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    A fellow JUBber (Kristoff) has passed away.

    This is a re-creation of the original thread which was unfortunately lost during a technical issue. Whilst all of the posts are original and accounted for, I can't guarantee that all images are accounted for - due to the nature of Google's caching system.



    Quote Originally Posted by Vincent (guest)
    September 28th, 2008, 10:56 AM

    This is just to inform you that my beloved Ryan (Kristoff) passed away at the end of July. Sorry this has taken so long, but this has been a tough time for me, as you can imagine.

    He'd only been a member of J.U.B. for six or seven months, but it became a very special place for him. As he was agoraphobic and sociophobic our home was his entire world, but interacting with the people on these forums made his world a bigger and more interesting place. Ryan was not a member for very long, but he was always talking about the members and their comments, both wise and witty. At least they'll know that he didn't just up and leave without any reason or goodbye.

    He had suffered from chronic depression for many years, and died from an overdose. He was fifty-five. I just thank God for the 20+ years that we spent together.

    And more importantly, I just wanted someone to know that, just by being here, and whether you realise it or not, this forum does make a huge difference in some people's lives, and I wanted to say thankyou. I wish everyone at J.U.B. all the best for the future.

    I may return to J.U.B. at some time in the future, but everything is still too raw at the moment. I hope you understand.

    Thankyou for your time,

    Vincent.

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    Re: A fellow JUBber (Kristoff) has passed away.

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    Quote Originally Posted by D-Base
    September 29th, 2008, 11:35 AM

    I'm really sorry for your loss Vincent.
    May Ryan rest in peace.
    Quote Originally Posted by Dark Secret
    September 29th, 2008, 12:05 PM

    So sorry to hear of your loss, Vincent

    There are no words of comfort at a time like this, but seek solace knowing that he is no longer suffering and that he left you 20 years of happy memories.

    You are in my thoughts.
    Quote Originally Posted by treanir
    September 29th, 2008, 12:12 PM

    I'm very sorry for your loss, Vincent.
    Quote Originally Posted by 1gayguy
    September 29th, 2008, 12:17 PM

    My deepest sympathies on your loss.
    Quote Originally Posted by Ram
    September 29th, 2008, 12:24 PM

    I'm so sorry.

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    Re: A fellow JUBber (Kristoff) has passed away.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Telstra
    September 29th, 2008, 12:32 PM

    Thankyou for telling this. Makes this forum more real.
    Quote Originally Posted by operafan
    September 29th, 2008, 12:53 PM

    Yes, thanks for telling us, and letting us know that sometimes we help. My condolences.
    Quote Originally Posted by kallipolis
    September 29th, 2008, 01:01 PM

    The quality of a man is never measured in time, but in the difference he makes to all who share in his life.

    Ryan best emulates the very best in the human person who kept trying to over come his life's challenges. For in our efforts to live our life as best we can, we recognise the face of humanity revealed in the person whom we came to know as Ryan.

    My deepest sympathy to his partner Vincent.
    Quote Originally Posted by TriBi
    September 29th, 2008, 01:14 PM

    I'll copy my post from the "Ask the Mods" Forum where Vincent initially posted:

    Vincent - Corny beat me to this...but, just in case you do happen to see this, please also accept my condolences on your loss - and thank you very much for sharing this with us. It is always reassuring to those who volunteer here when we are reminded that this place can be so helpful to some of it's members.
    Quote Originally Posted by Yuki Sohma
    September 29th, 2008, 01:25 PM

    Vincent

    I add and send my deepest condolences at Ryan's "Kristoff's" passing.

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    Re: A fellow JUBber (Kristoff) has passed away.

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    Quote Originally Posted by jackoroe
    September 29th, 2008, 01:33 PM

    It's very sad when someone passes. But I think it gives us a better perspective of JUB. We really are a community of people who do care about one another. None of us ever met Ryan or Vincent, but we all genuinely feel the loss to our community.

    My deepest condolences on your loss, Vincent.
    Quote Originally Posted by gsdx
    September 29th, 2008, 01:36 PM

    Know that you are in our thoughts.
    Quote Originally Posted by Joshua_me
    September 29th, 2008, 02:33 PM

    There aren't any words. I'm so very sorry for your loss, Vincent.
    I'm glad that Ryan found some happiness here on JUB.

    May he rest in peace.
    Quote Originally Posted by kevbo
    September 29th, 2008, 03:18 PM

    "To die will be an awfully big adventure!"
    -Peter Pan
    Quote Originally Posted by bobinri
    September 29th, 2008, 03:33 PM

    Sorry for your loss.....take care of yourself

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    Re: A fellow JUBber (Kristoff) has passed away.

