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    Jayhew has died

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    Quote Originally Posted by COACHMN
    January 31st, 2008, 08:55 AM

    A bright Star has passed into the sky. My Partner, Jayhew died yesterday morning (1/29/08 ) of a heart attack at his home.

    He will be missed by the many whose lives he touched. He so loved the multitude of members here on JUB.

    -dan

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    Re: Jayhew has died

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    Quote Originally Posted by AdmiraalW238
    January 31st, 2008, 08:58 AM

    My condolences to you at this sad time.
    Quote Originally Posted by Absolut
    January 31st, 2008, 09:01 AM

    I am shocked, once again, at another JUBers' death.

    My prayers are with you, COACHMN, and your family.

    The JUB family has lost another invaluable member.
    Quote Originally Posted by ljhotboy
    January 31st, 2008, 09:03 AM

    I'm so sorry this happened. Jayhew and you are both in my thoughts. Take care, please.
    Quote Originally Posted by tonyboy
    January 31st, 2008, 09:07 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by COACHMN
    A bright Star has passed into the sky. My Partner, Jayhew died yesterday morning (1/29/08 ) of a heart attack at his home. He will be missed by the many whose lives he touched. He so loved the multitude of members here on JUB.

    -dan
    Dear Jub Friend.
    I'm sorry to say that I've never known you or partner Jayhew through JUB.
    It is sad for me to hear though that your friend/partner has passed.
    That happened to me a few years ago, and while I don't mean to compare your loss to mine I do understand a bit about how you must feel about this. There is nothing I can say to make your loss less hurtful. I wish I could do so. I wish it so much. A good friend is hard to replace, and a partner even more so. I hope you have people around you that can offer support and love at this time my friend.
    Quote Originally Posted by AdmiraalW238
    January 31st, 2008, 09:07 AM

    I have just realise that JayHew sent me a message when I posted the HIV/AIDS FAQ over at Empty Closet (at the request of Paul_UK).

    JayHew will be missed by all at JUB and EC.

    Eternal rest grant unto him.
    May perpetual light shine upon him
    May he rest in peace.

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    Re: Jayhew has died

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    Quote Originally Posted by cocktales
    January 31st, 2008, 09:20 AM

    It is with love and sympathy that I send to you my bit of comfort, yet so small...

    I hope these words from someone much more literate than I will at some point give you in-sight into the loss and what it truly means.

    Good-night! good-night! as we so oft have said
    Beneath this roof at midnight, in the days
    That are no more, and shall no more return.
    Thou hast but taken up thy lamp and gone to bed;
    I stay a little longer, as one stays
    To cover up the embers that still burn.

    ~Henry Wadsworth Longfellow~

    Sweet Dreams our friend for you truly will be missed from the JUB FAMILY!
    Quote Originally Posted by martin6
    January 31st, 2008, 09:21 AM

    Oh man. I'm so sorry to hear this, COACHMN. I definitely remember JayHew (at least as a JUBber) and he, his posts, and sense of humor will be sorely missed!
    Quote Originally Posted by sinfulsimon
    January 31st, 2008, 09:27 AM

    I'm sorry to hear this. Take care.
    Quote Originally Posted by pinest
    January 31st, 2008, 09:30 AM

    I'm so very sorry to hear of the passing of your partner and friend.My deepest condolences on your loss.My thoughts are with

    you.Take care.
    Quote Originally Posted by jaydizzo
    January 31st, 2008, 09:38 AM

    I am very sorry for your loss. My deepest prayers are for you and your family in this time

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    Re: Jayhew has died

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    Quote Originally Posted by Croynan
    January 31st, 2008, 09:39 AM

    The Musical: Mack and Mabel - Jerry Herman

    The Song: Time Heals Everything

    [Mabel]
    Time heals everything
    Tuesday
    Thursday
    Time heals everything
    April
    August
    If I'm patient the break will mend
    And one fine morning the hurt will end
    So make the moments fly
    Autumn
    Winter
    I'll forget you by
    Next year
    Some year
    Tho' it's hell that I'm going through
    Some Tuesday
    Thursday
    April
    August
    Autumn
    Winter
    Next year
    Some year
    Time heals everything
    Time heals everything
    But loving you.


