Hello, me (22) and my partner (60) are in a serious relationship since a half year.
I'm doing my study while he's running his company. I'm still living home with my parents (because I'm poor and busy with my study) but our relationship is so strong.
Well, we got different problems, my parents don't care about my feeling for other boys/men or whatever but they care that he live in a country next to here and the age difference of 38 years. Some days ago I told them that my partner is 38 years older and they screamed and was really dissapointed and now they forbid me to see him again.
Since this is the 'bear, daddy etc.' forum I wonder if more people has to deal with this problem? I mean they don't except it in every way. Next week i have an appointment with my psychology to let my heart breath.
This week was so awful, our relationship is stronger then ever and they claim to break any contact with him... I said I did to keep them silent but ofc. I dont dump him in this way because it's my dreamman.
We keep chatting etc. and we met some weeks now and then in the past.
The different option are:
- Dump him.
- Go live there with him (he's my serious lover) and say fuck this shit to my life here and hope that they will feel sorry because its my own choice and my own feelings and continue my life and study there.