have you ever cheated on a partner?

[loki81]

assuming you were in an exclusive/monogamous relationship.

I never have, but I kinda wished that I had with my ex.

there was a period of about 6 weeks where I knew that I wanted to breakup with him, but hadn't figured out the best way to do it yet... during that period, I met another guy at a party. he was cute and funny and kind of flirting with me. I really wanted to ask for his number (or slip him mine), but it just felt to skeezy to do it while I was technically still in a relationship.

after the breakup, I tried tracking him down but to no avail. there's only one person that I knew of who could put me in touch with him, but she was really good friends with my ex and had all her privacy settings tuned to the max on Facebook, so I couldn't even browse through her friends looking for a familiar face.

[MoufOfKhaos]

Nope. .........

[racer2438]

Not a once and would never want to... to many yrs invested to ruin a great thing....

[panda29]

No Never !!

[subsonic]

Never have and never would.
The closest thing I tried was in my teen years, when I was out with my friends on a gay club. We were in a good mood and drunk. Some guy approached me and we danced. Later on he dragged me to the cubicle toilets and took his pants off and wanted me to get down on him. I told him I had a boyfriend and went out. Still I was plagued with guilt but I called my boyfriend the next day and told him what happened. He of course told me I was too naive and he was right.

But yeah, I would never, ever do it. "Treat others as you would like them to treat you", right?

[FanofFiction]

I have never cheated on a partner. It's not because I'm a great person, it's because I have a great partner and he's everything I need.

[vulgar_newcomer]

anything is possible.

[counterspade]

I have never cheated on my partner, and never will. He's too special to me.

[oakpope]

I cheated on my right hand with my left hand. They're not in speaking tone anymore

(sorry, sleepness night...)

[12fear99]

No, I could not do it. Thought about it once but can to my senses. It is just not right in my book.

[levi82]

No - but have been the "other" man!! In an earlier relationship - still feel guilty at times. (no I didn't know he was attached!!

[ronboy]

I have always been faithful to my guys....

However, I have been cheated on....it's not a good feeling.

[MascutarHero]

Goodness all these "nevers" makes me feel like shit, even though I actually should because my bf doesn't put enough "punishment" on me when I did. I did cheat because I was so insecure but there is never a good excuse tyo cheat, even if your boyfriend cheats

[Knucklehead]

I'm gonna say,no..I haven't..Have a gotten some strange while in a relationship? Sure have..

I made it real clear in the beginning of the relationships that occassionally I would probably be fucking someone else here and there..That way no one gets their feelings hurt.Also,what they/I don't need to know,they/I don't need to know.

I encourage them to do the same..Basically,I'm not hooked on anyones dick and I don't expect them to be hooked on mine.Physical stuff is physical stuff.I don't confuse physical attraction with the companionship of a good freind or partner.A trick is a trick..Go out and suck a dick that isn't attached to me once in a while..Have at it..I'll do the same too.No hard feelings.I think it keep things healthy..It's healthy and normal to wanna fuck someone you haven't fucked 9000 times already.Go do it if you got a play...

However,if you/I need to drag a different trick home every night,then I don't wanna play house anymore..

[JayQueer]

No.

And my man better not cheat on me, or I might do some damage to his 4WD pickup truck

I would like to sing a song!! (clears throat)

Right now he's probably slow dancing with a gym bunny twink,
and he's probably getting frisky...
right now, he's probably buying him some fruity little drink
'cause he can't shoot whiskey...

Right now, he's probably up behind him with his hard d*ck,
showing him how to shoot a combo...

And he don't know...

That I dug my key into the side of his
pretty little souped up 4 wheel drive,
carved my name into his leather seats...
I took a Louisville slugger to both headlights,
slashed a hole in all 4 tires...

Maybe next time he'll think before he cheats.

Right now, he's probably up singing some
white-trash version of Lady Gaga karaoke..
Right now, he's probably saying "I'm drunk"
and he's a thinking that he's gonna get lucky,
Right now, he's probably dabbing on
3 dollars worth of that bathroom polo...
And he don't know...

That I dug my key into the side of his
pretty little souped up 4 wheel drive,
carved my name into his leather seats,
I took a Louisville slugger to both headlights,
slashed a hole in all 4 tires...

Maybe next time he'll think before he cheats.

I might've saved a little trouble for the next boi,
'cause the next time that he cheats...

Oh, you know it won't be on me!

No...not on me....

'Cause I dug my key into the side of his
pretty little souped up 4 wheel drive,
carved my name into his leather seats...
I took a Louisville slugger to both headlights,
slashed a hole in all 4 tires...

Maybe next time he'll think before he cheats.

Oh.. Maybe next time he'll think before he cheats...

Ohh... before he cheats...

[Knucklehead]

No.

And my man better not cheat on me, or I might do some damage to his 4WD pickup truck

I would like to sing a song!! (clears throat)

Right now he's probably slow dancing with a gym bunny twink,
and he's probably getting frisky...
right now, he's probably buying him some fruity little drink
'cause he can't shoot whiskey...

Right now, he's probably up behind him with his hard d*ck,
showing him how to shoot a combo...

And he don't know...

That I dug my key into the side of his
pretty little souped up 4 wheel drive,
carved my name into his leather seats...
I took a Louisville slugger to both headlights,
slashed a hole in all 4 tires...

