However, my problem arises when those Labels are used to narrowly define People, VERY Complicated Beings, and attempt to "Shoe Horn" them into Enforced Stereotypes.
H4L has shared a Personal experience with us ... a Gay Guy trying out Muff Diving, and finding that He likes "IT" ... butt is 'jumped upon' by those insisting that he can no longer be considered "Gay"!
WTF? Are we that restricted in our perspectives that we can't take an Honest Guy at his Word?
EXPAND Your strict train of Thought, Guys! Rather than insisting on your own, engendered, tunnel vision, how about trying to Learn something that you may not already be familiar with?
Would it not be better for us to ask H4L something along the lines of, "How did that look, taste, smell, feel, for You?" "Were you Boned through it all?" "Did that experience turn you on?" "Would you think of trying that again?" "Can we get some more Details from you?" "Did you get OFF?"
YES!, believe it, or not, "Gay" Guys CAN have Sex with Females, and still be GAY! AND, Str8 Guys can 'Play' with other Guys, and still be Str8!
If they choose to define themselves with those Labels, who are We to Doubt them?
I'm a GAY Guy with an Extensive Bisexual History! Butt, I assure you, I'm STILL a GAY Guy!
Don't let preconceived Labels inhibit your perception of the myriad Wonders/Possibilities of the Full range of Who/What we are capable of Being!
And, of course ... no matter what ...