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    Getting it up the ass...will it hurt?

    Ok, let's me honest.. I haven't been sucked yet by a guy or spread my cheeks for a guy either..just wondered if it hurts a lot the first time up the ass... I really want to my ass rimmed and fucked but just not sure...I know, I need to man-up, right?

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    Re: Getting it up the ass...will it hurt?

    Right.

    Take your time, loads of lube when it happens, and the discomfort will be minimised. It takes a minute or two for the initial weirdness to dissipate, and then... happy times.

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    Don't be dicouraged by the initial pain. That's why science invented lube. The more lube, the more pleasure.

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    Re: Getting it up the ass...will it hurt?

    It might. It might not.

    If the other guy is patient and considerate and doesn't force it -- and, as noted, is well lubed -- it won't be as bad as you might think. But let's be honest -- your first time probably will not be particularly comfortable for the first few moments.

    If you're a backdoor virgin, it might even be unbearable, so I strongly suggest you get some practice with a dildo or a vibrator of the approximate shape and size of the other guy's cock to get a sense of what you can tolerate and how to go about taking it for the first time.

    Good luck. Have fun. And take it slowly.

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    Re: Getting it up the ass...will it hurt?

    It will depend on you being able to relax enough and the top taking the time to let you get used to it, I have had a few guys who were very well endowed and I have loved every moment and sensation and I have had some who just hammer away with no consideration.
    So use loads of lube and take your time.

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    Re: Getting it up the ass...will it hurt?

    Two points, lube and the right guy for first timers. My first time wasn't that much pain, but I did the dildo thing first, myself, I suggest you try this first.

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    Re: Getting it up the ass...will it hurt?

    It hurt like hell the first time I was fucked. I had to ask the guy to stop.
    Being rimmed doesn't hurt, it feels good. But being fucked can hurt.
    You need to talk with the guy before you even start and explain to him that it's your first time and he must be gentle. Some guys do not have the patience and will just ram it right in. You don't want a guy like that.
    Who you want is a guy that will have the patience, and ease it in very slowly. This will allow you to get used to it. After a few minutes, you will relax and it won't hurt, then he can start the actual fucking motion. But before that, if he were to enter all the way in quickly, it would hurt you. So he must enter slowly and allow you the time to get used to it before starting the thrusting actions.
    This waiting period to allow you to get used to it is no fun for the top. He must wait and not have any real pleasure for that period. Some guys will have the patience to wait it out, some won't. You need to find a guy who will wait.
    If at any time, it is painful and you must have it out of you, just tell him.

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    Re: Getting it up the ass...will it hurt?

    This thread brings back memories. It was the first time for both of us.

    1st time it hurt, had to get him to stop.

    2nd time was painful but still liked it.

    3rd time only had pain when he first entered me, but felt good after a minute.

    It wasn't too much longer till I was able to take a serious pounding with no real pain.

    Wouldn't change anything if I were to do it all over again.

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    Try a dildo in your butt, if you haven't already. Haven't you ever fingered yourself either? And you're HERE?? sheesh..

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    I got over it by using a dildo. That way you can take your time and not have to feel rushed because the other guy just wants to be inside you. Just remember, take it slow and use lots of lube. It will feel funny at first, and most likely will hurt a bit. You just need to get used to the sensations and then it will feel amazing!

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    Re: Getting it up the ass...will it hurt?

    The guys above have basically summed it up

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    I can't wait to try getting it up the ass and vice versa. I fantasize about it all the time, but haven't found a guy yet...
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    Re: Getting it up the ass...will it hurt?

    All good advice, get your hygiene right, then 1 finger, 2 fingers, 3 and on from there - slowly and plenty of lube.
    A long , slow teasing session will see a great climax.
    PS you need to keep us informed with every minute detail. good luck !

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    Re: Getting it up the ass...will it hurt?

    Quote Originally Posted by jubdown5 View Post
    I can't wait to try getting it up the ass and vice versa. I fantasize about it all the time, but haven't found a guy yet...
    Definietly spend a couple of months practicing with dildos - if you do it each time you masturbate - and cum with it in - you'll find after 50 or so times you won't have any pain for real - and you won't lose your erection when being fucked.

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    Re: Getting it up the ass...will it hurt?

    Yes if you don't take it easy

    Yes it you are not very horny

    Otherwise it's great!!

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    Re: Getting it up the ass...will it hurt?

    My first time it hurt but the guy was gentle and patient. You have to make sure the guy is going to be understanding and respectful to you, I warned the guy ahead of time that if he was not gentle and just thrusted himself in there we would stop immediately. After about 5 minutes or so it did start to feel good. But I eventually told him to pull it out.

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    I am very serious when I say that the best advice I can offer is lube. Just when you think you are lubed enough for him to enter you, then use a little more. It is such a pleasurable experience, for me anyway, when I am properly lubed.

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    Re: Getting it up the ass...will it hurt?

    The others are right when they say lube, lube, and more lube. Here's my contribution that has not been said though. Start out with you on top. That way, you decide on how fast you go. You can ease yourself onto it slowly at your own pace. It does hurt, especially the first time. Once the guy's cockhead pops through, the pain quickly turns to pleasure. That's when he can take over and the fucking can begin!