Maybe next time he'll think before he cheats.

Right now, he's probably up singing some
white-trash version of Lady Gaga karaoke..
Right now, he's probably saying "I'm drunk"
and he's a thinking that he's gonna get lucky,
Right now, he's probably dabbing on
3 dollars worth of that bathroom polo...
And he don't know...

That I dug my key into the side of his
pretty little souped up 4 wheel drive,
carved my name into his leather seats,
I took a Louisville slugger to both headlights,
slashed a hole in all 4 tires...

Maybe next time he'll think before he cheats.

I might've saved a little trouble for the next boi,
'cause the next time that he cheats...

Oh, you know it won't be on me!

No...not on me....

'Cause I dug my key into the side of his
pretty little souped up 4 wheel drive,
carved my name into his leather seats...
I took a Louisville slugger to both headlights,
slashed a hole in all 4 tires...

Maybe next time he'll think before he cheats.

Oh.. Maybe next time he'll think before he cheats...

Ohh... before he cheats...

Uh ,Huh...


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She's acting single-I'm drinking doubles..Not to be confused with other country standards,such as,'She broke my heart,so I broke her jaw.''

[Knucklehead]

Following the country theme and the pleas of the sanctimonious phony balogna( baloney) who seek to restrain hard dicks and bored pussy,we cant forget the MISS PENNY PURE PUSSIES in the crowd.

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You know who you are..If the shoe fits.Come on and rip my head off..(dog whistle to a shit talking poster--)

I ''double dog''dare you..

Ruff Ruff..

[Knucklehead]

But to all you guys that have what you want without ever leaving the house..

This ones for you...A 1950's well deserved classic..

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[ohmygoshjosh]

Never had a partner to cheat on, but I'm even faithful to guys I am just casually dating haha.

[Jayden]

No never. . . . .

[Wuvable Oaf]

Nope, never have and never planning to. I think if I was in a situation where my relationship was going south and probably going to end, I would see it to the end before moving on to someone else. I rather pass up a great opportunity to be with someone else than to brand myself as a cheater.

[hylas]

loki: same situation here! never cheated, but i wish i had that one time. i was in a dying relationship, and working as a dresser at a fashion show, and one of the models was hitting on me. damn, i wish i would have gone through with that!

[TheFallenAsexual]

I'd rather die than cheat on someone. More importantly, I'd rather not be in a relationship than join one not knowing 100% that I'm capable of being faithful.

[Mr-Pickles]

I've never cheated and I'd like to think I never will.

[Harke the Boeotarch]

I make the rules of my own game.

[oakpope]

I make the rules of my own game.

That doesn't preclude you cheating on your own rules, that happens all the time...

[Georgiadude]

No but I've had someone cheat on me and its a HORRIBLE feeling. I've never been so hurt, confused and simply devastated. I had never loved someone so much in my life. It felt like my soul was dead. I'd never do that to someone. If you don't want to be with them any more, fine. Break it off and do what you want to do. All my ex had to do was tell me it was over and I would have understood. It would have hurt but it would have been better than finding out he was screwing around on me and telling me our relationship was "good". Obviously it wasn't good and I was crushed when I found out.

Imho cheating is wrong and I don't want any part of it.

Steven.

[theReckless]

Nah, have been cheated on though, but never done it myself.

I got with my only long-term boyfriend wen I was abit younger and had only slept with about 2 other people, so I did occasionally think what it would be like. But if I'd really been serious about sleeping with new people then I wouldn't have wanted to stay with him.

[Harke the Boeotarch]

That doesn't preclude you cheating on your own rules, that happens all the time...

Between vegetarianism and sundry legal, religious and philosophical tenets I simply haven't the mental space to commit to such binding sexual regulations.

[oakpope]

I simply haven't the mental space to commit to such binding sexual regulations.

And yet you wrote that you're making the rules of your own games. And rules are bindings, aren't they ? (I'm playing devil's advocate here a little).
If find a little strange your choice of words to simply say that you choose to be in an open relationship. And I'm not entirely convinced it is easier on the 'mental space' to have an open relationship than a stable one where neither have the need to have another sexual partner.

Your first post's words make me think that maybe they were written in defiance "I'm in control of my life, others - society may see the norm as of being faithful to one's partner - may think what they want, and the hell with them. Am I wrong ? if that's the case just ignore my stupidity if not, in itself it would show a little bit of lack of confidence in your own choice, don't you think ?

Please be sure I don't want to confront you at all , or to be aggressive, it's just my endless and foolish attempt at understanding people

[Harke the Boeotarch]

And yet you wrote that you're making the rules of your own games. And rules are bindings, aren't they ? (I'm playing devil's advocate here a little).
If find a little strange your choice of words to simply say that you choose to be in an open relationship. And I'm not entirely convinced it is easier on the 'mental space' to have an open relationship than a stable one where neither have the need to have another sexual partner.

I'm not in a relationship because I worship relationships, but because I can't afford a roof over my head on my own.

Your first post's words make me think that maybe they were written in defiance "I'm in control of my life, others - society may see the norm as of being faithful to one's partner - may think what they want, and the hell with them.

I don't want to be trapped in a moral system that seems to exist to make other people happy at my expense, and I'm also an advocate of homosexuals using their brain a lit better than the average citizen on these matters.