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    Quote Originally Posted by star-warrior
    September 29th, 2008, 03:54 PM

    I am saddened by your loss, Vincent, and my deepest condolences to you. I am glad that JUB brightened Ryan's experiences with the world.
    Quote Originally Posted by sixthson
    September 29th, 2008, 04:02 PM

    I hope someone let Golliwog know since he started a thread about him just last evening.

    This kind of loss should be a reminder to all of us that internet relationships have real meaning to many people. For some it may be the only human contact they have.

    My sympathies go to Kristoff's partner and those here who knew and cared for him.
    Quote Originally Posted by ozguy
    September 29th, 2008, 04:24 PM

    I so wish I had gotten to know Ryan better, and I am so very sorry for your loss, Vincent. Please accept my deepest condolences.
    Quote Originally Posted by beafous
    September 29th, 2008, 04:29 PM

    So sad. Sorry for your loss. Our thoughts are with you.............
    Quote Originally Posted by Matthew
    September 29th, 2008, 04:39 PM

    Vincent...best wishes from my boyfriend and I.

    Take care.

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    Re: A fellow JUBber (Kristoff) has passed away.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Golliwog
    September 29th, 2008, 05:21 PM

    Vince,

    This sad news fairly takes my breath away. I knew intuitively that something was wrong, and, incredibly, inquired of the JUB family just yesterday for any news of Ryan.

    Please get in touch with me when you feel like it. I would love to share with you some wonderful things he wrote about you.

    My heart cries at the enormity of this loss. I thought today of Wordsworth's Lucy: "She lived alone and few could know when Lucy ceased to be. But she is in her grave, and oh, the difference to me."

    I will always remember and treasure the few months of my friendship with Ryan.

    Sincerely,
    Charles
    Quote Originally Posted by G-Lexington
    September 29th, 2008, 07:39 PM


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    Quote Originally Posted by Croynan
    September 29th, 2008, 07:45 PM

    Dear Vincent,

    i am so sorry to hear of your lose of Ryan. i knew about him through Charles and in fact we were about to start communicating with each other.

    my condolences to you, his family and friends.

    eM, michael
    Quote Originally Posted by Harke the Heretic
    September 29th, 2008, 07:51 PM

    *Hug*.....................
    Quote Originally Posted by DANNO
    September 29th, 2008, 08:10 PM

    I honestly just read this thread and I have tears in my eyes. Not so much for the death of Ryan, which is sad on its own, but knowing that people here impacted his life. I have had expriences with friends who suffer with deep depression. I am proud to know that we might have made his days just a little bit brighter!

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    Re: A fellow JUBber (Kristoff) has passed away.

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    Quote Originally Posted by van-ee
    September 29th, 2008, 08:14 PM

    My sincere condolences,on your loss......
    Quote Originally Posted by Harding
    September 29th, 2008, 08:38 PM

    I'm so sorry for your loss, my condolences.
    Quote Originally Posted by darlingstacy
    September 29th, 2008, 08:40 PM

    Sorry for your loss Vincent.
    Quote Originally Posted by Absolut
    September 29th, 2008, 08:43 PM

    You both will be in my thoughts and prayers.
    Quote Originally Posted by Huskerboy
    September 29th, 2008, 09:45 PM

    Please accept our heartfelt sympathy, and know that you and yours will be in our thoughts and prayers.

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    Re: A fellow JUBber (Kristoff) has passed away.

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    Quote Originally Posted by ronboy
    September 29th, 2008, 10:44 PM

    Our hearts and prayers go out to you Vincent......
    Quote Originally Posted by chillyboi
    September 29th, 2008, 10:51 PM

    God Bless
    ~Chillyboi
    Quote Originally Posted by wraithsa
    September 29th, 2008, 11:12 PM

    my heart goes out to you vincent -
    Quote Originally Posted by moonybig
    September 29th, 2008, 11:20 PM

    sorry for your loss vincent
    Quote Originally Posted by Sultan
    September 29th, 2008, 11:41 PM

    Awww that's sad. I don't think I knew him but nice to know he enjoyed this place and it maybe gave him a little bit of happiness.

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    Re: A fellow JUBber (Kristoff) has passed away.

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    Quote Originally Posted by fiorio
    September 29th, 2008, 11:46 PM

    so sorry to hear that.
    Take care.
    Quote Originally Posted by Riverrick
    September 29th, 2008, 11:53 PM

    Gee, that's really awful. I'm so sorry for your loss.

    Thanks for letting us know what happened to Ryan.
    Quote Originally Posted by Jeimuzu
    September 30th, 2008, 12:12 AM

    I am really sorry to hear about that. I didn't know him well, but it's always tragic when we lose a member of our family.

    I'm glad to hear some people made an impact on his life.