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    Re: Getting it up the ass...will it hurt?

    First time, the guy was patient and rimmed me like his life depended on it. Then lubed me up good. Hurt a little at first, but was great. Never used a dildo before (or since). Oh, and he had a 9" cock.

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    Re: Getting it up the ass...will it hurt?

    Thanks for all the good advice...One of my gay friends convinced me to get naked with him(we had a few drinks)...he rimmed my ass..that felt so good...rolled me over, fingered my tight hole while he sucked all eight inches of my cock! I was still hard after I came in his mouth..then he lubed my asshole...that felt hot having him grease my tight hole..then slid his seven inch dick slowly up my ass..it felt amazing..I know he came up my ass
    Then I rimmed his absolutely beautiful ass, then fucked him...
    I am not straight anymore! Before he left the next morning, we sucked each others cock and balls...the sex was so fucking good

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    Re: Getting it up the ass...will it hurt?

    Well warming up would be a good idea; being rimmed and/or fingered first would warm you up and loosen the muscles first, use PLENTY of lube, and laying on your back would make it hurt a lot less... Of course this is just from what I hear.

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    Re: Getting it up the ass...will it hurt?

    Quote Originally Posted by Jason25 View Post
    Thanks for all the good advice...One of my gay friends convinced me to get naked with him(we had a few drinks)...he rimmed my ass..that felt so good...rolled me over, fingered my tight hole while he sucked all eight inches of my cock! I was still hard after I came in his mouth..then he lubed my asshole...that felt hot having him grease my tight hole..then slid his seven inch dick slowly up my ass..it felt amazing..I know he came up my ass
    Then I rimmed his absolutely beautiful ass, then fucked him...
    I am not straight anymore! Before he left the next morning, we sucked each others cock and balls...the sex was so fucking good

    And glad to hear you enjoyed it! Bet he had the final smile, since not only turning you, but screwing a guy who was initially "straight".

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    Quote Originally Posted by SpeedDemonNYC View Post
    And glad to hear you enjoyed it! Bet he had the final smile, since not only turning you, but screwing a guy who was initially "straight".
    You are right...he kept saying how amazing my ass was to fuck..and my cock was in his mouth...and he said he felt really good that he was the first guy to enjoy my body

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    Quote Originally Posted by Jason25 View Post
    You are right...he kept saying how amazing my ass was to fuck..and my cock was in his mouth...and he said he felt really good that he was the first guy to enjoy my body
    *sigh* if only there were more straight guys like you [well now, formerly]who were willing to submit. And a straight guy is ALWAYS an instant turn on anyway.

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    Re: Getting it up the ass...will it hurt?

    Quote Originally Posted by Jason25 View Post
    Thanks for all the good advice...One of my gay friends convinced me to get naked with him(we had a few drinks)...he rimmed my ass..that felt so good...rolled me over, fingered my tight hole while he sucked all eight inches of my cock! I was still hard after I came in his mouth..then he lubed my asshole...that felt hot having him grease my tight hole..then slid his seven inch dick slowly up my ass..it felt amazing..I know he came up my ass
    Then I rimmed his absolutely beautiful ass, then fucked him...
    I am not straight anymore! Before he left the next morning, we sucked each others cock and balls...the sex was so fucking good
    Good for you to find out what you really like.

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    Re: Getting it up the ass...will it hurt?

    Quote Originally Posted by Jason25 View Post
    Ok, let's me honest.. I haven't been sucked yet by a guy or spread my cheeks for a guy either..just wondered if it hurts a lot the first time up the ass... I really want to my ass rimmed and fucked but just not sure...I know, I need to man-up, right?
    It's not the most pleasurable experience if you're nervous, as you tend to tense up your muscles. Try laying on your side, start with a finger and take it from there. LUBE, LUBE and lot's of LUBE!

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    Re: Getting it up the ass...will it hurt?

    Quote Originally Posted by AsianDream View Post
    Good for you to find out what you really like.

    Still would like to see your PIC back on your ptofile
    Ok, my friend gave it to me up the ass twice last night..it was so hot... Tons of lube around and up my tight hole made it better... I was so horny after that ...he sucked me off three times before my cock finally went down!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Joe06877 View Post
    I am very serious when I say that the best advice I can offer is lube. Just when you think you are lubed enough for him to enter you, then use a little more. It is such a pleasurable experience, for me anyway, when I am properly lubed.
    Oh......and the most important thing........safety first, always. Use water-based lube that will be okay with your condoms.

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    Re: Getting it up the ass...will it hurt?

    I've also found that one you get the dick in you, take it out and put even more lube on it and stick it back in. A lot of it initially wears out/doesn't go in your hole when you first stick it in; it just builds up outside your ass. This way the lube actually goes inside. You might have to repeat this a couple times.