    So make the moments fly
    Autumn
    Winter
    I'll forget you by
    Next year
    Some year
    Though it's hell that I'm going through
    Some Tuesday
    Thursday
    April August
    Autumn winter
    Next year
    Some year
    Time heals everything
    Time heals everything
    But loving you!


    my sincere condolenses COACHMAN.

    eM.

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    Re: Jayhew has died

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    Quote Originally Posted by TriBi
    January 31st, 2008, 09:40 AM

    Dan...I don't know what to say...I imagine you knew that he had helped us enormously at EmptyClosets. He was a great guy, a very good friend to all of us who worked with him there - and an invaluable asset to the site. He has helped a LOT of the people there who have been struggling with their sexuality and their own self worth.

    Please accept my sincere condolences - the world really has lost one of it's good guys. My heart goes out to you and his other loved ones. I feel in shock myself...
    Quote Originally Posted by throbbing1
    January 31st, 2008, 10:34 AM

    I'm so sorry for your loss! My prayers are with you and yours!
    Quote Originally Posted by Telstra
    January 31st, 2008, 11:02 AM

    sorry to hear
    Quote Originally Posted by Huskerboy
    January 31st, 2008, 11:02 AM

    Dan - I am so sorry to learn of your loss. Please accept my sincere condolences and know that you will be in my thoughts and prayers. Life is so very precious, and no one knows that more than someone who has lost a loved one. It is so unfortunate that pain is the price we pay for love. May the words of friends and family, and those of us here on JUB, bring you comfort.

    Again, my deepest sypathy to you at this difficult time.

    Husker
    Quote Originally Posted by ozguy
    January 31st, 2008, 11:09 AM

    This is such sad news. Please accept my deepest and sincerest sympathies. You are in my thoughts, Dan.

    Life is eternal, and love is immortal,
    and death is only a horizon;
    and a horizon is nothing save the limit of our sight.
    ~ Rossiter Worthington Raymond
    Quote Originally Posted by The_Pianist
    January 31st, 2008, 11:10 AM

    I am truly shocked and dismayed to hear this. Jayhew renewed my Supporter Status. He said it didn't seem right that I'd lost it.

    I am SO sorry Dan. He was gracious and supportive and I've lost a friend.

    This is awful.

    *cries*

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    Quote Originally Posted by Ram
    January 31st, 2008, 11:32 AM

    Sigh. I'm so sorry.
    Quote Originally Posted by frankfrank
    January 31st, 2008, 11:42 AM

    Very sad news about your Jayhew. I never had contact with him, but I was aware that he was very good at giving advice and being there. I send my condolences to everybody affected, and my wishes for all those involved to be able to deal with this loss in whatever way works for the best.

    ^ These are never sufficient at times like this, but it will have to do, I guess.
    Quote Originally Posted by gabriell
    January 31st, 2008, 11:43 AM

    Shocking. Please please acept my heartfelt condolences. What a cold slap in the face to remind one of their own mortality.
    Quote Originally Posted by NineOfClubs
    January 31st, 2008, 11:43 AM

    I'm so deeply sad to hear this.

    My condolences. I'm sorry to hear this, Dan......
    Quote Originally Posted by -Gareth-
    January 31st, 2008, 12:04 PM

    Oh no, that's really sad news.

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    Quote Originally Posted by gsdx
    January 31st, 2008, 12:05 PM

    I didn't really know him well, but the world feels a bit more empty now.
    Quote Originally Posted by Corny
    January 31st, 2008, 12:26 PM

    I am deeply saddened to hear the news about the sudden death of Jayhew Although I didn't have much contact with him, I loved his posts and his laid back attitude when he shared his knowledge and wisdom. It always hits the wrong people I feel with you, your friends and families in this difficult time, and I will hold him in my thoughts.
    Quote Originally Posted by quasar
    January 31st, 2008, 12:26 PM

    This is such a shock coming so soon after Shaun. As has been said already, Jerry was one of the good guys, and his passing is an awful loss to our community. I hope you can take comfort in the knowledge that he was loved and respected by many whose lives he touched, and that through his generous advice and support, he will live on in our hearts and minds for years to come.

