay porn industry which promotes the concept of gay4pay etc. Are there straight guys that will have sex on camera for money? Probably. Most of the guys on the sites that promote this as their main focus look like a pretty randy bunch of guys. When you factor in the news which circulates around these guys, such as the suicides, murders and all sorts of criminality, you see what kind of guys these really are if indeed they are straight. The only statistic that I've seen that makes any sense is that about 10% of performers in male gay porn are straight. I have read articles too that state this statistic is falsely inflated because a lot of guys say they are straight either because of contractual agreements or some perception of gay being less desirable to the gay men viewing the images.

When I was young I bought into this idea myself. I've often thought about why I put myself through that. The only thing I can come up with is that somehow I thought I'd be less gay if I "did" a straight guy.

I am envious of those that just openly embrace their gayness without a care in the world. It took me many years and a lot of screwing up to come to grips with my sexuality.

[Medusa]

I honestly think it is the generated by the gay porn industry which promotes the concept of gay4pay etc. Are there straight guys that will have sex on camera for money? Probably. Most of the guys on the sites that promote this as their main focus look like a pretty randy bunch of guys. When you factor in the news which circulates around these guys, such as the suicides, murders and all sorts of criminality, you see what kind of guys these really are if indeed they are straight. The only statistic that I've seen that makes any sense is that about 10% of performers in male gay porn are straight. I have read articles too that state this statistic is falsely inflated because a lot of guys say they are straight either because of contractual agreements or some perception of gay being less desirable to the gay men viewing the images.

When I was young I bought into this idea myself. I've often thought about why I put myself through that. The only thing I can come up with is that somehow I thought I'd be less gay if I "did" a straight guy.

I am envious of those that just openly embrace their gayness without a care in the world. It took me many years and a lot of screwing up to come to grips with my sexuality.

Hmm, I wonder what drives these guys to commit such terrible acts. Is it crime of passion, when they kill their male lover out of love, misery, and depression, bad up bringing, drugs, or they can be just an all around bad guy.

[MattClaimer]

Truly some idiot thinking going on here ----

[MissAnne]

When I was young I bought into this idea myself. I've often thought about why I put myself through that. The only thing I can come up with is that somehow I thought I'd be less gay if I "did" a straight guy.

Thats a deep point.

[Huntneo(PT)]

Based on my experience(s) in the past, CL would be the BEST way to go. I used to browse the site for hookups, and I always ran across ads by married men desperate to find men to hook up with. Not sure why your stuff is getting flagged--but you need to find ways around it. That's the best spot for this kind of stuff.

Also: I don't judge people who sleep with married men, but there's no need to bullshit around WHY you do it. If you get off sleeping with them...just say so and leave it at that. The tired excuses and justifications for doing it are insulting to people's intelligence.

[whitedavo]

It's so humorous that the supposed open-minded/non-judgmental types here can't openly debate with someone like Durango95. He made a very thoughtful post. Saying that someone is a prude or a bible-thumper for not accepting this kind of behavior is a judgment unto itself.

I did so many horrible and humiliating things in my past all in the name of keeping it a secret. All just to not admit to myself what was going on. Fuck and suck whoever you want to but realize that by perpetuating the glorification of the "married man", it only serves to keep homosexuality as a taboo.

[MattClaimer]

What's TRULY humorous (and or sad) is that the OP simply put out a question for advice on how to accomplish something he wants to achieve. YET - all he gets for a majority answer is beat upside the head with judgmental BULLSHIT and asshole comments telling him what a piece of shit he is, how fucked up he is and what a bad "gay" he is for wanting to have sex with a married dude.

SO FUCKING WHAT???! If he wants it, MORE POWER TO HIM. If YOU don't like it, the idea of it, or whatever, then [Text: Removed]

From religious bullshit to some whack job FUCKED up female who doesn't even have any fucking business on this website, and who is now going to "go on a witch hunt for gay men" because she feels that all men, particularly gay or bisexual men, are evil and out to destroy her [Text: Removed]...... it just doesn't stop.