    It might hurt a little at first but breath slow and focus on something other than the pain, jack yourself off and kiss him. Might also be best if your on top and sit down on it, gives you more control until you get used to it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by desertboi10 View Post
    I got over it by using a dildo. That way you can take your time and not have to feel rushed because the other guy just wants to be inside you. Just remember, take it slow and use lots of lube. It will feel funny at first, and most likely will hurt a bit. You just need to get used to the sensations and then it will feel amazing!
    That's how I started out years ago. I still have a collection of different size's I use when I feel horny & have to satisfy that feeling right away. Nothing like the real thing though.

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    Yes it will hurt.
    I don't like the feeling of something going in and out of my hole.


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    Re: Getting it up the ass...will it hurt?

    A more erotic way is to tease the hole: have him brush his head against the opening several times. And then put just part of the head in and retreat. (Think of the waves on a beach: they come up on the beach, then retreat, then come up a little further, then retreat, then further, etc.) Psychologically, it makes you feel more comfortable and less anxious because the guy is doing it to turn you on. Anytime someone does something because it turns you on and not just because it turns them on, you feel like they're "courting" you sexually.
    I usually do it that way with guys and after 5 minutes, they want me to at least put the whole head in there, and after that, I kiss their neck, play with their nipples and just stroke them all over until they feel cherished, instead of just "banged." (Which can be fun when you trust the guy, but when you're not sure what kind of lover the guy is, you want it nice and easy. It's a trust thing...)

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    Don't forget that for the whole next day your ass will feel like he is still inside of you and every time you think of it, you'll start to get hard.






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    Holy Prostate Exam Batman! That was AMAZING!!

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    Let's just hope you're not confronted with this situation...


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    Holy Prostate Exam Batman! That was AMAZING!!

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    I have to admit I love getting it up the ass...even better is pounding another guys ass with my nine inch cock! And to think I was once straight!

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    I do not know how anyone can enjoy having a cock up your ass or anything never understood how any could enjoy it. Nor would i ever put it up someones ass LOL Maybe im straight>

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    Re: Getting it up the ass...will it hurt?

    I've never had it up the ass But I really want to. Got to find the right guy. I finger my ass a lot, and have gotten 3 fingers in. Just have to use a LOT of lube. I've also used other objects.

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    Holy Prostate Exam Batman! That was AMAZING!!

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    Re: Getting it up the ass...will it hurt?

    Quote Originally Posted by Jason25 View Post
    Ok, let's me honest.. I haven't been sucked yet by a guy or spread my cheeks for a guy either..just wondered if it hurts a lot the first time up the ass... I really want to my ass rimmed and fucked but just not sure...I know, I need to man-up, right?
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    This thread makes me scared for my my first time haha

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    Re: Getting it up the ass...will it hurt?

    My ass is still sore.. This guy who did my ass is well hung..his cock is actually smaller than mine...his is very thick... My cock is more narrow

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    Re: Getting it up the ass...will it hurt?

    it depends on few things, how relaxed you are, how big the guy is and how much lube you use. it does not have to be painful

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    Is this real or photoshop?



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    Quote Originally Posted by Joe06877 View Post
    Oh......and the most important thing........safety first, always. Use water-based lube that will be okay with your condoms.
    That's not true anymore only water based. Silicone based (which frankly is much better) is also safe for condoms. Just avoid oil based lubes ..ie no crisco..lol

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    Quote Originally Posted by mario24 View Post
    That's not true anymore only water based. Silicone based (which frankly is much better) is also safe for condoms. Just avoid oil based lubes ..ie no crisco..lol
    Next time I will try silicone, Mario, thanks man!

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    Re: Getting it up the ass...will it hurt?

    I've never had full sex with another man, but i have tried a small/ medium dildo up the never/ never ;-) i swear to you it hurts, i hope the real thing is easier, its a huge fantasy of mine, but i think its gonna be a Painful trip :-/

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    Re: Getting it up the ass...will it hurt?

    The thing about fingers and various objects is that the entire length of those items is typically the same width and will generally slide in without much resistance. Whereas with an actual dick, the head is often the thickest part and will cause that uncomfortable stretch that can sometimes hurt. Once you can get over that, then you're usually good to go. Of course if the middle of his dick happens to be the widest part, then the "ouch-stretch" will come once he's halfway inside you. At that point, you have to decide if want (or can handle) the rest of it. That's why it's important for him to go slow...because once you get comfortable with all of him inside you, it starts to feel really good...and then the fucking can begin.
    Quote Originally Posted by TheHardOne View Post
    I've never had it up the ass But I really want to. Got to find the right guy. I finger my ass a lot, and have gotten 3 fingers in. Just have to use a LOT of lube. I've also used other objects.

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    Re: Getting it up the ass...will it hurt?

    First, you need to train yourself to handle pain. Second, practice with sex toys and your fingers to get a feel of what it'd be like and loosen your hole up to accept a cock. Third, you need to find out how much of a dick you can take in your ass. Thick or non-thick? Average size or huge? My first dick, I took up my ass yesterday, and it was big and thick but I had been practicing with a glass dildo and my fingers, so it didn't hurt so bad until he reached the end of my rectum, but I told him to keep fucking me and fuck me harder. Felt so damn good. You'll be alright, just relax, try to block out the pain and feel a dick slide into you. It will feel great.

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