    There is indeed, one more star in the night sky watching over us. My thoughts and prayers are with you, your loved ones, and those close to you.
    Quote Originally Posted by Diodorus
    January 31st, 2008, 12:39 PM

    So sorry to hear of your loss. I believe we all feel it in some degree. Blessings to you and prayers for greater strength for you. God Bless.
    Quote Originally Posted by argomac
    January 31st, 2008, 01:09 PM

    I'm so sorry. Truly.
    You're in my prayers

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    Quote Originally Posted by alley
    January 31st, 2008, 01:12 PM

    Just wanted to add my sympathy as well.
    Quote Originally Posted by Endlight
    January 31st, 2008, 01:23 PM

    I join all the other JUB family members in sending you my condolances.

    The loss of a loved one is such a burden to carry.

    May he rest in peace
    Quote Originally Posted by cumtasteit
    January 31st, 2008, 01:35 PM

    Thinking of you during this time. XXX
    Quote Originally Posted by Piggy
    January 31st, 2008, 01:55 PM

    I'm sorry for your loss.
    Quote Originally Posted by Hanhk
    January 31st, 2008, 02:08 PM

    My deepest sympathy for you. I'm sorry for your loss.

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    Quote Originally Posted by GL
    January 31st, 2008, 02:11 PM

    i'm very sorry for your loss. our community here is diminished when we lose a thoughtful and caring soul like jayhew. my condolences to all.
    Quote Originally Posted by operafan
    January 31st, 2008, 02:13 PM

    This must be a horrible time for you, Coachmn. The multitude of memories and emotions are an indication of the love you had for each other. I hope there are those around you to comfort you and hold you.

    My condolences.
    Quote Originally Posted by Jeimuzu
    January 31st, 2008, 02:17 PM

    Oh man, this is horrible. for Coachmn, as inadequate as it is. I am so sorry to hear about this.
    Quote Originally Posted by kallipolis
    January 31st, 2008, 02:44 PM

    Jayhew's posts were always a rewarding read. Reflecting the wisdom of the inner man, whose star now resides in the memories of those people whom he touched with his warm presence.

    My condolences to his partner Coachmn.
    Quote Originally Posted by mike_n_herrin
    January 31st, 2008, 03:54 PM

    I'm so sorry to hear this. My heart goes out to you.

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    Quote Originally Posted by windsors
    January 31st, 2008, 04:29 PM

    Sorry for your loss....
    Quote Originally Posted by StlKj
    January 31st, 2008, 04:38 PM

    Another sad loss to our community.

    My deepest sympathies to you, COACHMN.
    Quote Originally Posted by Scrub
    January 31st, 2008, 04:47 PM

    My condolences to you and his family
    Quote Originally Posted by gingentleman
    January 31st, 2008, 05:05 PM

    My sincerest sympathies go out to you. I know what loss is, as I have lost 8 members of my family in the last two years, including my parents.
    Quote Originally Posted by Eagle653
    January 31st, 2008, 05:31 PM

    I am so sorry to hear of your loss. Jayhew was a regular here and respected by all. My thoughts are with you at this difficult time.

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    Quote Originally Posted by kce24
    January 31st, 2008, 05:38 PM

    Sad news yet again so soon after Shaun, May Jayhew rest in peace.

    Love and death are the two great hinges on which all human sympathies turn.
    Quote Originally Posted by sixthson
    January 31st, 2008, 06:03 PM

    Though it was cut short, may you find comfort in knowing you shared a love for each other. Grieve, as you must, but accept the tender love and sympathy of those around you in your life, who care for you and Jayhew.
    Quote Originally Posted by Golliwog
    January 31st, 2008, 06:05 PM

    Please accept my sincere sympathy at this sad time. Your partner contributed so much to many lives. His kindness will stand as a monument to his generosity. Jayhew is irreplaceable, as are you. My continuing concern shall accompany you on your difficult days ahead.
    Quote Originally Posted by Sausy
    January 31st, 2008, 06:09 PM

    Very sorry to hear of this,Dan.My condolences to you and to Jayhew's family on his passing.He was a good man who will be missed very much.

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    Re: Jayhew has died

    I was in rural China far from any internet when this thread began, and by the time I returned to civilisation, the thread had closed. Thanks to Q for allowing a belated opportunity to pay respects to a fellow JUBber so that he may not be forgotten.


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