THIS bullshit is exactly why this website has a reputation all over the net for being filled with a bunch of pricks in cliques, and not a place where people can just coexist, get along, be friendly and get advice or feel like they're part of a community.

It's TRULY SAD and it's the reason I'm done with it.

[sixthson]

Good bye.

[Bi Married Male]

What's TRULY humorous (and or sad) is that the OP simply put out a question for advice on how to accomplish something he wants to achieve. YET - all he gets for a majority answer is beat upside the head with judgmental BULLSHIT and asshole comments telling him what a piece of shit he is, how fucked up he is and what a bad "gay" he is for wanting to have sex with a married dude.

SO FUCKING WHAT???! If he wants it, MORE POWER TO HIM. If YOU don't like it, the idea of it, or whatever, then [Text: Removed]

From religious bullshit to some whack job FUCKED up female who doesn't even have any fucking business on this website, and who is now going to "go on a witch hunt for gay men" because she feels that all men, particularly gay or bisexual men, are evil and out to destroy her [Text: Removed]...... it just doesn't stop.

THIS bullshit is exactly why this website has a reputation all over the net for being filled with a bunch of pricks in cliques, and not a place where people can just coexist, get along, be friendly and get advice or feel like they're part of a community.

It's TRULY SAD and it's the reason I'm done with it.

Once again you read my mind....Agreed!

[Hard-up1]

This word is out of date and meaningless.
If you want to say cheating, just call it cheating.
Don't use fancy meaningless words from the bible.

Oh, but I like being "fancy".

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Cultures that have no Biblical heritage at all have taboos against adultery. The definition if adultery is a very specific type of cheating for the general population, be they of the faithful or not.

If your goal is to water down or negate a social taboo against infidelity, just mandate everyone use the term popular among those in denial about the treachery of infidelity, "playing."

Your goal is to minimize the offensiveness by removing the term SOCIETY, and sometime LAW uses to describe the violation of marital monogamy.

Adultery and cheating are NOT synonymous. Children cheat at Monopoly. Drivers cheat when not obeying the speed limit. Adultery is a term coined, not by the Bible, btw, but by the French, to describe the act of violating a marriage vow, a legal contract. Although it is a type of cheating on one's agreement, it merits more specificity, regardless of whether one associates it with a religious taboo or not. Societies still recognize that any couple who go to the point of legally binding themselves in marriage, suffer something more when that contract is breached.

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[sixthson]

Once again you read my mind....Agreed!

Imagine that! You claim to be straight/curious with the name bi married male and you talk about hooking up with guys in adult theaters and toilets while in the closet to your wife and friends. BTW, how often can you have sex with other men and still call yourself curious?

[jmadaf]

If a guy is Hot! he's Hot! married or not, that's my opinion but to each his own.

[str8guy]

First off, to all the "designated in-house JUB passers of judgment" - DON'T JUDGE SOMEONE JUST BECAUSE THEY SIN DIFFERENTLY THAN YOU.

That said - Dude, you just have to go about it the way you'd go about finding anybody else to hook up with. It's all a matter of luck and timing, being in the right place at the right time.

If you find your CL ads are getting flagged then let them cool off for a while and just check the ads that others post. There's tons of married guys advertising for gay-sex hookups while they're on the road, etc. After a little time, as has already been suggested, try re-wording your ads and going for round two.

Just be persistent and you'll find the right guy eventually.

Best I can suggest for ya. Good luck!

I'm all bout your open statement man!

[BENDERBOY]

All the best mate in your search for married cock, not sure about what sites to advice you about.

Have you tried your local public toilets ?

[DigitalFudge]

What's the matter with you?

Nawt the first reply

[7seven7]

Well for me its the oposite the married ones are always finding me at the gym or grocery store or even at urinals!! lol. I met a guy not to long ago and went to his place he was like 30 and we hung out and watched SNL but then we started messing around and got nekkid/69 and got off and that was it. thing is i thoght that his place was sorta nice and decorated good and then i saw pix of him and a chick in there wedding clothes on the table when i was gna leave and saw a purse!! i looked at him and he didnt say anything but um yeah the guys married i think. i felt weird after bc we were nekkid in there bed. i like single guys but sometimes u dont know.