    Rest in peace, Ryan.
    Quote Originally Posted by Sausy
    September 30th, 2008, 12:16 AM

    I am so sorry Vincent for your loss.It is something of solace that this community meant so much to Ryan. My mom suffered from chronic depression and I know something of what you both were going through.Thanks for letting us know and my thoughts are with you.
    Quote Originally Posted by Piggy
    September 30th, 2008, 01:36 AM

    Rest In Peace.......

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    Re: A fellow JUBber (Kristoff) has passed away.

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    Quote Originally Posted by chatolandia
    September 30th, 2008, 01:45 AM

    My condolences Vincent
    Quote Originally Posted by shea
    September 30th, 2008, 03:07 AM

    Very sorry for your loss, I know you would like him to
    be here but he is no longer suffering. You have wonderful
    memories that will be with you always.

    Vincent thank you so much for letting us know at such a
    difficult time. It is nice to know that JUB gave him some
    distraction.
    Find some comfort that you had a good life together.
    shea
    Quote Originally Posted by mike_n_herrin
    September 30th, 2008, 03:20 AM

    Vincent I'm very sorry for your loss and I hope you are able to come back here some day when it's not as hard for you.
    Quote Originally Posted by Eagle653
    September 30th, 2008, 03:29 AM

    I'm very sorry to hear this. My thoughts are with you.
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    September 30th, 2008, 03:39 AM

    Requiem Šternam dona eis, Domine, et lux perpetua luceat eis.

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    Re: A fellow JUBber (Kristoff) has passed away.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Sha
    October 1st, 2008, 08:06 PM

    Vincent I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts are prayers are with you. Thank you for sharing this with the JUB community.
    Quote Originally Posted by DeafFoxDemon
    October 1st, 2008, 09:33 PM

    May Ryan rest in peace. At least he no longer suffering...
    Quote Originally Posted by ravenstar
    October 2nd, 2008, 12:11 PM

    I'm sorry to hear this. And I send my love and thoughts along with everyone elses in here to you Vincent. I'm glad that JUB and some of JUBBERs had a positive impact Kristoff, and that he was able to gain moments of pleasure and happiness being amongst those who occupy space on this board.

    When I read the inital announcement my first thought was of our other Jubbers who have moved across to heaven this year. I'm sure they were there to meet him and give him love.

    Take care Vincent and we'll be here when you feel strong enough to return.

    Mike
    Quote Originally Posted by jimm04
    October 2nd, 2008, 06:28 PM

    I Am Sorry For Your Loss
    Quote Originally Posted by cocktales
    October 5th, 2008, 10:17 AM

    Vincent, may we add (my Partner and I's) sympathy for your loss as well....

    NO words can make a difference to you at this time; but DO understand that we at JUB feel the loss of a member with almost the same intensity as you!

    Please, "IF" at a future date you could share the problems Kristoff had with depression with his fellow JUBBERS, I "DO" believe it could/may help others who also suffer such a debilatating effect on their lives.... ????

    Again, we will forever think kindly of our "family" member Kristoff in death as in life!

    R.I.P. dear friend knowing that your pain no longer exists!

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    Re: A fellow JUBber (Kristoff) has passed away.

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    Quote Originally Posted by AdmiraalW238
    October 5th, 2008, 01:59 PM

    My sincerest of sympathies to you at your loss.

    Eternal rest grant unto him.
    May perpetual light shine upon him.
    May he rest in peace
    Quote Originally Posted by GM1985
    October 5th, 2008, 11:16 PM

    I'm fairly new on the boards but wanted to give my condolences, my thoughts are with you.
    Quote Originally Posted by bradlee
    October 5th, 2008, 11:31 PM

    Wow.Sad news.I'll say a prayer for him.If you need anything please ask.
    Quote Originally Posted by Simon1978
    October 6th, 2008, 11:22 PM

    My heart goes out to you.
    Quote Originally Posted by Piquechampion
    October 7th, 2008, 02:02 AM

    My sincere condolences Vincent

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    Re: A fellow JUBber (Kristoff) has passed away.

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    Quote Originally Posted by jhnphilipps
    October 7th, 2008, 03:02 AM

    my heart goes out to you...he is no longer in any kind of pain! take care of yourself. hugs & kisses.
    Quote Originally Posted by Travisevian
    October 7th, 2008, 03:23 AM

    My condolences, Vincent. *hugs*
    Quote Originally Posted by F22-Raptor
    October 7th, 2008, 11:49 PM

    RIP hope he finds peace and comfort in the next world.
    Quote Originally Posted by littlejj
    October 9th, 2008, 10:22 AM

    RIP Kristoff. I'm sorry for your loss man.

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